Safe Sex Information and Advice

[Pictraders69]

Remember to carefully inspect your condoms before you use them... not that it's always easy to do given the fact that it is often dark when you reach for a package and tear it open, but at least try to inspect the package before you put it into you kit, or wallet, or glove box - whatever.... you wouldn't believe how stupid some people are. And it's not even that that they mean to be sometimes... just sometimes people don't take the times to think things through all the way before acting.

Case in point, look at the picture.
It might take a minute or two....
What's wrong with this picture?


Sheesh.... some people....




Bench

Geeeesh, lol!! Staples might be a great place to buy office supplies, but it's not where I want to find my condoms!



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[Benchseats Rock]

Remember to carefully inspect your condoms before you use them... not that it's always easy to do given the fact that it is often dark when you reach for a package and tear it open, but at least try to inspect the package before you put it into you kit, or wallet, or glove box - whatever.... you wouldn't believe how stupid some people are. And it's not even that that they mean to be sometimes... just sometimes people don't take the times to think things through all the way before acting.

Case in point, look at the picture.
It might take a minute or two....
What's wrong with this picture?


Sheesh.... some people....




Bench

[Unknown1234]

Census says there are 300,000,000 people in the united states

There are 1,400,000 people infected with hiv and aids (entire population)

1/300 men and women you encounter throughout your life is infected with HIV/AIDS
1/1648 of women you encounter are infected with HIV/AIDS

Within 33 states (i don't know why they only count 33 states)
74% are males 26% are females

65% of males with hiv are transmitted through MSM (male to male)
20% is high risk heterosexual contact (unprotected sex)
the rest is uknown

Since most of the hobbyists on the board play with women i'll give female statistics

66% of hiv infected women are african american
17% white
14% hispanic
1% asian/pacific islander
<1% american indian alaska native

1/2000 chance you'll transmit HIV through female to male high risk sexual behavior (again high risk meaning unprotected sex/unprotected sex with injecting drug user)

1/200 chance you'll transmit HIV through male to male high risk contact....i don' think I need to get into further detail of what that is..

Chances or Sex workers/escorts of having HIV is very low, women with HIV in general is very low in the United States.

HIV cannot be transmitted through oral sex, saliva kills the HIV virus thus transmitting HIV through oral sex is virtually 0%.

In order for HIV to be transmitted, the infected person(s) must have a high viral load in order to infect.

HIV transmission has to happen inside the body, which is why condoms are 99% effective

HIV has to travel all the way inside the urethra, which is why it is much harder for men to obtain HIV

Symptoms are a horrible way to determine whether you have HIV or not
(HIV symptoms are very very very similar to anxiety)

*Remember it's not about how many people you have sex with, it's all about the kind of sexual behavior you engage in, you can have sex with hundreds and hundreds of women, but as long as you're PROTECTED you will not get HIV, and infection of other STD's are very low.

-For those of you that have done any high risk sexual acts, please get tested so you do not infect others, if you have NOT done any high risk sexual acts there is no need for HIV testing, please do not send me any PM's asking ridiculous questions such as..."can i get HIV throug a handjob?" answer is no, "i got a fever b/w 3-6 weeks after having PROTECTED sex with an escort, do i have HIV?" the answer is no "i got a bbbj with an escort, can i get HIV?" answer is no.

-I am not a doctor, but i know my stuff, so to keep yourself from suffering with needless anxiety, wrap it up, play safe, then you will never have to think about any kind of STD

Sincerely,

Unknown

[Winddance1]

Herpes can hide for 6 months or longer before it pops up again. Syphilis has a sore at the point of infection that is often painless. The sore goes away but the disease continues in the body causeing brain and other organ damage, You have to get a test to know for sure.

Went to the Dr. thanks to the advice given. Turned out to be Psorisis, whew.

[Earl Twenty]

I haven't had sex with anyone in 3 or 4 months, would think someone would have showed up by now.

Herpes can hide for 6 months or longer before it pops up again. Syphilis has a sore at the point of infection that is often painless. The sore goes away but the disease continues in the body causeing brain and other organ damage, You have to get a test to know for sure.

[Winddance1]

I haven't had sex with anyone in 3 or 4 months, would think someone would have showed up by now.

[MoeShempLarry]

Dang, hon! You're over the age of 14, aren't cha? Go to the health department then! No, doesn't sound like herpes. Sounds like syphillis, which could NOT be cleared up except w/ antibiotics and a shot in the ass of penicillin. You've GOT to get to the doctor! Or health department, one. Does NOT require an appt. Is MORE embarrassing (& idiotic to say the least) to NOT go.

