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[MissPiggy]

Ya. She's' around in fits and starts. Besides updates on her escortstacey website and only fans site, I've seen her posting so she's' definitely still active. Judging from her content it looks like she's mostly focusing on one guy.

Hasn't been any activity since the end of April.

[Homey D]

She is on SB most every day.

I'm not sure that online status indicator is accurate. I've known other providers with inactive profiles that are shown as 'on line now'. As with many of these sites, they want to appear to be more active than they are. I know the Erotic Monkey is more reliable because the girls get an Active ribbon for 24 hours after each time they log in, but it expires after that, so if that aren't logging in to them, the flag will turn off. When I wrote to them to delete the account of a Newark provider because she died, it took them about 6 months to mark her as inactive. Of course, 'inactive' is an understatement for a dead girl. All in all, the other thing you need to know are which sites are live and which are parasitical. Megapersonals, KittyAds, and this place are live. The girls post there when they are available, and they roll out of site if they don't report or bump their ads. The parasite sites scrape the live sites, but it's important to look for a scrape date. Otherwise, you are operating from old news. I don't know how all of the sites work. I still miss Backpage. It still had its problems, but the real ads to spam ratio was better than what's cropped up, and if you were familiar with a provider, you could just look to see if she was advertising as available.

One last thing, if a site has an app and the provider just happens to have it open in the background, as long as she uses her phone, she will show as active, when all that is happening is she (or someone; let's be honest here) is using her phone. In the end, I wouldn't trust SB's status.

[MorganT]

I was thinking the same, today. Haven't seen any ads or anything from her lately. Maybe she's enjoying her success with OF and Snapchat and her website. Sent her website to a guy today.

She is on SB most every day.

[Homey D]

I was thinking the same, today. Haven't seen any ads or anything from her lately. Maybe she's enjoying her success with OF and Snapchat and her website. Sent her website to a guy today.

I saw Stacey post an ad yesterday or the day before.

[Homey D]

Anybody seen or heard from Stacey lately?

Ya. She's' around in fits and starts. Besides updates on her escortstacey website and only fans site, I've seen her posting so she's' definitely still active. Judging from her content it looks like she's mostly focusing on one guy.

[PPJones]

Anybody seen or heard from Stacey lately?

I was thinking the same, today. Haven't seen any ads or anything from her lately. Maybe she's enjoying her success with OF and Snapchat and her website. Sent her website to a guy today.

[MissPiggy]

Anybody seen or heard from Stacey lately?

[Shampoo55]

Misti Merlot.

🍷127825;127826;It's me, Misti Merlot 🍷127825;127853;.

856-279-0155.

I'm scheduling late into the evening! So, are you a night owl too? Want to spend time with me tonight? I'll make sure you start your week with a smile 😁 Don't wait, text me and let's make a plan to meet 😝128539;128525;129392;.

If you are looking for a woman who's healthy, in great shape, and who wants to make you happy. You've found the right one! No bait and switch here! What you see is what you get! 🍦127853;129473;128521;127825;127826;.

I offer in home hosting services so expect to be comfortable and relaxed while I take care of you! Need a relaxing massage? I offer deep tissue and hot stone as well as a basic Chakra cleansing.

Or maybe you're comfortable chilling in your favorite chair. Well, would you prefer to stay home and check out my content? I have photos and videos that I'm positive will please you.

Is texting your thing? Would you like to tell me what excites you and explain in great detail what you'd like to do to me? We can exchange ideas or chat about what excites us both!

I hope something peaks your interest. If I did, don't wait, send me a text and we can make some plans.

Activities this service provider may enjoy.

Breast relief / RussianDeep throatFace sittingFantasy outfits (on request) Girlfriend experience (GFE) Intercourse. OralIntercourse. Vaginal (FS) Kissing. Closed lipsLunch / dinner datesMassage. SensualMassage. TherapeuticOral. CIMOral. Receiving (DATY) Oral. Without condom (BBBJ) StripteaseWater sports. GivingWill entertain couplesWill entertain women.

She is in NJ. She advert in STG in DE so I'm sharing in DE. Pictures are 7 years old?

