Sugar Babies

**John Dough71** · Today 16:48

I've been checking out sugar daddy meet. I haven't paid for the premium yet but the cost is fairly reasonable compared to SB and SA. Doesn't seem to have the same quantity of profiles but I am seeing some familiar faces. I can tell there are some of the same BS profiles and spam messages but looks worth trying for a month or two. I was wondering if anyone has any actual experience / success from the site.

**DirkDiggler11** · Yesterday 00:51

Originally Posted by DonkeyKong55 [View Original Post]

Well I messaged support at Secret Bene's and said pretty much what I said here. They refunded my money and deleted my account LOL. Which I'm fine with that.

Just my. 02, but get a facbook account that is bogus and connect with folks that just like to add friends and are in the local party scene. There are local groups 'are we dating the same girl' that also provide good information on some of these profiles you can find on SB, SA, or other, and even some UTR. Can be good for weeding out the BS profiles on these paid sites and hit up the ones that are legit and which to also avoid. Get more bang for your buck so to speak from these paid sites with public domain info from FB groups where there is info.

**Donkey Kong55** · 05-02-24 09:37

Originally Posted by SAguyinNC [View Original Post]

In my experience both are total shit now. SA used to be great and I had plenty of good connections. I switched to SB and have had the same experience described above. I recently re-joined SA and it's fucking worthless now. About 90% of the profiles are less than a week old (I. E. , most likely fake), I get at least 50 "likes" and / or messages a day from girls in Kazakhstan, Central America, Montana, and just about any other place that isn't within 100 miles of where I'm located. More than half of the messages I've responded to have been either bots or just scum bags trying to run credit card or cash app scams. If I had to chose, I'd say SA is still probably better but it ain't what it used to be.

Well I messaged support at Secret Bene's and said pretty much what I said here. They refunded my money and deleted my account LOL. Which I'm fine with that.

**SAguyinNC** · 05-01-24 17:19

Originally Posted by DonkeyKong55 [View Original Post]

My experience with Secret Bene's has been shit. They nickel and dime you. In my opinion, it seems they have fake ads message you so you unlock the conversation (10 credits) and then you never get another message. You have to pay 10 credits to unlock private photos. Even if the person grants you access. And you have to pay 10 credits to view any answers they have given to questions posted on their profiles. At the same time though, I have noticed an influx of fake accounts on SA. If they look like 5 out of 10 or below, they're more than likely real LOL.

In my experience both are total shit now. SA used to be great and I had plenty of good connections. I switched to SB and have had the same experience described above. I recently re-joined SA and it's fucking worthless now. About 90% of the profiles are less than a week old (I. E. , most likely fake), I get at least 50 "likes" and / or messages a day from girls in Kazakhstan, Central America, Montana, and just about any other place that isn't within 100 miles of where I'm located. More than half of the messages I've responded to have been either bots or just scum bags trying to run credit card or cash app scams. If I had to chose, I'd say SA is still probably better but it ain't what it used to be.

**Donkey Kong55** · 05-01-24 16:20

Originally Posted by SimpleMan111 [View Original Post]

Question for the group. I was on Seeking for awhile a year ago with great success, especially when traveling. I got off because it was costing so much to see 4-5 women each month and kept seeing a few regulars. I'm ready to get back in the game, find new talent and curious if Seeking is the way to go or should I try Secret Bene's.

TIA for any constructive suggestions.

My experience with Secret Bene's has been shit. They nickel and dime you. In my opinion, it seems they have fake ads message you so you unlock the conversation (10 credits) and then you never get another message. You have to pay 10 credits to unlock private photos. Even if the person grants you access. And you have to pay 10 credits to view any answers they have given to questions posted on their profiles. At the same time though, I have noticed an influx of fake accounts on SA. If they look like 5 out of 10 or below, they're more than likely real LOL.

**SimpleMan111** · 04-30-24 21:03

Question for the group. I was on Seeking for awhile a year ago with great success, especially when traveling. I got off because it was costing so much to see 4-5 women each month and kept seeing a few regulars. I'm ready to get back in the game, find new talent and curious if Seeking is the way to go or should I try Secret Bene's.

TIA for any constructive suggestions.

