Massage Parlor Reports

[BlueSkyBlue]

Resolution comes when you start to talk about it.

Just give somebody a chance to talk about things, sometimes the first step to helping them just be patient and listen.

Really you don't have anything to do with it, they have to fix their own problems.

But everybody sometimes needs a kick in the ass to get moving, all you can do is be there to help but ultimately they have to figure this out for themselves.

[DeadHeadChevy]

Yeah man I'm very happy you support him and talk to him. I would do the same to my siblings and closest friends. It will take him a self realization to the current state. If it's been going on for years, He will need to break some old habits and create new healthy habit loops. Man if he's legally divorce just help him find a good local / foreign chick to be partner for a lifetime. I remember I visited an island in the Philippines I passed by a town park where I found old folks partying hard with their young wives in the middle of a basketball court all of them look happy and having a time of their life. That shit was epic hahaha.

I know a Massage Girl, very sweet, good looking and everything you would want in a woman, we keep in touch on WeChat. She proposed to me (at first), and yes a marriage proposal, some time ago. It was basically to help her get a green card or as they called it a "identity" meaning citizenship.

I knew up front that there would be lots of "free sex" for the arrangement, and she was very good to. I also know that she would most likely continue to be a Massage Girl, offering FS, so emotional attachment would probably be non-existent or minimal at best.

I have a situation where I can't help her in that way and told her.

She asked if I knew anyone that would entertain the offer, and she even offered to pay for the arrangement. Not sure what kind of money we're talking here.

I told her about my brother and she was really pushing the idea.

I asked him about it, he kind of shrugged it off like it was nothing but did say he would probably do it, but that he had nothing to offer her, he is unemployed and has been for some time. Not sure if he grasped the idea that she would be a working girl, but I think he was just thinking of it as an arrangement and that's it, knowing that sex would most likely be included.

I'm not sure how exactly that would work out, for the both of them. I didn't push the issue, because to be 100% honest, she is way too much for him to handle. And the fact that if they did hook up and emotionally attached and they stayed married, I banged her at least 8 times, and that would add some weirdness to the mix.

She also has a daughter in China, so there is that as well, a crazy situation to say the least, didn't want to go down that road.

[DeadHeadChevy]

Deadhead Chevy I don't want to repeat everything you wrote but just consider this.

Everybody's faced suffering in life.

Everybody's path in life is different.

Your concern for your brother is admirable;

Thank you, for your and everyone else's thoughts and opinions. Not really sure what if anything that I will do. Maybe just let him sail his own course and see how it goes. But that seems to me like watching a train wreck in slow motion.

I don't want to just thrust this upon him and make things worse by any account, that would not be cool.

I know how I felt coming out of a divorce and the first time getting laid by someone other then your ex, it was exhilarating and reinforced me that there is so much more out there then what your used to. Hoping just getting a little strange action for him would have the same or similar effect.

I will update if it happens to let you guys know what course I took if any.

Thanks again, until next time.

[Ryan1979]

Not to be confused with La Jolla Ocean spa, is on the second floor next to John's Tailor. A couple of cuties there, one I recognized from the now defunct A-spa.

[RChangDatyKing]

Lily on RR has some of th best big naturals I've seen in awhile. Nice, full, firm. Pricing is reasonable and she actually gives a nice rub.

Thanks for the feedback on Lily. Her pictures do look good. I thought about scheduling with her, but I remembered seeing reports about her being detached, and although she goes topless she allows limited mutual touching / boob play. The report was probably when she first starting out. I noticed she now listed fetish friendly in her ad. Maybe she is monger friendlier now.

[SdfitLife]

In my quest for large natural breasts I decided to try Cindy earlier this week to see how close I was about guessing her breasts size. LOL.

I didn't get to motorboat them, let alone get her to take off her shirt, but I did got some UTC play with them. Those babies got to be large Bs or C cups. She didn't undo her bra, so I didn't push it too much. She had on a low cut bra and was okay with me taking her breasts out of the bra. They felt soft and natural and her nipples got hard quick with me playing with them.

