Sex Parties in San Diego

**NudeBeachPerv** · 04-19-24 15:21

This is a story of a man who attended an event hosted by a porn star:

https://nightrollergame.wordpress.co...irthday-party/

A couple of points, he brings up that it is much easier to be relaxed when sex is virtually guaranteed. I think this sums up why I don't enjoy parties like Thads. Some of the guys are really pushy and the scarcity / competition vibe promotes this. He also breaks down the expenses. So whether dating, "mongering" or attending events, guys are "paying for it."

**NudeBeachPerv** · 01-31-24 16:49

Originally Posted by MaximusKahn [View Original Post]

The rule of all guys being naked, regardless of the original reason, seems to be a good rule.

Guys can't hide. If you let guys be dressed you'll get more creeps and gawkers, and lurkers. More would go just to look. Like the creeps on the bluffs over Blacks beach who peep at the nudists with binoculars and telescopes.

If you got to be naked, you're like everyone else, a participant, and can't hide.

The women get to see what "physical" traits you have. So it gives the women the power of choice, and may even be erotic for some who like to look. And believe me, many lucky guys are chosen because she can see all he has.

Guys naked seems to humble guys, and possibly makes them less aggressive. I mean who wants to get into a fight in your birthday suit with your cock flopping around and your nuts in the wind?

It also lets the women see who's confident. There are lurkers who hide behind their towels, or now hide in their robes, but you'll also see the confident guys who proudly display all.

It's surprising how many guys are shy, or perhaps insecure yet participate because they have to. So even those who come to look, have to show too.

If having to be naked is holding you back, I'm not sure how you expect to enjoy a sex party clothed, but I say Thads is not for you.

For me, one of the most pleasurable experiences was standing by the edge of the dance floor and having women in thong panties grind against me and then admire how their work had effected me. One or two times this lead to receiving oral on the edge of the dance floor with an onlooking crowd. With all of that being said, I prefer an environment where one can be clothed in the lounge area and then is naked in the play area. For example the front room in a hotel and the bedroom.

As you mentioned Blacks Beach, I just have to mention that it took a few visits to get accustomed to nudity in a public situation and I understand a new guys reservations.

**MaximusKahn** · 01-29-24 12:25

The rule of all guys being naked, regardless of the original reason, seems to be a good rule.

Guys can't hide. If you let guys be dressed you'll get more creeps and gawkers, and lurkers. More would go just to look. Like the creeps on the bluffs over Blacks beach who peep at the nudists with binoculars and telescopes.

If you got to be naked, you're like everyone else, a participant, and can't hide.

The women get to see what "physical" traits you have. So it gives the women the power of choice, and may even be erotic for some who like to look. And believe me, many lucky guys are chosen because she can see all he has.

Guys naked seems to humble guys, and possibly makes them less aggressive. I mean who wants to get into a fight in your birthday suit with your cock flopping around and your nuts in the wind?

It also lets the women see who's confident. There are lurkers who hide behind their towels, or now hide in their robes, but you'll also see the confident guys who proudly display all.

It's surprising how many guys are shy, or perhaps insecure yet participate because they have to. So even those who come to look, have to show too.

If having to be naked is holding you back, I'm not sure how you expect to enjoy a sex party clothed, but I say Thads is not for you.

Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]

Thad's has a very interesting history and the OG owner was a bit of a Larry Flyntesque character who got in a few legal battles with the City of San Diego.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/...e-hubba-hubba/

They own a unique license which my understanding is the cops can't raid them for throwing sex parties. Now, my opinion on this is that they had operated for many years as a monopoly and let things go such as the maintenance of the place and ensuring that guests had a good experience. They could take the attitude of "take it or leave it" and many took it. In my opinion, it is better that there are now other options.

