Massage Parlor Reports

[Mr Mike1952]

Try this one more time. Looking for recommendations based on manual skills. I keep getting suggestions that are based on the willingness of the masseuse to give higher level services. Used to like Yoko in Silver and then Nicole on Burnside.

Based on what I've seen, it sounds like these three may be good choices:

Hannah at Broad St. In Manchester.

Wendy at Ginza.

Lisa at Mint.

Any votes?

[Member #6102]

New to massage parlors. How do I ask for extra services and how much should I tip?

First step should be to visit https://www.rubmaps.ch, it's the easiest way to learn which spas in each town typically offer extra services. It's $20/ month, suggest sign up for a month or two and read up on which spas are available in your area. Then cancel after a month or two, you've gotten your money's worth.

The other good reason for doing that is you can see spas listed with their real names, addresses, phone numbers, etc. This site will give you better current detail about specific ladies or other issues but it can be very difficult to decode unless you know in advance what spa they're talking about, so you'll be able to take better advantage of what you read here.

If you're at a spa that typically does HE's or more, don't force it or overdo it. The ladies know why you're there -- there's no need to flash your junk, drop your towel, or paw the poor woman relentlessly during the massage. When she flips you over, wait for her to bring it up and offer the HE. Most will, they want the extra $, or simply gesture what you want. If it takes more effort than that, just move on somewhere else.

Unless you're at one of the places in New Haven or Danbury where basically everyone gets FS, your ability to score additional services beyond the HJ increases exponentially if you're a return visitor and establish a fun rapport. Suggest visiting a couple of places, don't worry about getting more than a HJ, just see which ladies you click with or enjoy. And if you're new to AMPs, see what else you like about the visit too. Do you like the table shower beforehand? Is it a nice or a dump? Do they treat YOU nice, give you a nice welcome when you go there, or are they bored and indifferent? And if you like a lady and want to repeat, make sure you ask her name!

[Newbie58]

I agree with Chadz's advice, but I'll add a bit. Treat them with respect and as a person, not a thing you want. Don't touch or grab without asking if OK, but consider a hug when you meet in the room. Read the forum to get an idea on tip amounts, but some places will tell you the amount if they're a known FS place. HJ is 40 for most of us, but there are exceptions based on attitude and any extras that may come with it. FS is 120-140 for most, but again there are exceptions for a number of reasons. If gals start by telling you a tip amount, it's OK to offer less; negotiate, but don't be a cheap ass about it.

I've had some wonderful experiences and I messed up a great one 2 years ago because I opened my mouth (posted). Turns out she was married. If you find a gem, and you should with a little reading in this forum, be careful what you post about. Known FS places are fine, I suppose, but many offer much more than HJ and discretion is very important. There are different types of MPs also; e.g., the one on CT Blvd. No good reviews I've seen and they're pricey with bad attitudes. Use your big head since there are a lot of choices around. You are the customer, so if a gal isn't doing it for you, it's OK to say no thanks and ask for either another gal or your money back. In 2 years I've done that 3 times.

Welcome to the club. Now get off your ass and have some fun! Oh, and please be nice. It goes a long way.

--Newb.

New to massage parlors. How do I ask for extra services and how much should I tip?

[ChadZ1212]

I don't think we have a standard play book. It's what you feel comfortable doing and saying. What works for me, may not work for you. Just be yourself and things will work out.

New to massage parlors. How do I ask for extra services and how much should I tip?

[Troutman]

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[BigPapaChaser]

USASG is a great promoter of pleasure and I would say that their increase is due to your and others reports. I went because of your report, asked if it would be ok to send friends, sent a friend last Monday and answered several PMs about my specific experience. See what you started? Good job!

New to massage parlors. How do I ask for extra services and how much should I tip?

[BigPapaChaser]

USASG is a great promoter of pleasure and I would say that their increase is due to your and others reports. I went because of your report, asked if it would be ok to send friends, sent a friend last Monday and answered several PMs about my specific experience. See what you started? Good job!

So I am new to the massage parlor game. How does one go about asking for extra services and how much should I be tipping?

[BigPapaChaser]

Looking for some help here. New to the Asian massage game, I went to tai chi last week but didn't get any extra. How does one go about asking for something extra? And how much should I tip for this?

