Sexual Addiction Reports

[Miketastic69]

I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.

I am wondering if this is the way I will continue to be into my 70's? I did the novia thing in Dominica last year and it was great. We actually told each other we loved each other after the 2 weeks. Me and the other 10 guys she sees a year.

I am at a point where I have to take viagra and chase it with cialis, and I use an otc like stiff nights or black panther. Sucks getting old, but my prostate still works like a champ!

[Miketastic69]

I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.

Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.

I know providers in every state, but don't have any friends to speak of anywhere.

[Miketastic69]

I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.

Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.

[BigBlue4523]

I am 59 and I have a S / O at home who doesn't show interest in our sex life I have to initiate everything she is still attractive but the menopause thing has been a problem for her and our relationship. But I wasn't and haven't been a faithful guy in our entire relationship I've cheated from day 1 and I really love her if I wasn't with her I'm sure I would never commit to anyone else. But I can't stop seeing women I don't want a relationship or an affair, I just want to see and feel different pussies tits ass faces. I can't go a week it's been 5 days and I'm raring to go, Thursday is the day I've been searching backpage escort Babylon and USASG to find the one I want even thinking about old favorites and I won't be satisfied till the deed is done. I guess I am addicted to sex. HL29.

Sex addiction is probably far more rare than is diagnosed. Think Tiger Woods was really a sex addict? Dude slept with like 120 chicks over 6 years. Most mongerS would hit that mark on 3 months!

Some people can't control their behavior (I. E. Look at porn 20 hours a day) but most of us just love pussies. And yeah it's entirely possible to love your SO and supplement with other women.

[HuntLadys29]

I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.

I am 59 and I have a S / O at home who doesn't show interest in our sex life I have to initiate everything she is still attractive but the menopause thing has been a problem for her and our relationship. But I wasn't and haven't been a faithful guy in our entire relationship I've cheated from day 1 and I really love her if I wasn't with her I'm sure I would never commit to anyone else. But I can't stop seeing women I don't want a relationship or an affair, I just want to see and feel different pussies tits ass faces. I can't go a week it's been 5 days and I'm raring to go, Thursday is the day I've been searching backpage escort Babylon and USASG to find the one I want even thinking about old favorites and I won't be satisfied till the deed is done. I guess I am addicted to sex. HL29.

[LustyGuy]

I am in my 70's and have struggled with the sex addition concept. I have been mongering for the last 5 years (since my wife gave up cooking and sex) and have at least 300 encounters so far. I simply have a compulsion to release into beautiful young girls. It is just natural. Mother nature gave us this wonderful equipment and it is our god given duty to use it. This goes for both men and women. I feel wonderful after each release. How is that wrong? The only problem I have is that I don't have enough money to do all the girls I would like to do and that age is slowing me down (thank god for viagra. Truly a miracle drug!) Later this month I have a trip to Buenos Aires where I have a 19 year old guide and novia lined up for 10 days! Talk about an intensive Spanish class. I plan to keep releasing as long as I can. Keeps the prostate healthy, good exericse, and you meet a lot of wonderful girls! I hope some of you agree with me. LG Huntsville Alabama.

[Knucklebuck]

My best funnest mongering years were between the late 80's going into the early 2 k's. Nothing has been great ever since. I have met a few good ones here and there but not anything near as great as those years were. Now I'm way older and still in the hobby seeking Potential dreams. I'm a sex addict for sure, but I have also paid woman for their companionships without any sexual activity.

I got active in the mid to late '90's and the street scene was great. Now, it's a wasteland. I miss the crack's heyday.

[Cephlapod Love]

I was recently thinking about guys like Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have boned 20,000 ladies in his career. Gene Simmons made a similar claim of doing 10,000 or 15,000 groupies. I think both claims are bunk, though.

How many does the average dude get in his lifetime? 5? 10? Now it's a known fact that a small number of alpha males have sex with most of the females. I believe this was confirmed by a study of the Tinder dating app, where they saw that 90% of messages from women are sent to just 10% of the men using the app. It's the same distribution you see with money (1% vs 99%, etc). So an alpha stud will pull in far more than an average guy, over 100. If he is single for a long time or is a rock star or athlete or whatever, I could see him joining the 1000 club.