As far as the nudity, I have heard two different stories. IDK which one is true or if neither are true. One was that Mr. Thad was gay and he enjoyed seeing nude men. The other was that heavy drinking Marines were less likely to throw fists if they were full nude.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 01-24-24 18:13

Originally Posted by MaximusKahn [View Original Post]

The ages range from 20's to 70 over any given time. But in general it's 30's and 40's with some younger an some older. If you're hoping for 20 something horny female spinners to be there, there are times they are there, but you shouldn't expect too many.

I'm more about attractiveness than age as a number, because I've found that any age female can be attractive to me, just depends on the female. I've been fortunate to play with women in their 20's and women in their 60's. And enjoyed them all.

You are right about the all men are naked rule. During the winter they now allow guys to wear a robe, you can even rent one, so go check it out and see what it is all about.

Thad's has a very interesting history and the OG owner was a bit of a Larry Flyntesque character who got in a few legal battles with the City of San Diego.

https://www.sandiegoreader.com/news/...e-hubba-hubba/

They own a unique license which my understanding is the cops can't raid them for throwing sex parties. Now, my opinion on this is that they had operated for many years as a monopoly and let things go such as the maintenance of the place and ensuring that guests had a good experience. They could take the attitude of "take it or leave it" and many took it. In my opinion, it is better that there are now other options.

As far as the nudity, I have heard two different stories. IDK which one is true or if neither are true. One was that Mr. Thad was gay and he enjoyed seeing nude men. The other was that heavy drinking Marines were less likely to throw fists if they were full nude.

**MaximusKahn** · 01-22-24 11:17

The ages range from 20's to 70 over any given time. But in general it's 30's and 40's with some younger an some older. If you're hoping for 20 something horny female spinners to be there, there are times they are there, but you shouldn't expect too many.

I'm more about attractiveness than age as a number, because I've found that any age female can be attractive to me, just depends on the female. I've been fortunate to play with women in their 20's and women in their 60's. And enjoyed them all.

You are right about the all men are naked rule. During the winter they now allow guys to wear a robe, you can even rent one, so go check it out and see what it is all about.

Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]

I've always been curious about Thads but I will never go based upon their rules of men having to be naked. What is the typical age range though of Thads?

**Member #6555** · 01-20-24 21:05

Originally Posted by MaximusKahn [View Original Post]

Not sure what is everyone's definition of a sex party, but Thads is a adult social club that I think qualifies.

It is rare that an adult club allows single guys in, but Thads does.

These are people who are outside the normal boundaries of sexuality in a social environment.

Guys are naked, but can a wear robe in cold weather. Women wear what they want from sexy down to nothing.

Couples show up, some single women come, and a whole lot of single guys.

Some couples only seek couples, some come to only fuck each other, some come to find guys for her. Many combinations.

Some have sex in the open, some have gang bangs, some single women show up to suck and fuck. All this sounds like a sex party to me.

For you single guys. You cannot expect to get blown or laid. Nothing is guaranteed, you have to charm the pants off the women to get to play. If you got the skills and qualities, you can have a great time. Check it out at least once, Good Luck.

I've always been curious about Thads but I will never go based upon their rules of men having to be naked. What is the typical age range though of Thads?

**MaximusKahn** · 01-04-24 11:44

Not sure what is everyone's definition of a sex party, but Thads is a adult social club that I think qualifies.

It is rare that an adult club allows single guys in, but Thads does.

These are people who are outside the normal boundaries of sexuality in a social environment.

Guys are naked, but can a wear robe in cold weather. Women wear what they want from sexy down to nothing.

Couples show up, some single women come, and a whole lot of single guys.

Some couples only seek couples, some come to only fuck each other, some come to find guys for her. Many combinations.

Some have sex in the open, some have gang bangs, some single women show up to suck and fuck. All this sounds like a sex party to me.

For you single guys. You cannot expect to get blown or laid. Nothing is guaranteed, you have to charm the pants off the women to get to play. If you got the skills and qualities, you can have a great time. Check it out at least once, Good Luck.