[DoinItforYears]

Our positive reports may have been a boon to their business. In my original visit a couple weeks ago, I was quickly offered 4 hands, which probably meant it was dead all day. When I returned this afternoon, both girls were busy and I was told they were booked solid with appointments for the next several hours. I wonder how much is due to USASG.

USASG is a great promoter of pleasure and I would say that their increase is due to your and others reports. I went because of your report, asked if it would be ok to send friends, sent a friend last Monday and answered several PMs about my specific experience. See what you started? Good job!

[TheBoobHound]

Thanks to the members who helped me identify this place, I visited Sunday and went with Mae, the taller one. I don't want to go into a lot of detail here, but if you are looking for something above the standard are & T place, this is it.

Our positive reports may have been a boon to their business. In my original visit a couple weeks ago, I was quickly offered 4 hands, which probably meant it was dead all day. When I returned this afternoon, both girls were busy and I was told they were booked solid with appointments for the next several hours. I wonder how much is due to USASG.

[DoinItforYears]

Thanks to the members who helped me identify this place, I visited Sunday and went with Mae, the taller one. I don't want to go into a lot of detail here, but if you are looking for something above the standard are & T place, this is it. The shorter of the two ladies is beautiful but am not sure of her service but I assume similar as the door was left somewhat ajar telling me there are no secretes in the massage rooms. Only drawback is no table shower. I asked her if it was ok to send friends and she said "sure". Located on West Rd. In Ellington across from Agway as someone had mentioned.

[Jndeere557]

I am having a hard time, I mean a difficult time finding someone who provides services the way I like, but I'm not sure its for lack of trying. In fact, I've seen a few lately who seem anxious to please, but who don't quite have the right technique. I think they want to do listen to my requests, but don't have the language. I had a series over the years that I liked: Nicole, Yoko at Silver. This goes back quite a way. Maybe I'm just getting impatient about trying places out.

Yoko was one my favs. I have yet to find a comparable finish.

[Mr Mike1952]

This!! Sessions like this seemed to happen more frequently in the past, now it's just a money grab and looking at the clock.

I am having a hard time, I mean a difficult time finding someone who provides services the way I like, but I'm not sure its for lack of trying. In fact, I've seen a few lately who seem anxious to please, but who don't quite have the right technique. I think they want to do listen to my requests, but don't have the language. I had a series over the years that I liked: Nicole, Yoko at Silver. This goes back quite a way. Maybe I'm just getting impatient about trying places out.

[LostTenYears]

I've been reading through the Massage Parlor sections in Hartford and Vernon and decided it was time to make my first trip to an AMP. Drove by Ginza, but really wasn't thrilled with it's location right on the main street and with tons of people around having dinner outside on this Saturday evening. Instead, decided to try Mint which seemed to be a more private location. I called and was told I could come by in 10 minutes. Parked around back, walked up the stairs and rang the bell while on the back deck. I was met by Yumi (I'm guessing that's how it's spelled? She was short. Not a fit / skinny body, but not large either. Hard to tell her age (especially since she didn't take her mask off the entire time), but she was definitely older. I'm guessing mid to late 50's. Not attractive, but not ugly either. Took my temp and led me into the room. There was one other woman working this Saturday night, but I didn't actually see her.

Went for the hour massage, left what seems to be the standard tip on the little table. This wasn't just my first trip to an AMP, but my first massage. Not really sure what I wanted, so I asked for a lighter / softer massage. She used oil and I guess the massage was fine. I don't have anything to compare it to, but I can't say it was overly enjoyable. She had the parts of my body she wasn't working on covered by a sheet most of the time. Some teasing while I was on my stomach and she allowed OTC roaming. Didn't try for UTC. She had me flip and after a few moments, got to what I had come for. Nothing special, but did the trick. Wasn't super thrilled by my experience and thought maybe this might be my first and only AMP visit. But I did later try Ginza and had a better experience.

[Craven Morehed]

I agree. That's why I asked Boob Hound what made it so good. Personally, what I like is someone who prolongs my arousal, keeps me close to the end for a long time, and who does not touch the tip at the climax. I find that one of the issues with masseuses who do not speak English very well is that this last point is not always easy to get across. Some just seem to know or to sense it.

Hope this is not tmi.

But I was asking him to try to get a sense of whether this new place offers Hand jobs like that.

This!! Sessions like this seemed to happen more frequently in the past, now it's just a money grab and looking at the clock.