Relationships with Massage Providers

**Sexture96** · 01-13-23 11:13

Originally Posted by Member#6054 [View Original Post]

I met a provider at a store last fall. I found her cute and attractive for an older provider. She is Chinese and speaks very little English. I connected with her on WeChat. She only provides HJs. I saw her maybe 3 times and I volunteered to take her grocery shopping. At first, she said she would never leave the store with a customer. But, one day she asked me. What surprised me was, her recall of dates of where she was, where she worked, experiences. She also clarified that she is not 48 like she told me, but is 58. She is a well preserved 58. As I got to know her, I asked her a lot of questions about why she does what she does and about her feelings about men. She is a very sweet honest married woman that hides what she does for a living from her husband and daughter in China. Then one day, she is coughing while giving me a free birthday massage. It turns out, she is sick with Covid. She begs me to help her, I take her to an outpatient clinic. She is very dramatic and believes she will soon die. Her illness clears and I spend time with her outside the parlor. She looks at me with awe. We kiss during massages. She doesn't know how to French kiss. When she does it initially, she trembles and pulls away with excitement. One thing leads to another, one day two months into the relationship, I pull her pants down and have sex with her. She absolutely loves it. After the Covid, she will not longer let me pay for anything, lunches or massages. She pays the $35 house fee twice a week. We have sex then massage. One day, she takes me out to a $90 lunch and pays for it. She tells me she loves me. As time progresses, she is a poor simple woman that has never experienced true love. I investigated her extensively and no one has ever got anything but a hand job. She has told me, she despises most men and the other women in the industry and being manipulators and trash. In getting close to her, she is fatal attraction jealous. I must be careful with any references to other women and especially masseuses. She is not violent but get very emotional and hurt. A new girl showed up at the store to work. She was younger and attractive and could speak English..

Holy sweat cream on an ice cream sammich. Whatta story bro. You did your thing and reflected.

**Bundy1976** · 07-07-22 22:58

My wife is a MT in Desmoines Iowa.

We have a great relationship. We live in Colorado but she goes back and fourth for work.

She makes a lot of money doing what she does.

It doesn't bother. She's good at what she does.

**GoodWill123** · 06-17-22 16:50

Spa addict, very well said, and thanks for being open and transparent. I too have had what you have, over 2 years. If there's anything I've learned, most of them are just as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside, and want to love and be loved just like us. Yeah there are a few manipulative girls out there, and some users, but good girls for the most part.

Originally Posted by SpaAddict99 [View Original Post]

