Seeking Arrangements

[NewEngland]

Anyone have the 411 on this women please inbox me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...0-d8a5238d54fd

[Spill]

I've said it in some post but the escort like girls will be reviewed on here more likely who will have time constraints or restrictions. The one's that want a situationship type deal have been more bang for the buck but also similar to dating. Just met the kid of my main SB who I'll be honest is getting me in the feels but we're both on the site so haha not fully immersing myself just yet. Had lunch with a new one in Federal Hill and dropped 185 with valet for her and myself plus our meal. She just wants to get taken out since her friends are broke moms with kids and she doesn't really have any others. She's had some guys want to meet up only for coffee but that's sat bad with her because they'll either want to split check or cover their own food. LOL I get it guys but it's an investment. Build that rapport first in conversation. Not full proof but at least softens the blow of "losing" money. She has kids too but she's made it apparent that she's attracted to me and wants to meet at her place when the kids are at school in the morning and go out to do something before she has to get them. LV 99, A Comedy Show, Go Kart etc. I'm also still relatively young compared to most on here I presume and childless so might have an unfair advantage. No mention of an allowance but with covering the cost of our adventure I wouldn't mind giving her 1 or 200 to get "dolled" up next time etc. That is if she's great in bed LOL. Her tits where nice and jiggly as we walked down Federal and chatted. To each their own though gents. Maybe escorts would be better for some than a SB who are looking for that simple cash to lay approach but like with dating, work on yourself, have the money, a little bit of game to woo her and make her laugh / smile and you'll get what you want (80% of the time haha). Look at ways to make money online too guys. Shit ton whether it be stocks, media or like me gambling hahahaha.

While your intentions are good (I think), let's put this in that old advice category of "wise men don't need it and fools don't heed it". How about some useful information like the scores of SBs you've tossed away per the request to JCLEARMAN1 in post #9199?

If you only supply the link, they cannot "mess it up". The SBs should weed the clowns out.

Again, only for those you no longer or do not intend to see.

Again, no numbers. Only links.

I do not know why this is so taboo here.

[Mark Powers]

Good morning gentlemen I have been texting with this young lady I wonder if anyone has any info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-a3bcdda08b1e

Either that link doesn't work or I blocked her or she blocked me. Can you attach a picture?

[Emv La]

I've said it in some post but the escort like girls will be reviewed on here more likely who will have time constraints or restrictions. The one's that want a situationship type deal have been more bang for the buck but also similar to dating. Just met the kid of my main SB who I'll be honest is getting me in the feels but we're both on the site so haha not fully immersing myself just yet. Had lunch with a new one in Federal Hill and dropped 185 with valet for her and myself plus our meal. She just wants to get taken out since her friends are broke moms with kids and she doesn't really have any others. She's had some guys want to meet up only for coffee but that's sat bad with her because they'll either want to split check or cover their own food. LOL I get it guys but it's an investment. Build that rapport first in conversation. Not full proof but at least softens the blow of "losing" money. She has kids too but she's made it apparent that she's attracted to me and wants to meet at her place when the kids are at school in the morning and go out to do something before she has to get them. LV 99, A Comedy Show, Go Kart etc. I'm also still relatively young compared to most on here I presume and childless so might have an unfair advantage. No mention of an allowance but with covering the cost of our adventure I wouldn't mind giving her 1 or 200 to get "dolled" up next time etc. That is if she's great in bed LOL. Her tits where nice and jiggly as we walked down Federal and chatted. To each their own though gents. Maybe escorts would be better for some than a SB who are looking for that simple cash to lay approach but like with dating, work on yourself, have the money, a little bit of game to woo her and make her laugh / smile and you'll get what you want (80% of the time haha). Look at ways to make money online too guys. Shit ton whether it be stocks, media or like me gambling hahahaha.

[PoorBill]

Good morning gentlemen I have been texting with this young lady I wonder if anyone has any info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...5-a3bcdda08b1e

[FairPlay]

Yeah I agree the long game is the way to go. Just be nice and not a creep and see who comes around. At the end of the day it's tax-free income for them and the people paying higher numbers dry up over time I'm sure.

I've had some girls who are taking 150 from me and I know 400 from other guys on here. Depending on the girl they just see us quick money and just want to get as much income as they can. But in terms of being organized the same girls have ended up blocking me simply because I'll hit them up randomly and by the time they get back to me I can't do the meet and they get frustrated. So I think reliability is big key to getting a good price although in the long run you might end up be paying more.

Lastly I found if I initially pay a higher price I've had success with negotiating a lower amount for repeat visits. Obviously they're not happy about it but we've already established a connection and they know I'm safe so they feel more comfortable taking 50 bucks or so off. "Hey can you do xxx amount? I want to see you but I'm a little strapped right now" Just something to think about.

