Sugarbabies?

[Zeotch2]

Just scroll down and hit the continue button without entering anything. You have to wade through a few screens like that but eventually you will get to your normal search page.

I am unpaid also. If you favorite them, they can see you. I am disinclined to pay at this point. Almost every profile is either a scammer, pic seller, or GPS. I see maybe one profile a week that is both real and worth my time. That is not enough to justify the price of admission. I have contacted some of them off the site via their social media. No joy so far.

BAM.

Thanks as always for your wisdom BAM.

Putting the financial info out there isn't good for negotiating with the few real ones I contact. Put too much and it's a license to employ GPS. Put too low and they may not even bother responding because of the number they have in their mind, which also might be GPS. LOL.

[BamBam]

Today I logged in and I got the following message:

"They can see you, but cannot get your messages!

Complete your profile so you can message and request to view private photos. ".

Says my profile is 50% complete.

When I click on the "Complete" button, the first question I get is this: "What is your annual Income?

There are choices in varying increments, but I have no desire to enter what I make or what my worth is.

Anyone else run into this bullshit problem? I'm not currently a paying member, so I'm just browsing until I decide to join for a month if I see some strong talent.

Please let me know.

Thanks.

Just scroll down and hit the continue button without entering anything. You have to wade through a few screens like that but eventually you will get to your normal search page.

I am unpaid also. If you favorite them, they can see you. I am disinclined to pay at this point. Almost every profile is either a scammer, pic seller, or GPS. I see maybe one profile a week that is both real and worth my time. That is not enough to justify the price of admission. I have contacted some of them off the site via their social media. No joy so far.

BAM.

[Zeotch2]

Today I logged in and I got the following message:

"They can see you, but cannot get your messages!

Complete your profile so you can message and request to view private photos. ".

Says my profile is 50% complete.

When I click on the "Complete" button, the first question I get is this: "What is your annual Income?

There are choices in varying increments, but I have no desire to enter what I make or what my worth is.

Anyone else run into this bullshit problem? I'm not currently a paying member, so I'm just browsing until I decide to join for a month if I see some strong talent.

Please let me know.

Thanks.

[Ginzo666]

I took a look and was displeased, to say the least.

I weigh about 165 to 170. My rule is: no SBs who outweigh me, which she almost certainly does.

Yeah, I think I'm skeptical about that $4,000/ month. Did she confuse her DoorDash bill for an allowance?

[Todd Cincy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0eebcc16-b08a-47f0-9d94-cca58d379317

Hit me up, told her I have a someone I am pursuing but she wanted to talk anyhow. According to her, her husband is disabled and is ok with her side action. Told me she had previous allowance at $2-4 k a month; uh huh. Willing to go ppm but nothing settled on yet and if it's above $ then I am not even remotely interested. Not my type and I am past the point in my life where I would just to up my numbers. If she gives me ppm number, I'll report back.

I took a look and was displeased, to say the least.

I weigh about 165 to 170. My rule is: no SBs who outweigh me, which she almost certainly does.

[WanderingAbout]

The sugar bowl in Cincy on SA really sucks. Using SA search Manila PH. Miss the prime years of SA before 2020.

[BamBam]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0eebcc16-b08a-47f0-9d94-cca58d379317

Hit me up, told her I have a someone I am pursuing but she wanted to talk anyhow. According to her, her husband is disabled and is ok with her side action. Told me she had previous allowance at $2-4 k a month; uh huh. Willing to go ppm but nothing settled on yet and if it's above $ then I am not even remotely interested. Not my type and I am past the point in my life where I would just to up my numbers. If she gives me ppm number, I'll report back.

If she is a penny over $200/ PPM, No, just NO!

BAM.

[Wielic]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0eebcc16-b08a-47f0-9d94-cca58d379317

Hit me up, told her I have a someone I am pursuing but she wanted to talk anyhow. According to her, her husband is disabled and is ok with her side action. Told me she had previous allowance at $2-4 k a month; uh huh. Willing to go ppm but nothing settled on yet and if it's above $ then I am not even remotely interested. Not my type and I am past the point in my life where I would just to up my numbers. If she gives me ppm number, I'll report back.

[BamBam]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-4514a2adebef

I *don't* think this woman is ill-intentioned or a scammer. I believe she's real. But what is she doing on a site that started as a place for college girls to pick up extra cash from horny older guys?

That's the problem with the site's new (post-Feb 2022) slogan: "Date up". Dating up is what still-single and recently divorced middle-aged women are all looking for. That's why there are so many of them on the site nowadays. They're all chasing that same dream: a single (but marriage-minded) 6'3" 45-year-old stockbroker who "is as comfortable in a pair of jeans as he is in a tux".

Hers is an eHarmony profile, if ever there was one.

She is real but not local. The pictures are of an aging Dutch IG influencer.

https://www.instagram.com/dipanario_fenice/

Seems an odd way to work the scam whatever it is.

BAM

[Ginzo666]

She might be a touch older than 46 as well.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-4514a2adebef

ArtisticLor is a 46-year-old woman looking for the love of her life. This is what happened in February 2022, when Brandon Wade rebranded the site, and Seeking collided with eHarmony:

"In my quest for love, I'm not just looking for a partner, but a best friend. Someone who's intelligent, has a wicked sense of humor, and understands that my love language is a unique mix of affectionate teasing and deep conversations. I believe in a connection that's intellectually stimulating and emotionally fulfilling. A bond where we can share both laughter and heartfelt moments. ".

She adds:

"I'm NOT online to serial date, meet random dudes to kick-it, make new Hang-Out buddies. I'm honestly here to utilize the Site to potentially allow me to meet my Best friend, my love, my forever, my King".