**Member #6585** · 08-22-23 19:11

Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

She scammed me before, definitely don't give her your money. The other posters responding to you are definitely smarter than I. I made a post about it in the HX thread. Went by NymphoEmily on HX and had the same twitter linked. My original post is here http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post6497547

**ShieldThrow** · 08-14-23 01:36

Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]

I would almost always advise paying cash. I have seen even fairly solid parties cancel last minute and unless you know the host or hostess as a super solid individual who will honor the payment for the next party then I would consider it a no go. I almost broke my own rule on this for an LA party because one of the featured ladies is someone I had met before and really cool. Also one thing to keep in mind, sometimes when there are a bunch of ladies attending it is more of a "social event" where some fucking might go on rather than a gang bang where lots of fucking is going on. I don't know if that was the case for this event or not.

They are using fake photos from different subs and so on, claiming it's from the orgy on twitter. This girl is already super sketch with content bfs supposedly unlimited dates for 150. BnG specials would make them many times that.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 07-10-23 13:19

Thad's doesn't have the reputation of being the cleanest or classiest place.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Thads/comme...ples_playroom/

Got to admit, I laughed when I read that.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 07-10-23 02:13

Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

I would almost always advise paying cash. I have seen even fairly solid parties cancel last minute and unless you know the host or hostess as a super solid individual who will honor the payment for the next party then I would consider it a no go. I almost broke my own rule on this for an LA party because one of the featured ladies is someone I had met before and really cool. Also one thing to keep in mind, sometimes when there are a bunch of ladies attending it is more of a "social event" where some fucking might go on rather than a gang bang where lots of fucking is going on. I don't know if that was the case for this event or not.

**NoGrowthMan** · 07-05-23 23:26

Too much high fructose corn syrup in her diet for daddy.

Originally Posted by KMatthews521 [View Original Post]

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

**Member #6555** · 07-04-23 14:50

Has anyone been to the swingers party hosted by creambabee on twitter? I got her handle off someone from Reddit and it looks like she is having one tonight. She's not my type but supposedly she said there are 7 girls confirmed for tonight. Tonight's party is $80 and hosted at an apartment complex downtown that is super close to me. I've recognized a few girls going from list crawler. Anyways just curious if anyone has been and if they are legit. They want you to buy "tickets" through cash app prior which is super sketchy to me and I will not do it without confirmation. I tried reaching out to the guy on Reddit but he hasn't answered me.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 06-05-23 01:56

Originally Posted by BadbarbiGB [View Original Post]

I had a great time even though it was very hot. A couple things from other posts I need to correct. I don't tap out.

Hi Badbarbi,

Welcome to the blog. Did you attend any other events while you were in San Diego?

**BadbarbiGB** · 05-22-23 13:27

Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]

Against my better judgement, I headed out to Barnett Adult Superstore. Parking sucked, all the spots in the main lot were taken, Saw a few "lifestyle" people in the lobby. Bought a ticket for $12. Got buzzed in to the theater area. There are 2 theaters, one play gays porn and the other plays straight porn. The one with the straight porn was packed, 2 older ladies were playing in the back. I ventured to the other theater. As it was less packed it was about 20 degrees cooler. There was another lady playing and this was a bit less crowded, not quite packed elbow to elbow. The whole scene was overwhelming. I stepped outside and walked around the building for a bit.

I went back into the straight theater. It was like being at a rock concert where you keep on bumping into people as you walk closer to the stage. It felt like it was close to 100 degrees in there. I was able to make it into a packed corner by slowly moving with my back against the wall. Bad Barbi was surrounded by guys with their cocks out. There was a guy snapping pics and another holding a light. Guys were filming with their cellphones. She said her pussy was sore so guys would have to fuck her butt. After watching the debauchery for 20 minutes or so, I took another break. I asked the nice ladies at the cash register if every Friday was like this and they mentioned "It's not our concern. That's a whole separate thing..

I had a great time even though it was very hot. A couple things from other posts I need to correct. I don't tap out.