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[Mr Sixty]

In a year or sooner I'm planning to take an extended tour of SE Asia as a tourist, as a monger, and to explore possible retirement destinations.

OMG. Please, please create a blog so we can follow your misadventures. I know you can't possibly post them all here, but would love to see detailed trip reports, pictures, food, etc. , and get the insider perspective that is more than, "I just banged another Thai chick. ".

[SaltyDog]

In a year or sooner I'm planning to take an extended tour of SE Asia as a tourist, as a monger, and to explore possible retirement destinations. I am extremely interested in Vietnam, but the web sources I've read over the years say that Ho Chi Minh City / Saigon is not a wide open monger destination compared to other monger Meccas in Asia. There is action here and there I know and you can always find pros and "semi-pros" in discos and other night spots where you can work your sugar daddy game, but sounds too much trouble for me under current circumstances. I have also consistently heard that most decent hotels don't allow sex workers on the premises. Maybe this is dated information? I know Vietnam has been rapidly changing over the last 10 years.

BTW, there's a thread below that discusses haircut / salon type places in SoCal where you can get something more than salon service in the back. The Mimi's place discussed in that thread was Viet and so are a couple of others I've been aware of over the years in OC. I get a kick out of watching the Youtube vids which document Ho Chi Minh City Barbershops where a man can get a wide variety of legit services. I. e. Haircut, shave, EAR CLEANING, full body massage over clothes. All done by incredibly hot young girls who are basically dressed as they would to draw max attention in nightclubs. But it is just a barbershop. Large, spotless and modern. Many chairs, and most services are performed in the chairs in the public area. There are semi-private massage rooms with bars on the ceiling for back walking, but none of these vids even slightly suggest that extras are available and I haven't seen write-ups of them on the international monger sites either. I do realize that in many asian cities there are numerous barber shops that front as brothels. If that is true in these shops depicted on Youtube, I would retire in Da Nang and my ears would be so clean from frequent trips to Ho Chi Minh City that the sea breezes would blow right through them. Anybody have any deep info about these Saigon barber babes?

Any motobike driver knows what you want. Just walk up to one and say haircut or do the sign language thing. About a buck to go there and he'll wait outside for you to take back to pick up spot. Of course he gets a cut from the shop later. Any moto around the market will take you.

[WhoreMaster 91]

Camel, you may have missed an entire thread on that board titled:

Locations of BJ Cafes, Hot Toc's, Blow 'and' Go's.

"Hot Toc's" means Hair Cut / Barbershop. In that thread, the famous 2 barbershops with BJ is Benny and NPK. Search for those 2 names or just read the thread and you'll find plenty of info on barbershop with extra. You can also find many funs at coffee shops in the outskirt offering extras hence the title of BJ Cafes.

Are there any here?? Mimis used to be one.

[DayDreamerLoco]

". Large, spotless and modern. Many chairs, and most services are performed in the chairs in the public area. There are semi-private massage rooms with bars on the ceiling for back walking, but none of these vids even slightly suggest that extras are available and I haven't seen write-ups of them on the international monger sites either. ".

Camel, you may have missed an entire thread on that board titled:

Locations of BJ Cafes, Hot Toc's, Blow 'and' Go's.

"Hot Toc's" means Hair Cut / Barbershop. In that thread, the famous 2 barbershops with BJ is Benny and NPK. Search for those 2 names or just read the thread and you'll find plenty of info on barbershop with extra. You can also find many funs at coffee shops in the outskirt offering extras hence the title of BJ Cafes.

[The Camel]

If you are really into asian or AMP things, take couple trips to Vietnam, Bangkok, China. Plane tickets and hotels are cheap on non vaca seasons. Thousand or even millions of pretty young girls hanging out in Asia for mongers to visit. And they are CHEAP. Hong Kong alone is good enough to keep you entertained for a few years. Have some Russian white girls when you are bored with Asian. My friends often go to vietnam for 1 week just to have sex everyday.

In a year or sooner I'm planning to take an extended tour of SE Asia as a tourist, as a monger, and to explore possible retirement destinations. I am extremely interested in Vietnam, but the web sources I've read over the years say that Ho Chi Minh City / Saigon is not a wide open monger destination compared to other monger Meccas in Asia. There is action here and there I know and you can always find pros and "semi-pros" in discos and other night spots where you can work your sugar daddy game, but sounds too much trouble for me under current circumstances. I have also consistently heard that most decent hotels don't allow sex workers on the premises. Maybe this is dated information? I know Vietnam has been rapidly changing over the last 10 years.

BTW, there's a thread below that discusses haircut / salon type places in SoCal where you can get something more than salon service in the back. The Mimi's place discussed in that thread was Viet and so are a couple of others I've been aware of over the years in OC. I get a kick out of watching the Youtube vids which document Ho Chi Minh City Barbershops where a man can get a wide variety of legit services. I. e. Haircut, shave, EAR CLEANING, full body massage over clothes. All done by incredibly hot young girls who are basically dressed as they would to draw max attention in nightclubs. But it is just a barbershop. Large, spotless and modern. Many chairs, and most services are performed in the chairs in the public area. There are semi-private massage rooms with bars on the ceiling for back walking, but none of these vids even slightly suggest that extras are available and I haven't seen write-ups of them on the international monger sites either. I do realize that in many asian cities there are numerous barber shops that front as brothels. If that is true in these shops depicted on Youtube, I would retire in Da Nang and my ears would be so clean from frequent trips to Ho Chi Minh City that the sea breezes would blow right through them. Anybody have any deep info about these Saigon barber babes?

