The mind of a Korean working girl

[Drake678]

My opinion: anyone who takes the path in life where sexuality is used has issues. Hard times come, sure, but it takes a mindset to exist in that world. I have seen the most seemingly innocent develop that way. Point being that there was a seed there that the lifestyle brings to the front. The longer they exist in that word the more overt the mindset is. I can only imagine how it would be immersed in it day after day. Most of us mongers only touch on it then exit.

We all got a bit of crazy but the lifestyle those girls lead tends to have a higher intensity and concentration of it.

I agree with you 100%. The girls that are in it daily like bar hostess or strippers need to think it daily at a different level, because it how they survive. Their mentality is different.

[Glogauer]

In my younger days I went skydiving once. Static line jump at 3,000 feet over Mokuleia.

It was a beautiful clear day. I climbed out onto the wing frame of the Cessna, saw the naked earth below me between my feet, then arched my back and looked up at the sky above me and let go. Letting go was the hardest part.

The Cessna shrunk down to the size of a fly in an instant. Wild rush of air and adrenaline. Then my chute deployed and the peace that transcends all understanding descended upon me. I softly touched down about 5 minutes later a changed man. One of the highlights of my life thus far. Checked that off of my bucket list and never jumped again.

At least from an airplane.

But I climb out onto that wing each time I step into a KB and I let go of that frame every time I buy a neko for the new KBG I just met. Wild rush of adrenaline and "thoughts of maybe" as I fall. Sometimes the view is good, too. No mishaps yet. Canopy deployed every time. Some landings have been harder than others, but no injuries sustained thus far that I haven't been able to walk away. Or prevent me from stepping back into the bar for another jump.

But this relationship thing. That's climbing up to 18,000 feet without the static line. Jump #3 and I'm in free fall and I haven't hit terminal velocity yet. Wild ride, man. Wild ride. Just deciding when to pull the ripcord. Not quite ready to do that yet.

She knows I have a wife. And I'm not about to chuck my parachute to marry her.

GG.

[IQuietly]

My opinion: even if the original poster wasn't currently married to another woman, it's much too soon to be considering marriage to this bar woman he's called "KBG #3". On January 27, he said that he "just met her about a month ago," so it seems that now he's known her for only about two months. Bar women can be like actresses, and it can take much more than two months to try to determine their real character. So for now, just have fun and stay far away from the jewelry store (smile).

My opinion: anyone who takes the path in life where sexuality is used has issues. Hard times come, sure, but it takes a mindset to exist in that world. I have seen the most seemingly innocent develop that way. Point being that there was a seed there that the lifestyle brings to the front. The longer they exist in that word the more overt the mindset is. I can only imagine how it would be immersed in it day after day. Most of us mongers only touch on it then exit.

We all got a bit of crazy but the lifestyle those girls lead tends to have a higher intensity and concentration of it.

[Captin Crunch]

Haha. I'll let you know when it's over. I'll enjoy my ride before you bastards cluster on board and carjack me! I'm trying to get her to quit the business. Not give her more of it!

GG.

She has money to spend on you because guys like us come to buy drinks for her.

[Wn5912]

Glogauer. My opinion and experiences, not advice because you going to do what your little head tells tou. Have your fun and all the sex you can get now that you are in KBG honeymoon stage. Inevidible (unless you are in the. 05 percentile) that this dream will last until either she moves on to another loverboy or your personal and or financial lofe breaks. I went through a handful l of these so called relationships with bar girls that I thought was like you a dream although I never had marriage in mind with themjust fun and sex which was awesome. Come to find out 2 of the three were married, one with 2 kids and the other married to some dude who lived on Maui. No harm, no foul to me, a little let down but luckily I kept my inner emotions arma length away knowing these relationship flings were just that a fantasy and fling to enjoy. BTW I had a SO at the time too so more so. Enjoy bro although avoid going in too deep unless she is the 0. 05%.

So it's been a few weeks and I continue to take it day by day. This one feels like a civilian courtship. Lots of texting. A few day dates. But thankfully, no "when are you coming to the bar" texts. Definitely different. No huge tabs. She has been paying for her own drinks (and mine). In fact, she gives ME spending money. How's that for a mind fuck? Babe, if you're reading this thread, I love you.

