Safe Sex Information and Advice

[FreeWally]

I wonder though, all these years on this forum, never have I seen anyone got HIV, more on STD and as for STD, PrEP does not prevent any I believe.

Chance of HIV per PIV exposure to someone HIV-positive is .08%. https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medic...-exposure.html.

.4% of people in the USA have HIV. 88% of those with HIV know they have HIV, 12% don't. Drug use and anal sex are the cause of most infections, despite being a small fraction of exposures. I.e. they are the riskiest behaviors.

Let's assume the worst case that among those with HIV, even though they know they have HIV, they are equally having unprotected sex as those without HIV. Your chance of having bb sex with a random American is. 00032 percent per exposure (.0008 x .004 = .0000032) or more simply put 1 in about 300,000 (1 / .0000032). Remember, that is per sex act and most people have bb sex more than once in their life. But we can assume things are better than the worst case, in that some HIV positive people who know they have it are no longer having unprotected sex (in addition to others who are taking effective antivirals which drop the HIV viral load to undetectable).

Now moving on to South Korea, the rate of HIV is far less at a rate below .1%. In fact, the vast majority of HIV positive in South Korea are men (88%), and if you filter out men and foreigners you find that for ethnic Korean women it drops to .01% of the population. That's roughly 40 times less than the number we used for an American.

If I got HIV, I would not be telling people here about it any time soon. It took almost 20 years for me to post about all the other STDs I've gotten, after processing it and "moving on".

[Vulcan1009]

I would not say he was picky of any sort. Here are some facts with citation:

Magic Johnson had sex with six women at the SAME TIME. https://www.marca.com/en/basketball/...3af8b45f7.html.

Magic Johnson had sex with more than 300 different sex partners EVERY YEAR. https://www.nbcsports.com/nba/news/s...ohnson-had-sex.

If you had sex with a few thousand sexually open women, especially in an era before HIV awareness, then you too may have HIV.

Despite being offered otherwise, the most women I have ever had sex with at the same time was one.

How many of you have had sex with even a meager 300 different women, let alone thousands? I've tried very hard, but don't come close.

Magic Johnson is beyond exceptional.

I wonder though, all these years on this forum, never have I seen anyone got HIV, more on STD and as for STD, PrEP does not prevent any I believe.

[JackHolly]

How many of you have had sex with even a meager 300 different women, let alone thousands? I've tried very hard, but don't come close.

There are some mongers who seem to have enough money to see at least one new girl every week, which would make it quite easy to see over 300 different women in about 5-6 years. But 300 different women every year?! That's just crazy. (Not to mention he probably didn't have to pay anything to see them. He might've had to pay some to go away, but that's a different story.).

That said, I think most of us don't have the kind of bankroll to see 50 different women a year, much less 300! I think most of us tend to find some favorites and see them multiple times. For me, personally, I only have the kind of bankroll to see some regulars 1-3 times a month, and try a new girl maybe 5-7 times a year. So in my years of hobbying, I'm probably somewhere in the range of having been with 100-150 different women. But it's taken me a while to get up there. No way I'll ever come close to 300 women a year; heck, even having sex 300 times a year sounds like it would be a bit much (for me), to be honest.

[PriscillaM]

I would not say he was picky of any sort. Here are some facts with citation:

Magic Johnson had sex with six women at the SAME TIME. https://www.marca.com/en/basketball/...3af8b45f7.html.

Magic Johnson had sex with more than 300 different sex partners EVERY YEAR. https://www.nbcsports.com/nba/news/s...ohnson-had-sex.

If you had sex with a few thousand sexually open women, especially in an era before HIV awareness, then you too may have HIV.

Despite being offered otherwise, the most women I have ever had sex with at the same time was one.

How many of you have had sex with even a meager 300 different women, let alone thousands? I've tried very hard, but don't come close.

Magic Johnson is beyond exceptional.

The issue is now how many and when, but where. Anal sex is terribly invasive in terms of blood flow. Gay men only do it one way and it is incredibly damaging in terms of what gets ripped up and where. The pussy, even tight Asian ones on sawtelle, can handle it. I am sure magic had gay sex, and if not, had anal sex either throwing or catching, alot. That is why subsaharan Africa spread hiv even among hetero.

