Sexual Addiction Reports

**JustFriends** · 04-11-17 23:00

I think the addiction stems from too much disposable income. I used to have the same problem, still kind of do. But I found that the more bills I have to pay, the less likely I am to even think about seeing a provider. And when I do, due to the financial limits I placed on myself, I seek out girls I've seen before and really enjoyed. I rarely ever see new girls often because it's too expensive.

Just for example, I totaled my car not too long ago and am now stuck with making car payments again and increased premium. That, I didn't foresee, so the money I was using to fill my addiction crave to prostitutes, I no longer have unless I want to go in even more debt and worst. We all have biological needs so either we can get a girlfriend or fuck prostitutes. I don't like jacking off because it just leaves me feeling even more deprived. Sure, some people have a lot of money and don't have to worry about balancing a budget for paying for pussy routinely, but that is not me. So I try to use discipline to break the habit. Willpower alone and money burning that hole in your pocket are always a bad combination.

Now that I think about it, if I had more discipline in the beginning, I wouldn't have spent so much on this stuff. You really don't see how this clouds your brain in everyday life until you start trying to get clean. It's kind of like porn, except we have an unlimited access to real pussy we just call and pay up for any time of the day. So why should we try pursing girls outside of this? No reason. Except that this can become a real addiction and cloud your judgement and the way your brain operates. It's very weird in all honesty.

**Patky63** · 04-11-17 20:17

Originally Posted by HoosierCream [View Original Post]

I too have been in the game about the same length of time, at times I've thought the same. Don't think I can completely give it up yet, but did take a recent break, I made it 29 days and completely understand. It can be very addictive and you have to control it like any other addiction. I took about a month long break and my goal is now just 1 appointment a week. I wish you the best and appreciate your help in the last year. Good luck man, and keep in touch!

HC.

I think I might gotten addicted to hs hobby also. After getting divorced about 2 years ago a buddy of mine introduced me to backpage and I went a little crazy. I was averaging 2 providers a day for 3 to 4 times a week. I am pretty easy going and not bad looking so a lot of providers I saw and had great chemistry with actually started contacting fairly often and it got harder and harder to say no. A couple of times I even saw 4 in a 24 hour period. Even with the super discounted rates they were giving me I did not want to get financially ruined and realized that just like any other drug it could lead to that. In the last month I started evaluating my condition and decided to back off. I love to fish and play golf also so I decided to concentrate on those hobbies instead. I found out that I started enjoying my sessions with my favorite providers more and now I am only in this hobby once or twice a week. To those of you that might fall in the same pattern I did get some professional help if necessary. I stopped myself but was willing to ask for help if necessary. Keep in mind that everything in moderation is always more enjoyable. Good luck and stay safe.

P.

**Member #6040** · 04-09-17 20:30

Originally Posted by Automan [View Original Post]

1st I seen.

http://louisville.backpage.com/Women...o-you/12251741

Great service, the splits thing had me sold. She laid on her stomach and did the splits while I went to never had anyone do that, better looking in person,.

Katie, Mandy Mo or whatever she goes by. Service was rushed. Felt sketchy on location but all went well and got out safe. I believe someone else was in the apartment. It was located off Rockford lane. Cover she had none. Her number is a 994. I mentioned this girl in q post a few days ago.

Last but definitely the best.

BBW Samantha saw her on fernvalley, she's got a 369 number beautiful thick girl, best personality of anyone I've ever seen. She tops Mia on personality. Very vocal not at all a clock watcher. I damn sure went well over my time. I must say she's my newest favorite.

I believe I've been in this game way to long and I'm going to try and retire. I'm going to head out and seek some help for addiction. I believe this is a addictive game and not the safest. I've been at it since 98 and that way to long. I feel my luck might run out. I'm looking for any possible referrals for addiction help I've realize I'm a sex addict as prob a lot of us are. Good luck and be safe.

I too have been in the game about the same length of time, at times I've thought the same. Don't think I can completely give it up yet, but did take a recent break, I made it 29 days and completely understand. It can be very addictive and you have to control it like any other addiction. I took about a month long break and my goal is now just 1 appointment a week. I wish you the best and appreciate your help in the last year. Good luck man, and keep in touch!

HC.

