Relaxology Debate

[Fast N Furious]

So any body know any of these, please tell?

[Indy Jhn11]

Ok,

Been reading this thread on the relaxology girls. Haven't done too much in the AMP and relaxology. Don't really have the asian fetish a lot of people do. There are a few very nice asian providers in the area though.

I just don't see the value in the relaxology girls versus some clubs. You can get a very nice body rub at a sc versus a "relaxology" girl. I mean, I don't think most of these ladies have extensive training in massage therapy. Some of them may have good hands, but they don't know or have the best massage technique, like an actual masseuse.

So, I'm thinking if I just want a body rub, I'll go to sc's, even though there are some cuties in the relaxology ads out there right now.

One girl in particular looks real interesting, and I'm wondering if anybody has seen her or has info. Any seniors can pm me to see who I mean.

[Honze]

I agree with much of what you said. Though, given the number of girls in the area there is not very much good or bad info on many of them. Detailed reviews are not necessary. Just short ones saying whether or not people had a good experience is fine and tells a lot. Especially when posted by more senior members.

Everyone should know YMMV when it comes to experiences. But, if a provider had two or three good or bad reviews your probability certainly goes up or down for a similar experience.

[Wis Papillion]

Well said. . .thank you!

You are absolutely right. That's why (I think) most providers are not doing the pot stirring. I have caught licensed massage people who actually live out of state posting bs about one provider or another. Its all designed to start trouble and just use scare tactics.

I'm sure that some of it is from providers but I have seen people accused of posting junk when frankly, that person just doesn't have it in their heart to even attempt that sort of bs. There are actually some providers out there who are genuinely nice people and are just trying to make a living as best as they can without getting involved in drama.

But most providers aren't (complete) idiots. They know that if you make false accusations it brings the wrong kind of attention to the forum and hurts everyone.

The innocent providers who are just trying to pay some bills and may or may not even do extras end up losing out because the whole forum is clogged with childish arguing. It gets people thinking that every poster is giving f/s to whoever hits their table. We hobbyists know that isn't true but try to tell that to the uninitiated.

Frankly I'm not sure that it affects business for the best providers that much. Their regulars know the truth and are not easily intimidated. Sure, business does shift from one provider to the next like the tides but just because one day is slow does NOT mean that it was because of a stupid post. Slow days can and do happen even when the drama is at a minimum.

Smart providers bank the money when the days are good and draw down on that when they are just sitting around waiting for the phone to ring.

I've talked to providers who were pissed because of some childish post but two days later they are right back to a full calendar. Like I said, traffic goes up and down for a lot more factors than just some lousy post. The weather is really bad, the weather is really nice, tax returns are in or late, whatever. I would imagine that the general state of the economy may have some overall effect.

So, IMHO only. I equate the rabble rousers to terrorists. Yes, terrorists. No, they are not killing people but they are taking down the innocent along with the 'guilty' because of their scare tactics. Collateral damage? Oops, too bad for you. That's the essence of terrorism. They just want to scare people into changing their behavior but the overall real tactical effect is usually not that great.

Make sure you do two things:

1) Flag posts that just don't belong.

2) Send a 911 on posts that are blatant harassment. They will take stuff down pretty fast when its clearly just being abusive.

Don't know how to do a 911 complaint? Look in the help/abuse section.

[Batter Up]

It is really infuriating watching the drama on CL with all the 'relaxation' ladies. I can not and will not even begin to speculate on who starts it and who the main posters are. It does strike me as incredibly foolhardy, however, is that all that takes place is the raising of attention and the more attention that is raised the higher the risks are. I would suspect that most guys do not want to go out and relax if the risks reach too high a level; and they certainly are there right now.

You are absolutely right. That's why (I think) most providers are not doing the pot stirring. I have caught licensed massage people who actually live out of state posting bs about one provider or another. Its all designed to start trouble and just use scare tactics.

I'm sure that some of it is from providers but I have seen people accused of posting junk when frankly, that person just doesn't have it in their heart to even attempt that sort of bs. There are actually some providers out there who are genuinely nice people and are just trying to make a living as best as they can without getting involved in drama.

But most providers aren't (complete) idiots. They know that if you make false accusations it brings the wrong kind of attention to the forum and hurts everyone.

The innocent providers who are just trying to pay some bills and may or may not even do extras end up losing out because the whole forum is clogged with childish arguing. It gets people thinking that every poster is giving f/s to whoever hits their table. We hobbyists know that isn't true but try to tell that to the uninitiated.

Frankly I'm not sure that it affects business for the best providers that much. Their regulars know the truth and are not easily intimidated. Sure, business does shift from one provider to the next like the tides but just because one day is slow does NOT mean that it was because of a stupid post. Slow days can and do happen even when the drama is at a minimum.

Smart providers bank the money when the days are good and draw down on that when they are just sitting around waiting for the phone to ring.

I've talked to providers who were pissed because of some childish post but two days later they are right back to a full calendar. Like I said, traffic goes up and down for a lot more factors than just some lousy post. The weather is really bad, the weather is really nice, tax returns are in or late, whatever. I would imagine that the general state of the economy may have some overall effect.

So, IMHO only. I equate the rabble rousers to terrorists. Yes, terrorists. No, they are not killing people but they are taking down the innocent along with the 'guilty' because of their scare tactics. Collateral damage? Oops, too bad for you. That's the essence of terrorism. They just want to scare people into changing their behavior but the overall real tactical effect is usually not that great.

Make sure you do two things:

1) Flag posts that just don't belong.