I met a provider at a store last fall. I found her cute and attractive for an older provider. She is Chinese and speaks very little English. I connected with her on WeChat. She only provides HJs. I saw her maybe 3 times and I volunteered to take her grocery shopping. At first, she said she would never leave the store with a customer. But, one day she asked me. What surprised me was, her recall of dates of where she was, where she worked, experiences. She also clarified that she is not 48 like she told me, but is 58. She is a well preserved 58. As I got to know her, I asked her a lot of questions about why she does what she does and about her feelings about men. She is a very sweet honest married woman that hides what she does for a living from her husband and daughter in China. Then one day, she is coughing while giving me a free birthday massage. It turns out, she is sick with Covid. She begs me to help her, I take her to an outpatient clinic. She is very dramatic and believes she will soon die. Her illness clears and I spend time with her outside the parlor. She looks at me with awe. We kiss during massages. She doesn't know how to French kiss. When she does it initially, she trembles and pulls away with excitement. One thing leads to another, one day two months into the relationship, I pull her pants down and have sex with her. She absolutely loves it. After the Covid, she will not longer let me pay for anything, lunches or massages. She pays the $35 house fee twice a week. We have sex then massage. One day, she takes me out to a $90 lunch and pays for it. She tells me she loves me. As time progresses, she is a poor simple woman that has never experienced true love. I investigated her extensively and no one has ever got anything but a hand job. She has told me, she despises most men and the other women in the industry and being manipulators and trash. In getting close to her, she is fatal attraction jealous. I must be careful with any references to other women and especially masseuses. She is not violent but get very emotional and hurt. A new girl showed up at the store to work. She was younger and attractive and could speak English. She went ballistic and got the girl fired day 1 for talking to me in the back of the store. She is okay with my wife. My wife is attractive and she is worried she could wreck my home life. Therefore, she asked if I had sex with the wife. Sex with her is terrific. She claims she has never experienced anything like me and I am the love of her life. She has spent over $2,000 on me in the past 6 months. I help her wherever I can. I take her to the dentist, I read her mail. I have her bank information, access to her debit card, I set her up an Amazon account and I manage that for her. Now my problem is, this woman is fragile. She is timid and sweet. Men just love her, tip her well. 2/3 rds get hand jobs. I have a difficult time with the hand jobs. She thinks I despise her for what she does. But, I met her being a monger. She works in massage so she can support her disabled husband and pay for her daughter's college. She tells me she loves me at least twice a week. And I know women. She does love me. We get into spats occasionally. When that happens, she cannot sleep. I have seen her cry many times. We have broken up a few times. I feel terrible because of the pain it causes her. She can never break up. She says, if that happens, she cannot function and will just leave the city and probably return to China. She has no intentions of any future with me because of her belief in family. I have come to my senses and while I care deeply for her, I love my wife. So now, I have the opposite of what most men experience. She has even brought me into her inner circle, her best friend, her sister and even her mean boss who knows she most tolerate me, or her excellent masseuse will collapse. I have never caught in a lie or seen her do anything dishonest.

**Member #6054** · 05-09-22 15:02

Originally Posted by Waikikian [View Original Post]

I have found one that was all that Jasmine said! Not all are like that. Some are very loving and honest! I lived with two MMS in the Baltimore / DC area and they were perfect ladies. I think about them once in a while! And I'm sure they check the Hawaii board to see how I'm doing. I later found out that she was married. Now that's got to be a strain on a marraige! And I found out that he cannot handle being married to a provider. He did threaten me a number of times. It must be sad to think that at one time he thought he could handle marraige to a provider. Only to find out that he couldn't! I don't fool myself when it comes to marraige to a provider. I know I cannot handle it! Since she owns a Massage Parlor and provides. You know she wants her cake and eat it too! A woman can't do it and be in the business. Anyway, that's my story on that. If she is not married, then she could be nice! Just be careful Mongers!