Cindy is a very nice lady. For me she was average in looks, but her personality makes her fun to be with. She is probably in her mid 30's, an average body, with some belly fat. She has good massage skills while I was on my stomach. After about 20 minutes or so into the massage the light teasing of the boys and junior starts. When junior was fully happy the teasing got more intense, and she started with nice slow strokes of junior. It was an excellent build up before the flip. A nice and thorough clean up of my back and legs with a warm towel before the flip. Junior was at full attention on the flip and she started to smile and commented about how happy junior was. She asked if she could take care of junior before finishing the massage. Of course I said yes. LOL. Cindy spoke good English and has a great sense of humor.

Her ending was excellent. A mix of long strokes of junior, playing with the boys and my nipples. She took her time and didn't rush trying to get me to cum. She was okay with OTC roaming of her butt, legs, and breasts. When she started letting out soft moans was when I reached under her shirt to play with her breasts and nipples. In no time after I was allowed access to them I exploded all over her warm hands. She kept her clothes on as stated, but I didn't push it about having her take them off as it was my first visit with her. She didn't mind the UTC touching, but I'm not sure if this was a YMMV situation.

I left there happy and will probably repeat with Cindy again.

Lily on RR has some of th best big naturals I've seen in awhile. Nice, full, firm. Pricing is reasonable and she actually gives a nice rub.

[Wzrd94]

Yeah man I'm very happy you support him and talk to him. I would do the same to my siblings and closest friends. It will take him a self realization to the current state. If it's been going on for years, He will need to break some old habits and create new healthy habit loops. Man if he's legally divorce just help him find a good local / foreign chick to be partner for a lifetime. I remember I visited an island in the Philippines I passed by a town park where I found old folks partying hard with their young wives in the middle of a basketball court all of them look happy and having a time of their life. That shit was epic hahaha.

Yeah, he has had shit thrown at him for probably the last 5-6 years, don't want to fuck up his life anymore or give home false hope.

I do, like you stated, keep in touch with him, let him vent out his frustrations and such. I think for him, it's very therapeutic, even though I hear the same shit repeated for hours on end.

He does have an addictive personality and that really is my main concern, creating a new vice that was not there before.

[BlueSkyBlue]

Deadhead Chevy I don't want to repeat everything you wrote but just consider this.

Everybody's faced suffering in life.

Everybody's path in life is different.

Your concern for your brother is admirable in wanting to help somebody recover from pain and suffering, it's a sign of compassion.

Whatever is hurting him inside ultimately he has to get in touch with those feelings and if his path to healing and recovery is physical interaction, he can find a provider to take care of him

But if his true healing comes from emotional connection and relationship, no provider in the world is going to help.

Start by having the conversation with him and getting him to explain to you what his pain and problems , one answer is to get him to see for him self that maybe going to a parlor and experiencing the "pleasures of the flesh" might be helpful.

Have the conversation about what he's really missing or wants or needing in life and see where he goes from there. I suspected just going to a massage parlor you know it’s self isn’t going to change the day-to-day realities of life .

Everybody has their own Life but basically the idea that he should go out and fuck his brains out is pretty good advice for most people.

At least once in a while 😊

[DeadHeadChevy]

I have heard stories where uncles or fathers took sons to brothels as a "coming of age" event. Mostly this was in places where prostitution was legal / socially accepted. The range in reaction from the guys was that it was great to it was traumatic. Hard to say how your bro would feel.

True, though I don't think he would be on the traumatic side, but it may have the reverse effect then intended.

But I get point. This is why I reached out to get a better place idea before fucking everything up.