Another possibility is that a guy is part of a couple and active in the swinging community for a sustained time. I guess if they were really active for a decade or two he could reach 1000+.

Obviously, the easiest route is through mongering. It would take years of heavy activity, but I'm sure there are a lot of guys in the 1000 club on this forum.

Flipping it around, I'd wager that every working girl passes 100 partners in her first month of service, and 1000 after her first year. It's tricky though, because they don't really work the same schedule as an office job or whatever. A lot of them will work hard for 6 weeks, then not at all for a few months. Still, the ladies who stick with it for years and decades probably do reach those Wilt and Gene levels. I know in my hometown, there is a woman who's owned (and been the only worker of) a massage parlor for 22 years. I'm sure she has a lot of longtime, repeat customers, but that's still a ton of dick over the years.

Eh, I'm guessing very few people, men or women, sleep with 1,000 partners in a life time. I know guys that are real sluts and bang anything that moves for the last 10 yrs or so and have only racked up just over 200 partners. Problem is that when one finds a girl they like or click with, then they tend to repeat with her. 10,000 sexual encounters in a life time is plausible however, assuming 65 years of activity that's only 152/ year or 3 per week.

As far as swingers go? Doubt that is a solution as couples tend to find "relationships" for sex and stick with them. SM's that are out getting notches on a bedpost get discovered pretty quickly and avoided by many. What dude wants his girl to bang some guy who has slept with the entire zip code?

Just my thoughts. Fwiw!

[TheBoobHound]

I was recently thinking about guys like Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have boned 20,000 ladies in his career. Gene Simmons made a similar claim of doing 10,000 or 15,000 groupies. I think both claims are bunk, though.

How many does the average dude get in his lifetime? 5? 10? Now it's a known fact that a small number of alpha males have sex with most of the females. I believe this was confirmed by a study of the Tinder dating app, where they saw that 90% of messages from women are sent to just 10% of the men using the app. It's the same distribution you see with money (1% vs 99%, etc). So an alpha stud will pull in far more than an average guy, over 100. If he is single for a long time or is a rock star or athlete or whatever, I could see him joining the 1000 club.

Another possibility is that a guy is part of a couple and active in the swinging community for a sustained time. I guess if they were really active for a decade or two he could reach 1000+.

Obviously, the easiest route is through mongering. It would take years of heavy activity, but I'm sure there are a lot of guys in the 1000 club on this forum.

Flipping it around, I'd wager that every working girl passes 100 partners in her first month of service, and 1000 after her first year. It's tricky though, because they don't really work the same schedule as an office job or whatever. A lot of them will work hard for 6 weeks, then not at all for a few months. Still, the ladies who stick with it for years and decades probably do reach those Wilt and Gene levels. I know in my hometown, there is a woman who's owned (and been the only worker of) a massage parlor for 22 years. I'm sure she has a lot of longtime, repeat customers, but that's still a ton of dick over the years.

[Pison00]

I've never made it over a week without mongering my highest was almost a week but I made it for four days. I constantly seek BP, CL, or WSW & BBW on the streets around state or out of state. I'm a cheap man and been mongering over 30 years back in those early years I was roaming the area of Atlanta Georgia, but I didn't live there I lived a little further on Sandy springs. I met many Street walkers some would become potential dates and I even married a street walker who struggled to become clean named Juliet. I met Juliet In 1993 very pretty beautiful girl who suffered abuse all her life and no one really wanted to help her in that time we were close to the same age. My best funnest mongering years were between the late 80's going into the early 2 k's. Nothing has been great ever since. I have met a few good ones here and there but not anything near as great as those years were. Now I'm way older and still in the hobby seeking Potential dreams. I'm a sex addict for sure, but I have also paid woman for their companionships without any sexual activity.

[TooBe101]

I know its kinda old to report on this but what to do when things happen without making any effort. This happens with me a lot. I'm good with my spending. Always two weeks or more when I visit someone. But during that time I keep meditating on how to do the girl. The excitement gets real high and the money stays in the pocket but I would be rather happy to spend it like what happened in your case. LOL.

