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[Dangerb]

I have to ask, ... Has anyone seen this one? Her pic on the site always drove me wild, and she recently added a couple more to torture me. Unfortunately, I don't meet her criteria I. E. , I look like Santa and / or her grandpa and kinda look like the creepy guy at the park. PM works if you don't want to post here.

https://www.seeking.com/member/864ca...1-f28fbf9a6689

[Lloyd Braun 93]

Chuck nailed it. "it can really work if you work it. " I've had the same experiences.

I definitely cannot "work it" At least in this area. Most of the ones I want to chat with log in about every two weeks so it is hard to get anything going. Either that or the profile just randomly disappears or they are sitting on the fence, not sure if they are ready to really do this. If we do get anywhere, they want like 5 and you are lucky if you can talk them down to 4. Or if they want something more reasonable like 2, they just don't do it for me. LOL I would begin to think that my skills are totally horrible but when I am on vacation I can totally clean up on SA. Maybe I have performance anxiety at home? Haha If any of you lucky bastards would like to share some user names of a local sure thing my inbox is open. Don't worry I am not an idiot and I will not tell them you sent me. At the very least, I am happy to know at least a handful of people are having a good time in Fort Fun!

[LikesToPlay74]

Sounds like one hell of a day date. My old ATF from SA offered similar experiences sometimes, but she seems to have moved away. Bummer.

Like other guys I've talked to about this, you seem really good at the negotiation part. I'm not great at it, but I still don't end up paying nosebleed prices most of the time. The girl I'm currently seeing most regularly just wants a monthly allowance and then I see her as often as I want / can. It works out pretty good when it works.

But yes, going through the numbers game and not relying on one magic girl / match is key. There are chicks on there I'd love to hook up with, and I've mentioned some on here. But not everyone is in it for the same reasons or down with the same stuff. I've had girls try to sell me pics and videos, chicks asking for vacations, and telling me they just want dates (and weird shit too, like they'd give me a rose if they wanted to see me again. Get out of here). But I've also had ones who want me to meet in the next few hours to do whatever I want for $. 5. It can really work if you work it.

Chuck nailed it. "it can really work if you work it. " I've had the same experiences.

[CallMeChuck55]

Well stated Chuck. You said it much better than I did when I tried to express my experience on SA. Casting a wide net or filling the funnel full then weeding them out through negotiation is key. I haven't had so much fun since I started in the hobby in 2009. Just met one of my regulars from there today for lunch, beers and then off to her place for over an hour of pure uninhibited fun. She's at least an 8 out of 10. She works FT, firm, smart, no drugs and super sexy. OMG. Wore my ass out. The menu was very full including Greek. Cost me lunch and 1. 2 for the great sexcercise. From my experience, the quality of ladies on SA greatly surpasses anyone I've ever seen from STG including the old timers on there who think their pussy somehow turned to gold. Also amazed at how freaky some are. Almost like they've been dying for someone to ask them to get wild with them.

Sounds like one hell of a day date. My old ATF from SA offered similar experiences sometimes, but she seems to have moved away. Bummer.

Like other guys I've talked to about this, you seem really good at the negotiation part. I'm not great at it, but I still don't end up paying nosebleed prices most of the time. The girl I'm currently seeing most regularly just wants a monthly allowance and then I see her as often as I want / can. It works out pretty good when it works.

But yes, going through the numbers game and not relying on one magic girl / match is key. There are chicks on there I'd love to hook up with, and I've mentioned some on here. But not everyone is in it for the same reasons or down with the same stuff. I've had girls try to sell me pics and videos, chicks asking for vacations, and telling me they just want dates (and weird shit too, like they'd give me a rose if they wanted to see me again. Get out of here). But I've also had ones who want me to meet in the next few hours to do whatever I want for $. 5. It can really work if you work it.

[Dangerb]

You can post your pic while keeping it private and not viewable to others. You then can then manage who you want to see the pic. I've done that with no issues at all.

Do you post your pic on profile? I'm considering SA but, being married, reluctant to do my pic at the outset. Recently, was on Secret Benefit site, finally hooked up with a hot ebony spinner but for $2. 5 and after a lot of browsing and weeding out.

[LikesToPlay74]

Do you post your pic on profile? I'm considering SA but, being married, reluctant to do my pic at the outset. Recently, was on Secret Benefit site, finally hooked up with a hot ebony spinner but for $2. 5 and after a lot of browsing and weeding out.

I do but I disable the profile as soon as I get a plenty numbers. I agree it is risky to post your pic but I've been willing to take the chance.

So I should've elaborated in regards to costs a little more. So I tell them from the onset that I'm used to spending between 1. 2 and 2. 0 depending on what all we do and frequency. If they don't agree to that, I won't see them. Then tell them I will see them 3 to 4 times a month whether I do or not. Never had trouble finding several to bite. With my regulars, I started out at no more than 2. 0 at most then next visit may be 1. 2. Haven't spent more than 1. 6 since. They never complain. It's like Chuck said, more of a FWB arrangement. All that said, I do think a measure of luck is involved too.

