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[KnotKnew]

I'm not going to say these young ladies can't change but I find it very hard to believe they will change because of captaining. 99% of the girls were abused or have mental issues which caused them to turn to candy in the first place. Unless the captain is a shrink and owns a rehab he is wasting his time. All the girls have family that has been forced to let them bottom out, captain enabler is not the solution. Yes the girls are human and they deserve to be treated like humans but they are not logical and they don't live normal lives. When is the last time you saw the bank teller or Publix checker servicing strangers on the weekend? If the girls live long enough to get treatment they can change but until then just treat them like humans and enjoy their company one hour at a time.

Really I couldn't give two shits less about any of these girls. Whether she's a SW or a back page girl they serve one purpose and that is to service my needs. Most are paid quite well, and most if not all share the same feelings about me. Its not easy to get clean especially when your home is on the streets but that's not my problem. We've all watched enough episodes of intervention to know all we are doing is enabling. Even if you don't have sex with them and you just want to help them out you're enabling. Again, NMP. I'm kind to every girl I see even if things don't go all that well. I never expect a refund and as far as that goes never have asked. Its a business deal, some are great some you wish there was another way out. I've known several girls that are no longer with us. I'm damn sure not going to write a letter to mom and dad expressing my sympathy. "Hey I'm sorry about your loss but man could your daughter fuck. " Probably not a good idea. Just move on to the next provider and make another business deal.

[Lakota61]

One of the main reasons I search and prefer someone utr. That does this for a little extra cash, has a job, so this isn't her main source of income.

Not sure if this is considered "success", but I know of a provider talked about on here. Middle aged, and married, but the husband, who is considerably older, post ads for her, when she doesn't even know it. He has a successful job, but is somewhat of pimp I think. She has a pill and alcohol problem, which I assume numbs her. Saw her at a grocery store once, she looked sad and tired.

Was wondering if she was in the business before and he Captained her. But no way to tell at all. I don't really see her any more.

My personal experience with 'captaining' is that if I am going to be a captain, then I cannot sample the product. These girls are mostly broken before they ever hit the streets. The candy is the only thing that numbs them and well, let's face it selling themselves to a bunch of strange men at will isn't going to build self esteem, self worth. They spiral down to the point where they die, or hit bottom. Some surrender and change their lives. I know, I am a recovering addict with 31 plus years clean. The last one I attempted to captain, robbed me twice. The main thing is that one cannot expect rational thinking from an irrational person. The only thing they know is get money to get the candy. It is a very sad state of affairs for them. I try to find one that is enjoyable, both physically and that I can get to know. It at least creates a 'feeling' of a relationship. From time to time I take them out to dinner and a movie and give them some dignity. I never treat them as less than. I too could be there but for the grace of god. If someone asks me to 'captain' them, I immediately let them know that the captain does not get sample the products and guide as best I can. Twice in my life I have been able to help two get off the streets. One is now married to a successful contractor and has two kids. The other went home to Texas and from time to time I hear from her. I bought her plane ticket home for her as a going away present. Two successes and at least a hundred failed attempts. But, the two make ti all worth it. I do not want a wife or a steady girlfriend, so for me mongering is my way of having fun. But, never at the expense of the dignity of another human being. I have heard many of their stories. I have to say, I find them to be stronger than most. Many would have killed themselves having been what they've been through. They are suffering so much pain to stay alive. I try to bring some moments of joy in their lives. I find out their birthdays and bring them a card. Tonight I had one old friend call me and she was hungry. I brought her dinner and smokes ot her hotel room. Listened to her troubles and hugged her and left. She smiled and thanked me. She said," your a good dude. " I could've probably gotten a BBBJ free. But the point was, I just wanted her to know that there is one person who thinks more of her than that. She smiled and I came home. It for me is not all about the sex. Oh, yes, I enjoy the good ones. But I also do my best to try to remember they are human beings with feeling s and troubles too. I prefer one steady. Just my opinion. After years of mongering.

[Ripper69]

Funny you mentioned about the bank teller as there is one that I know of periodically shows up on BP. No candy habits but her full time is loan officer at bank. Should have seen both our faces when I had walked into the branch in my job revealing attire. We both had a good laugh about it later and still are friends.

Completely understand about candy habit thing and the difficulties associated with it. Most aren't willing to drop the habit as it usually means they have to give up "friends" and all that they know and are familiar with. I have also seen where they pull the captain into their world and life spirals down for the wannabe captain. Like I said, just seen several references and was curious if there's been any success.

One of the main reasons I search and prefer someone utr. That does this for a little extra cash, has a job, so this isn't her main source of income.

Not sure if this is considered "success", but I know of a provider talked about on here. Middle aged, and married, but the husband, who is considerably older, post ads for her, when she doesn't even know it. He has a successful job, but is somewhat of pimp I think. She has a pill and alcohol problem, which I assume numbs her. Saw her at a grocery store once, she looked sad and tired.

Was wondering if she was in the business before and he Captained her. But no way to tell at all. I don't really see her any more.

[TikiJoe]

I'm not going to say these young ladies can't change but I find it very hard to believe they will change because of captaining. 99% of the girls were abused or have mental issues which caused them to turn to candy in the first place. Unless the captain is a shrink and owns a rehab he is wasting his time. All the girls have family that has been forced to let them bottom out, captain enabler is not the solution. Yes the girls are human and they deserve to be treated like humans but they are not logical and they don't live normal lives. When is the last time you saw the bank teller or Publix checker servicing strangers on the weekend? If the girls live long enough to get treatment they can change but until then just treat them like humans and enjoy their company one hour at a time.