But thanks for great support of working on this addiction. It will need to slow down / stop one day.

Made it only 6 days this cycle. Was driving when I saw a sign for a spa. Never been to this one so I pulled in. Out comes a 30 ish hottie with a smoking body wearing a tight L*B*D and some heels. How much? 45 or 65. Asked her if she was fun and right there in the lobby she leaned over and flashed me her top along with a smile.

Into the room where I was waiting naked when she came back. She brushed against me so I smacked her ass and she giggled. Told her to turn out the light and come back over here. Off came her dress, bra, and panties, just like that. No negotiating, no talking, no nothing. Within a minute she was on the table, on her back, with her legs spread wide open.

She didn't disappoint and neither did I.

I'm sitting here trying to figure out what happened that made me go off the wagon. When I saw the spa sign it was automatic. Instantaneously I pulled in and got out of my car. I've had that happen before and was able to turn around and leave. But not this time. The spa sign was like a huge electro magnet and once I got in it's range I didn't stand a chance.

I left happy. And sad. And mad. And disappointed. In myself. But I'll get over it.

I love this hobby. I hate this hobby.

[Head First]

How much do you spend a month?

In the past 25+ yrs I've always spent more, never less, each month than I wanted to. That's a big clue that this is a problem / addiction.

[BigBlue4523]

Especially tracking expenditures. I we t over my books with my accountant today and he basically quit. He is baffled that I am broke when I should be doing better now than ever. I couldn't tell him that every city especially DC and Orlando I see a BP girl or go to an AMP every single day. He knows Vegas is rife with trouble, but he cannot understand how I have to take money from my savings to pay for life.

This may be my wake up call, yet again. I have quit before but the urge comes back.

How much do you spend a month?

[Miketastic69]

If you want to quit, here is some advice. And if you don't want to quit, that's ok, you may ignore this. Now, in practice I've never really quit, but I have managed to slow down or quit for long periods.

1. Be good at budgeting. It includes not only monthly expenses but yearly expenses for which you have to save. Understanding my budget was why I recently quit being a sugardaddy; the SB took too much. (I'll admit that being an SD is great if you can afford it.).

2. Keep a record of what you spend.

3. Throw away the burner phone! This simple idea has worked extremely well for me. I distinguish between "spontaneous" acts and "deliberate" acts. If it's super easy to contact a girl (SB), I'll do it when the mood strikes me. But if there's a barrier (the deliberate act) I can usually stop. Now, someone here will point out there are apps or websites that make it trivial to work around the need for a burner phone. I don't want to hear it, LOL. (Ignorance is bliss here.) Well, if you implement such a workaround it would require a deliberate act. By the way, jumping in the car to see a BP girl whose pic is most likely fake requires a deliberate act, which explains the complaints such girls have about guys getting cold feet.

4. Other misc ideas: have a curfew, avoid street prostitutes (easy since there are hardly any nowadays), don't mix alcohol or drugs with the pursuit of sex, and adhere to safe sex.

5. Best advice: get married or find a girlfriend.

6. Embrace getting old. I'm in my mid-50's and actually like slowing down.

Especially tracking expenditures. I we t over my books with my accountant today and he basically quit. He is baffled that I am broke when I should be doing better now than ever. I couldn't tell him that every city especially DC and Orlando I see a BP girl or go to an AMP every single day. He knows Vegas is rife with trouble, but he cannot understand how I have to take money from my savings to pay for life.

This may be my wake up call, yet again. I have quit before but the urge comes back.

[Head First]

I quit smoking. This shouldn't be so damn hard.

I used to bite my nails. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.

I used to be addicted to nose spray. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.

I used to be addicted to alcohol. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.

I used to be addicted to drugs. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.

I used to be addicted to cigarettes. Thank God I was able quit. My life is better now.

I used to be addicted to caffeine. Thank God I was able to quit. My life is better now.

This. This IS hard. But I'm not giving up. Just need more patience and wisdom.

There are plenty of folks out there that have quit this one and even tougher vices. One day I hope to say I was able to quit this one too.