[CaptivaHeat]

Do you post your pic on profile? I'm considering SA but, being married, reluctant to do my pic at the outset. Recently, was on Secret Benefit site, finally hooked up with a hot ebony spinner but for $2. 5 and after a lot of browsing and weeding out.

Well stated Chuck. You said it much better than I did when I tried to express my experience on SA. Casting a wide net or filling the funnel full then weeding them out through negotiation is key. I haven't had so much fun since I started in the hobby in 2009. Just met one of my regulars from there today for lunch, beers and then off to her place for over an hour of pure uninhibited fun. She's at least an 8 out of 10. She works FT, firm, smart, no drugs and super sexy. OMG. Wore my ass out. The menu was very full including Greek. Cost me lunch and 1. 2 for the great sexcercise. From my experience, the quality of ladies on SA greatly surpasses anyone I've ever seen from STG including the old timers on there who think their pussy somehow turned to gold. Also amazed at how freaky some are. Almost like they've been dying for someone to ask them to get wild with them.

[LikesToPlay74]

SA is a numbers game. I was PMing with another member here, and I told them that it's all about casting a wide net and hoping to pick up something. If you have your eye on one girl it's probably not going to work out.

If I message 20 chicks, I might get responses from 10 of them. Of those 10, probably only 5 will want to meet. The others will be scams or people trying to sell videos or (most absurdly) chicks who just want money but don't want to do anything. Then, of those 5, I'll probably only end up meeting 2 or 3. So from the start, the odds of anything happening when I start messaging is about 10-15%. It's low, but it's doable, and I've met more than one chick who isn't a pro and who seem much more like FWB than an escort / provider.

Some of the chicks on SA aren't great looking, and some of them want primo money. But most of them can also be negotiated down, especially if you tell them you'd like to start low and then build a rapport and offer more later. Whether you intend to do that or not, in my experience most chicks will be more open sooner and accept less at the start if they see a regular income. Only three girls I've ever hooked up with were super firm about prices over $$, and even then they were willing to put in good time for it. Also, if you set up the scenario by saying to intend to see them long term (again, whether you intend to or not), there's a chance you can see them more than once while only paying one time and treating it like a monthly "allowance. " I've had that work a few times.

I'm not a great looking guy, I'm overweight, and no chick has ever offered me a discount on seeing me naked. But I've pulled 8's and 9's from SA for less than $$, and every chick I've hooked up with from there is better looking than every provider I've seen in town.

Well stated Chuck. You said it much better than I did when I tried to express my experience on SA. Casting a wide net or filling the funnel full then weeding them out through negotiation is key. I haven't had so much fun since I started in the hobby in 2009. Just met one of my regulars from there today for lunch, beers and then off to her place for over an hour of pure uninhibited fun. She's at least an 8 out of 10. She works FT, firm, smart, no drugs and super sexy. OMG. Wore my ass out. The menu was very full including Greek. Cost me lunch and 1. 2 for the great sexcercise. From my experience, the quality of ladies on SA greatly surpasses anyone I've ever seen from STG including the old timers on there who think their pussy somehow turned to gold. Also amazed at how freaky some are. Almost like they've been dying for someone to ask them to get wild with them.

[CallMeChuck55]

SA is a numbers game. I was PMing with another member here, and I told them that it's all about casting a wide net and hoping to pick up something. If you have your eye on one girl it's probably not going to work out.

If I message 20 chicks, I might get responses from 10 of them. Of those 10, probably only 5 will want to meet. The others will be scams or people trying to sell videos or (most absurdly) chicks who just want money but don't want to do anything. Then, of those 5, I'll probably only end up meeting 2 or 3. So from the start, the odds of anything happening when I start messaging is about 10-15%. It's low, but it's doable, and I've met more than one chick who isn't a pro and who seem much more like FWB than an escort / provider.

Some of the chicks on SA aren't great looking, and some of them want primo money. But most of them can also be negotiated down, especially if you tell them you'd like to start low and then build a rapport and offer more later. Whether you intend to do that or not, in my experience most chicks will be more open sooner and accept less at the start if they see a regular income. Only three girls I've ever hooked up with were super firm about prices over $$, and even then they were willing to put in good time for it. Also, if you set up the scenario by saying to intend to see them long term (again, whether you intend to or not), there's a chance you can see them more than once while only paying one time and treating it like a monthly "allowance. " I've had that work a few times.

I'm not a great looking guy, I'm overweight, and no chick has ever offered me a discount on seeing me naked. But I've pulled 8's and 9's from SA for less than $$, and every chick I've hooked up with from there is better looking than every provider I've seen in town.

