General Reports

[PPJones]

There is a thread on the Philly boards on Sugar Dating, scroll down the list of threads to the user 'blog section', below the blue horizontal line.

There is a whole 'How To" section on what was the original SB board in Richmond, VA.

Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ

Start at Post #1 There is a PhD level of info there on every imaginable aspect of Sugar Dating. Take it piece by piece. Also the guys in VA are open to outsiders posting there and asking technique questions. Guys from around the country add their expertise there.

See, there is ALWAYS more to be learned. As I type my huge post, shampoo adds another spot to get further edgeumicated. Thanks! Will certainly check out that link!

Good luck, have fun, and be careful.

[PPJones]

Wow sounds very promising. Do you have any tips on what to say. As I heard of some guys complaining of being banned because they might have said something that refers to paid sex. Also what kind of funds are these girls asking. I'm sure its different from each girl but they maybe some tips on how this is all approached. My luck I would pay for the sites service to communicate and then get banned. LOL.

Just wanted to put my 2 in here.

I've been a member of WYP, SA, and SB for sometime now. Haven't paid for SA, did a couple rounds of credits on SB, with "a little" success.

First, there's all kinds on there. Pros, girls who have never met up (beginners), girls NOT looking to meet up (want to sell pics), bots, and real high end SB'S. The bots are generally (with an experienced eye) simple to weed out. If you're getting a message from a beauty in Brazil or California or Texas and you haven't looked at that profile (they get a message when you do), many times a bot.

I think the best approach, if you're concerned about being banned for saying the wrong thing is to make simple chat and quickly take it off site,(email, phone, text, kik, or other messenger) as with JT's technique. Most times, a couple simple messages and you can accomplish this quickly. From THERE, it's up to you to weed them out further and determine who or what it is you are chatting / talking to and what they are looking for and what they are willing to do.

As luck would have it, the first girl I decided to message back, we REALLY hit it off and 2-3 years later I have YET to find any better! With that being said, I managed a couple of meets with others with a SO-SO percentage of "happy endings". A few hook ups, and a few successes, but nothing really significant, with the exception of my current baby, who was, like I said, the first one I messaged.

Sugar dating IS similar to p4 p, however it involves much more work, and the girls do not wish to feel like they are having sex for money, but rather (the term they always use) "being spoiled". It's more about a serious connection and chemistry between the two of you and once you have THAT, MUCH can be accomplished. Like I said, MUCH more work involved vs "provider dating" but for those seeking more of a GFE and more serious connection, I would think it to be the way to go.

I haven't seen any of the high end girls or ones that won't negotiate to a reasonable price, so I can't speak on them, but, many will start with very high prices (esp girls who have never met) but after a bit of banter and chat, will generally come to their senses.

Sorry for the really long winded post, but as I started, more and more info kept coming to mind, and now we have a war and peace novel, but hopefully it can prove helpful to some.

Good luck to all, have fun, and be careful!

[Shampoo55]

Wow sounds very promising. Do you have any tips on what to say. As I heard of some guys complaining of being banned because they might have said something that refers to paid sex. Also what kind of funds are these girls asking. I'm sure its different from each girl but they maybe some tips on how this is all approached. My luck I would pay for the sites service to communicate and then get banned. LOL.

There is a thread on the Philly boards on Sugar Dating, scroll down the list of threads to the user 'blog section', below the blue horizontal line.

There is a whole 'How To" section on what was the original SB board in Richmond, VA.

Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ

Start at Post #1 There is a PhD level of info there on every imaginable aspect of Sugar Dating. Take it piece by piece. Also the guys in VA are open to outsiders posting there and asking technique questions. Guys from around the country add their expertise there.

[JTerry26]

Wow sounds very promising. Do you have any tips on what to say. As I heard of some guys complaining of being banned because they might have said something that refers to paid sex. Also what kind of funds are these girls asking. I'm sure its different from each girl but they maybe some tips on how this is all approached. My luck I would pay for the sites service to communicate and then get banned. LOL.

This is my approach this time. Keep in mind it has yielded ZERO actual results (me getting my wick wet) yet so YMMV:

1) focus search on nearby and recently active or new.

