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**Member #5245** · 09-27-16 11:58

Originally Posted by CaptHook [View Original Post]

Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.

Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.

Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.

I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).

I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.

Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.

I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?

Wow! What a great post. Finally, something deep on here. Love it. No, it probably won't work, the odds are against you bigtime, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a shot. I mean, I don't think I'd leave the wife and kids over her, but it's your life and you know your own situation better than anyone.

Some of us get too close. I know I'm more than guilty of that infraction. And, taking advise from others on here may not be the best answer for you personally. I applaud the fact that you have the balls to ask for it. I don't think I could if I were in your situation.

I could tell you a story about what happened to me years ago but I know A2 would pull it. Since I'm on thin ice here lately I won't put it out there but you can PM me anytime.

Getting too close to the fire will get you burned for sure. But, you are human after all, and one thing that seems to be missing in many posts on here is that they are human also. Unless you're with an alien.

Good luck and I hope you continue to talk about this. You have the Bellies attention, that's for sure.

Yours,

The Belly.

**EchoEcho** · 09-27-16 10:47

Sir, really think about this: just because you love somebody doesn't mean you need to be with them.

A 'relationship' will simply end up consuming both you AND her, completely. And it's not worth that.

Speaking for me, I say: Fuck 'em. Don't love 'em.

**Jem411** · 09-27-16 06:42

Originally Posted by BigJim865 [View Original Post]

You can't turn a hooker into a housewife!

I get it, but you said it yourself she / they are pros at manipulation and that will always be in the back of your mind.

They only way it could possibly work is if you both packed up and left your lives behind here, and started somewhere else fresh.

BigJim.

What I find to be true in life, wherever I go, I show up. In other words, changing locals, doesn't change me. Just changes where I am me. I want what I want when I want it. No one on this board is going to share your pain, your expenses, your loves or losses, so do what you think is right for you. If it turns out wrong, at least you have the scars to prove you went through it. Tough spot to be in, havingg two heads, be nice if sometimes the one with a brain would win.

Smart man learns from his mistakes. Wise man learns from other's mistakes. I'm hopeful to be semi-smart someday. Doubting I'll ever be considered wise. Be safe.

**BBtie72** · 09-26-16 23:03

Originally Posted by Sexhoundtn2 [View Original Post]

I tried several times to hook up with her. She always flaked on me. Of course this was after her issues took over. Wish I could have saw her in the good times. Let me know if she ever comes back.

I actually tried to reach out to her with no response. I blew way too much dough on her but that's because she blew something really good on me.

**Sexhoundtn2** · 09-26-16 16:01

Originally Posted by BBtie72 [View Original Post]

I have partaken of the head Dr. She ain't even in same stratosphere as my old contact in McMinn co. This girl could deep throat and lick the back of your testicles at the same time. Incredible all around talent. Too bad she had issues.

I tried several times to hook up with her. She always flaked on me. Of course this was after her issues took over. Wish I could have saw her in the good times. Let me know if she ever comes back.

**ThatDude34** · 09-26-16 13:27

She was doing doubles with paeyton. She had the baby about 2 weeks ago.

Originally Posted by Sexhoundtn2 [View Original Post]

So upon my return I went back through and read some of the old threads. Who is this pregnant Marie that a few you guys have talked about?

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**Boss49** · 09-26-16 13:10

Originally Posted by Sexhoundtn2 [View Original Post]

My vote would have to go to Sierra, the South Knoxville UTR. Unfortunately she is no longer in the business as far as I know.

Welcome back Hound. I got to agree with you on Sierra, she was the sloppiest, drooling, gagging head doctor I have met sure do mis her also, Hound you need to get her back in the game.

Boss.

**Member #2668** · 09-26-16 11:45

I had the same thing happen to me and can only share my experience. After almost losing my family, job, and SEVERAL thousand dollars later my opinion is that the majority of women that do this for a living are not suited for a stable relationship. They have numerous male connections, most have kids, baby daddy drama, not to mention numerous chemical dependencies. In rare cases it might work but in my humble opinion I think the chances are better of hitting the PowerBall.

**Sexhoundtn2** · 09-26-16 10:04

So upon my return I went back through and read some of the old threads. Who is this pregnant Marie that a few you guys have talked about?

**Sexhoundtn2** · 09-26-16 10:02

Originally Posted by DeepinU [View Original Post]

Guys, let's take a poll on the sloppiest, choking on, face burying, throat tickling, gagging herself, drooling on, not going to stop until your empty BBBJ. You can PM all votes through me.

Deep.