[LikesToPlay74]

My SA experience has been similar to Luv and Primo. Seems most want at least 3 $ and a lot of messaging then ghosting. LTP must have a special formula or he resembles Brad Pitt to meet attractive nympho women for under 2 $!! I don't like the risk of being robbed or meeting in roach infested motels so I'll keep trying on SA a little while longer. Stay safe.

Ha! I'm going to call it luck because I definetly don't resemble Brad Pitt. If I did, I have a feeling I wouldn't be looking on SA or STG to feed my addiction. Best of luck and stay safe.

[HardLuck1]

Of course YMMV and maybe I just got lucky but the formula has worked for me. Join a month, message a bit on the site, get as many numbers of potential providers out of those as possible, then weed them out further. The 3 that I frequent are by far over and above anything on STG. All are at least a 7 out of 10 and 1 is a total freak in the sheets. And cost is lunch or dinner, sometimes a hotel and 1. 2 - 1. 8 donation. Multiple hours of fun! They're out there to be had.

My SA experience has been similar to Luv and Primo. Seems most want at least 3 $ and a lot of messaging then ghosting. LTP must have a special formula or he resembles Brad Pitt to meet attractive nympho women for under 2 $!! I don't like the risk of being robbed or meeting in roach infested motels so I'll keep trying on SA a little while longer. Stay safe.

[LikesToPlay74]

I totally agree SA women suffer from GPS and want a ridiculous allowance they are living in a fantasy world from watching Pretty Woman way too many time. I wasted about 3 Bill's on the membership fees then I shut it off actually met 3 but they all were 5 out of 10's I can get that on STG without the membership fee.

Of course YMMV and maybe I just got lucky but the formula has worked for me. Join a month, message a bit on the site, get as many numbers of potential providers out of those as possible, then weed them out further. The 3 that I frequent are by far over and above anything on STG. All are at least a 7 out of 10 and 1 is a total freak in the sheets. And cost is lunch or dinner, sometimes a hotel and 1. 2 - 1. 8 donation. Multiple hours of fun! They're out there to be had.

[PrimoVelli]

I tried SA for almost a year. All I got was a few message exchanges. A couple of almost meetings (one canceled) when I was about halfway there.

I basically just flushed nearly a thousand bucks down the toilet. I do ask myself why I keep browsing these boards when I abandoned hope so long ago. Maybe there's that last little glimmer hoping I'll stumble on something.

I totally agree SA women suffer from GPS and want a ridiculous allowance they are living in a fantasy world from watching Pretty Woman way too many time. I wasted about 3 Bill's on the membership fees then I shut it off actually met 3 but they all were 5 out of 10's I can get that on STG without the membership fee.

[LuvGingerGirls]

I tried SA for almost a year. All I got was a few message exchanges. A couple of almost meetings (one canceled) when I was about halfway there.

I basically just flushed nearly a thousand bucks down the toilet. I do ask myself why I keep browsing these boards when I abandoned hope so long ago. Maybe there's that last little glimmer hoping I'll stumble on something.

I have to say this again, I got so tired of the overpriced or strung out providers that are on skip the games these days, I tried the seeking arrangement site again. The cost to join I believe is a little over 80 a month. I have to tell you, I now have 3 high quality regulars. The encounters are very reasonable donations. The donations vary and most will negotiate. Most have jobs and they want a little extra money with a little extra spice in their life. There are those that will come at you with some ridiculous "allowance" expectations. It's easy to quickly weed those out but even some of those you can negotiate with. The ones I have encountered are less than 2. 0 for several hours of fun each meeting. Much more fun than ANY provider on Skip the Games from my experience. Even the ones that have been around awhile that we know. I asked each if they would like me to promote them here and they asked that I didn't as they want to remain low volume, low key. There are new ladies joining all the time so there is always variety.

My recommendation is to join seeking arrangement for a month, get as many phone numbers of possible matches and cancel membership before it auto renews. And Skip. Skip the games and say goodbye to the overpriced long-timers or the strung-out druggies we see there so many times.

[LikesToPlay74]

I have to say this again, I got so tired of the over priced or strung out providers that are on skip the games these days, I tried the seeking arrangement site again. The cost to join I believe is a little over 80 a month. I have to tell you, I now have 3 high quality regulars. The encounters are very reasonable donations. The donations vary and most will negotiate. Most have jobs and they want a little extra money with a little extra spice in their life. There are those that will come at you with some rudiculous "allowance" expectations. It's easy to quickly weed those out but even some of those you can negotiate with. The ones I have encountered are less than 2. 0 for several hours of fun each meeting. Much more fun than ANY provider on Skip the Games from my experience. Even the ones that have been around awhile that we know. I asked each if they would like me to promote them here and they asked that I didn't as they want to remain low volume, low key. There are new ladies joining all the time so there is always variety.

My recommendation is join seeking arrangement for a month, get as many phone numbers of possible matches and cancel membership before it auto renews. And Skip. Skip the games and say goodbye to the over priced long timers or the strung out druggies we see there so many times.