I met a provider at a store last fall. I found her cute and attractive for an older provider. She is Chinese and speaks very little English. I connected with her on WeChat. She only provides HJs. I saw her maybe 3 times and I volunteered to take her grocery shopping. At first, she said she would never leave the store with a customer. But, one day she asked me. What surprised me was, her recall of dates of where she was, where she worked, experiences. She also clarified that she is not 48 like she told me, but is 58. She is a well preserved 58. As I got to know her, I asked her a lot of questions about why she does what she does and about her feelings about men. She is a very sweet honest married woman that hides what she does for a living from her husband and daughter in China. Then one day, she is coughing while giving me a free birthday massage. It turns out, she is sick with Covid. She begs me to help her, I take her to an outpatient clinic. She is very dramatic and believes she will soon die. Her illness clears and I spend time with her outside the parlor. She looks at me with awe. We kiss during massages. She doesn't know how to French kiss. When she does it initially, she trembles and pulls away with excitement. One thing leads to another, one day two months into the relationship, I pull her pants down and have sex with her. She absolutely loves it. After the Covid, she will not longer let me pay for anything, lunches or massages. She pays the $35 house fee twice a week. We have sex then massage. One day, she takes me out to a $90 lunch and pays for it. She tells me she loves me. As time progresses, she is a poor simple woman that has never experienced true love. I investigated her extensively and no one has ever got anything but a hand job. She has told me, she despises most men and the other women in the industry and being manipulators and trash. In getting close to her, she is fatal attraction jealous. I must be careful with any references to other women and especially masseuses. She is not violent but get very emotional and hurt. A new girl showed up at the store to work. She was younger and attractive and could speak English. She went ballistic and got the girl fired day 1 for talking to me in the back of the store. She is okay with my wife. My wife is attractive and she is worried she could wreck my home life. Therefore, she asked if I had sex with the wife. Sex with her is terrific. She claims she has never experienced anything like me and I am the love of her life. She has spent over $2,000 on me in the past 6 months. I help her wherever I can. I take her to the dentist, I read her mail. I have her bank information, access to her debit card, I set her up an Amazon account and I manage that for her. Now my problem is, this woman is fragile. She is timid and sweet. Men just love her, tip her well. 2/3 rds get hand jobs. I have a difficult time with the hand jobs. She thinks I despise her for what she does. But, I met her being a monger. She works in massage so she can support her disabled husband and pay for her daughter's college. She tells me she loves me at least twice a week. And I know women. She does love me. We get into spats occasionally. When that happens, she cannot sleep. I have seen her cry many times. We have broken up a few times. I feel terrible because of the pain it causes her. She can never break up. She says, if that happens, she cannot function and will just leave the city and probably return to China. She has no intentions of any future with me because of her belief in family. I have come to my senses and while I care deeply for her, I love my wife. So now, I have the opposite of what most men experience. She has even brought me into her inner circle, her best friend, her sister and even her mean boss who knows she most tolerate me, or her excellent masseuse will collapse. I have never caught in a lie or seen her do anything dishonest.

**NightOwl2548** · 11-30-20 10:03

Being invited to the kitchen at the back of Korean AMPs at first seemed to be a great privilege. If it's slow, they know you well, and think you are normal they will invite you back to hang out for a few hours, often towards the end of the night when they may feel safer. Usually they offer you some of their food. Theirin lies the problem. I'm not a fan of actual Asian foods, not the General Tso's stuff they make for Americans, but the stuff they eat themselves. It's always overloaded with Garlic, rotten fish juice, and always mostly "soup" based. A lot of these girls fancy themselves great cooks, while their actual output leaves much to be desired. Slimy floating chicken legs with a few overcooked vegetables floating in water with way too much garlic. Worst of all is I know one who "thinks" she knows how to make kimchi. Now I don't really like kimchi that much to begin with, but on occasion the professional store bought jars are OK when still fairly fresh and crispy despite the "off" taste of seafood and garlic. Well, I do ferment hot peppers to make sauces and know the golden rule with fermentation is to keep out all the air so anaerobic bacteria only go to work. She basically leaves the stuff out in an open air bowl to rot and it's god awful with some nasty fish concoction thrown in way stronger than what is in the commercial jars. I get this stuff over served and giant jars forced on me like Johnny Carson's Fruitcake everytime I visit and considering she is crazy and over sensitive I dare not hint I don't enjoy the concoction. I can sympathize with Scotty in Star Trek 4 when he mentions he "threw out the Klingon food packs, they were giving me a sour stomach. ".

**RoC82** · 07-11-20 10:24

Originally Posted by HokeyWolf [View Original Post]

One invites me to her home when her husband is overseas. She wants to cum and needs a 20 min missionary pounding to get off. She says her husband can't satisfy her. She doesn't charge me but wants it hard. It's almost work for me to pleasure her as I don't find her a good lover and she says she not that good.

Another MILF has me at her home. She's about 50 and pretty. She does HJ at work and won't FS at work. She's a very loud moaner and responsive lover but I pay $200 each time. Really horny once she warms up and goes on for two hours. The weird thing is she'll invite me to have dinner afterwards with her daughter and son in law. Her daughter is smoking hot. It strange to know her daughter knows I did her mom beforehand.

In each case there's no emotion among any of us, it's just a physical act.

Lucky guy.