2) like a ton of women, mostly close by but also in Philly.

3) for like 10-15 a day follow up with a message "hey, how's town x".

4) if I get a response move quickly to "let's switch to texting" and when texting to "let's meet for a drink or dinner" and set something up ASAP. My theory here is a good bot can banter for weeks but it likely doesn't have a cell and can't show up at a bar. And if she doesn't want to meet, she's not interested in me personally or she's not actually into being a SB.

So I was supposed to meet someone 2 nights ago. Begged off (not feeling well) then disappeared. No responses to texts. The second was supposed to be tonight but we got 8-10" of snow. Have a bar meet for Sat and maybe another.

So again, zero actual results. Happy to get any advice, I've gotten at least one DM that was negative about SA.

[JDRedBull]

It's only been a week but it seems promising. A couple of good leads including some really close by. I'm supposed to meet one tonight and another tomorrow and possibly a 3rd over the weekend. The 2nd one just looks like it's straight sex, I. E. We're meeting at a hotel. That said, big difference between a lead and getting laid and an even bigger difference between getting laid and getting a reasonable (price, not crazy) regular.

Wow sounds very promising. Do you have any tips on what to say. As I heard of some guys complaining of being banned because they might have said something that refers to paid sex. Also what kind of funds are these girls asking. I'm sure its different from each girl but they maybe some tips on how this is all approached. My luck I would pay for the sites service to communicate and then get banned. LOL.

[JTerry26]

It's only been a week but it seems promising. A couple of good leads including some really close by. I'm supposed to meet one tonight and another tomorrow and possibly a 3rd over the weekend. The 2nd one just looks like it's straight sex, I. E. We're meeting at a hotel. That said, big difference between a lead and getting laid and an even bigger difference between getting laid and getting a reasonable (price, not crazy) regular.

I used to be on Ashley Madison. It was actually pretty good like 6 years ago. The sex was free. I had a regular for years. She just wanted sex.

Anyway I get back on and its just terrible. I talked to a couple girls. Either they are too far or just ghost when its time to meet. This covid shit is just messing everything up.

I signed up for SA and I get at least 3 to 5 girls favorite me or at least viewed my profile. I have not bought the service to respond. Its seems to good to be true. Or just lots of fakes. I am sure they are expensive to date some of them girl too if they are real. I hear you get banned if say the wrong thing too. That sounds very annoying. Anyway any info would be good.

[JDRedBull]

Out of frustration with not being able to find a reliable regular that's relatively nearby, I decided to try the Sugar Baby route for the 3rd time. Forget who I used the first time. Second time was Secret Benefits and this time SA.

So far I'm cautiously ambitious. For one, I'm liking and messaging women left and right. Figure some % are fake / bots so the shotgun approach should help weed them out. I'm being politely aggressive. Four or 5 days in these are my impressions:

1) definitely some bots on there, either that or the small town next to me has a couple of dozen hot co-eds. Seems unlikely. So some likes and messages just disappear.

2) the geographic restrictions suck, I only wanted close by leads. That said, if I ever make it to Venezuela I'll be hip deep in pussy. You can also restrict by body type and I'm sorry to say what some women think passes for athletic or average.

3) there's some straight up escorts on there, conversation goes through pretty quickly to pay-per-visit. Like a UTR escort. I have one of those set up for Th and another pending.

4) there's definitely real sugar babies on there. I'm meeting one for drinks tomorrow.

I'll report back later this week on how the various dates go. If all goes well I'll have two escort-like hook ups and a SB interview.

I used to be on Ashley Madison. It was actually pretty good like 6 years ago. The sex was free. I had a regular for years. She just wanted sex.

Anyway I get back on and its just terrible. I talked to a couple girls. Either they are too far or just ghost when its time to meet. This covid shit is just messing everything up.

I signed up for SA and I get at least 3 to 5 girls favorite me or at least viewed my profile. I have not bought the service to respond. Its seems to good to be true. Or just lots of fakes. I am sure they are expensive to date some of them girl too if they are real. I hear you get banned if say the wrong thing too. That sounds very annoying. Anyway any info would be good.