Whom else have infected in the meantime? CONTACT them!

Take responsibility. Is NO big deal, 'cept by NOT goingto get it cleared up!

[Winddance1]

Developed a redness and couples of sores on my penis a month ago. Embarrassed to go to the doctor. No itching, pain, wouldn't even know it was there unless you looked at it. Any ideas? Seems by research herpes burns, etc, and last only 2-3 weeks.

[MoeShempLarry]

per EDITOR'S SUGGESTION: This is interesting, but you might consider re-
posting it under the Safe Sex topic ...

[note: originally posted in huntsville, al general reports ... direct quotes]

stats -- glad asked, I thought high too

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Am GLAD asked that! (thought about when posting; but, didn't have time to look up at the time) I thought it very high too! Read in HT sometime about late summer/early fall '06. k, just spent the past couple hours trying to look this up -- is the thing with stats, eh? why quantified stating, "if believe stats" ... who believes them?

[all paraphrased, direct quotes]
black Males 79.8% AIDS/HIV entire state of ala (all ages)
black Females 20.2% AIDS/HIV entire state of ala (all ages)

age 20 - 49 of BOTH sexes is 85% HIV/AIDS of black population of alabama

source: ADPH (ala dept of public health), sept 2006.

there were 358 new HIV in Madison in 2004 ... the aids action coalition currently serves 500 clients in madison county.

African-American and Hispanic women, who represent less than 25 percent of all U.S. women, account for more than 79 percent of AIDS cases in women. More specifically, African Americans make up nearly 60 percent of AIDS cases in women ... white women account for only 16.8 percent. HIV/AIDS ... is the leading cause of death among African-American women in 20-34 yr age group.

Sources: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of HIV/AIDS Prevention-Surveillance and Epidemiology, Special Data Request, November 2006.
[end paraphrased, direct quotes]

[and, no, numbers do not add up; seldom do in stats]

no, could NOT find stats on HIV/AIDS for black wimmen in Madison County.

THAT is why glad asked. sooooooo, according to this, you guys can still see black F ...

as stated previously ... we're responsible adults, so we use raincoats, eh? do that and then don't have to worry about stats, jacks.

["am a poet and don't show it" ... ok ok already ... is from some song, i think, excuse ...]

Have fun but be safe,

Sun

EDITOR'S SUGGESTION: This is interesting, but you might consider re-posting it under the Safe Sex topic in the Special Interests section of the Forum where it will benefit the Forum Members who are specifically looking for this type of information. Thanks!

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[posted by:] Father Mike
Senior Member
Update: Madison County [Alabama] Statistics

I have a friend who is a doctor and asked her about the statistics for HIV cases in Madison Co. She updated me with the following current stats:

Total cases - 558
56.8% Black
41.6% White
1.6% Other

~20% of the cases are female or roughly 112 cases. 89 are black females, 19 are white females, the remaining are other.

She told me that per cap., the hispanic population carries more STD's including HPV (#1), chlamydia, syphillis, gonorrhea, and herpes.

The major STD treated in Madison Co. is herpes. It is possible to get herpes from a BBBJ but is rare. You can get chlamydia, hepatitis A, HPV (warts), shigella, and syphillis from a BBBJ. The riskiest form of sex for STD's is anal.

Think about it the next time your little head starts thinking and you don't have a condom.

Keep it SAFE,
[end quote]

[MoeShempLarry]

Rbrown is not accepting PMs, so sending this as a post.

Howdie hon: I know your posting is "old" but simply wanted to comment that as an old-timer, the dude whom said, "uness you had an open sore. Have nothing to worry about". THIS IS TRUE.

Find it hard to believe got so worked up over licking scrotum and middle of penis w/ bare tongue. Hon, RELAX!

At least enough time has passed to where now you know, didn't catch anything.

Hugs,

Sun Huntsville, Al

[Shogun Hua]

Check out CDC.GOV, Center for Disease Control.

[Benchseats Rock]

Rbrown987, don't panic. It's not a big deal. As it was explained to me, the only way a STD will get into your system under the circumstances you described is if you have an open sore and she licked it or she performed a BBBJ. That is assuming she was infected with a STD to begin.
You are on the right track with the safety thing. Don't let your guard down and don't let the little head think for the big one.

HPV would still be transmissable. Fortunately, 80% of sexually active adults have it. There is nothing wrong with getting a handjob with a condom.


Benchseats Rock

[Constantsorrow]

Rbrown987, don't panic. It's not a big deal. As it was explained to me, the only way a STD will get into your system under the circumstances you described is if you have an open sore and she licked it or she performed a BBBJ. That is assuming she was infected with a STD to begin.
You are on the right track with the safety thing. Don't let your guard down and don't let the little head think for the big one.