No emotion can be good, especially if it is just for sex.

The 20 minute pound session sounds like a lot of work, but it is free.

The $200 is about standard for seeing a FS RA for 1 hour (including house fee) and lower end standard for an escort, and you are with her for about 2 hours.

I'll say you are getting a good deal.

**OldtimerMa** · 07-10-20 08:02

Originally Posted by HokeyWolf [View Original Post]

One invites me to her home when her husband is overseas. She wants to cum and needs a 20 min missionary pounding to get off. She says her husband can't satisfy her. She doesn't charge me but wants it hard. It's almost work for me to pleasure her as I don't find her a good lover and she says she not that good.

Another MILF has me at her home. She's about 50 and pretty. She does HJ at work and won't FS at work. She's a very loud moaner and responsive lover but I pay $200 each time. Really horny once she warms up and goes on for two hours. The weird thing is she'll invite me to have dinner afterwards with her daughter and son in law. Her daughter is smoking hot. It strange to know her daughter knows I did her mom beforehand.

In each case there's no emotion among any of us, it's just a physical act.

Wow, nice providers you have.

**Curious Monkey** · 02-20-20 23:32

Originally Posted by HokeyWolf [View Original Post]

One invites me to her home when her husband is overseas. She wants to cum and needs a 20 min missionary pounding to get off. She says her husband can't satisfy her. She doesn't charge me but wants it hard. It's almost work for me to pleasure her as I don't find her a good lover and she says she not that good.

Another MILF has me at her home. She's about 50 and pretty. She does HJ at work and won't FS at work. She's a very loud moaner and responsive lover but I pay $200 each time. Really horny once she warms up and goes on for two hours. The weird thing is she'll invite me to have dinner afterwards with her daughter and son in law. Her daughter is smoking hot. It strange to know her daughter knows I did her mom beforehand.

In each case there's no emotion among any of us, it's just a physical act.

Any advice how to start the conversation? My guess is to frequent their work place then start a conversation?

**HokeyWolf** · 01-28-20 19:01

One invites me to her home when her husband is overseas. She wants to cum and needs a 20 min missionary pounding to get off. She says her husband can't satisfy her. She doesn't charge me but wants it hard. It's almost work for me to pleasure her as I don't find her a good lover and she says she not that good.

Another MILF has me at her home. She's about 50 and pretty. She does HJ at work and won't FS at work. She's a very loud moaner and responsive lover but I pay $200 each time. Really horny once she warms up and goes on for two hours. The weird thing is she'll invite me to have dinner afterwards with her daughter and son in law. Her daughter is smoking hot. It strange to know her daughter knows I did her mom beforehand.

In each case there's no emotion among any of us, it's just a physical act.

**Zimmm33** · 01-03-20 23:57

Originally Posted by FranklySports [View Original Post]

Enjoy, but remember she's just doing her job.

However, for not a whole lot of extra tipping, I've gotten pretty amazing "access" as compared to other providers I've experienced. Like I joked, about 2% of her actions are indicating she's a little smitten too. I'm being smaht. Only letting the little head do the thinking Sunday through Friday. 😂.

**FranklySports** · 01-03-20 12:30

Originally Posted by Zimmm33 [View Original Post]

Been serious mongering for about six years. Had a bad crush my first year, wasted a lot of dough for almost no extras. But I did have some great flirty fun.

The past four months I've had a progressing crush on a forty plus mms. Like my first one, she makes me laugh so hard each visit. Something lacking in me needs flirting, and she nails it.

Mostly, she keeps a certain distance, a certain guard down, but occasionally a shield comes down, and it makes me crush on her even more.

I have no plans to see her outside her work. No plans to leave my wife, but I do think about her daily, A LOT. I don't know how it will end, but right now I'm enjoying the ride. And I think she is too, and not 100% just for the money. Just 98. 😃.

So, my advice is keep it light, especially if you have a SO in the mix. Have fun. And make sure that when it ends, it ends well on both sides.