Any of you guys want to apply for her idea of kingship?

I *don't* think this woman is ill-intentioned or a scammer. I believe she's real. But what is she doing on a site that started as a place for college girls to pick up extra cash from horny older guys?

That's the problem with the site's new (post-Feb 2022) slogan: "Date up". Dating up is what still-single and recently divorced middle-aged women are all looking for. That's why there are so many of them on the site nowadays. They're all chasing that same dream: a single (but marriage-minded) 6'3" 45-year-old stockbroker who "is as comfortable in a pair of jeans as he is in a tux".

Hers is an eHarmony profile, if ever there was one.

Nobody wins here. She has pretty close to zero chance of finding what she's looking for, talking to guys like us.

[JjSlim]

I've been watching for quite a while but haven't pulled the trigger on anyone or any site. I understand SA is more reliable and has better results that SB, and WYP seems to be completely unreliable.

My question is how do you guys USE the connections. For example, how many of you actually go on dinner dates, walks on the beach, jet off to Cancun, Vegas, or anything and how many use the connections like upper-class escorts; just dropping in for a little hey-hey?

I'd be interested in the social aspect but know too many people around different parts of town so I'm worried about being seen and it getting back to the SO.

With an escort its easy: show up at the hotel, have a little chit-chat, and get what you came for. I'd like something a little more than that, maybe a little hanging out, but don't have bandwidth to have an entire side-girlfriend.

Just asking the experiences of you guys who've been at this for a while.



Do you usually meet for drinks / coffee the first time then move to your / her place? What's the ratio of 1st dates that just don't work out? I've been married 25+ years so my game is probably a little out of date.

When I first started on Seeking about 8 years ago, I would invite them to dinner first, then to my place. Sometimes the same night, sometimes at a later date. The fourth girl I met, when I drove her to the restaurant she said "I'm not really hungry, let's just go to your place". Since then, I start with inviting them to my place and not one has said "No. Let's meet for dinner first. ".

[Zeotch2]

I've been watching for quite a while but haven't pulled the trigger on anyone or any site. I understand SA is more reliable and has better results that SB, and WYP seems to be completely unreliable.

My question is how do you guys USE the connections. For example, how many of you actually go on dinner dates, walks on the beach, jet off to Cancun, Vegas, or anything and how many use the connections like upper-class escorts; just dropping in for a little hey-hey?

I'd be interested in the social aspect but know too many people around different parts of town so I'm worried about being seen and it getting back to the SO.

With an escort its easy: show up at the hotel, have a little chit-chat, and get what you came for. I'd like something a little more than that, maybe a little hanging out, but don't have bandwidth to have an entire side-girlfriend.

Just asking the experiences of you guys who've been at this for a while.

Do you usually meet for drinks / coffee the first time then move to your / her place? What's the ratio of 1st dates that just don't work out? I've been married 25+ years so my game is probably a little out of date.

Probably not breaking any new ground and trying not to be redundant with what others have advised, but I give them my burner number and try to get theirs to get off SA as soon as possible. Never, ever mention PPM or anything monetary or you'll get suspended / banned.

I usually defer to them for meet and greets. I let them choose whether they want to meet for coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, etc. I've never had anyone immediately want to go to Jeff Ruby's or any other high end place at first. I let them choose the public meeting space for their comfort.

I usually only discuss details in person, not via text. Even with burner phones, I try to avoid anything that may be incriminating should I happen to encounter a LEO. But I haven't had that happen yet.

My preferred age range is 18 to mid 20's, so it may be their first time trying this so they may be initially hesitant too.

The success varies. I've had some regulars who didn't ask for much beyond taking them out to dinner before going back to my house, or money for the babysitter (though I prefer someone with no children to avoid the issue). Some work lesser paying jobs and need help with bills, hair, nails and the like. Some regulars I would take for an extended weekend out of town like a mini vacation, which they appreciate instead of the same routine.

Hope this helps. Happy hunting.

[Todd Cincy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-4514a2adebef

ArtisticLor is a 46-year-old woman looking for the love of her life. This is what happened in February 2022, when Brandon Wade rebranded the site, and Seeking collided with eHarmony:

"In my quest for love, I'm not just looking for a partner, but a best friend. Someone who's intelligent, has a wicked sense of humor, and understands that my love language is a unique mix of affectionate teasing and deep conversations. I believe in a connection that's intellectually stimulating and emotionally fulfilling. A bond where we can share both laughter and heartfelt moments. ".

She adds:

"I'm NOT online to serial date, meet random dudes to kick-it, make new Hang-Out buddies. I'm honestly here to utilize the Site to potentially allow me to meet my Best friend, my love, my forever, my King".

Any of you guys want to apply for her idea of kingship?

I *don't* think this woman is ill-intentioned or a scammer. I believe she's real. But what is she doing on a site that started as a place for college girls to pick up extra cash from horny older guys?

That's the problem with the site's new (post-Feb 2022) slogan: "Date up". Dating up is what still-single and recently divorced middle-aged women are all looking for. That's why there are so many of them on the site nowadays. They're all chasing that same dream: a single (but marriage-minded) 6'3" 45-year-old stockbroker who "is as comfortable in a pair of jeans as he is in a tux".

Hers is an eHarmony profile, if ever there was one.

Nobody wins here. She has pretty close to zero chance of finding what she's looking for, talking to guys like us.

[RockaBillyRiot]

Morggaann513 told me it was 300 for a half hour dream and that if I couldn't afford it, "byyyeeee. ".

Who has geeked these bitches' heads up. She's a solid 3. 5 at best.

[AlphaTek1]

Thanks Ginzo666 and MiscWrite and everyone who offers beginners advice.