**Automan** · 04-09-17 12:57

1st I seen.

http://louisville.backpage.com/Women...o-you/12251741

Great service, the splits thing had me sold. She laid on her stomach and did the splits while I went to never had anyone do that, better looking in person,.

Katie, Mandy Mo or whatever she goes by. Service was rushed. Felt sketchy on location but all went well and got out safe. I believe someone else was in the apartment. It was located off Rockford lane. Cover she had none. Her number is a 994. I mentioned this girl in q post a few days ago.

Last but definitely the best.

BBW Samantha saw her on fernvalley, she's got a 369 number beautiful thick girl, best personality of anyone I've ever seen. She tops Mia on personality. Very vocal not at all a clock watcher. I damn sure went well over my time. I must say she's my newest favorite.

I believe I've been in this game way to long and I'm going to try and retire. I'm going to head out and seek some help for addiction. I believe this is a addictive game and not the safest. I've been at it since 98 and that way to long. I feel my luck might run out. I'm looking for any possible referrals for addiction help I've realize I'm a sex addict as prob a lot of us are. Good luck and be safe.

**Head First** · 03-26-17 14:46

Originally Posted by UOnlyLiveOnce [View Original Post]

I've never given up USASG for lent, but I have sworn it off, only to be back in about 2 or 3 days.

Replaced USASG with Facebook for Lent and I got back on track.

Fall down 7 times, Get up 8.

**UOnlyLiveOnce** · 03-21-17 20:36

Originally Posted by HeadFirst [View Original Post]

For Lent I gave up visiting usasexguide.info

Didn't make it even 24 hrs.

I've never given up USASG for lent, but I have sworn it off, only to be back in about 2 or 3 days.

**Head First** · 03-03-17 01:02

For Lent I gave up visiting usasexguide.info

Didn't make it even 24 hrs.

**Head First** · 02-07-17 21:21

Originally Posted by Miketastic69 [View Original Post]

I don't classify myself a sex addict. I love pussy, and I like change. I picked a profession where I could travel and see new places and meet new people (USMC) and I have kept that going into retirement and in my new business. I have had the good fortune of traveling every week and had a lot of fun.

Now the sobering reality. I'm fucking broke. In a year where I've made the most money I ever have in life, I can barely pay for anything extra. I'm bleeding flowers, or Mario coins, or hearts, or chocolates and all the other things we call donations. I am trying to put my hobbying on pause but I am finding it hard. Maybe I do need to seek someone with a license on the wall to talk to.

It took me a long time to admit (to myself) that I might have a problem with sex addiction. But I got there a while back. Admitted it to my psychiatrist. We talked about it, he said he didn't think I did. Huh? A few visits later I bring it up again and he says Ok, maybe you do, go see this guy. I called 5 X, left 5 messages that I'd like to make an appt., never heard from him.

Fast forward to last summer. The psychiatrist's license has been revoked. Overnight he's out of business. The reason: One of his female patients brought charges against him claiming inappropriate sexual behavior was happening in his office. He was a sex addict himself. Oh, did I mention his office was practically wall papered with diplomas, and licenses, and local and national awards.

It can happen to anyone. And does. So be careful if you get to the point where you seek out professional help.

IMHO, the fact that we're posting in this section asking questions indicates that we're at the edge but haven't decided if we want to get better or get laid.

I've read books. Taken a phone call with the author of a sex addiction book. He asked me how much I spend on this hobby. He said for that amount I could get plenty of professional help. He asked if I had insurance. I do but it doesn't cover addiction / mental issues adequately. I reasoned that if I had to pay for it out of my own pocket I would rather go find some pussy.

He says I haven't hit bottom yet. So it's a timing thing and a roll of the dice too. How lucky do I feel that I can continue this hobby before being exposed and my life exploding.

I think my luck is running out so I'm doing what helped me stop my other addictions. Tapering off. I'm making a conscious effort to stay away from paying for pussy. So far only one slip since Dec. 28.

It seems to be working but as any (recovering) addict knows, it's a slippery slope.

In the meantime I'm looking for help but not necessarily from a professional. I think it makes more sense to get help from someone who's been there done that.

**Hargow20** · 02-07-17 20:52

I consider myself to a be connoisseur of good looking women. In my mind out fun is not much different than some guy that goes out to pick up good looking women.