Met up for a date. $$hr First her age in the ad states 41 you need to add 10 years, hostess out of her house in a bedroom. The minute you enter the room the clock starts, she wanted to have a smoke and some small talk. After the smoke I asked "am I on the clock?" YES! So we agreed to start with a massage I was waiting for her to also massage my private area. Didn't happen. We move to BBBJ as advert. "oh no I don't do it that way covered" Her body is like a 50 nice mature body, not heavy slim. So I was looking forwood towards the BJ which put me in a downer. So now I know any FS will be covered (the GFE) in the ad must be a typo. We do cg it was nice. Also I should mention someone else is in the house too. One time Misti said her roommate would knock on the door and give a ten minute notice. A different time Misti mention "he" will knock on the door and give a 10 minute notice. Now if Misti does not responded I guess someone come rushing in to check on her. Misti stated she just started doing this, if she gets a real job she may only do people she has seem.

My take away is if the donation was in the $. 5 area would be bad, but for $$ she not all that great for a 50 year old girl. I will not repeat. Hope this was helpful. Stay safe.

Excellent report there! Sorry for the bad experience but GREATLY appreciate you sharing it so others can evaluate or avoid. Good job adding pictures and her number too!

While it's not something that is normal, I have learned that hard way that regardless of what an avert says, GFE / PSE / Open-minded, IF I want BBFS I need to delicately ask about that upfront. Guess I'm not skilled enough to change a girl's mind once there so to avoid drama solve that one upfront or move on.

What you write about her having someone knock on the do for a 10-minute warning is shocking. I get a girl wants to be safe but adding a 3rd into the mix is always more risky for the dude! Glad that didn't turn negative on you!

Thanks again for the warning and sorry it turned out baldy for you!

[PPJones]

Misti Merlot.

🍷127825;127826;It's me, Misti Merlot 🍷127825;127853;.

856-279-0155.

I'm scheduling late into the evening! So, are you a night owl too? Want to spend time with me tonight? I'll make sure you start your week with a smile 😁 Don't wait, text me and let's make a plan to meet 😝128539;128525;129392;.

If you are looking for a woman who's healthy, in great shape, and who wants to make you happy. You've found the right one! No bait and switch here! What you see is what you get! 🍦127853;129473;128521;127825;127826;.

I offer in home hosting services so expect to be comfortable and relaxed while I take care of you! Need a relaxing massage? I offer deep tissue and hot stone as well as a basic Chakra cleansing.

Or maybe you're comfortable chilling in your favorite chair. Well, would you prefer to stay home and check out my content? I have photos and videos that I'm positive will please you.

Is texting your thing? Would you like to tell me what excites you and explain in great detail what you'd like to do to me? We can exchange ideas or chat about what excites us both!

I hope something peaks your interest. If I did, don't wait, send me a text and we can make some plans.

Activities this service provider may enjoy.

Breast relief / RussianDeep throatFace sittingFantasy outfits (on request) Girlfriend experience (GFE) Intercourse. OralIntercourse. Vaginal (FS) Kissing. Closed lipsLunch / dinner datesMassage. SensualMassage. TherapeuticOral. CIMOral. Receiving (DATY) Oral. Without condom (BBBJ) StripteaseWater sports. GivingWill entertain couplesWill entertain women.

She is in NJ. She advert in STG in DE so I'm sharing in DE. Pictures are 7 years old?

Met up for a date. $$hr First her age in the ad states 41 you need to add 10 years, hostess out of her house in a bedroom. The minute you enter the room the clock starts, she wanted to have a smoke and some small talk. After the smoke I asked "am I on the clock?" YES! So we agreed to start with a massage I was waiting for her to also massage my private area. Didn't happen. We move to BBBJ as advert. "oh no I don't do it that way covered" Her body is like a 50 nice mature body, not heavy slim. So I was looking forwood towards the BJ which put me in a downer. So now I know any FS will be covered (the GFE) in the ad must be a typo. We do cg it was nice. Also I should mention someone else is in the house too. One time Misti said her roommate would knock on the door and give a ten minute notice. A different time Misti mention "he" will knock on the door and give a 10 minute notice. Now if Misti does not responded I guess someone come rushing in to check on her. Misti stated she just started doing this, if she gets a real job she may only do people she has seem.

My take away is if the donation was in the $. 5 area would be bad, but for $$ she not all that great for a 50 year old girl. I will not repeat. Hope this was helpful. Stay safe.

So I guess catfish are in season. I hooked one the other day as well. Careful out there fellas.

BTW, some guys should clear thier inbox. Ya know, spring cleaning.

[Zabba501]

Misti Merlot.

🍷127825;127826;It's me, Misti Merlot 🍷127825;127853;.

856-279-0155.

I'm scheduling late into the evening! So, are you a night owl too? Want to spend time with me tonight? I'll make sure you start your week with a smile 😁 Don't wait, text me and let's make a plan to meet 😝128539;128525;129392;.

