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Clarification
Originally Posted by KnoxVol
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She's still in the business. I started seeing her and paid a couple of times and I guess she kinda likes me because there for awhile when she wanted some shed call me up.
This sierra I'm talking about is not the cierra b. The thivk brunette that was making the rounds spring 2015. The sierra I mentioned is a slim former stripper that used to be friends with thr amber bigjim865 mentions.
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Take careful note of her actions!
Captain,
One does not have much control over whom you have feelings for. That's the human condition.
I would recommend that you very closely watch that her ACTIONS match her words. It's like don't tell me you love me show me you love me (A2's points). Also, she must do this standing the test of time. Not for just a week or month but always. Anything less and YOU should bail immediately.
I wish you all the luck and hope you find much happiness.
CD.
Originally Posted by CaptHook
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Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.
Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.
Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.
I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).
I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.
Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.
I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?
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Possible move
I may be moving to the Knoxville area and I have been reading the forums to find some info. I have visited last year and I saw Candy Curves and Whitney, it seems Whitney may be out of the picture on what I read, didn't go really far back to get more news. So I mainly dabble in the SA site myself and hope to contribute as much as I do in my current city if this move does happen which most likely will. If anyone has some good news or leads to anything please let me know, I've been around, trust me I know how to RTFF but I have found out that PMs usually are great for information sharing. I'm hoping that Knoxville isn't a really dry city, but we'll see, LOL.
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Once in a life time
Well guys I finally did attend the wed bang its was very cool love every bit of it the girls were very accommodating the only draw back was the girls had there favorite so it was easy to get a bbjcim but to fuck them was hard even if your in line will repeat maybe better luck next time it's one off the bucket list.
Stay safe.
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Posts like this deserves a like button!! Great job A2.
Originally Posted by Admin2
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End of the day hookers are people. Generally speaking complicated people with bad trust issues but just people. I know more than a few guys down here that did the ho to housewife program and the results are running about 50/50 which amazingly enough are about the same as "regular" people.
As a guy who nearly has a hooker fetish I can't imagine me settling down with a chick that never was a working girl. Number one they just fuck better, practice makes perfect. Two, I'm kind of a freak and I'm not interested in traditional relationships and most hookers have a better understanding of casual sex.
From looking at the ones that worked and the ones that didn't I've developed a few rules that help to determine if they are into you or you're just a favored client.
1. Most important. They HAVE to want to spend time with you off the clock. That doesn't mean that you pay for an hour and get to spend two hours, that could just mean they are bored and don't have another appointment. That means that they have to WANT to spend time with you, coffee, movies, lunch, what fucking ever, without having sex and getting paid. This is the most important thing. If they aren't swinging by your place to shoot the shit without fucking and making money they aren't into you. There is no excuse for this, people, ALL people, ALWAYS make time for the things that they WANT to do. If she's not, then she doesn't want to spend time with you and involve you in her life not from a financial perspective. If she is, that's hurdle one.
2. She's got to want to do something else that brings in money. It doesn't have to be a lot of money but it has to be enough for her gas and smokes, otherwise you have an employee.
3. She's got to want to spend a little of that money on you. It doesn't have to be big that's rule three, but from time to time she has to show up with something she bought for you because when she saw it, it made her think of you and she wanted to do something for you.
4. She has to be willing to sacrifice for the relationship. As an example on your birthday she needs to do something that cost her. Doesn't have to be money, it can be time or energy, but if it's a reciprocal thing she has to invest.
5. You can't always be the person that's driving the relationship. She has to take steps to you as you move to her.
There are more and they aren't really rules they are baselines that you understand BEFORE you get to feeling all lovey dovey. If none of this stuff is happening, you're not having a relationship no matter what it feels like.
Best of luck.
A2.
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Sierra A?
Originally Posted by Boss49
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Welcome back Hound. I got to agree with you on Sierra, she was the sloppiest, drooling, gagging head doctor I have met sure do mis her also, Hound you need to get her back in the game.