Enjoy, but remember she's just doing her job.

**Zimmm33** · 01-02-20 00:00

Been serious mongering for about six years. Had a bad crush my first year, wasted a lot of dough for almost no extras. But I did have some great flirty fun.

The past four months I've had a progressing crush on a forty plus mms. Like my first one, she makes me laugh so hard each visit. Something lacking in me needs flirting, and she nails it.

Mostly, she keeps a certain distance, a certain guard down, but occasionally a shield comes down, and it makes me crush on her even more.

I have no plans to see her outside her work. No plans to leave my wife, but I do think about her daily, A LOT. I don't know how it will end, but right now I'm enjoying the ride. And I think she is too, and not 100% just for the money. Just 98. 😃.

So, my advice is keep it light, especially if you have a SO in the mix. Have fun. And make sure that when it ends, it ends well on both sides.

**SomeGuy6057** · 04-08-19 20:01

I had a brief flight with one at the end of last year to the start of this year. Started going to her shop based on a rm review. We hit it off and because of my work schedule she was sneaking me in the back door after hours. It eventually led to me being able to pick her up and back to my place over night and for a few weekends. Problem was. She was looking for a green card cement post. And thought I was an endless atm. She even made the comment one time that if I didn't marry her she would find someone else to marry. But it seemed like everytime I was out with her she ALWAYS wanted expensive gifts. The girl loved jewelry and designer hand bags and boots. I couldn't even take her through Walmart without spending $100 on her.

And of course it was a problem when I complained about it to the amount of sex I was getting. And the fact that she didn't like giving head didn't help much. Or so she said. (they're all full of shit to an extent) I eventually quit taking her calls or would just tell her I can't make it because of my work schedule. I still hear from her on wechat from time to time. But I'm afraid to go visit her as I don't want to start pissing money away again at the rate of 100 a day just to bust 1 nut a day. Then get told I need to hurry up because it's to big and she's uncomfortable. I will say her pussy did taste awfully sweet though.

**CasualMale1030** · 03-06-19 15:41

I had a year long relationship with an Asian MT, I got to play with the kitty first massage, I had never seen a pussy get so dripping wet, she was tight and tasted good. Anyway she came to my house and we fucked many times over the course of a year. She has a husband but I think the marriage is just a front for the business. Anyway, because you never know what the real backdrop is for an an asian masage girl having a relationship with an American man, enjoy the pussy, but you know it will end. Do not fall in love, you are being used, especially if they do not give up illegal massage.

**TheFarEast5** · 02-28-19 14:18

Originally Posted by Nikitin22 [View Original Post]

This has also happened to me. I have really got addicted to some massage therapists. I have went to the same therapist for tens of different times because I loved the connection between us and not the happy ending so much. How ever I have realized that they are often masters on making this so called fake connection. Off course it is good for their business if they can make lonely guys come back again.

You're correct. Some of them are masters at this. I had been doing the same thing with a gorgeous 9/10 Chinese lady. Looked 30 but was probably late 30's or even a little older. I wasn't in love but had strong feelings for her. But the more massages I got from her the more I realized either she had a bf or husband or just viewed me strictly as a client (which is fine and expected). However, I could always tell she was playing games with me. Perhaps she liked me but not in the relationship sense. I know she was playing games. And I actually love it when a hot babe does that! I would never let a fat, old, or ugly chick do that!

I didn't help that she spoke very little English and I had a hard time communicating with her. Nonetheless, when I became lonely at times she provided the much needed care and comfort only a beautiful Asian woman can provide! And I now realize she was and is, most likely, my once in a lifetime find. Thus, I had at least 15 massages by her in under 3 months and will continue to go back as long as she works there. It's truly therapeutic for me to spend an hour with her when I can. And the first time she massaged my butthole and started stroking my shaft. I felt like I was in heaven. Plus always getting to grab her ass is worth it's weight in gold to me!