[FreeWally]

Magic, though... I would have thought to at least be more selective about the origins of his poontang.

I would not say he was picky of any sort. Here are some facts with citation:

Magic Johnson had sex with six women at the SAME TIME. https://www.marca.com/en/basketball/...3af8b45f7.html.

Magic Johnson had sex with more than 300 different sex partners EVERY YEAR. https://www.nbcsports.com/nba/news/s...ohnson-had-sex.

If you had sex with a few thousand sexually open women, especially in an era before HIV awareness, then you too may have HIV.

Despite being offered otherwise, the most women I have ever had sex with at the same time was one.

How many of you have had sex with even a meager 300 different women, let alone thousands? I've tried very hard, but don't come close.

Magic Johnson is beyond exceptional.

[NuttyLoon]

Magic had probably lots of sex and probably had lots of anal sex too. Sheen strikes me as a sex maniac who likes straight vagina type of a guy though.

I thought so to, but from the rumours and stuff he's mentioned, I think he might have dabbled in a lot of things.

Especially if he was tripping or drunk.

Magic, though... I would have thought to at least be more selective about the origins of his poontang.

[SolarisMan]

Magic is HIV positive, don't suspect he was an IV drug user, nor doing any homo stuff. Then again, he probably stuffed more holes that we could ever hope to.

Sheen is HIV positive, might be due to a tranny.

There's always a chance, the statistics from the government seem to make it so slight. I'd probably get on prep, if that were my thing, BB'ng prostitutes.

Magic had probably lots of sex and probably had lots of anal sex too. Sheen strikes me as a sex maniac who likes straight vagina type of a guy though.

[Oc Amper]

Probably not the best place to post this but wondering if I can get genuine feedback here or on inbox.

So I've been barebacking a lot of K girls and was wondering what your guys thought on the risk of hiv is doing this?

I know for heteros our risk is about 0. 04% but wondering if any of you guys heard stories before.

I'd imagine its probably not as common but anyone know if the k girls get tested frequently?

Magic is HIV positive, don't suspect he was an IV drug user, nor doing any homo stuff. Then again, he probably stuffed more holes that we could ever hope to.

Sheen is HIV positive, might be due to a tranny.

There's always a chance, the statistics from the government seem to make it so slight. I'd probably get on prep, if that were my thing, BB'ng prostitutes.

[SafetyVest]

Probably not the best place to post this but wondering if I can get genuine feedback here or on inbox.

So I've been barebacking a lot of K girls and was wondering what your guys thought on the risk of hiv is doing this?

I know for heteros our risk is about 0. 04% but wondering if any of you guys heard stories before.

I'd imagine its probably not as common but anyone know if the k girls get tested frequently?

Start taking PrEP. It's free at the clinic. Also you can get a prescription for it from your doctor.

[ElonMusk]

Probably not the best place to post this but wondering if I can get genuine feedback here or on inbox.

So I've been barebacking a lot of K girls and was wondering what your guys thought on the risk of hiv is doing this?

I know for heteros our risk is about 0. 04% but wondering if any of you guys heard stories before.

I'd imagine its probably not as common but anyone know if the k girls get tested frequently?

[BMax986]

I'm going to take it you tapped that the way you wrote a defense in the name of someone who possibly had an std that made them blind. Nothing is for sure but the board is here for people to give us a heads up, and then we make the decision. But you're right, two junkies that suddenly went blind could possibly be from two different things. But I'm also here to tell you there are plenty of fish in the sea, too many to be caping or tripping off of one. This game is dirty.