Boss.
She's still in the business. I started seeing her and paid a couple of times and I guess she kinda likes me because there for awhile when she wanted some shed call me up.
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Originally Posted by Admin2
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End of the day hookers are people. Generally speaking complicated people with bad trust issues but just people. I know more than a few guys down here that did the ho to housewife program and the results are running about 50/50 which amazingly enough are about the same as "regular" people.
As a guy who nearly has a hooker fetish I can't imagine me settling down with a chick that never was a working girl. Number one they just fuck better, practice makes perfect. Two, I'm kind of a freak and I'm not interested in traditional relationships and most hookers have a better understanding of casual sex.
From looking at the ones that worked and the ones that didn't I've developed a few rules that help to determine if they are into you or you're just a favored client.
1. Most important. They HAVE to want to spend time with you off the clock. That doesn't mean that you pay for an hour and get to spend two hours, that could just mean they are bored and don't have another appointment. That means that they have to WANT to spend time with you, coffee, movies, lunch, what fucking ever, without having sex and getting paid. This is the most important thing. If they aren't swinging by your place to shoot the shit without fucking and making money they aren't into you. There is no excuse for this, people, ALL people, ALWAYS make time for the things that they WANT to do. If she's not, then she doesn't want to spend time with you and involve you in her life not from a financial perspective. If she is, that's hurdle one.
2. She's got to want to do something else that brings in money. It doesn't have to be a lot of money but it has to be enough for her gas and smokes, otherwise you have an employee.
3. She's got to want to spend a little of that money on you. It doesn't have to be big that's rule three, but from time to time she has to show up with something she bought for you because when she saw it, it made her think of you and she wanted to do something for you.
4. She has to be willing to sacrifice for the relationship. As an example on your birthday she needs to do something that cost her. Doesn't have to be money, it can be time or energy, but if it's a reciprocal thing she has to invest.
5. You can't always be the person that's driving the relationship. She has to take steps to you as you move to her.
There are more and they aren't really rules they are baselines that you understand BEFORE you get to feeling all lovey dovey. If none of this stuff is happening, you're not having a relationship no matter what it feels like.
Best of luck.
A2.
Ok, that's some of the best advice I've ever read. (This is me kissing A2's ass). LOL. No, really great advice and your perspective, some of it coming from where you live, reminds me of my year in Korea.
I fell for a full blown Korean *****. It was her full time job and where she worked she lived with other ******. Nothing like this anywhere in USA. Christmas eve I got her out of there by paying management 50 bucks. I took her to my Squadron Christmas party. Several of my Airmen buddies came up to me saying she looked familiar. Haha.
Her name was Julie and even though this was over 20 years ago I still remember it like it was yesterday. Over the year I got her out several more times. She was 19 and had never driven a car. I taught her how to drive in my Air Force pickup that I had access to because of my job. We did this on the back roads of Osan off base. Talk about taking a risk. The Air Force would have crucified me if I got caught doing this. I didn't. Julie helped me get thru that difficult year and I'd love to find a way to thank her but never will be able to.
Life is short, you make your own adventures. Julie was one of mine.
The Belly.
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Originally Posted by CaptHook
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Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.
Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.
Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.
I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).
I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.
Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.
I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?
End of the day hookers are people. Generally speaking complicated people with bad trust issues but just people. I know more than a few guys down here that did the ho to housewife program and the results are running about 50/50 which amazingly enough are about the same as "regular" people.
As a guy who nearly has a hooker fetish I can't imagine me settling down with a chick that never was a working girl. Number one they just fuck better, practice makes perfect. Two, I'm kind of a freak and I'm not interested in traditional relationships and most hookers have a better understanding of casual sex.
From looking at the ones that worked and the ones that didn't I've developed a few rules that help to determine if they are into you or you're just a favored client.