Personally I have cut back since there less supply and variety in SD and socal. Up until about 4 years ago SD used to have a ample supply of SW's. The police cracked down and chased away most of SW's on ECB. These days there is only a few BSW's and the occasional chunky LSW. Much of this is because the SW's insisted on working in small 5-7 area of ECB. So this made it very easy for the cops give them tickets and most of them go arrest warrants and left town and or arrested. The hunt for SW's is almost as exciting as the sex itself. The chance of finding a better looking SW was fun.

These days I head down to Tijuana roughly every 2 weeks depending on how the action is in Tijuana. As most of you know I prefer the US girls. This because they give better service and are willing to do more. The variety of WSW in the Zona has is limited. I also find that heading all the to Tijuana takes a lot out of me. The good thing however is that I always find a good WSW to satisfy my needs.

**Cephlapod Love** · 02-07-17 20:29

Originally Posted by Redneck3565 [View Original Post]

If you DO have a "problem" by whatever definition YIOU determine it to be, see a therapist, and STAY AWAY FROM ANY AND ALL "12 Step Groups" like "SAA" (Sex Addicts Alnonymous), or "Love and Sex Addicts Anonymous). They believe that "sex" is a "character defect" and can be "fixed" with "spirituality". Its the biggest bullshit of a "recovery group" since its close cousins, AA and NA were excreted into existence!

Yeah, seems like everybody and their brother co-opted the 12 Step process to use for their addiction. Problem is that Bill W the originator of the 12 Step Process in AA, says it isn't always applicable to other "addictions!" For example, when it gets misapplied to hard drugs, it has a 10% success rate which means 90% failure. So, I would NOT be impressed with a "treatment" regime that is not scientifically based and no just some co-opt of another process. If you truly believe, it works! What's that sound like? Jim Jones?

**SecretSquirell** · 02-07-17 20:21

Originally Posted by Redneck3565 [View Original Post]

Right-like there are somehow "sex addicted women" at a 12 Step meeting designed to "recover" from such?

I can say from experience that there are, it's like 5 or 6 to 1 men to women (there are also more single sex only meetings for obvious reasons) but there are some there. For me, attending several meetings and listening to their stories just helped me understand that while it could turn into a problem if I let it but I don't consider myself an addict.

It works for those that feel they need help and can commit to their programs. And most are free working solely on donations.

**Knucklebuck** · 02-07-17 19:59

Originally Posted by Redneck3565 [View Original Post]

Right-like there are somehow "sex addicted women" at a 12 Step meeting designed to "recover" from such?

LOL good to know!

**UOnlyLiveOnce** · 02-07-17 19:57

Originally Posted by Redneck3565 [View Original Post]

If you DO have a "problem" by whatever definition YIOU determine it to be, see a therapist, and STAY AWAY FROM ANY AND ALL "12 Step Groups" like "SAA" (Sex Addicts Alnonymous), or "Love and Sex Addicts Anonymous). They believe that "sex" is a "character defect" and can be "fixed" with "spirituality". Its the biggest bullshit of a "recovery group" since its close cousins, AA and NA were excreted into existence!

To SAA or LSAA meetings. Hanging out with genuine sex offenders (which I'm sure there are quite a few of there) is not my idea of a good time.

Instead, I'm hitting the gym a lot, both so I can check out hot women in tight clothes and so I can find a bed buddy.

**Member #5605** · 02-07-17 19:48

Right-like there are somehow "sex addicted women" at a 12 Step meeting designed to "recover" from such?

Originally Posted by Knucklebuck [View Original Post]

So no chance of hooking up with like minded Sexually addicted women at these meetings?

**Knucklebuck** · 02-07-17 19:44

Originally Posted by Redneck3565 [View Original Post]

If you DO have a "problem" by whatever definition YIOU determine it to be, see a therapist, and STAY AWAY FROM ANY AND ALL "12 Step Groups" like "SAA" (Sex Addicts Alnonymous), or "Love and Sex Addicts Anonymous). They believe that "sex" is a "character defect" and can be "fixed" with "spirituality". Its the biggest bullshit of a "recovery group" since its close cousins, AA and NA were excreted into existence!

So no chance of hooking up with like minded Sexually addicted women at these meetings?