Actually I have never met Laura. I'm not into the SW scene, not judging, but the cruising and scooping, higher risk of LEO, and cleanliness (I'm not even talking about std's here) don't appeal to me. I like them freshly showered. Early on, one girl gave me the I'm in the shower excuse, even opened door head wrapped in a towel, LOL. When I went to the bathroom, shower and shower curtain were dry. She showers in my presence ever since then. I have nothing against streetwalkers. I commented on this thread inquiring which Sierra was mentioned as going blind. In turns out the Sierra in question is the one I had met at comfort inn and reviewed here in June 2020. Didn't know or care she was a SW. Thinking back on it, I tried to meetup with her again a few weeks later, but she sent me to an address on 2nd in BP for a cardate. Since it was a cardate I suggested a lower price, which she agreed to, but eventually she ended up ghosting me. I've done a few cardates with a couple of girls I already knew due to circumstances, but personally, I find cardates uncomfortable.

The original poster commented both girls had similar looks to their eyes he could see. There are a couple of more serious std that can cause blindness, but they cause damage inside the eyeball which you cannot see directly from outside, so those conditions are ruled out. So we're probably dealing with trachoma / chlamydia, herpes simplex, herpes zoster. Zoster, if you had chicken pox, you have zoster. Simplex / hsv1, 50-70% of general adult population has herpes simplex. Among Baltimore prostitutes and mongers who do BBFS and BBBJ, it's probably more like 95-100%. Chlamydia, realistically, every girl who does BBFS or BBBJ here for 1,2, or more years has had chlamydia. And it takes years and alot of things going wrong medically before you go blind (but sure, a lot things are going wrong if you are a dope / crack addicted prostitute). Yes, there are many fish in the ocean, and almost ALL the fish have herpes simplex and zoster and history of chlamydia. And probably worse, yah Baltimore, #1 in std's. It is a dirty game.

I'm glad to hear Sierra did seem to get help for her eyes. Laura should seek treatment also.

[WaffleEater]

This forum is like a Reddit page talking about subject specific things with sources that are most likely other guys or things they've heard without peer reviewed research to reference. As I'm also going to spin some knowledge, take what I have to say with a grain of salt and just consult a verified medical professional for this sort of stuff. I'd also like to preface this with that I'm a traveling nurse of 5 years now and all my credentials are up to date. The first things I'd tell you any of you for safe sex practice is CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN. If you share a family practitioner with a wife or child and don't feel comfortable disclosing such information about your hobby, find an alternative provider for this consultation specifically.

You would not believe how open some people are to me regarding substance abuse, sex work frequenting, steroids, etc. There is no judgement and at the end of the day, as medical providers, we truly do not care. I say consult your physician because being predisposed to immune compromised conditions (diabetes, cancer, anti-immune disease etc), weight, age, and many other factors will play into common strategies like daily doxycycline dosing can cause other health risks that you will not see the consequences immediately but will eventually. The only person who can truly advise you on these decisions is your practitioner due to a comprehensive knowledge of your medical background. So in that regard, not I or not a super senior member of this forum will be able to tell you how to minimize the consequences of this risky hobby that we choose to indulge in.

The consequences of not doing this or seeking licensed advise is what we see here. Untested customers AND untested girls spreading the same strain of clap or what have you until it possibly infects individuals with incurable strains of commonly treated STDS. YES, hiv is a big one but there are many cases of gonorrhea and chlamydia mutating until even a series of antibiotics can't even cure. The consequences can be an immune comprised life, impudence, or infertility. Not to mention you'll be contagious for the rest of your life.

Hobby responsibly, be kind to yourself, loved ones, and these women by manning up and taking a test regularly so you can get treated if need be. If you have money to splurge on orgasms, you have money to get tested.

[FaceDownPro]

Is this sierra the attractive blonde that went by little Sierra in Brooklyn Park a couple of years ago? She had really blue eyes and made great eye contact during BJ. I went and checked some video, and I can say her eyes were clear back in 2020. Are you saying Sierra also went blind?

Having stayed at a Holiday Inn last night, let me add that even if Sierra and Laura had eyes that looked alike, it could have been from different things causing scarring of the cornea. Depending on how long they have been blind, it takes a long time for scarring to get bad enough to cause blindness regardless of cause being from an std or non-std. Original exposure could have been from over a year ago. Not enough information to accurately comment on your assertion that it was same thing that killed her boyfriend.

