Safe Sex Information and Advice

**JonWan** · 12-12-18 18:15

Originally Posted by JonWan [View Original Post]

Not applying a small amount of lube to the head of your dick (very small amount) is more likely to cause a condom to fail. I couldn't even begin to count the number of hookers I've fucked in my life and I have never once had a condom slip off.

Also don't forget to unroll it a bit before putting it on your dick.

You should research before posting.

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/le...ut-a-condom-on

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Well, I do not want to disagree with A2, [Deleted by Admin]

Then don't. I don't judge but after reading what you wrote you may as well go in bare.

I'm not judging, it's your dick use it as you want so long as the chick signs on as well.

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**JonWan** · 12-11-18 23:38

Originally Posted by Jkpt11 [View Original Post]

I am not sure where to post this, so I am posting this question (s) here. I am a newbie to this hobby so please don't be to hard on my ignorance. In your dreams, are there any concerns about STD? How do you dream of protection besides a condom (which they say is no guarantee of not contracting STD's). Are there any other safe measures to use when dreaming of FS?

Can you veteran dreamers give us newbies some input on how you handle protection from STD's?

Latex condoms will protect you from STDs as long as they do not break or slip off during intercourse.

To keep a condom from slipping off, do not apply lube before applying the condom. Also, roll the condom all the way down the shaft of the penis. If lube is applied to the penis and if the condom is not rolled all the way down the shaft, the condom is in danger of slipping off during intercourse.

Some of the thinner "bare skin" condoms have a tendency to break under stress. So, make sure to use lubricant, when needed. You should avoid positions that put stress on the condom. If you use lube, it is unlikely that the condom will break.

So, use latex condoms, and protect against breakage and slipping off.

After the act, I suggest bringing wet wipes and soap with you. Use wet wipes for the initial clean up. Then, if you are able to use the restroom, clean your penis, scrotum and so on with soap and water. Wash, rinse and repeat. I tend to bring a small bottle of castile soap with me.

Not applying a small amount of lube to the head of your dick (very small amount) is more likely to cause a condom to fail. I couldn't even begin to count the number of hookers I've fucked in my life and I have never once had a condom slip off.

Also don't forget to unroll it a bit before putting it on your dick.

You should research before posting.

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/le...ut-a-condom-on

A2

**Ppecker8** · 12-06-18 22:18

Originally Posted by Crism080 [View Original Post]

If you are worried about getting a present from a hand job, perhaps this hobby isn't for you.

You sir, are correct. I realized this after my experience. I looked online and get conflicting info on saliva and HJ.

**Ppecker8** · 12-06-18 22:17

Originally Posted by LimaBean [View Original Post]

I know of nothing that will transfer from simple skin-to-skin contact.

A couple months ago, a pretty SW hopped in. She'd changed her hair, so I didn't recognize her right away. Then I realized she was a lousy lay. I told her sorry, I only have five bucks. I thought this would get her out really fast. Instead she said she'd give me a handjob for $5. I laughed and said if I wanted that, I could jerk myself off for free. She didn't like my response, but she got out.

Funny thing is 5 is what I paid LOL. Saliva doesn't pose a risk?

**Crism080** · 12-04-18 07:22

Originally Posted by Ppecker8 [View Original Post]

Is a handjob safe? If she used saliva. I can't remember if she licked her hand or not. Recieved a handjob 8 days ago and worried I got something.

If you are worried about getting a present from a hand job, perhaps this hobby isn't for you.

**HuntLadys29** · 12-04-18 06:11

Originally Posted by HighTemp [View Original Post]

Hmm, which walk in health care you took the test? What 8 pills the doctor give it to you? Can you be more specific?

I went to an urgent care I should have went to the VA you also can go to the health clinic. I know the pills were for gonnareah chlymidia I think trichemonis just the main. The doctor was cool I pissed in a jar first took the pills and a shot I was kind of bummed when the test came back negative because I thought the test results should have come back first but that's the way they did it. HL29.

**LimaBean** · 12-03-18 22:26

Originally Posted by Ppecker8 [View Original Post]

Is a handjob safe? If she used saliva. I can't remember if she licked her hand or not. Recieved a handjob 8 days ago and worried I got something.

I know of nothing that will transfer from simple skin-to-skin contact.

A couple months ago, a pretty SW hopped in. She'd changed her hair, so I didn't recognize her right away. Then I realized she was a lousy lay. I told her sorry, I only have five bucks. I thought this would get her out really fast. Instead she said she'd give me a handjob for $5. I laughed and said if I wanted that, I could jerk myself off for free. She didn't like my response, but she got out.

