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02-26-18 12:01 #2950
Posts: 920Bad Way To Approach Providers.
Some of us mongers know the world we are stepping into when dealing with these girls. Especially on first meeting, we go in with our guards slightly up, our wallets and cell phones in our car, and our expectations set bellow what we are wishing for. When things go well, maybe we just met a new regular girl worth visiting again. When things don't go so well, we move on and forget about it.
I never demand more than what the girl is offering. If she claims to do something and then doesn't do it upon delivery, I'm fine with that, because I know I will not be donating anything else to her charity in the future. Most of us naturally live by these guidelines, similar to how most of us don't hit our wives because they burn't the gravy. But, there are men among us who don't think their message is being heard, who feel they're being taken advantage of or not being respected. These types may even think there's some deficit within them to which a provider could sense and take advantage of if she wanted to, and they must counteract this by showing them that this weakness will not be exploited. These men are not good at practicing humility, their ego's are not good at stepping down and accepting some disappointment. They especially cannot accept disappointment from a physically and mentally weaker version of themselves (the female), as her position in society doesn't deem her the right to decide who gets a cookie and who doesn't. And the mere fact that this female has decided that he (the man) is not worthy of getting everything he desires, is the ultimate blow to his self worth and the ultimate accelerant to his self doubt. This in turn makes the man panic and get irritated, to which his only solution to showing he is a worthy man, equal to the worthiest, is to physically dominate and suppress and notion of equality or superiority that the female may posses.
The thing is, the man being in a house of providers, is in itself a weakness. There is no superiority possible at that point on the mans behalf. He's in a vulnerable position and will be lucky to do business with someone who won't exploit that. He is a customer hoping to be taken care of. He doesn't have the right to forcefully tell the sales team how to do business. His only option is to find a different dealership and hope they have better saleswomen.
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02-26-18 09:51 #2949
Posts: 157Can't visit
Drew Sophia on Thursday night.
Looks: 7.
Massage / Tease: 8.
Finish: 7 (rushed).
Last two times the girls were looking for more than the standard C-note. Wonder what's going on to cause this?
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02-22-18 08:52 #2948
Posts: 991&2
1. Here in the States, to skirt around the law, women are paid for their "time" instead. No law against that. During that time, if they are so overcome with lust for you that they want sex, that's legal.
2. The post was so brazen, that by the time I got around to reading it, I honestly thought it had already been reported. Like seeing a car accident and thinking the ambulance is already on the way. Next time, I'll hit the button.
Cool, cool, cool.
1. I know brother and I don't know how you guys do it.
2. I was shocked when I read it and I was fucking FLOORED when he defended it not once but twice.
A2
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02-22-18 00:42 #2947
Posts: 99This discussion should be over.
You as an admin don't need to explain yourself. I was shocked that the post lasted as long as it did. (I wasn't touching this with a 10 ft pole.) I read the op and it's clear as day. Women are not meat. If they rip you off, take the hit. They need the money way more than we do. If a woman says no, it's over. Take the loss and find another one that suits you. We pay women for their time. They are not obligated to do anything with us, and can end the meeting at their discretion. This is all basic stuff. Maybe a reminder is needed. That guy went on and on, trying to justify what was clearly a rape. I honestly read that post thinking it'll be taken down in seconds and that's be the end of it.
Two things,
1. I pay women for sex, good sex, I'm 100% clear about that up front (given I don't fuck around in barbaric countries like the USA where it's illegal) I do not pay them for their time. They can end the session anytime they want but they won't get paid if they end it before the agreed upon time and service. Women taking your money for sex then changing their mind and keeping the money may be basic stuff in your book but it's not in mine. Unless I am at a brothel I also never pay them until the session is complete, which they are also informed about ahead of time so they have no opportunity to rip me off. If they don't agree to those terms I hang up and call the next one.
2. At the time that post was originally put up the poster was an unmoderated senior member, I never saw it until it was reported. Why didn't you report it when you saw it?
A2
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02-22-18 00:06 #2946
Posts: 4922It's all about consent
Originally Posted by ClitfLicker [View Original Post]
This is the chronology of that post.