**DirkDiggler11** · 04-28-24 00:41

Originally Posted by Scbomber [View Original Post]

If she's legit and no GPS, looks like a solid find. I don't believe I've seen her on SA and I've never gone on Secret Bennies.

Report back!

Good date, the typical meet and greet at a nice place downtown. Easy to speak with and smart. Very easy on the eyes and great flirt. Got down to the brass tacks and albeit not GPS, there are "rules" and for a monthly expectation, I think one could do better and get more bang for the buck so to speak. But to each their own. I just didn't think the juice was worth the squeeze for me. For someone else could be a different story. 5 star rating for looks, conversation / intelligence, and attitude. She could be someone's cup of tea. There' s more fish in the sea!

**Scbomber** · 04-27-24 14:20

Originally Posted by DirkDiggler11 [View Original Post]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...bf506c47f9f7b7

Been exchanging messages and seems legit. Will see when the rubber meets the road this weekend and if she has GPS. Curious if anyone else has been talking her up to compare notes. Attaching pic from profile as we all have seen too often, the profile gets deleted and the links are no good for information sharing.

Stay safe out there!

If she's legit and no GPS, looks like a solid find. I don't believe I've seen her on SA and I've never gone on Secret Bennies.

Report back!

**DirkDiggler11** · 04-26-24 13:59

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...bf506c47f9f7b7

Been exchanging messages and seems legit. Will see when the rubber meets the road this weekend and if she has GPS. Curious if anyone else has been talking her up to compare notes. Attaching pic from profile as we all have seen too often, the profile gets deleted and the links are no good for information sharing.

Stay safe out there!

**Scbomber** · 04-07-24 14:26

Originally Posted by DLawrenceChs [View Original Post]

7 bills but totally worth it, hotter in person and normal person no drug demons.

What area does she live in?

I see her somewhat regularly around West Ashley at the store.

Next time I'm definitely approaching her but not mentioning anything about an arrangement.

**DLawrenceChs** · 04-05-24 20:42

Originally Posted by WillDo4000 [View Original Post]

What was her donation need?

7 bills but totally worth it, hotter in person and normal person no drug demons.

**WillDo4000** · 04-05-24 11:46

Originally Posted by DLawrenceChs [View Original Post]

She is even hotter in person, really sexual and super into pleasing. If look your type def worth it. Real no games. https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-cf61dc5ca3dd.

What was her donation need?

**German5050** · 03-29-24 10:27

Originally Posted by JonReremy [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-e926dc60b74e new profile for her.

When I turned her down as she started acting very "pro" she went off the rails trying to insult and such, claiming she can make all kinds of money in 30 minutes, blah blah blah. Good luck if you engage.

I thought I had replied earlier on this one when asked back in December. She is really odd and was very clingy after. Not the smartest girl, felt sorry for her more than anything. Not sure she is built for this mentally.

Was average sexually def nothing special, she liked to drink a lot and texted me later that evening from the lobby of the hotel I had gotten asking me to tell the front desk to let her in the room so she can get the magnum bottle of wine she left behind.

Wasn't cool. LOL.

**JonReremy** · 03-28-24 22:00

Originally Posted by DrSummer [View Original Post]

I was texting with her. She confirmed she is DTF, and wanted to meet immediately. I was not able to do it that day. However my communications with her led me to believe she is not a PRO, just a regular girl who is in a bad spot needing money quickly. She was somewhat clingy during the texting though. She quoted 500 per meet, I am sure she will come down, but didn't want haggle as she seems to be bit bigger than my taste based on the photos she sent (and two girls in my current rotation are better value than that). But she is not a fatty though. I was going to reach out to her at a later date, but forgot about that. I think you should give a shot and see where it goes. Report to us what happens, I would like to try her at least once and test out the goods.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...d-e926dc60b74e new profile for her.

When I turned her down as she started acting very "pro" she went off the rails trying to insult and such, claiming she can make all kinds of money in 30 minutes, blah blah blah. Good luck if you engage.

**DLawrenceChs** · 03-28-24 10:26

Originally Posted by KenshoSC [View Original Post]

How is SecretBenfits vs Seeking? I've always had great success on Seeking but it is rough currently. Would love some discussion on which is better right now. Any other suggestions?

I have had better success in passed year on secretbenefits however it has started to go down hill with more bot / scam accts and professionals. Its nice to check out both because a lot of girls only have account on one or the other.