[DeadHeadChevy]

It all depends how he is towards on things like these. In other words, if he needs to gain confidence this won't be a good idea of taking him to a AMP because he may use this as a validation or once he get started on visiting he might get hook into it and make it a hobby as well which is not good for him financially and improving his life to get better after the divorce. One really good advice bro is always talk to him and always check on him if how he is doing. Things like this means a lot. Also if he reads / listen book I would reccomend him a book / audiobool called "can't hurt me by david goggins" bad ass dude.

Yeah, he has had shit thrown at him for probably the last 5-6 years, don't want to fuck up his life anymore or give home false hope.

I do, like you stated, keep in touch with him, let him vent out his frustrations and such. I think for him, it's very therapeutic, even though I hear the same shit repeated for hours on end.

He does have an addictive personality and that really is my main concern, creating a new vice that was not there before.

[DeadHeadChevy]

I would take him out to a bar for drinks instead. Maybe a place where there are lots of hotties during happy hour. Make small talks and comment about the pretty girls at the bar and see what he says. See if he engages in talks about the girls there. Ask him about how things are with his female friend. If he doesn't really respond when already in a fun environment and is just so depressed he might not even be open to hobbying.

Personally, I don't think introducing a family member to hobbying is a good idea especially your brother who sounds like is already in a funk. You are already helping him out financially so he may not have the funds to do this on a regular basis. What if he is introduced to it and becomes hooked? How is he going to fund the habit? He has his kids to take care of already.

Just my 2 cents.

Drinking and / or going to a bar is not an option for him, for legal reasons, but normally wouldn't be a bad idea. Several DUI's, though years ago, but still.

The problem with going to a bar where he lives is finding one that has a high caliber of woman, many of the bars and clubs around him are total shit shows.

Yeah, the getting hooked part, not sure how I would handle that, to be perfectly honest. Don't want to create an addiction especially one like this. It's bad enough for myself, let alone supporting another, LOL.

[DeadHeadChevy]

Here are my 2 cents:

I would first chat with him about "mongering" during a causal conversation and test out how he thinks about this "hobby". Some guys want to keep this "hobby" to himself especially from family members. My brother and I talked about this hobby and latest "news" all the time, but neither of us admit that we actually "monger".

I am not sure how well you know this provider. I would be afraid whether this provider would provide good experience to him. For working girls, I have zero trust on them and YMMV.

If he is open to talk openly to you about mongering, I would go with him to AMP and have fun together (Separate room) and tell the mamasan and girls that you take care of the bill. Then talk about the experience afterwards. Even the experience is bad, I think having that "common talk" is fun and relaxing for him.

This provider is a 1 girl operation as far as I know, never have seen another girl or read reviews with another name. I could be wrong though. Also no mammasan.

I get your point on the trust issue, makes sense. We have "talked" about current events involving AMP's but still not 100% sure how he would feel going to one himself.

If I could confirm there is another girl working, going together wouldn't be a bad idea if he is up for it.

[DeadHeadChevy]

Are you trying to make him think the provider wants to bang him? That could get messy if you already think hes going to get attached. I'd be straight up with him, let him know you got a girl who provides good service and you would like to treat him to knock him out of his funk.

I would hope he wouldn't fall for her, but his ex has basically ripped his balls off and emasculated him, he's just so far beaten I don't think he sees it clearly, maybe he does, depression is a ***** and does crazy shit.

[DeadHeadChevy]

I would ask him if he wants one before giving money to the AMP on his behalf. He may be crept out by the idea, worried about getting an STD or being arrested, etc.

I also don't know that it would lift his spirits because it might make him feel that he's such a loser the only way a girl would have sex with him is if she's paid to do it.

I'm pretty sure he would be fine with the arrangement, that is if the provider would go for it. I'm not sure if she would, if it were arranged in advance, but if was a walk in customer with cash in hand, I don't see why she would refuse.

My concern is that I would create a monster or him being in his state, may find her attractive (which she is) and fall for her. When he describes his "ideal" woman, she fits most of his wants.

Thanks for the input. Still pondering.

[VPence70]

Any FS AMP in Oceanside?