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[Raige614]

You really can't compare the Albany area to those two. Lot less disposable hobby money here than down in the rotten apple.

There is absolutely no comparison. In the area of disposable income, quality of providers. And in so many other areas. No comparison. Not even close.

[Cetacean]

Chas Check your PMs.

I would say addiction to opiates is a tad worse than shoes LOL. But, we all know we are not in the safest hobby available. I recently took up fly fishing (seriously caught 5 Brookies) and rarely see new girls because I'm disappointed 90% of the time. I'm growing older and maintain contact with two UTR ladies and Harley who was just accused of thievery, doubts. I think this sport should be legal, they don't call it the worlds oldest profession frivolously. Seriously, the only one I pine over is Brooke from Troy, a small blonde with tiny tiitties and a monkey on her back. Stay safe boys.

[Hobby1750]

https://www.eros.com/new_york/albany...3066.htm?cat=1

Carrie, (646) XXX-0682. She's amazing. She's somewhat older, but super professional, and extremely sexy. Carrie is an excellent provider to conduct your initiation.

She's a traveler, but visits the area often. She's in town this week. If you're a newbie, I highly recommend seeing her. She has a somewhat husky voice, but don't be thrown off by it. She's all woman and loves her job. I can't rave enough about Carrie, and wish we had more high quality providers like her.

One note of caution, don't ever talk sex with a provider before activities begin. You don't talk, you just do.

Call her when ready and make your appointment. She'll give you the room number once you get in the hotel. She's very cautious with new people. Walk in, say hello, immediately put the money down, then start taking out your cock / undressing.

Escorts are the opposite of "me too" - exposing your cock puts them at ease. "Okay, he's not a cop. ".

Have fun.

And welcome to the club.

[Vito9262]

Playing devil's advocate here for a second: How is an addiction to illegal drugs and having sex with a hobbyist for $ to support that habit any different than the house frau addicted to shoes or dresses or purses or clothes or the salon (or all of the above all at once) and marrying a guy who can support all that conspicuous consumption any different?

Yeah, sure, much of what's behind door #1 is not socially accepted while what is behind door #2 is, but that doesn't make it much different or any better. At least with a pro you know where you stand.

Chas — Check your PMs.

[Matt574]

Playing devil's advocate here for a second: How is an addiction to illegal drugs and having sex with a hobbyist for $ to support that habit any different than the house frau addicted to shoes or dresses or purses or clothes or the salon (or all of the above all at once) and marrying a guy who can support all that conspicuous consumption any different?

Yeah, sure, much of what's behind door #1 is not socially accepted while what is behind door #2 is, but that doesn't make it much different or any better. At least with a pro you know where you stand.

Have you ever known anyone with a crack or heroin addiction, especially the latter, whether they were in this business or not? I think if you did you would answer your own question. They are incapable of functioning and their entire existence, every waking moment without any exaggeration, is all about feeding the habit to the point of abandoning everything, kids, families, careers, dignity, and frequently putting themselves in dangerous situations to satisfy that need. Complete and total human degradation with death a frequent result. On this board we have commented on providers who met an early demise to their addictions over the course of many years. Our dollars contribute to that end. I fail to find anything but the most superficial comparison with supporting a shopaholic. But regardless, this discussion came about because of a post from a newbie who was looking to get into this business and the advice given was to avoid it altogether for all the reasons previously provided.

[Hobby1750]

Carrie, (646) XXX-0682. She's amazing. She's somewhat older, but super professional, and extremely sexy. Carrie is an excellent provider to conduct your initiation.

She's a traveler, but visits the area often. She's in town this week. If you're a newbie, I highly recommend seeing her. She has a somewhat husky voice, but don't be thrown off by it. She's all woman and loves her job. I can't rave enough about Carrie, and wish we had more high quality providers like her.

One note of caution, don't ever talk sex with a provider before activities begin. You don't talk, you just do.

Call her when ready and make your appointment. She'll give you the room number once you get in the hotel. She's very cautious with new people. Walk in, say hello, immediately put the money down, then start taking out your cock / undressing.

Escorts are the opposite of "me too" - exposing your cock puts them at ease. "Okay, he's not a cop. ".

Have fun.

And welcome to the club.