[Rbrown987]

Well, I can't believe I am to the point where I have to ask the question. I have been at this for a year. I do have a family so when I started my one rule was to be completely safe. I have only received erotic massages with hand job finishes. Today I decided to mix it up. I asked the girl at the parlor to perform russian as I believed it would be completely safe from a std standpoint. In the heat of the moment, before she started to perform russian, she lightly used her tongue to stroke the base/middle of my penis and scrotum. She basically did it without asking. She then proceded to perform russian. I have read the risks and it appears to be minimal but of course I am freeking out. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions? I did read the risks website at the bottom of this forum. Please PM me if you don't feel comfortable writing.

Thank you

[Thrilla59]

Re: BEWARE OF PLEJUR PEACH "THE SEXUAL ASSASSIN

------------------------------------------------------- Reply to: pers-163326177atcraigslist.org Date: 2006-05-21, 11: 29PM PDT

NEVER ASSUME SOME DUMB HO IS NOT BAREBACKING MORE THAN ONE GUY IF SHE LETS YOU. IF YOU DO, I AM SURE THERE ARE MORE. IF YOU SEE herR PUSSY PICS YOU WOULD KNOW SHE HAD AN STD WITHOUT EVEN HAVING TO SEE HER. SEE HER ADS

Losangeles. Craigslist.org/ers/162764329.html (new poc)

Vs

Losangeles. Craigslist.org/ers/162753048.html (old pic)

Don't forget to ad the beginning to see the link

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TO ALL OF MY FELLOW HOBBYISTS IT IS IN YOUR BEST INTEREST TO READ THIS POSTING, SO THAT YOU DON'T MAKE THE SAME LIFE CHANGING MISTAKE THAT I DID.

YOU ARE WELCOME TO EMAIL ME FOR FURTHER INFORMATION.

I had seen warnings about this girl Plejur Peach (Keisha) before I had become a regular of hers. I never believe anything anyone says unless I know its factual.

Over the last 3 months, I have seen her on a weekly basis. At first, Everything we did was protected until I got to know and trust her. We went to AIM and both got tested and we were both negative. From then on we did EVERYTHING bareback. She told me that this was a rare opprutunity and that the only other person that she went bareback with was her boyfriend. I was recently scrolling through CL ads and saw a posting of hers that advertised bareback BJ's. I confronted her on that fact and she had a very convincing and detailed explanation that led me to believe that it was a hook just to get the clients there and then persuaded them to use condoms.

When I first met her the only insecurity she had was her teeth. The biggest priority was getting her teeth fixed. But, over the last couple of weeks I noticed a tremendous downfall in her hygeine and she stopped going to the dentist after having several of her teeth pulled already. Her surroudings became very unsanitary. I asked her if everything was going okay and she went on and on about supposed bad postings on CL on her.

My last visit with her was Monday, May 15th. As usual, I was greeted with a hug and DFK. It was then I noticed a foul taste and odor coming from her mouth. I overlooked it and figured it was from her smoking. She fixed me a drink and we sat down to smoke our usual party favor. I noticed after a few drinks that the foul odor in her mouth was stronger than I had thought. As she got closer to me talking and laughing, I noticed her constantly licking what looked like puss coming out of a sore in her mouth. I asked her what was wrong with her mouth and she said she had constantly been biting the inside of her lip. At the time I didn't know what it really was, but being careful I decided to refrain from getting head.

Thinking with the wrong head (drunk and high) I told her that I just wanted to do greek using a condom this time. But, again my dumb ass let her talk me into doing it without one as we usually do. BIG MISTAKE! As she pulled off her pants I noticed an odor similar to the one in her mouth. She automatically said she had just had a client and had used a spermicidal condom which gives her that odor. So, we agreed upon doing it in the shower. Of course the odor was not noticable with the smell of the soap. After I popped and pulled out, I noticed a yellowish, creamy discharge. I asked her what it was and she acted surprised and I said that you should probably get that checked out. I had planned to go right away and asked her if she wanted to go with me and she said she already had a scheduled visit the following day.

I went straight to AIM in Sherman Oaks and was tested and found out the next day that I had contracted Gonorrhoea. If things weren't bad enough I was contacted Friday morning and was told that I had also contracted Type II Genital Herpes Virus. I have since tried calling her and she sends me straight to voicemail.

YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

****She lives in Hollywood at [Personal contact information deleted by Admin]****

This is in or around EXTREMELY IMPORTANT! MUST READ!

This is in or around STDVille

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