Funny you mentioned about the bank teller as there is one that I know of periodically shows up on BP. No candy habits but her full time is loan officer at bank. Should have seen both our faces when I had walked into the branch in my job revealing attire. We both had a good laugh about it later and still are friends.

Completely understand about candy habit thing and the difficulties associated with it. Most aren't willing to drop the habit as it usually means they have to give up "friends" and all that they know and are familiar with. I have also seen where they pull the captain into their world and life spirals down for the wannabe captain. Like I said, just seen several references and was curious if there's been any success.

[Ebhunter]

You know that if a young girl is in this line of work, 99% of them have candy issues or some serious problems. If one captains a girl, then all that drama is in the lap of the captain. Know of one guy that tried to captain someone and in the process "help" her, but it blew up in his face and ended up wasting alot of money over a long period of time and she has the same issues she had before.

I don't see how captaining someone can turn out good, but I am sure there are exceptions.

I'm not going to say these young ladies can't change but I find it very hard to believe they will change because of captaining. 99% of the girls were abused or have mental issues which caused them to turn to candy in the first place. Unless the captain is a shrink and owns a rehab he is wasting his time. All the girls have family that has been forced to let them bottom out, captain enabler is not the solution. Yes the girls are human and they deserve to be treated like humans but they are not logical and they don't live normal lives. When is the last time you saw the bank teller or Publix checker servicing strangers on the weekend? If the girls live long enough to get treatment they can change but until then just treat them like humans and enjoy their company one hour at a time.

[Ripper69]

Reading and following several area boards, I have seen on occasion that a girl, to much disappointment, was saved by the famous Captain. Being the curious type I am, has anyone here or friends successfully done similar and in the end how'd it go?

(I know this isn't a report, so admins feel free to delete or move to appropriate area).

You know that if a young girl is in this line of work, 99% of them have candy issues or some serious problems. If one captains a girl, then all that drama is in the lap of the captain. Know of one guy that tried to captain someone and in the process "help" her, but it blew up in his face and ended up wasting alot of money over a long period of time and she has the same issues she had before.

I don't see how captaining someone can turn out good, but I am sure there are exceptions.

[TikiJoe]

Reading and following several area boards, I have seen on occasion that a girl, to much disappointment, was saved by the famous Captain. Being the curious type I am, has anyone here or friends successfully done similar and in the end how'd it go?

(I know this isn't a report, so admins feel free to delete or move to appropriate area).

[SeniorFrog]

Never saw this disqualifyer before. http://sarasota.backpage.com/FemaleE...B8%8F/21742646.

[Ebhunter]

She the fat one or skinny one? 150 hh. Don't see it.

Sometimes beer googles are best. When you analyze them too much they are all either too fat, too skinny, not enough rules, too many rules, on drugs, dirty feet. I would never be able to report being with one of them of I kept them under microscope. Hell I might still try if I can get here down to 100, preferably below.

[Ebhunter]

There was a bare back report about her two days ago from some guy who reported.

The BB thing doesn't bother me, I've said it many times, I think 99% will go BB for a number of reasons. I think the ones that are open about BB seem to say yes to most other things so I actually prefer BB providers. Now before we start a debate, I have never met a provider who said I could not wear a coat, just because she doesn't require one doesn't mean you can't wear one.

Her pics look pretty good but I'm not into $150 for a poor experience.

[Travelrr 433]

There was a bare back report about her two days ago from some guy who reported.

Anyone seen Ashley yet http://sarasota.backpage.com/FemaleE...-time/18436078 Maybe once work week gets going I can check her weather.

[Ebhunter]

Look her up in Sarasota County or look in the dictionary under filthy skank you'll find her there as well. Young 24 year old SW that looks good from afar but once you focus in, its going to be difficult keeping your lunch down. The smell alone will make tears come to your eyes. Its amazing she took a bath before taking those pictures she uses on BP. Please don't waste your time with this one, keep looking take a week off whatever you have to do to get this girl out of your head. If you don't take my advice I understand, but do yourself a favor if you make the call, make sure you glove up. I mean literally put gloves on before you touch her and try not to let her touch you. And whatever you decide DO NOT pay her $150 for anything.

I thought she had the SW look but her BP pics do make he are look look clean. The lack of red marks, bruises and cuts on her pics threw me off. Thanks for the info and I look for something else next week.

[KnotKnew]

Anyone seen Ashley yet http://sarasota.backpage.com/FemaleE...-time/18436078 Maybe once work week gets going I can check her weather.

Look her up in Sarasota County or look in the dictionary under filthy skank you'll find her there as well. Young 24 year old SW that looks good from afar but once you focus in, its going to be difficult keeping your lunch down. The smell alone will make tears come to your eyes. Its amazing she took a bath before taking those pictures she uses on BP. Please don't waste your time with this one, keep looking take a week off whatever you have to do to get this girl out of your head. If you don't take my advice I understand, but do yourself a favor if you make the call, make sure you glove up. I mean literally put gloves on before you touch her and try not to let her touch you. And whatever you decide DO NOT pay her $150 for anything.

[Reaper400]

Anyone seen Ashley yet http://sarasota.backpage.com/FemaleE...-time/18436078 Maybe once work week gets going I can check her weather.

She the fat one or skinny one? 150 hh. Don't see it.

[Ebhunter]

Anyone seen Ashley yet http://sarasota.backpage.com/FemaleE...-time/18436078 Maybe once work week gets going I can check her weather.