[Fubar57]

I agree that it is an addiction and difficult to quit. However, I find it a manageable addiction and it is possible to still maintain a normal life. There are a lot of addictions out there in addition to the the various drugs. I find myself addicted to exercise, can't go more than a couple days without strenuous exercise. I assume that most serious runners are in the same boat- it is probably the endorphin rush that one gets afterword. On another note, I am glad that you raised the issue regarding the quality of providers in the capital region. I find the quality here among the lowest. In fact, I rarely see escorts in the capital region. I am amazed by the glowing reviews many of these women get and I am very puzzled. Are these reviewers shills? Have these reviewers never seen what I available in the rest of the world or even nearby in NYC or Montreal?

You really can't compare the Albany area to those two. Lot less disposable hobby money here than down in the rotten apple.

[Fubar57]

Playing devil's advocate here for a second: How is an addiction to illegal drugs and having sex with a hobbyist for $ to support that habit any different to the house frau addicted to shoes or dresses or purses or clothes or the salon (or all of the above all at once) and marrying a guy who can support all that conspicuous consumption any different?

Yeah, sure, much of what's behind door #1 is not socially accepted while what is behind door #2 is, but that doesn't make it much different or any better. At least with a pro you know where you stand.

A lot of the gals around here might be semi-pros.

A pro is on top of her game in all areas.

[Chasbukowski]

Playing devil's advocate here for a second: How is an addiction to illegal drugs and having sex with a hobbyist for $ to support that habit any different than the house frau addicted to shoes or dresses or purses or clothes or the salon (or all of the above all at once) and marrying a guy who can support all that conspicuous consumption any different?

Yeah, sure, much of what's behind door #1 is not socially accepted while what is behind door #2 is, but that doesn't make it much different or any better. At least with a pro you know where you stand.

[GregLl]

I completely hear you and I think we are probably close to age. I especially like what you wrote, " Sorry, but some of these women who have been spoken about glowingly here and elsewhere I have wanted to take a radioactive exposure shower a la Silkwood after seeing. " There has never been an especially good selection of providers in the Cap Region in the 15 years or so that I have been here and the last few years have been exceptionally bad. Providers who would starve from lack of business if they were in LA, San Diego, the Bay Area, Houston, or several dozen other places..

I agree that it is an addiction and difficult to quit. However, I find it a manageable addiction and it is possible to still maintain a normal life. There are a lot of addictions out there in addition to the the various drugs. I find myself addicted to exercise, can't go more than a couple days without strenuous exercise. I assume that most serious runners are in the same boat- it is probably the endorphin rush that one gets afterword. On another note, I am glad that you raised the issue regarding the quality of providers in the capital region. I find the quality here among the lowest. In fact, I rarely see escorts in the capital region. I am amazed by the glowing reviews many of these women get and I am very puzzled. Are these reviewers shills? Have these reviewers never seen what I available in the rest of the world or even nearby in NYC or Montreal?

[Raige614]

Guess I never looked at it that way. That's definitely a real eye opener. Thank you guys for the advice. Really appreciate it.

Whatever you decide to do-at least now you know what you're up against. "Forewarned is forearmed. ".

[YungBuck06]

No joking here, many have lost everything they ever had to this "hobby". Families, friends, and fortunes. They didn't realize it when they first got into it but then couldn't stop. It's extremely common, probably more common than those who are "casual" mongers. That is one reason why I laugh at mongers who treat providers like crap because they have chemical addictions. So many mongers are in the same situation, they just don't ingest chemicals but otherwise they are just the other side of the addiction coin. They just can't or won't admit it to themselves. It's the same all over the world. Rooms filled with guys trying to stop. And let's all admit it, it's a seedy business with direct participation in the dregs of society and it's a near certainty that anyone providing is doing so out of some personal misery and desperation (literal slavery in many cases). So YungBuck06, imagine someone handing you a syringe, it's close to the same thing, and just walk away.

Guess I never looked at it that way. That's definitely a real eye opener. Thank you guys for the advice. Really appreciate it.

[Matt574]

I think we can all agree on the dangers and pitfalls of the game. I hope one day there will be a discussion pertaining to how / why guys who are not single.

(In relationships with or without vows) choose this life. I would find that particularly enlightening and I'm certain I'd learn a great deal from it.