**HighTemp** · 12-01-18 10:16

Originally Posted by HuntLadys29 [View Original Post]

I recently went and got tested, the place I went to was a walk in health care. I told them I wanted to get tested and the doctor came in gave me 8 pills and said take these. He said if I had anything it would kill everything. I didn't even know if I had anything I just wanted to be sure because I hadn't been tested in a while. Everything came up negative but better to be safe than sorry. My best friend said one of his girlfriends had trichimonous he said the doctor gave her a prescription with extra pills for him since he likely had it also. I read where more doctors are doing this because some people have a stigma about getting tested and it keeps reinfection down. HL29.

Hmm, which walk in health care you took the test? What 8 pills the doctor give it to you? Can you be more specific?

**HighTemp** · 12-01-18 10:14

Originally Posted by DutchBoyToy [View Original Post]

Which County charged? Macomb at Warren location was free without lying or using insurance.

You seem to connect genital warts with HSV herpes tests. HPV and HSV are not the same virus or test. Men are not typically tested for HPV. You ar correct there is "nothing to do" for herpes as far as a cure. This is why HD and many docs skip it.

I guess each county is different. That's out of my control. I think best is to avoid go to any clinic and just take z-pack, doxycycline etc yourself if you feel anything wrong. Either county health department or planned parenthood will still leave paper trail.

I don't understand your point about HPV and HSV.

**HighTemp** · 11-30-18 23:23

This is a guideline from CDC about STD treatment.

https://www.cdc.gov/std/tg2015/default.htm

Looks like it's better to stock up some z-pack, doxycycline and in case of any sympton just go ahead take it. The useless clinic people just going to do the same anyway.

**Member #6007** · 11-22-18 22:37

Originally Posted by HighTemp [View Original Post]

I went to my county health department and on their website: "The Health Department does not provide free STI services. We either bill a client's insurer or charge a sliding scale fee if a client is uninsured. " Looks like same type of deal as Planned Parenthood. Unless you lie, you won't get free test.

I think 10 panel is bit overblown. There is no HPV test for men. If no genital wart, no need to test herpes. If Herpes is positive, if no symptoms there is nothing to do. HIV can get self instant test from walmart. Syphilis is very rare these days. I think highest risk is the 3 I tested.

The cheapest I found so far is with LemonAid, you paid $25 for a teledoc, then $50 for go to lab and get tested. But it's only for gono and clap. I haven't used it yet, anyone tried LemonAid already?

Which County charged? Macomb at Warren location was free without lying or using insurance.

You seem to connect genital warts with HSV herpes tests. HPV and HSV are not the same virus or test. Men are not typically tested for HPV. You ar correct there is "nothing to do" for herpes as far as a cure. This is why HD and many docs skip it.

**Ppecker8** · 11-16-18 20:43

Is a handjob safe? If she used saliva. I can't remember if she licked her hand or not. Recieved a handjob 8 days ago and worried I got something.

**HighTemp** · 11-14-18 11:27

This STD things is really turning into a nightmare. I am seriously considering laying off this hobby for good.

I went to planned parenthood in hope of total anonymity and privacy, but they have to take your DL to take you in. K, that's fine, at least they are not in my regular medical circle. But today I received email from labcorp notifying my test result is available on patient portal. I logged in and there it is, all the STD testing and results. I am so pissed that I thought PP just call you about result. Now it's posted on labcorp website, and labcorp keep a super long history of all the reports. All the way back to 2011.

Anyone know if labcorp would take a report offline based on user request?

**HuntLadys29** · 11-14-18 06:48

I recently went and got tested, the place I went to was a walk in health care. I told them I wanted to get tested and the doctor came in gave me 8 pills and said take these. He said if I had anything it would kill everything. I didn't even know if I had anything I just wanted to be sure because I hadn't been tested in a while. Everything came up negative but better to be safe than sorry. My best friend said one of his girlfriends had trichimonous he said the doctor gave her a prescription with extra pills for him since he likely had it also. I read where more doctors are doing this because some people have a stigma about getting tested and it keeps reinfection down. HL29.

**Ace Johnson** · 11-14-18 01:07

Originally Posted by NoviceNewb [View Original Post]

You mentioned that when offered CFS you turn it down as it's a guarantee to contract something. I'm imagining that was a typo? Just want to make sure I'm reading this right.

You are correct, sir. I posted that with my phone. Looking at it there are a couple other typo's, or just plain ole screw ups.