2) Send a 911 on posts that are blatant harassment. They will take stuff down pretty fast when its clearly just being abusive.

Don't know how to do a 911 complaint? Look in the help/abuse section.

[Batter Up]

It makes the area very murky on who is worth seeing and who is not. And, there really is not much info on any review board on most of these girls. Too bad I don't live a little closer to Louisville I would clear it up some. I am coming to try at least one of them out next week, but can't make up my mind which to try. It is a bit of a drive for a strike out.

All of this represents my opinion only.

I've been on this board for a long time, a lot longer than this userid and well before the domain change as I usually change my login if/when I move to another state. Jackson provides a great resource and I definitely appreciate that its been here all this time.

But honestly, you aren't always doing a provider or even potential clients a favor with a good review. Why? Because it creates the expectation that you will get the same experience or even close to it. Reviews are far from being a guarantee and always remember. YMMV.

Why? Here's a couple of reasons that come to mind why a positive review doesn't mean you won't strike out.

Could be a fake review
Could be a real but exaggerated review
That client saw that provider 3x per month for the last 3 months
She just likes the guy
She had a day of guys who smell bad and he didn't
She was in a good mood that day/hour
Oops, the poster forgot to mention that he tipped $$$ because he didn't want to get accused of overpaying

Once I get there all those things may be different. Who knows, maybe the last guy insulted her and she is far from being in a good mood. Maybe I'm mean, sweaty, stinky, or all of the above.

Providers often feel like a detailed positive review puts a lot of pressure on them to provide an act or level of service to every jablone that walks in the door. Most providers don't give the same level of service to everyone and consider what happens in a session a private exchange between two consenting adults.

I've known providers who, if they track a review back to a specific guy, will never take another call from him. Not every girl likes feeling like she is on display like a sirloin at WallyWorld.

If a provider has ever had a really bad experience because of a review, when guys start off by mentioning some review they saw...well, the conversation may not go well from there.

Unfortunately the most detailed reviews can bring attention from my Uncle LEO that might not otherwise exist. Sure, he isn't stupid and has a pretty good idea of what's going on where. But like the saying "Better to let them think you're a fool than open your mouth and prove it". It's sometimes better to just let Uncle LEO guess a little bit. Uncle LEO doesn't like to strike out either so any pointers to a 'sure thing' make his job that much easier.

Providers who have been doing this for any time at all have pretty much seen & heard it all. Guys who pay short for whatever reason, want a discount for a good review, guys who are mean or rude, guys who want a verbal agreement to a specific act, bad hygiene, whatever. Don't ever forget that your friendly neighborhood provider is a person too. If you are easy to get along with she is a lot more likely to be the same! In this hobby sometimes only nice guys get to finish at all. <G>

What does all this blah blah mean? If you want to post a detailed review, make sure its ok with your provider as some providers will welcome them. And always, YMMV.

But as for negative reviews? This is absolutely the place to post about scams, ripoffs, robs, crazies, fakes, etc. Safety and ripoff avoidance are always paramount so don't hesitate to post that stuff if it is true.

[Honze]

I visited your fine area recently and stopped by E-town and visited Bella. Very nice experience. She is cute, petite and in nice shape. Very friendly. The apartment was clean and area felt safe. Nice medium hard and soft massage. I was very happy and relaxed when I left. Set me back $100 total and was worth every penny. Will repeat, I only wish I lived a little closer.

[Honze]

It is pretty crazy. I can't believe there is so much jealousy on that list.

Realistically the "therapeutic" massage girls should not even be after the same clients. What it seems like though is many of the legit massage girls like to make posts with sexy pictures and talk to sucker in some of the guys who would not normally go to them. Then these same girls get mad when the "other" massage girls take their scam business away from them.

It makes the area very murky on who is worth seeing and who is not. And, there really is not much info on any review board on most of these girls. Too bad I don't live a little closer to Louisville I would clear it up some. I am coming to try at least one of them out next week, but can't make up my mind which to try. It is a bit of a drive for a strike out.

[Jake 4119]

It is really infuriating watching the drama on CL with all the 'relaxation' ladies. I can not and will not even begin to speculate on who starts it and who the main posters are. It does strike me as incredibly foolhardy, however, is that all that takes place is the raising of attention and the more attention that is raised the higher the risks are. I would suspect that most guys do not want to go out and relax if the risks reach too high a level; and they certainly are there right now.

[Englishman40]

I just wanted to say hello to everyone. I have been living in Lousiville for a year. I'm involved with several providers for service, but like my assortments too.

I will share more later. I enjoy reading and being informed.

EnglishJohn

[Honze]

http://louisville.backpage.com/Femal...Ad?oid=1120316

I searched around and can't seem to find anything said about her. I don't get many opportunities to get away and have some fun. Next week is one of those rare opportunities and I was thinking of making a little road trip. Evansville is a little slow.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[Wild Catter]

If you are looking for body rub and happy ending, try Brittney. She is a little hottie not many extra but some. PM if needed

What is Britney's number.

[Frontandback]

I just returned from seeing Jozel (posting on CL today) and I am very happy. She is really pretty and dressed nice. I will go back.

I left with a nice handshake and a smile on my face.

http://louisville.craigslist.org/ths/1073075352.html

This is my first report but I hope to contribute more later.

[OralLover46]

If you are looking for body rub and happy ending, try Brittney. She is a little hottie not many extra but some. PM if needed

[Woody Johnson]

Anybody have info on Lori who advertises on CL therapuetic?

PM if you wish,and thanks in advance.