[Corrado58]

Is it a huge time sink? Yes, indeed. And not everyone has the time. But the huge investment is really needed if (like me) you like a lot of variety. If you're just looking for 2-3 reasonable regulars, that is easy as cake to find. Maybe my memory is faulty, but I've been doing this for long enough going back to SW and CL days and I think we tend to over-romanticize the past. Things have actually gotten WAY better! Also, we lose the energy to pursue the way we once did. The scammers are easy to identify and steer clear of. Finally, I never block anyone. There is no need to take extreme measures. I've had ladies throw huge numbers at me and I just wait them out. In a weak moment (planning a trip to Florida) they will agree to a more reasonable arrangement. But you need to be very organized. The number of times I've had fellow mongers ask me who I'm talking about when we've discussed her many times just causes me to shake my head. Keep a notebook (physical or electronic) otherwise you're toast in this game (or any game that you wish to take seriously). If you're impatient and looking for quick results (like I need something today or now) you're going to have a lot of failures. Play the long game and you will do well. At least those whom I have shared with at some point or another will hopefully agree that a methodical and patient approach pays off in the end.

DC finally expounds on his accumulated and sound wisdom and approach. Put in the work, play the long game, be organized, don't play to quick results. Yes, take notes, treat it like research or a trial. I agree, blocking is an unnecessary, hard response. Probably, a clue as to DC's success. Take the soft, long game and smart approach. Never mean spirited.

Nasty, as well, with this tactful gem: some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck.

The soft, positive, gentlemanly approach is your friend here. "Best of luck" plays perfectly to a girl thinking this guy's cool, polite and he didn't demean me. Nasty, you should have kept this gem to yourself, LOL.

You two will, have done, just fine.

[DarkClouds]

Is it a huge time sink? Yes, indeed. And not everyone has the time. But the huge investment is really needed if (like me) you like a lot of variety. If you're just looking for 2-3 reasonable regulars, that is easy as cake to find. Maybe my memory is faulty, but I've been doing this for long enough going back to SW and CL days and I think we tend to over-romanticize the past. Things have actually gotten WAY better! Also, we lose the energy to pursue the way we once did. The scammers are easy to identify and steer clear of. Finally, I never block anyone. There is no need to take extreme measures. I've had ladies throw huge numbers at me and I just wait them out. In a weak moment (planning a trip to Florida) they will agree to a more reasonable arrangement. But you need to be very organized. The number of times I've had fellow mongers ask me who I'm talking about when we've discussed her many times just causes me to shake my head. Keep a notebook (physical or electronic) otherwise you're toast in this game (or any game that you wish to take seriously). If you're impatient and looking for quick results (like I need something today or now) you're going to have a lot of failures. Play the long game and you will do well. At least those whom I have shared with at some point or another will hopefully agree that a methodical and patient approach pays off in the end.

I think that you just have to play the law of large numbers. When I am looking I send the same message basically, making it clear that I'm not looking for anything serious but would love to discuss a ppm thing if she's into that. I get a lot of bites and often from girls you definitely wouldn't suspect some of them straight say they're not into it in their profile but they really are and the PPM is always reasonable. I get 400 the most frequently which can always be widdled down to 300 or even 250. I have had a couple say 1000 and I just blocked them and I've had some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck. 80% of the time they come down. I don't play with small talk. I get them off site asap and explain what I am looking for and ask what kinda allowance would work of they're game. This is as difficult as you make it. My advice is cast a wide net, see what bites negotiate with several then choose. It will take a few hours, but in the end you'll have at least a fist full of hopefuls.

[NastySD]

I think that you just have to play the law of large numbers. When I am looking I send the same message basically, making it clear that I'm not looking for anything serious but would love to discuss a ppm thing if she's into that. I get a lot of bites and often from girls you definitely wouldn't suspect some of them straight say they're not into it in their profile but they really are and the PPM is always reasonable. I get 400 the most frequently which can always be widdled down to 300 or even 250. I have had a couple say 1000 and I just blocked them and I've had some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck. 80% of the time they come down. I don't play with small talk. I get them off site asap and explain what I am looking for and ask what kinda allowance would work of they're game. This is as difficult as you make it. My advice is cast a wide net, see what bites negotiate with several then choose. It will take a few hours, but in the end you'll have at least a fist full of hopefuls.

I think the frustration is that it is much more harder to find good, consistent fun at a reasonable price, the site does nothing about scammers, and the most concerning thing I see more on here and the news: I feel as if robberies and setups on up from SA meetings. So now there's a safety issue.