If you are looking for a woman who's healthy, in great shape, and who wants to make you happy. You've found the right one! No bait and switch here! What you see is what you get! 🍦127853;129473;128521;127825;127826;.

I offer in home hosting services so expect to be comfortable and relaxed while I take care of you! Need a relaxing massage? I offer deep tissue and hot stone as well as a basic Chakra cleansing.

Or maybe you're comfortable chilling in your favorite chair. Well, would you prefer to stay home and check out my content? I have photos and videos that I'm positive will please you.

Is texting your thing? Would you like to tell me what excites you and explain in great detail what you'd like to do to me? We can exchange ideas or chat about what excites us both!

I hope something peaks your interest. If I did, don't wait, send me a text and we can make some plans.

Activities this service provider may enjoy.

Breast relief / RussianDeep throatFace sittingFantasy outfits (on request) Girlfriend experience (GFE) Intercourse. OralIntercourse. Vaginal (FS) Kissing. Closed lipsLunch / dinner datesMassage. SensualMassage. TherapeuticOral. CIMOral. Receiving (DATY) Oral. Without condom (BBBJ) StripteaseWater sports. GivingWill entertain couplesWill entertain women.

She is in NJ. She advert in STG in DE so I'm sharing in DE. Pictures are 7 years old?

Met up for a date. $$hr First her age in the ad states 41 you need to add 10 years, hostess out of her house in a bedroom. The minute you enter the room the clock starts, she wanted to have a smoke and some small talk. After the smoke I asked "am I on the clock?" YES! So we agreed to start with a massage I was waiting for her to also massage my private area. Didn't happen. We move to BBBJ as advert. "oh no I don't do it that way covered" Her body is like a 50 nice mature body, not heavy slim. So I was looking forwood towards the BJ which put me in a downer. So now I know any FS will be covered (the GFE) in the ad must be a typo. We do cg it was nice. Also I should mention someone else is in the house too. One time Misti said her roommate would knock on the door and give a ten minute notice. A different time Misti mention "he" will knock on the door and give a 10 minute notice. Now if Misti does not responded I guess someone come rushing in to check on her. Misti stated she just started doing this, if she gets a real job she may only do people she has seem.

My take away is if the donation was in the $. 5 area would be bad, but for $$ she not all that great for a 50 year old girl. I will not repeat. Hope this was helpful. Stay safe.

[Shampoo55]

This is a new perversion / scam that girls have come up with to fleece dudes. IMHO any time you do a "car date" you should be paying STREET RATES!

I mean WTF! Girls asking for $150+ for a SS car date. Oh great! Cramped in a car, got to find a spot that her compatriots don't know or find, got to watch for LE or other interruptions and often the girl rushes. Then got to find a place after the date to thoroughly check out and clean the car to get the smell of pussy / sex removed and any contraband or other stuff left behind. (youse want yer short haired SO to find scrunchies or hair ties, long hairs or underwear?) Yeah, sign me up for that!

Nah, make her provide a room or safe / nice place to date as part of the "fee" for her time! Either that or pay street rates!

[Shampoo55]

If an attractive provide gets requests for more than 4 dates everyday then she will increase her rates. This often happens with new girls that become popular fast. After the flavor of the week / month for the men seeing them fades their rates drop and "specials" start. LOL.

Exactly! Something for dudes to remember, when a girl gets discussed here and a feeding frenzy starts. Back off for a couple or three weeks and IF she isn't totally disgusted and still in bidness, rates will have fallen.

AMPs rates should be used as the baseline. But some men want to see women of different races or don't feel comfortable visiting a location that's publicly known to provide service.

If dudes don't feel comfortable visiting AMPs they should pipe up and we'll have a discussion about that and how to stay safe! Risks at AMPs can be mitigated but dudes need to learn how to and apply it. Flying blind or ignorant (uneducated) is one way. Learning is a better way IMHO.

SB are a mixed bag, too many have GPS nowadays. Though if one puts in the time and is flexible in the looks department then lower rates can be had. But most men won't put in the work needed for that.

I'm not willing to say most mongers won't do something. Just saying. I prefer to provide real world, tested, true example (s) of what one can do. Set a goal post and some will achieve it, others just miss. But anyone who doesn't at least try knows what the results will be. I want to encourage fellow mongers to not over pay!

You need to realize that you're a unique beast when it comes to provider negotiation which is a good thing. The rates girls are listing on Tryst nowadays are simply insane, 2 x or higher for average / above average looking providers.

