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05-14-19 15:09 #554
Posts: 302Need some advice. .
So. Need the valued opinions of some more seasoned mongers here- although I'm not a newbie. I've other than an opinion or so here and there never so outwardly recommended anyone as I did Anna the Gem a few weeks ago. And absolutely everything initially said was spot on. Lot of fun- cool to be with- nice, funny, etc. As the days went on I noticed things which were not so cool- some I even brought to the forefront. So- here's my question- having been on this site for a while and provided input when relevant, I'm sorta at a loss with Anna. As you all can see there is a different dynamic now- now that I have seen more behavoirs, let's say things, received messages from you all as well, and been asked questions- I of course feel compelled to share this info as my primary responsibility is to you all and the integrity of the info here. What is your all's opinion on to what extent I share? She is under the impression that "I owe her" and wants me to refrain from sharing any additional info about her- even tho what I share is fact- and what we all have a right to know. I have nothing against her personally- and don't want it to appear as such. She is reaching out to those she has seen implying things here are not factual. Which indeed they are 100%. So, if you were me how would you handle this? Post what I know or just cease all together? All opinions are appreciated. Sorry for the dissertation!
Last edited by Traveler4321; 05-14-19 at 15:15. Reason: Correct typos
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05-01-19 11:49 #553
Posts: 2981Anna
Well I'm sure she is overwhelmed with calls and text. Sounds fun but I see a burn out coming. A couple of RED Flags and pricey for a new chick. IMHO. There is plenty of back channel concerns. Shows how bad the selection is in town. For her price point I'm use to more reputable provider. I like a freak in the sheets as much as anyone. However when a high volume provider isn't using safe sex practices. I get concerned that we're thinking with our little heads and not the big one in our shoulders. IMHO.
The old saying about the crazy chicks, they're are the best Fk $ is true in my experience. However that shit can turn around and bite ya! Enjoy and think before you dive into the PINK.
I've been lucky to never have a STD or get stopped by the Police. Had beautiful woman coast to coast and border to border and overseas.
I've had a few mottos keep me safe over 20 years in and out of the hobby.
1. Better safe than sorry.
2. Go with your gut.
3. When in doubt, don't whip it out.
I'm an old fart in the hobby now. Was addicted to this hobby once seeing up to 5 providers in a week. I was able to pull away before I took over my life. Made some great and long lasting friends. Saw some beauties go down the rabbit hole and never come out. Saw others retire and move on to better and greater life.
Bottom line is treat others the way you want to be treated. However, we all know the risk, so play the long game like myself and s few others. Don't think if a chick is BB you she's not doing it with others who have s 70% risk factor.
Getting off my soap box. Hoping we find a way to get back to the old days of numerous great providers.
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03-02-19 18:21 #552
Posts: 248Chicken or Egg
Originally Posted by Dogs22 [View Original Post]
I also know some of these ladies will rip you off or rob you or try to blackmail you if given the chance. Either I'm more particular than I realize or real lucky but treating them like I want to be treated seems to get me better service than intimidating them.
I see a change in the post of some mongers and over the years they will harden and start trashing these girls for no obvious reason. Maybe everyone needs a periodic brake to refresh their attitude.
Until then, whoever you are be careful and play safe.
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03-02-19 10:39 #551
Posts: 95Nashville losing quality traveling ladies. ?
I just read a post with the opinion that Nashville is losing or could be losing some quality providers traveling through due to poor experiences with Nashville guys.
It got me thinking. Chicken or the egg? I know for a fact it's tough for guys to find quality regulars and this WAS NOT the case a few short years ago. So, which side went downhill first causing the others to seek alternative means to an end? Who knows.
I know I've never seen more bitching about providers than on this board the last 12 months or so. No shows, robberies, you name it. You're better off seeking another means to an end in my opinion. I believe the quality is down on both sides or believe it very well could be.
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02-17-19 23:46 #550
Posts: 161Sexual Fantasy
Ok, so she fakes an orgasm. So what? I'm there to experience a nice sexual encounter, as long as she makes it seem somewhat realistic, I'm ok with it. I'd much rather have her try and make a show of it, instead of acting like a dead fish. Shit, real girlfriends probably do the same thing for us.
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02-16-19 19:29 #549
Posts: 203Everyone
Originally Posted by JustLookn [View Original Post]
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02-16-19 16:31 #548
Posts: 248Thanks A2
Originally Posted by Admin2 [View Original Post]
Chemistry plays a big part in who I see or don't see a second time. Some guys never make the connection so faking is a girls only way.
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02-16-19 13:57 #547
Posts: 4922Why I moved this
Originally Posted by ManyInches8 [View Original Post]
10 out of 10 may fake it with you but don't assume your shit responses are the same for everybody.
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02-16-19 09:55 #546
Posts: 203And Might I Add
Originally Posted by MaximV [View Original Post]
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02-16-19 03:28 #545
Posts: 1136Lol.
Originally Posted by ManyInches8 [View Original Post]
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02-15-19 22:21 #544
Posts: 203No Way
Originally Posted by TonyTheTiger [View Original Post]
My. 02.
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02-13-19 02:58 #543
Posts: 47My philosophy
Originally Posted by CanDoForU [View Original Post]
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02-10-19 00:11 #542
Posts: 40A Black-Swan-Theoretic Approach to Choosing Providers
As a risk-averse newb, I'm sharing my decision-making principle. If I think something really bad but unlikely could happen, I will avoid it because I can't stand the consequence from the possible but rare bad event.
For example, I've read stories about Hayden in the main thread that resemble CanDoForU's tale of Snow White. I did personally have a good experience with her. On average, it'd make sense for me to see her again, because if one were to tally up the good vs the bad reports about her, the pros would come on top.
This is where the Black Swan Theory kicks in. In theory, I understand that providers hooked on drugs can cause a lot of grief for hobbyists, and according to many reports, the provider in question fits the profile. According to reports after my visit, some of the theoretical problems did happen in practice. Thus my prerogative is to avoid the absolute worst cases, which could give me between a really bad day and a really bad life. This is extremely unlikely, but I must avoid it all the same.
This approach is really nothing special. Just taking all reports seriously. The goal is to survive in this hobby without always needing luck. Read more about the Black Swan Theory (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_swan_theory).
P.S. Disclaimer: no particular hate for Hayden. Just an anecdotal example. I try my best to let my big head make the decisions.
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02-01-19 02:28 #541
Posts: 93Hang in there
Originally Posted by Murfreesboro69 [View Original Post]
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01-28-19 20:14 #540
Posts: 161Originally Posted by CanDoForU [View Original Post]