[JTerry26]

Out of frustration with not being able to find a reliable regular that's relatively nearby, I decided to try the Sugar Baby route for the 3rd time. Forget who I used the first time. Second time was Secret Benefits and this time SA.

So far I'm cautiously ambitious. For one, I'm liking and messaging women left and right. Figure some % are fake / bots so the shotgun approach should help weed them out. I'm being politely aggressive. Four or 5 days in these are my impressions:

1) definitely some bots on there, either that or the small town next to me has a couple of dozen hot co-eds. Seems unlikely. So some likes and messages just disappear.

2) the geographic restrictions suck, I only wanted close by leads. That said, if I ever make it to Venezuela I'll be hip deep in pussy. You can also restrict by body type and I'm sorry to say what some women think passes for athletic or average.

3) there's some straight up escorts on there, conversation goes through pretty quickly to pay-per-visit. Like a UTR escort. I have one of those set up for Th and another pending.

4) there's definitely real sugar babies on there. I'm meeting one for drinks tomorrow.

I'll report back later this week on how the various dates go. If all goes well I'll have two escort-like hook ups and a SB interview.

[Gator145]

I hit the playground for Valentines day. I wasn't looking for love just some creative action. Up ahead I see a very attractive blonde. I pull over ahead of her and she gets in as she gets to my vehicle. We did the customary small talk. The you feel me I feel you agreement then it was off to the races.

She was perfect. Very cute. Nice clothes. Great rack and a smile that just wouldn't quit. One thing that attracted me to her is she had all her teeth.

So, we are headed to the spot and I asked her name. She said Nikki. I asked what's your whole name? She quickly replied "PUSSY". I knew then and there I had found a keeper. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.

[WookieWonka]

Since we are all constantly looking for love this must be our (mongers) special day!

I think I'm going to go hit up BNA in NJ to see if any couples or single females show up then after 4 or 5 pm go hit up the Playhouse or maybe an AMP but I get the feeling AMPs might be extra busy today.

[GreyGrope]

Since we are all constantly looking for love this must be our (mongers) special day!

[JTerry26]

Kind of, basically decided not to wait to see if it got figured out so I bailed to plan B. Blue Wave AMP in Clayton.

Place was busy so the MMS gave me the table shower. On the flip she jerked me and when I got hard she was like "oooh, you LIKE me". Yeah, MMS, you still got it.

For the massage Lisa comes in. Older but really nice body. Gets right down to it. Rimming, BBBJ, 69, BBBJ, CFS.

(Mish to doggie) to BBBJCIM. $30 more for the same service in Philly but it was great. Really good BBBJ.

Great date last night with a regular. Set up a different regular this morning but I left after 20+ minutes with no response for the room #. She's been reliable so that was disappointing. Drove up to Azn Delight instead and had a great time with Annie. 69'ed on our sides on the table, bb. Almost lost it there, that was hot.

[MidnightRider7]

The bro never replies back.

Did you send me a PM?

[JTerry26]

Great date last night with a regular. Set up a different regular this morning but I left after 20+ minutes with no response for the room #. She's been reliable so that was disappointing. Drove up to Azn Delight instead and had a great time with Annie. 69'ed on our sides on the table, bb. Almost lost it there, that was hot.

Rather have that problem than the one I've been wrestling with, which is trying to hit a two- or three-hour window. I've struck out the last four times.

It's like the providers aren't reliable or something like that.

[WookieWonka]

Around the late 90's, the bar I frequented had a bartender like that. I never partook, but should have. Out of curiosity, just how did that one-time discussion go? Was it before the home-coming, or after?

With me the discussion took place out back behind the bar in the alley. Back then I was a huge pot head. Her shift was over and we went to smoke some weed in my car. She brought it up casually as an invitation to hang out with her and instead of spending money to take her out on dates I could just give her that money and cut out the BS we can go have fun at her place together. We knew each other casually for a long time so it wasn't like a conversation with a complete stranger but were weren't close friends either.