A few of you have shared PMs. The hard part is the jealously. We're not jealous of the working girls who toil in the AMPs. I never really minded the KBGs, either. Hey. They need to make a living. But I have to admit that even though she primarily works as a bartender, I find myself choking down that green-eyed monster when I see her flirt with her customers at the bar.

She's always getting propositioned. She's getting drunk, and she gets horny when she gets drunk. Men are offering money. She goes out on lunch dates.

The part that really kills me is her friends are in the bar industry, too. So I'm hearing about you poor souls. About her bartender friend who is juggling 2, 3 or more boyfriends. Taking advantage and playing these guys for fools. Oh, she's not like that at all, she assures me. But for how long?

So I savor the hours that I am spending with her now. When everything she does is magic. And she's the sweetest girl on the planet. And she's asking me when I can rearrange my schedule for private time. Only problem now is I've come home a few times way past my curfew and wifey getting suspicious and upset.

GG.

[Asstro]

Where does she bartend?

Don't tell us, might be my GF, LOL!

[Redneck 1]

Buy her that diamond and get married and never look back, have a nice life retire from the dark side.

My opinion: even if the original poster wasn't currently married to another woman, it's much too soon to be considering marriage to this bar woman he's called "KBG #3". On January 27, he said that he "just met her about a month ago," so it seems that now he's known her for only about two months. Bar women can be like actresses, and it can take much more than two months to try to determine their real character. So for now, just have fun and stay far away from the jewelry store (smile).

[Idusixtyning]

So it's been a few weeks and I continue to take it day by day. This one feels like a civilian courtship. Lots of texting. A few day dates. But thankfully, no "when are you coming to the bar" texts. Definitely different. No huge tabs. She has been paying for her own drinks (and mine). In fact, she gives ME spending money. How's that for a mind fuck? Babe, if you're reading this thread, I love you.

A few of you have shared PMs. The hard part is the jealously. We're not jealous of the working girls who toil in the AMPs. I never really minded the KBGs, either. Hey. They need to make a living. But I have to admit that even though she primarily works as a bartender, I find myself choking down that green-eyed monster when I see her flirt with her customers at the bar.

She's always getting propositioned. She's getting drunk, and she gets horny when she gets drunk. Men are offering money. She goes out on lunch dates.

The part that really kills me is her friends are in the bar industry, too. So I'm hearing about you poor souls. About her bartender friend who is juggling 2, 3 or more boyfriends. Taking advantage and playing these guys for fools. Oh, she's not like that at all, she assures me. But for how long?

So I savor the hours that I am spending with her now. When everything she does is magic. And she's the sweetest girl on the planet. And she's asking me when I can rearrange my schedule for private time. Only problem now is I've come home a few times way past my curfew and wifey getting suspicious and upset.

GG.

Before getting hung up on this KBG, my advice is either first tell your wife you don't love her anymore and want to move on or fix your relationship with her. Did you tell the KBG that you are married?? If you didn't then you aren't being honest and misleading her. So you really have no grounds to judge her while she hustles to make money. Don't knock what she does to earn money unless you're willing to support her so she doesn't have to work the bars.

[Eric Shin]

Based on my experience, strike while the iron is hot and screw them before they screw you. These women aren't hardwired to have a normal relationship. Never never never marry one. It will end badly and you will be the laughing stock of your family. I do know one former barmaid that is "happily" married for nearly 20 years now. She was only able to marry him by getting pregnant. She had to put up with his cheating with other Korean barmaids. He had to put her son from her first marriage through college. As much as she could and't stand him, he was loaded and she never had to work again. Although, he kept track of her by making her purchase everything on his credit card. He had millions in the bank but would scrutinized every charge she made on his card. It's a good thing that I didn't charge to fuck her.

So it's been a few weeks and I continue to take it day by day. This one feels like a civilian courtship. Lots of texting. A few day dates. But thankfully, no "when are you coming to the bar" texts. Definitely different. No huge tabs. She has been paying for her own drinks (and mine). In fact, she gives ME spending money. How's that for a mind fuck? Babe, if you're reading this thread, I love you.

