Craigslist Advertiser Reviews

[Topper1991]

Not so much "what section" as much as "what did you do to get those replies?

What you probably have to do is write a decent personal (more civilian-oriented) and ask your respondents to reply with the brand of their favorite drink (to screen out the spammers).

I forgot to put in the "favorite drink" thing and got spammed.

I therefore swore off using CL personals.

Sorry to hear about the spamming there Whathesaid, I've gotten that too. It's really a numbers game and having a lot (of patience. I'm not searching the hour I'm interested in getting away but I'm planning for what I can do in the future. Having a response requested helps a lot as well...you can just delete the spammers up front. I also suggest being somewhat civil in your responses. I'm surprised how often I'm told that a girl replied to me again because I wasn't rude and crass as the other responses. From the girl's point of view I was told last week that a 15 min ad (before it was flagged) generated over 150 responses. That's quite a bit of competition.

-Stay safe.

[Topper1991]

I have also been giving so much cash up front (usually the negotiated amount) then promising .20 or .30 if service is good and goes off without any problems. Has anybody else tried that? I have been getting really good service since then and wondered if anybody else has tried anything similar? I have found that cash drives their motivation to excel at there work.

Excellent idea there! I tend to pay after the fact most of the time and it seems to help the motivation quite a bit and lets me set the speed as they say.

[Whathesaid]

What section are you guys looking under personals to have any luck? Any tips on how to spot the real ads?

Not so much "what section" as much as "what did you do to get those replies?

What you probably have to do is write a decent personal (more civilian-oriented) and ask your respondents to reply with the brand of their favorite drink (to screen out the spammers).

I forgot to put in the "favorite drink" thing and got spammed.

I therefore swore off using CL personals.

[PeterNorthKy]

CL seems to be hopping a bit more this month for some reason. Is anyone else having some luck and finding them to be fairly reasonable?

Brunette with big boobs, average body that knows what she's doing.

Pregnant blond, skinny and decent.

Pregnant brunette, heavier...didn't pull the trigger.

Blonde, looks like she's been doing this for awhile.

Brunette, avg / heavy, decent skills.

What section are you guys looking under personals to have any luck? Any tips on how to spot the real ads?

[MrNiight34]

These girls will rip you off faster than you can blink, trust me. Same reason outcall to your home is a bad idea. If you fo follow through on this keep anything valuable locked away. They can also just be scoping out your place to come back while your not home. All kinds of bad reasons, think with your big head on this one.

Stay safe.

This is about as good advice as it gets. +1 Golf Guy.

I never carry more cash into a situation than I can afford to lose (same thing when I go to the casino or the pool hall). I leave my credit cards and I'd elsewhere. I don't even carry my phone with me into the room.

Unless I have seen them multiple times and have developed a comfort level I assume they will take anything you have of value. This comes from personal experience gained the hard way. I have only been taken once. Then I started being more careful with how I enter any situation involving a new lady. I had been with the lady twice who took me for cash.

I have also been giving so much cash up front (usually the negotiated amount) then promising .20 or .30 if service is good and goes off without any problems. Has anybody else tried that? I have been getting really good service since then and wondered if anybody else has tried anything similar? I have found that cash drives their motivation to excel at there work.

[PeterNorthKy]

CL seems to be hopping a bit more this month for some reason. Is anyone else having some luck and finding them to be fairly reasonable?

Brunette with big boobs, average body that knows what she's doing.

Pregnant blond, skinny and decent.

Pregnant brunette, heavier...didn't pull the trigger.

Blonde, looks like she's been doing this for awhile.

Brunette, avg / heavy, decent skills.

Care to share tips on how to find the legit ones? Seems most want return pics. Sent you a PM.

[PeterNorthKy]

I'm a decent guy and I really have to stretch my brain to remember that 99% of these girls are working an angle. They see it as normal and completely your fault if you didn't know better and they took you for something. I'm sure if you took them for something they'd be mad but wouldn't be surprised.

The 1%? Those are the girls that are out for the thrill and some very short assistance. They don't usually advertise and won't stick around long at all.

So just expect the worst and protect yourself at all times. No girls at home, no cleaners, sanitize your car before and after you pick one up (that means protect your information and 'stuff' watch your stuff at a hotel, and be sure you keep your hotel keycards.

Perhaps I'm a bit of a pessimist but I've been burned enough by girls I let my guard down around to realize that no matter how long you know them most will take you for something if they can.

Most seem to be supporting drug habit. I NEVER trust these chics. Would never let one in my house or car.

[Topper1991]

CL seems to be hopping a bit more this month for some reason. Is anyone else having some luck and finding them to be fairly reasonable?

Brunette with big boobs, average body that knows what she's doing.

Pregnant blond, skinny and decent.

Pregnant brunette, heavier...didn't pull the trigger.

Blonde, looks like she's been doing this for awhile.

Brunette, avg / heavy, decent skills.

[Topper1991]

What red flags is this throwing up to you? I'm not saying I would try this. Just trying to learn the warning signs.

I'm a decent guy and I really have to stretch my brain to remember that 99% of these girls are working an angle. They see it as normal and completely your fault if you didn't know better and they took you for something. I'm sure if you took them for something they'd be mad but wouldn't be surprised.

The 1%? Those are the girls that are out for the thrill and some very short assistance. They don't usually advertise and won't stick around long at all.

So just expect the worst and protect yourself at all times. No girls at home, no cleaners, sanitize your car before and after you pick one up (that means protect your information and 'stuff' watch your stuff at a hotel, and be sure you keep your hotel keycards.

Perhaps I'm a bit of a pessimist but I've been burned enough by girls I let my guard down around to realize that no matter how long you know them most will take you for something if they can.

[GolfGuy]

What red flags is this throwing up to you? I'm not saying I would try this. Just trying to learn the warning signs.

These girls will rip you off faster than you can blink, trust me. Same reason outcall to your home is a bad idea. If you fo follow through on this keep anything valuable locked away. They can also just be scoping out your place to come back while your not home. All kinds of bad reasons, think with your big head on this one.

Stay safe.

[Jman3848]

I met the girl. She seems real and on the level. Attractive enough for such a service but something seemed off. Her ad seems to try to walk a fine line between straight cleaning with eye candy and a more overt pretense at some level of pay for play. I decided not to follow through, and my gut seldom misleads me.

You put it better than I, if the spidey sences start tingling...I walk.

[SELexLurker]

Don't fall for it...

Trap.

I met the girl. She seems real and on the level. Attractive enough for such a service but something seemed off. Her ad seems to try to walk a fine line between straight cleaning with eye candy and a more overt pretense at some level of pay for play. I decided not to follow through, and my gut seldom misleads me.

[Jman3848]

What red flags is this throwing up to you? I'm not saying I would try this. Just trying to learn the warning signs.

Don't fall for it...

Trap.

[Pik676]

This sounds like a good idea. Young attractive lady willing to clean house in tank and thongs. Hints at offering to make it spicy with some small "tips".

Not a good idea. I would advise against it.

What red flags is this throwing up to you? I'm not saying I would try this. Just trying to learn the warning signs.

[SELexLurker]

This sounds like a good idea. Young attractive lady willing to clean house in tank and thongs. Hints at offering to make it spicy with some small "tips".

Not a good idea. I would advise against it.