He posted the rape story. Somebody reported it "dude, I think some guy is posting about raping some chick. " I looked at the post and read what he said, it was sexual assault, I removed it, threw the flag and put the account on moderation. THEN he came on and said "I didn't rape her so would you please make the redact text go away" so I posted what he wrote and said, yeah, this is rape as you wrote it. THEN he justified it but didn't say something else happened, he tried to say "she fought me every step if the way. But eventually succumbed to the inevitable" was consensual sex, clearly it is not and it is also not "I always play the gentle, slow card and always get my way. " There was nothing "slow" nor "gentle" in what he wrote. And there was certainly no accepting no as a no and trying to get his money back.
I've been moderating the forum for 5 years and this is the second time I've had to throw this flag. I don't pull it out of my pocket lightly but it's all in what he posted.
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02-21-18 18:32 #2945
Posts: 229Originally Posted by SeekGrtMass [View Original Post]
Just my 2 cents.
Clit.
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02-21-18 17:57 #2944
Posts: 264Well done A2
Way to keep things in shape around here A2!
Seeker.
Originally Posted by Admin2 [View Original Post]
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02-21-18 17:51 #2943
Posts: 260Well done
A2, I applaud you for your morals and scruples. It sounded like rape to me as well, or at the VERY least abusive treatment.
A provider's limits aren't to be exceeded, EVER!!
Sometimes, in my experience, they'll relax them willingly, but in the Gentleman's Handbook no means no. Sometimes it means "No, not today", or "No, maybe next time", but it never, ever means "Yeah, go ahead and violate my boundaries or hurt me".
Guys like him are predators. Thank you for keeping a high standard here.
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02-20-18 23:05 #2942
Posts: 4922Wait
Originally Posted by SP508 [View Original Post]
You wrote "she fought me every step of the way!! Kept motioning too big and pointed to the kitty and made the small sign with her fingers but I persisted. WOW SHE WASNT KIDDING! I couldn't get all the way in but it felt great though. She damn near almost was half way off the table trying to make it so I couldn't work my way in deeper. Eventually my efforts to drive it home succumbed to the inevitable and I filled the bag."
And now you are saying "everything was consensual" and "At no point did she say no or try to make me stop" when they "fight you every step of the way" that's them telling you no.
You honestly believe this wasn't rape.
A2 is fucking dumbstruck and you need to fucking go. I thought keeping you on moderation would be enough but you can't be a part of this site anymore.
A2
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02-20-18 17:55 #2941
Posts: 24Since you wanted opinions.
Originally Posted by SP508 [View Original Post]
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02-19-18 23:26 #2940
Posts: 108I see your point
Originally Posted by SP508 [View Original Post]
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02-19-18 09:49 #2939
Posts: 108Post report
Originally Posted by SP508 [View Original Post]
OK, here's what you wrote, word for word
"I wanted to sample the goods so I stood up and tried to lay her on the table (no engrish whatsoever!) she fought me every step of the way!! Kept motioning too big and pointed to the kitty and made the small sign with her fingers but I persisted. WOW SHE WASNT KIDDING! I couldn't get all the way in but it felt great though. She damn near almost was half way off the table trying to make it so I couldn't work my way in deeper. Eventually my efforts to drive it home succumbed to the inevitable and I filled the bag. Damage was. 8 and I'm curious to see if she would let me go another round. She was definitely walking funny when she let me out LOL."
See the part where you said "she fought me every step of the way" Then you went on to say that the whole time she was trying to escape you but you wouldn't let her " She damn near almost was half way off the table trying to make it so I couldn't work my way in deeper."
Your words, not mine, and if that's what happened, I'm not a lawyer but I'm pretty sure in every jurisdiction in the states they would call that rape.
A2
Since you sort of insisted that I post this you might want to burn any connection between you the real person and this account (no we won't delete it) it's pretty explicit and I wouldn't want to get busted with this account open on the phone in my pocket.
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02-18-18 15:30 #2938
Posts: 21Lisa at Envelope
Can anyone tell me if Lisa down at envelope is one of the Lisa's that have worked at 75 Webster, New Star before??
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02-18-18 15:06 #2937
Posts: 2175 Webster (New Star)
Went on another site said 75 Webster was closed. Just spoke with Anna last week, she didn't say anything about closing. Just didn't want to get busted or set up if it is in fact closed. Anyone have any info on this??
Thanks.
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02-18-18 09:53 #2936
Posts: 6Envelope Lisa
Met Lisa in Envelope last week. Probably early 50's. Nice massage and tease is ok. Standard 40 house fee and 40 happy ending.