Not "unique," just experienced. IMHO BIG difference. Shoot IF I can learn "how to" negotiate, then anyone (anybody) can do it! Yes, Tryst & Eros rates are out of this world. I "could" go see those girls, but WTF! Why spend $500 on a girl for an hour?

But again, a guide post like this is valuable to those new / learning or for others to benchmark their spend. Thanks again.

[Frasier69]

20-30 has been the "normal" rate for street BJs. No way I'd pay $50 as the normal rate. The girls tell me a certain "group" of dudes, (from their perspective), want BJs for $5-$10. Most girl balk at that. Any girl that takes that rate is desperate and to be avoided.

I don't see street girls so used rates I've seen posted in the forums as the reference point, though I leaned on the higher end.

Also, I'll introduce the concept of a "tip". You tip your freaking waiter at a restaurant, no? Why not "tip" a girl who provides good, great or superb service! Do that an the girl will remember you next time, might even pass up another monger for you. I tend to "tip" with a trip to 7-11 or a store for cigs or a drink and some food.

I think it's best to keep things simple and either include or exclude the tip in the overall rate. As you mentioned, a small gift is perhaps the best tip one can provide and likely to leave a lasting impression over simply providing cash.

Also, I think having the "looks" line is a justification for overpaying. Good sex is good sex no matter what the package looks like. I have had some really spectacular dates from girls that most dudes wouldn't even look at! But mind blowing romps far out-weight the 9-10 girl who just lays there with her hands over her head and stares at the ceiling. But hey, if one wants to pay for eye candy, I guess that's anyone's right. I say, just don't do it! I mean the newbie I hit at $50 on the referal was at least an 8!

Men are visual beasts and will see the more attractive providers if rates were the same. The higher rates are simply the result of supply vs. Demand, not actual worth for service. If an attractive provide gets requests for more than 4 dates everyday then she will increase her rates. This often happens with new girls that become popular fast. After the flavor of the week / month for the men seeing them fades their rates drop and "specials" start. LOL.

Got to remember that FS at an AMP is 160 around here, 180 - 200 if you are a nice guy and tip the girl afterwards. So why would I pay over $160/ hr or the equivalent (80/ hhr) for some girl who has GPS, rushes, is a hood rat or is less than the experience at an AMP? There are options.

Oh and don't forget there are SBs out there. Have had SBs host multi-hour dates for $150-200! Why would I pay some high volume, GPS girl, $150/ hhr when I can get multiples for that? While there are GPS SBs, from what I see from most guys is that that range gets you multiple hours with a clean, non-pro girl. Again, with experience, there are options!

AMPs rates should be used as the baseline. But some men want to see women of different races or don't feel comfortable visiting a location that's publicly known to provide service. SB are a mixed bag, too many have GPS nowadays. Though if one puts in the time and is flexible in the looks department then lower rates can be had. But most men won't put in the work needed for that.

Attached is a chart of traditional rates. I still pay these rates, but admit there are plenty of dudes overpaying so lots of GPS girl not getting funds from me!

You need to realize that you're a unique beast when it comes to provider negotiation which is a good thing. The rates girls are listing on Tryst nowadays are simply insane, 2 x or higher for average / above average looking providers.

But thanks for starting this convo and putting rates out there in a way it is more accessible to most! Great idea! Well done!

Thanks. I did it because rates seem to be totally out of control. Sure inflation has impacted rates a bit but it doesn't justify a 50-100% increase which I'm seeing all too often nowadays. Having rates listed across the entire field (Street, AMP, normal, high end) provides much needed context that seems to be missing in this hobby. Hopefully men will grow a pair and negotiate on rates instead of just paying the sky high rates most providers are giving.

[Shampoo55]

Rates vary based on many factors. Type of provider, location, looks, services, etc. Providers are using this confusion in this inflation-based environment to their advantage. To provide some clarity I created a rate sheet. It's not perfect but provides a reference point for rates in the DE, PA, MD area. Most providers are in the "Average" and "Above" tier. "High" and "Top" tiers are rarer and rates in those tiers can vary wildly to what's listed.

If you see the same provider more than once or become a regular, then negotiate the rate to the next tier lower! Do not pay the same rate if you're a repeat client, membership has its privileges! That's why I included a "Normal" tier since it's unlikely you'll get those rates unless you negotiate as a regular or repeat client seeing an "Average" tier provider.

If you feel the rates could use some adjusting, then provide your input. Once finalized it would be great if the mods / admin can post the rate sheet as a sticky in the DE, PA, and MD forums. That way men can use it as a basis for negotiating rates.