A few of you have shared PMs. The hard part is the jealously. We're not jealous of the working girls who toil in the AMPs. I never really minded the KBGs, either. Hey. They need to make a living. But I have to admit that even though she primarily works as a bartender, I find myself choking down that green-eyed monster when I see her flirt with her customers at the bar.

She's always getting propositioned. She's getting drunk, and she gets horny when she gets drunk. Men are offering money. She goes out on lunch dates.

The part that really kills me is her friends are in the bar industry, too. So I'm hearing about you poor souls. About her bartender friend who is juggling 2, 3 or more boyfriends. Taking advantage and playing these guys for fools. Oh, she's not like that at all, she assures me. But for how long?

So I savor the hours that I am spending with her now. When everything she does is magic. And she's the sweetest girl on the planet. And she's asking me when I can rearrange my schedule for private time. Only problem now is I've come home a few times way past my curfew and wifey getting suspicious and upset.

GG.

[MitsFunai]

Bro. She love you. Marry that one its a keeper.

Sorry G, but before you go there, think with your head and not with your heart (the odda head). That's their game; that's their job.

[LocaLoppa]

Bro.

Did you leave your wife? Sound like that was already done deal and you have the new one already to go. Lucky you get one on deck so go for it and dump and pump the new one take her home for good. I seen many girls leave the bar scene have babies and live normal life all the time my friends can say its good for them. She sound like a perfect woman love you spend money on you wait for you fuck you good and want to fuck you all the time she is special and only fucking you now. Buy her that diamond and get married and never look back, have a nice life retire from the dark side.

So it's been a few weeks and I continue to take it day by day. This one feels like a civilian courtship. Lots of texting. A few day dates. But thankfully, no "when are you coming to the bar" texts. Definitely different. No huge tabs. She has been paying for her own drinks (and mine). In fact, she gives ME spending money. How's that for a mind fuck? Babe, if you're reading this thread, I love you.

A few of you have shared PMs. The hard part is the jealously. We're not jealous of the working girls who toil in the AMPs. I never really minded the KBGs, either. Hey. They need to make a living. But I have to admit that even though she primarily works as a bartender, I find myself choking down that green-eyed monster when I see her flirt with her customers at the bar.

She's always getting propositioned. She's getting drunk, and she gets horny when she gets drunk. Men are offering money. She goes out on lunch dates.

The part that really kills me is her friends are in the bar industry, too. So I'm hearing about you poor souls. About her bartender friend who is juggling 2, 3 or more boyfriends. Taking advantage and playing these guys for fools. Oh, she's not like that at all, she assures me. But for how long?

So I savor the hours that I am spending with her now. When everything she does is magic. And she's the sweetest girl on the planet. And she's asking me when I can rearrange my schedule for private time. Only problem now is I've come home a few times way past my curfew and wifey getting suspicious and upset.

GG.

[JohnWik]

I had a few relationships like this with AMP girls it is hard falling in love with these type of girls when you know they see lots of guys because of the job they do but you know that is how you found them in first place and accepted them just enjoy the moment and the time you have with them not worth being jealous and stress of thinking about what happens with other guys because the heart break is not good for you and not let it affect you just enjoy there time and hope it stays that way and if not move on and remember who are and don't let it bring you down. It is heart breaking thinking of them showing love to other guys and not you so don't let that bother you because that is what they do.

Damn that's well said. Been there myself. Shitty feeling that jealousy.

Easy to say but hard to do. Well said my brother.

[Captin Crunch]

Have fun buddy but these things most of the time 90 percent end badly so my advice stick with the so and enjoy life.

I totally agree. I've seen many married guys fall in love with kbgs and end up with nothing in the end. They get divorced, lose everything that they worked so hard for, then end up leaving the kbg because you cannot keep up her lifestyle, so she dumps the guy.

[Handsome111]

Haha. I'll let you know when it's over. I'll enjoy my ride before you bastards cluster on board and carjack me! I'm trying to get her to quit the business. Not give her more of it!

GG.

Have fun buddy but these things most of the time 90 percent end badly so my advice stick with the so and enjoy life.

[Glogauer]

Where does she bartend?

Haha. I'll let you know when it's over. I'll enjoy my ride before you bastards cluster on board and carjack me! I'm trying to get her to quit the business. Not give her more of it!

GG.