We all have different risk levels. But we can't complain about girls who insist on everything covered and also complain that a streetwalker or escort may have had an std a year or two ago, possibly because she went blind.

Sad thing is, simple early treatment when they had ocular symptoms would have prevented them from going blind. If you know Laura, a cornea transplant may be able to restore vision, but she has to care enough to seek treatment. No one says these girls have the right priorities, but seriously, seeing? Hopefully if Sierra is off the street, she has cared enough to seek treatment.

I'm going to take it you tapped that the way you wrote a defense in the name of someone who possibly had an std that made them blind. Nothing is for sure but the board is here for people to give us a heads up, and then we make the decision. But you're right, two junkies that suddenly went blind could possibly be from two different things. But I'm also here to tell you there are plenty of fish in the sea, too many to be caping or tripping off of one. This game is dirty.

[Member #6571]

You would literally have to have an open sore and have a woman with HIV bleed into it. It is transmitted via blood to blood, or semen to blood. That's it, full stop. Yes it's possible but you're more likely to die in a car accident on the way there. Magic Johnson probably didn't get it from vaginal sex. I know that's the narrative. And I hate conspiracy theories but I don't consider this one. He was likely receiving anal from trans girls or sharing needles. I know a lot of (likely) sex addicts whose sensors get burned out and they up the ante and play with trans. Anyway, we'll never know.

Read the NYT article. Antibiotic resistance is more of a global issue rather than a personal issue. Yes if the whole planet took daily antibiotics we'd be screwed. But they don't. If a high risk group (those reading this) take it right after bare sex, it probably won't affect much, but that is between you and your god. And, Doxy is one that rarely creates a resistance.

Yea, daily doxy dosing seems like a bad idea for several reasons. 1st, you can say goodbye to your healthy gut bacteria, welcome to skid-row city. You won't be able to trust a fart after a few days on doxy. Plus it leads to a host of other GI are / t issues summed up by the phrase "I feel like shit!" (figuratively & literally). 2. While most of the "super-bug" pronouncements by the MSM is hyperbole, there is some truth to it, just like with anything in life, too much of anything ain't good. As for the CDC. Take their "science" with a grain of salt. Better solution is to take a loading dose of Zithromax 1000 mg after symptoms arise or after any sketchy sex. You can take that dose for 3 days vs taking doxy 100 for a minimum of 7-10 days. As for the HIV discussion. HIV prep seems like a reasonable cost-effective preventive measure if you're regularly bb'ng. For bonus points take daily Zovirax or Valtrex to prevent HSV Outbreaks. Anyway, you can source all these meds at a very low cost (including Genuine V, forget the Mexico placebos) from India. It goes w / o saying that the cheapest solution is go glove up!

[MrGeorge]

You would literally have to have an open sore and have a woman with HIV bleed into it. It is transmitted via blood to blood, or semen to blood. That's it, full stop. Yes it's possible but you're more likely to die in a car accident on the way there. Magic Johnson probably didn't get it from vaginal sex. I know that's the narrative. And I hate conspiracy theories but I don't consider this one. He was likely receiving anal from trans girls or sharing needles. I know a lot of (likely) sex addicts whose sensors get burned out and they up the ante and play with trans. Anyway, we'll never know.

Read the NYT article. Antibiotic resistance is more of a global issue rather than a personal issue. Yes if the whole planet took daily antibiotics we'd be screwed. But they don't. If a high risk group (those reading this) take it right after bare sex, it probably won't affect much, but that is between you and your god. And, Doxy is one that rarely creates a resistance.

Wouldn't taking the daily Doxycycline cause antibiotic resistance if you get sick? The antibiotic resistance is on rise for that very reason that you mentioned!

And you can get HIV from women! Just ask Magic Johnson on how he got it and he will tell you! But you are correct in that statement that chances of getting HIV from a vaginal intercourse with women is extremely low (somewhere less than 0.8%) but twice more likely for a woman to get it from infected man with HIV. However, the HIV risk infection increases if you have other untreated STI.

Just check out STD risk calculator at CDC and it will see the lay the land: it is very very very low but you can still get HIV from vaginal intercourse.