Nice to see someone put up a rate sheet that others can use as a guide! Well done.

Looks pretty good. My experience has just a few adjustments.

20-30 has been the "normal" rate for street BJs. No way I'd pay $50 as the normal rate. The girls tell me a certain "group" of dudes, (from their perspective), want BJs for $5-$10. Most girl balk at that. Any girl that takes that rate is desperate and to be avoided.

FS off the street is a FLAT RATE! None of this "time" stuff! That is letting online or escort stuff seep into and effect rates from the street. Girl quotes me something like the "normal" or average rates shown for a SS escort rates, I either kick them out or I say, politely, "Street rates for an indoor date are 30-40. " Girls quickly assess their needs and settle. Only IF the girl is HOT and looks and smells clean might I settle for $50 for an indoor date. Nothing more.

Also, I'll introduce the concept of a "tip". You tip your freaking waiter at a restaurant, no? Why not "tip" a girl who provides good, great or superb service! Do that an the girl will remember you next time, might even pass up another monger for you. I tend to "tip" with a trip to 7-11 or a store for cigs or a drink and some food.

As far as rates go, I have a regular girl, who use to be on the streets. She is happy to be picked up and taken to the notel for an indoor date and walks away with "street rates" of just $40! She's always clean, never drugged out and fun. Why would I pay a premium to some girl stumbling along, who hasn't seen a bath or shower for weeks and who complains about other girls?

Last week had a regular UTR spinner girl who I date for her usual $50. Then later in the week she found me a new spinner girl who was clean & hot for the same rate! What gets me these rates? 1) being respectful, 2) Tipping for good service 3) being regular. So it can be done! Would I get these rates as a newbie, not likely but as one builds cred with the girls and comfort with negotiations, it gets easier.

Got to remember that FS at an AMP is 160 around here, 180 - 200 if you are a nice guy and tip the girl afterwards. So why would I pay over $160/ hr or the equivalent (80/ hhr) for some girl who has GPS, rushes, is a hood rat or is less than the experience at an AMP? There are options.

Oh and don't forget there are SBs out there. Have had SBs host multi-hour dates for $150-200! Why would I pay some high volume, GPS girl, $150/ hhr when I can get multiples for that? While there are GPS SBs, from what I see from most guys is that that range gets you multiple hours with a clean, non-pro girl. Again, with experience, there are options!

Also, I think having the "looks" line is a justification for overpaying. Good sex is good sex no matter what the package looks like. I have had some really spectacular dates from girls that most dudes wouldn't even look at! But mind blowing romps far out-weight the 9-10 girl who just lays there with her hands over her head and stares at the ceiling. But hey, if one wants to pay for eye candy, I guess that's anyone's right. I say, just don't do it! I mean the newbie I hit at $50 on the referal was at least an 8!

But had a date last night that was eye opening as far as rates go! This girl told me I was "grandfathered" at 100/ hr with her. She now charges $150/ hhr. Why? She said that it just isn't worth it. Too many dudes under 40 are assh*les, jerks and disrespectful! So she needs more $$ to make up for the sh*t she has to put up with. Told me that she told some dude BEFORE the date that she was having problems and anal was off the table. What did the dude do? He pinned her down and tried to force himself into her ass! She said that under 40's dudes look at her as less than human because they are paying. Anyway, again another example for what treating girls right can do for you and your wallet. Just saying.

Attached is a chart of traditional rates. I still pay these rates, but admit there are plenty of dudes overpaying so lots of GPS girl not getting funds from me!

But thanks for starting this convo and putting rates out there in a way it is more accessible to most! Great idea! Well done!

[Frasier69]

Rates vary based on many factors. Type of provider, location, looks, services, etc. Providers are using this confusion in this inflation-based environment to their advantage. To provide some clarity I created a rate sheet. It's not perfect but provides a reference point for rates in the DE, PA, MD area. Most providers are in the "Average" and "Above" tier. "High" and "Top" tiers are rarer and rates in those tiers can vary wildly to what's listed.

If you see the same provider more than once or become a regular, then negotiate the rate to the next tier lower! Do not pay the same rate if you're a repeat client, membership has its privileges! That's why I included a "Normal" tier since it's unlikely you'll get those rates unless you negotiate as a regular or repeat client seeing an "Average" tier provider.

If you feel the rates could use some adjusting, then provide your input. Once finalized it would be great if the mods / admin can post the rate sheet as a sticky in the DE, PA, and MD forums. That way men can use it as a basis for negotiating rates.