1. Most important. They HAVE to want to spend time with you off the clock. That doesn't mean that you pay for an hour and get to spend two hours, that could just mean they are bored and don't have another appointment. That means that they have to WANT to spend time with you, coffee, movies, lunch, what fucking ever, without having sex and getting paid. This is the most important thing. If they aren't swinging by your place to shoot the shit without fucking and making money they aren't into you. There is no excuse for this, people, ALL people, ALWAYS make time for the things that they WANT to do. If she's not, then she doesn't want to spend time with you and involve you in her life not from a financial perspective. If she is, that's hurdle one.
2. She's got to want to do something else that brings in money. It doesn't have to be a lot of money but it has to be enough for her gas and smokes, otherwise you have an employee.
3. She's got to want to spend a little of that money on you. It doesn't have to be big that's rule three, but from time to time she has to show up with something she bought for you because when she saw it, it made her think of you and she wanted to do something for you.
4. She has to be willing to sacrifice for the relationship. As an example on your birthday she needs to do something that cost her. Doesn't have to be money, it can be time or energy, but if it's a reciprocal thing she has to invest.
5. You can't always be the person that's driving the relationship. She has to take steps to you as you move to her.
There are more and they aren't really rules they are baselines that you understand BEFORE you get to feeling all lovey dovey. If none of this stuff is happening, you're not having a relationship no matter what it feels like.
Best of luck.
A2.
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Preggo Marie
Does anyone know anything about this Prego Marie? I understand she was working with Peyton. Feel free to pm Me.
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Best Of Luck!
Originally Posted by CaptHook
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Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.
Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.
Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.
I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).
I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.
Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.
I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?
I just wanted to wish you the best of luck. There are some good ladies out there, not all are a train wreck and I hope you found one of them!
Best Wishes,
Candy.
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I concur with the general theme throughout most of the replies: you cannot ever get past how yiur relationship started. It will always be there. (Think about the guy who marries his girlfriend, after his wife catches them cheating. The girlfriend always wonders who the current girlfriend is-even if there isn't one.).
But I do have one really cool, really relationship with a retired provider. We don't date; and we only fuck about once a year or so. Old timers around here would easily recognize her name. She got out, has a kid and a real life, including a second husband in the past 6 years. We are just really weird, but (danger word) loving friends. It's neither a FWB nor a friend zone thing. And it didn't happen intentionally; it just sort of occurred naturally over the years. We usually get a hotel room on one of our birthdays each year. But we email multiple times a week. And I occasionally see her at her work.
Originally Posted by CaptHook
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I just wanted to thank all of you guys for the genuine and respectful input. I kind of put myself out there and everyone who offered advice and insight did so in a way that was kind and based on experience.
I'm still conflicted, but it was good to hear some other thoughts. I'll keep my decisions on this matter private, but if I start posting reviews, you know I'm back!
Thanks & Stay Safe.
Capt.
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"Breezy"
Does anyone know if "Breezy" aka Michelle is back in business? Alcoa / Maryville area?
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Better think about it
Originally Posted by VolBoater
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If it flies, floats or fucks. Rent, don't buy.
Of course I don;t take my own advice, but at least I don;t have a plane - hahaha
Looked at it like it's a car. Never buy a rental. It might look good on the outside but you know that thing has a lot of hard miles on it and has probably been wrecked a few times. Just saying.
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Flies
Originally Posted by EchoEcho
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Sir, really think about this: them.
A 'relationship' will simply end up consuming both you AND her, completely. And it's not worth that.
Speaking for me, I say: Fuck 'em. Don't love 'em.
If it flies, floats or fucks. Rent, don't buy.
Of course I don;t take my own advice, but at least I don;t have a plane - hahaha
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Thanks!
I just wanted to thank all of you guys for the genuine and respectful input. I kind of put myself out there and everyone who offered advice and insight did so in a way that was kind and based on experience.
I'm still conflicted, but it was good to hear some other thoughts. I'll keep my decisions on this matter private, but if I start posting reviews, you know I'm back!
Thanks & Stay Safe.
Capt.
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