[WhoreMaster 91]

If you are really into asian or AMP things, take couple trips to Vietnam, Bangkok, China. Plane tickets and hotels are cheap on non vaca seasons. Thousand or even millions of pretty young girls hanging out in Asia for mongers to visit. And they are CHEAP. Hong Kong alone is good enough to keep you entertained for a few years. Have some Russian white girls when you are bored with Asian. My friends often go to vietnam for 1 week just to have sex everyday.

How about south Korea? K girls hot.

[HornDog626]

Seriously need something new in the 626. Something mysterious. Something exotic. Something new. Have any ideas, let me know. Open to ideas.

Except paying for someone else to join in a gangbang. You know who I'm talking about. Everyone needs to pay for their own fun. If you can't afford this hobby, don't play.

[NeedaBBBJCIM]

Great advice and views from both sides. When you have the abilities great when your options are more limited than harder to enjoy the flair of travel etc. So wherever you are in life enjoy both.

Lol try attempting international sex travel when you're married. Not gonna happen.

[Lovergrrl]

If you are really into asian or AMP things, take couple trips to Vietnam, Bangkok, China. Plane tickets and hotels are cheap on non vaca seasons. Thousand or even millions of pretty young girls hanging out in Asia for mongers to visit. And they are CHEAP. Hong Kong alone is good enough to keep you entertained for a few years. Have some Russian white girls when you are bored with Asian. My friends often go to vietnam for 1 week just to have sex everyday.

Lol try attempting international sex travel when you're married. Not gonna happen.

[Jimmyliu]

If you are really into asian or AMP things, take couple trips to Vietnam, Bangkok, China. Plane tickets and hotels are cheap on non vaca seasons. Thousand or even millions of pretty young girls hanging out in Asia for mongers to visit. And they are CHEAP. Hong Kong alone is good enough to keep you entertained for a few years. Have some Russian white girls when you are bored with Asian. My friends often go to vietnam for 1 week just to have sex everyday.

[The Camel]

True dude thinking. My friend and I were at dinner at a 'trendy' DT restaurant, points out a '10' a true 'LA 10'. An 'A' celeb truely drop dead gorgeous and says to me, 'see that hottie? Just another one some dude is bored with already. '. Took me a moment to get it.

After that my whole outlook has changed ;-), must be my midlife crisis coming back! ps booked my FLT to Asia, one week vacay!!

Dare I quote one of the oldest clichés in the world that "Variety is the spice of life". Too many of us including myself more often than I'm happy about, get hung up and obsessed with the simplicity of "conquering the pussy" as an uncomplicated financial transaction. There's the reference to "scoring" when we fuck the hot girl in the next office or a club pick-up or succeeding in seduction in the normal course of our lives. That's exciting and so is the discovery of the riches available through mongering. But there's no "score" in the trick. Its impersonal and with constant repetition over time it will devalue the greatness that sexual intimacy delivers when the fucking is this easy to obtain but hollow at the core.

I think that a big part of the solution is to find our way out of indulging as a life style. Many of us who P4 P for extended years describe ourselves and each other as "hobbyists". Yes I realize that many of us say it as a joke but it illustrates our difficulty of coming to terms with the reality that we are lifestylers, not hobbyists. Travel a route towards making it a hobby again, the way it was when you first started doing it, and possibly rediscover the value and the richness of it all over again.

[Maxen]

With the plethora of AMP's, stripclubs, escorts and arcades how can you guys get bored?

True dude thinking. My friend and I were at dinner at a 'trendy' DT restaurant, points out a '10' a true 'LA 10'. An 'A' celeb truely drop dead gorgeous and says to me, 'see that hottie? Just another one some dude is bored with already. '. Took me a moment to get it.

After that my whole outlook has changed ;-), must be my midlife crisis coming back! ps booked my FLT to Asia, one week vacay!!

[Lovergrrl]

With the plethora of AMP's, stripclubs, escorts and arcades how can you guys get bored?

[The Tall Man]

Agree, the AMP scene and everything around is boring and outdated, since most of the girls are 40+ , long are gone the days where F. O. B. Young girls used to came here in the summer in order to make extra cash. Personally I am planning a day trip in Tijuana and after that in a few months a trip in Thailand or Philippines (a week long for myself and a friend of mine is doing a cool month over there.).

The Tall Man is in the same boat as you all being bored with the local shit for the past 2 years so now I watch porn a few times a week and jack off just to hold me over until I head either to Tijuana or out of country for fun times.

I just can't see spending any money for this boring local shit any more.

TTM.

[SaltyDog]

Take 3 weeks off and visit Vietnam and Cambodia. I'm sure you'll find getting Cialus at the end of week 2. Go to Phu Quc get a nice young one then get the heck out of there. Cambodia is a nice place for sexy dark skinned women. Don't expect full Bush at these places. Just go.

Not that Vietnam and Cambodia aren't great but how do you tell somebody to go to SE Asia and not hit BKK?

Depending on the budget and the amount of yellow fever, I would also recommend brothels in Spain and FKK's in Germany.

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I compare BKK like this. You're driving a 2018 Lexus with 500 K miles. Vietnam and Cambodia you can drive the same car with only 25-50 K BKK been there done that. Way fewer ladyboys the other spots mentioned. Scary to see a boner when you're sitting with a sorta gal, and she's the one with the boner. Scary.

Seriously? After a couple days I could spot ladyboys pretty easily. I liked Vietnam and Cambodia but I didn't make it to PP in Cambodia and the action I was offered in Vietnam was kinda scetchy.

Though I talked to a couple guys on our sister site that said if you spend a long time there the non pro action is insane.

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