Is there fun to be had? Sure! Emv La makes a good point the good price to performance is found in RI (also hear FL is goldmine); just too much competition and PPS in MA. DC and JClear show that you probably need to be on the site multiple months to find consistent fun (I usually did mth at a time for various reasons). But prices are up from the girls thanks to inflation, reddit, and how to SB content, and girls are doing less "work" thanks to expectation of mobile pay apps and selling content as well as the fact they don't consider themselves SW, but if you ask any SW, they absolutely are and that gap in understanding creates the disconnect which makes the site suck more than it did in 2017-2019.

[PlayTrey]

I'm no longer on seeking. It was fun when you find one. I played around with it for 3 months. It was a lot of work to find the one you want to hook up with. A lot of flakes. The most memorable one I had is a crazy blonde chick where we fucked all night. A lot of them, they're asking ridiculous money. Even a fat emo girl with color hair wants $500! One girl I talked to for a few months and when we she finally ready to meeet, she want $650. Some guys here complaining they're paying 250 or 300, I wish I had those. Thinking back some convo I had was with 18 year old where she just ghosted on me, I never hook up with her. Nowadays, I rather spend money going to a bar and find one there.

[Hobbyist420]

Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.

I think the frustration is that it is much more harder to find good, consistent fun at a reasonable price, the site does nothing about scammers, and the most concerning thing I see more on here and the news: I feel as if robberies and setups on up from SA meetings. So now there's a safety issue.

Is there fun to be had? Sure! Emv La makes a good point the good price to performance is found in RI (also hear FL is goldmine); just too much competition and PPS in MA. DC and JClear show that you probably need to be on the site multiple months to find consistent fun (I usually did mth at a time for various reasons). But prices are up from the girls thanks to inflation, reddit, and how to SB content, and girls are doing less "work" thanks to expectation of mobile pay apps and selling content as well as the fact they don't consider themselves SW, but if you ask any SW, they absolutely are and that gap in understanding creates the disconnect which makes the site suck more than it did in 2017-2019.

[SixtyNineX10]

Has anyone partaken? - definitely my type. DM is you prefer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-308bd292db34

[Banjomania]

Oddly, Secret Benefits has become definitely more productive than Seeking for me. Seeking has some higher class women, perhaps, but more fakes and flakes at this point. That being said, it's a bit like fishing out a lake. Just let the fish repopolulate the lake. It may take a little time, but the lake is sure to be productive again.

Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.

[Animal131]

I've seen a lot of yall not happy with the demographic of the site / game as of late and I have to say I'm with you and plan on not renewing my membership. I've struck gold over the past three years but as of late things seem to be getting worse. Women over valuing themselves, scammers, AI, and people not expecting meeting up being a requirement. The final straw for me recently was the last girl I connected with on there (very hot goth in her early 20's from the north shore) after seeing her two-three times a week for a month she randomly hits me up to complain that I've been lowballing her and there's been men offering 6 just for head from her! She bumped it from 1 to 3 for me which I basically told her absolutely not since we agreed on our pricing which she had no problem with at the time and unfortunately we haven't spoken since (though she still follows me on insta), it was good while it lasted but to whoever that dude is thanks for ruining my streak with a unicorn.

Was also going to pull the trigger with a young lady from Norwood but she wanted two 50 for head and said her commute was an hour (it's 20 minutes I make the drive everyday to my job) she got really angry when I pointed out that was bs and got blocked.

You could be hooking up with these girls for 300 $ a week. Every month at $1200. Be reliable and safe income. They rather go back to seeking and risk finding a new random stranger for $600 and get ghosted by the guy.

[DarkClouds]

Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.

I've seen a lot of yall not happy with the demographic of the site / game as of late and I have to say I'm with you and plan on not renewing my membership. I've struck gold over the past three years but as of late things seem to be getting worse. Women over valuing themselves, scammers, AI, and people not expecting meeting up being a requirement. The final straw for me recently was the last girl I connected with on there (very hot goth in her early 20's from the north shore) after seeing her two-three times a week for a month she randomly hits me up to complain that I've been lowballing her and there's been men offering 6 just for head from her! She bumped it from 1 to 3 for me which I basically told her absolutely not since we agreed on our pricing which she had no problem with at the time and unfortunately we haven't spoken since (though she still follows me on insta), it was good while it lasted but to whoever that dude is thanks for ruining my streak with a unicorn.

Was also going to pull the trigger with a young lady from Norwood but she wanted two 50 for head and said her commute was an hour (it's 20 minutes I make the drive everyday to my job) she got really angry when I pointed out that was bs and got blocked.