That is a long a complex topic and I am sure A2 would prefer we took that discussion offline. I know I have posted too much around the topic here.

[Matt574]

I dunno about addict or junkie. I just thought it to be a good way to have sexual releases until I find someone to date in a more traditional way. It's not easy, you know. Some of these "regular" women play games worse that those in the hobby, and they are waaaaaaay harder to meet (AND MORE EXPENSIVE FOR LESS OUTPUT). My second ex wife left me more in debt than any prostitute could have. Given the amount and lawyer fees, I could have spent it all on some high-class, hot providers for years.

Self release gets boring after a while, and at my advanced age I need a sexy woman to help the process along. That's all. You'll probably say that's what I tell myself to justify it, but really when you're single, alone, not having any luck meeting someone and pretty discouraged, and your ex still pops in because her kids chose to live with me, sometimes a good BBBJ eases the misery.

I think it's an addiction when you'll do anyone and anything to get off. Sorry, but some of these women who have been spoken about glowingly here and elsewhere I have wanted to take a radioactive exposure shower a la Silkwood after seeing. Ugh!

Great discussion, though.

I completely hear you and I think we are probably close to age. I especially like what you wrote, " Sorry, but some of these women who have been spoken about glowingly here and elsewhere I have wanted to take a radioactive exposure shower a la Silkwood after seeing. " There has never been an especially good selection of providers in the Cap Region in the 15 years or so that I have been here and the last few years have been exceptionally bad. Providers who would starve from lack of business if they were in LA, San Diego, the Bay Area, Houston, or several dozen other places.

I would not say that every person who gets into this business is an addict. But many, many are and sometimes they don't know it until they start doing it and then find they cannot stop. I would not / could not determine if someone was an addict or not nor would I care. But I would say that the points about this being a truly sleazy, gutter business is dead accurate no matter what the individual's psychological make-up and by participating in the business we are actively and knowingly engaged in prolonging the misery of others. Many of us justify it by saying "if not me, then it would be the next monger" but that is fundamentally dishonest when you boil it down. As noted, most providers have some sort of chemical addiction (many never had a chance in the world to begin with) and we take advantage of that fact to get our rocks off. Could go on about all the providers who have OD'd and how can we know it wasn't our dollar that pushed them over the edge. But the point is even if we are not addicts we are still taking advantage of addictions so we can stick our cocks into a wet hole and get off.

So when someone like YungBuck asks about who would be a good provider for a newbie I got to ask him if he really understands what goes on and does he really want to get into the gutter or does he want to walk away now.

I will get off my high horse now.

[Chasbukowski]

In some odd way, it's reassuring to hear others also admit they're an addict to the hobby. I'm not crazy. Nor alone. Others get it.

I've warned friends. I've told them to stay away. "Flesh meth" is the strongest addiction. The oldest drug in the world. The most powerful. Short of castration, there's no breaking this addiction. There's no escape.

All you can do is limit the damage it causes. And try not to be stupid.

The women are addicted to the easy money. The men to the easy pussy.

I love having prostitutes in my life, and am grateful for the hobby. But I recognize there's no going back. Once you enter the hobby, it takes you over. You're now a sex zombie.

We may be viewed as relatively normal, law-abiding, contributing members of society. But we know it's a facade. We know what we are. We're sex junkies.

I dunno about addict or junkie. I just thought it to be a good way to have sexual releases until I find someone to date in a more traditional way. It's not easy, you know. Some of these "regular" women play games worse that those in the hobby, and they are waaaaaaay harder to meet (AND MORE EXPENSIVE FOR LESS OUTPUT). My second ex wife left me more in debt than any prostitute could have. Given the amount and lawyer fees, I could have spent it all on some high-class, hot providers for years.

Self release gets boring after a while, and at my advanced age I need a sexy woman to help the process along. That's all. You'll probably say that's what I tell myself to justify it, but really when you're single, alone, not having any luck meeting someone and pretty discouraged, and your ex still pops in because her kids chose to live with me, sometimes a good BBBJ eases the misery.

I think it's an addiction when you'll do anyone and anything to get off. Sorry, but some of these women who have been spoken about glowingly here and elsewhere I have wanted to take a radioactive exposure shower a la Silkwood after seeing. Ugh!

Great discussion, though.