My vote would have to go to Sierra, the South Knoxville UTR. Unfortunately she is no longer in the business as far as I know.

**Sexhoundtn2** · 09-26-16 10:01

Originally Posted by MilfMan865 [View Original Post]

Welcome back man. I figured that you were picking up some of the slack left by Doc Holiday at the local watering holes. I went into Twin Peaks, was able to bag one of the fine females and her roommate (package deal, actually met on SA), so I knew that something wasn't quite right. I felt like I was poaching from both of you; sorry not sorry. The ladies can hear you howling again Hound.

Stay safe,

Milfman.

Thanks MM I do appreciate the compliment. But I am afraid I cannot hold a candle to the mighty Doc Holliday. I too miss having a Docs input and wisdom on the board.

**Rrayr** · 09-26-16 08:51

Originally Posted by CaptHook [View Original Post]

Okay. I know I'm opening?

I feel for ya brother. It's really hard to compartmentalize in this game sometimes.
I'm starting to feel like the more I partake, the more it changes me. Kinda scary.Channelling a little BluFord here.

Love don't need to find a way, it finds its on way.

I forget that I can't stay.

And so I say that .

All roads lead to where you are.

The seed is spilled, the bed defiled .

For you, a virgin bride .

Hide yourself in someone else .

Don't find yourself in me .

I can't lift you up again .

Love comes tumbling down again.

Rrayr.

**MilfMan865** · 09-26-16 06:32

Originally Posted by CaptHook [View Original Post]

I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?

Dear CapHook ,-, I applaud you for having the courage to post this in an open forum. You know that this is a business and brutal one at that. I've had discussions with numerous ladies in the adult entertainment business (strippers and escorts) who had left the business and started seeing one of their customers. Here's the thing, none of them never truly left the game; they just got better at hiding it from their new beau. Problem is, in the relationship, dudes interpreted that they could just "get it for free". The ladies' bills were still due and they had to meet their financial obligations. Keep in mind that none had any degrees or certifications at the time to help them secure a better job or career path.

If you are willing to "pay all of her bills" and take her off the market, by all means do that (reminds me of the Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby aspect). If you are looking to "get it for free" while witnessing her struggle financially, that's just cruel.

Regardless, that's a candid discussion that you need to have with other before taking it any further. I wish you much success with whatever you decide to do sir.

Respecting the game while revering the journey. ,.

Milfman.

**BigJim865** · 09-26-16 03:53

Originally Posted by CaptHook [View Original Post]

Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.

Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.

Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.

I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).

I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.

Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.

I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?

You can't turn a hooker into a housewife!

I get it, but you said it yourself she / they are pros at manipulation and that will always be in the back of your mind.

They only way it could possibly work is if you both packed up and left your lives behind here, and started somewhere else fresh.

BigJim.

**BBtie72** · 09-25-16 23:46

Originally Posted by CaptHook [View Original Post]

Okay. I know I'm opening the flood gates for lots of comments and criticism, but here goes.

Let me begin by stating that I'm by no means new to this game and up until very recently, I've never had emotional feelings toward a working girl.

Don't get me wrong. I've developed friendships and genuine care for the well being of certain girls over the years, but something new is going on with me now.

I've really started to care for one. I'm scared to death! She says that she genuinely has emotionally feelings for me as well, but we all know that these girls are professionals at manipulating men. My heart really wants to believe that she does, but every time her phone vibrates or dings, I'm sure it's another one of us looking for a good time. Before, that wouldn't bother me in the least. Now, I get that tinge of jealousy. Since I've been with her, I've forsaken all my other regulars (some aren't really happy with that BTW).

I know that this isn't really a forum for advice like this, but who else can I come to for honest advice considering the nature of our meeting? I mean, on the one hand, if she's being honest about her feelings for me, I want to return them. On the other hand, I hate being made a fool of. I guess we all take that chance whenever we get with any woman, but I know that we'll have to lie about how we met. She makes me feel like a love struck teenager again and I really like it. God. I just don't know what to do.

Again, I apologize for the useless post. Also, I'll not be divulging the identity of my current love interest for obvious reasons. I know that info would help some in the advice category, but it could also open up issues for those who just want to see her professionally as well.

I know from past postings that I'm not the only one who's had this happen to them. Does it ever work?

I know two guys off here it worked for. There is one I met off seeking arrangements that would be suitable to make that happen if we wanted it. It depends on you both I would surmise. Some girls who do this have issues. If she does not have those you have a chance. If there is jealousy or mistrust you will have a hard time. Both of you! My 2 cents anyway.