"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[American314]

Excellent write up! And I agree that there are many opportunities in the markets and grocery stores. I find that the Latin markets have beautiful young single Moms that are open to programs. Please do keep writing and sharing your wisdom!

LM.

Here's another one for why'all.

Took a long while but extremely well worth it! Met a girl, mid 20's, at a convenience store. Beautiful smile and the eyes when she smiled totally enamored me. After 20 or so times interacting with her I just said "when are you going to take me out for lunch!" She said "lets go!" We sat at the table outside and I got into great detail about her. I then talked to her about some of my life stories. She was in a relationship at the time but I ascertained that it was not fulfilling for her. I could tell that she was somewhat submissive and that is appealing to me. I related stories from my days back in the 70's when I was in college and in a motorcycle club (real). She was mesmerized and kept asking for more tales. I listened and learned a lot about her also. It progressed until she broke up with her then boyfriend. I drove up soon thereafter, talked and took her out to dinner. It seems to me that younger women today don't have the same derision for sex as when I grew up. I have been seeing her since and neither of us seem to have any issues with the arrangement as it is a very mutually enjoyable situation! I truly just love a young, beautiful spinner type girl, naked, doing a BBBJ as I sit back and relax! P.S., I am well educated, make good money and not the most handsome guy in the world, but I do know that there a lot of women out there that, regardless of your age are looking for someone who can mentor, educate and put a smile on their faces! Be as respectful and as charming as you can. It has worked for me for many years! I'll have more coming soon. Please do not ask for contacts etc. As I will not compromise my or their discretion!

[FarFarAway]

I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.

I don't understand what you are seeing. I don't have a paid membership and here is what the girl's profiles look like to me.

[LuccaMac]

This is my wheelhouse! One reason that I don't post much on this site is that I don't care all that much for the pro's. I am extremely discreet as I have much to lose. I have garnered much fantastic info from this thread! I am probably much older than most on here and was married for over 30 years. No S / O now, and have been "wilding" throughout most of it. First thing is that you cannot be repulsive in your appearance or manner! I am NO Richard Gere but Have done very well. It does take effort and usually some time and a couple of really good tips " I have had great success with store clerks, waitresses, social gatherings and even grocery stores. Don't be shy but not aggressive. If you try to be too quick to suggest your intentions and she agrees, 90% she will probably already be a pro! I love the chase almost as much as the Catch! I will try to write up some suggestions for you and post some soon. I have an engagement and not the time right now. I will give you one of my all time favorites though. Walking in a low rent chain grocery store, saw an early 20's slim, beautiful dirty blond girl that appeared to be looking for a few items. She had no makeup, sweat pants and a white button down shirt without a bra. I said hello and told her she had to be the most naturally attractive woman I had ever had the pleasure of meeting and just needed to relay that to her. She replied "how can you say that with the way I'm dressed? Her response started the conversation. Ended up with a lunch meet the next day. Nothing "arrangement" suggested at that time. I told her a little about me and she wanted to hear more than just a few quick stories. Later on in our arrangement when I asked her why, she said she found me very interesting! Even though I was 3 x her age, it lasted several months! It DOES take some work sometimes but the rewards, like this one can be phenomenal! More to come when I have more time.

PIE.

Excellent write up! And I agree that there are many opportunities in the markets and grocery stores. I find that the Latin markets have beautiful young single Moms that are open to programs. Please do keep writing and sharing your wisdom!

LM.

[JonFisher]

I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.

It a pain man. I also feel they are throttling the search results. Two people with same search parameters are getting different results.

[Gobig2]

Best thing imo do is a Facetime call. If they arent up for that well bye.

I have a phone number from texting her but when I do a reverse search on spokeo it comes up a male in a different town which causes suspicion I don't want to make a hotel booking and then no one shows up I would like to verify that she is real They send some pictures but not sure if real.

I read once to have them send a photo with note in the photo saying Hi John and the date I normally do not do a meet and greet first.

Please advise thanks CM.

[CandyMan555]

I have a phone number from texting her but when I do a reverse search on spokeo it comes up a male in a different town which causes suspicion I don't want to make a hotel booking and then no one shows up I would like to verify that she is real They send some pictures but not sure if real.

I read once to have them send a photo with note in the photo saying Hi John and the date I normally do not do a meet and greet first.

Please advise thanks CM.

[OliverNP]

I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.

It's almost seeming like for a guy like me, ignoring my current comfort zone and looking toward the future, it's going to take a major economic downturn to flip things and get some girls wanting again.

Alrighty then, let me make a couple of phone calls. .

But seriously, I think the FOSTA-SESTA thing and me too movement has made it harder to get the media attention that was turning so many on to the lifestyle prior to the pandemic.

No worries though, like all things there is ebb and flow. Pussy is always out there it's just up to us and our creativity to figure out the best way to harvest it.

The rotation I'm on right now keeps my dick reasonably happy over the short term but not my psyche. After one of these girls spends a weekend with me, my balls are empty I get on the porn sites to look around and I feel a creeping influx of turn off images, fat girls and whatnot. Maybe I'm just getting old and the decline of energy is skewing my perspective?

Sex with the same girls (however hot) only goes so far. Over time the dick turns into something like a dowsing rod for new pussy. Changes to the site that make that harder are unwelcome to be sure.

[GolfMan57]

Thanks for the comments so far.

Is anyone with an active paid account confirm the search numbers are gone even in paid mode, and the time the girl was last active no longer appears until you click her profile (assuming she hasn't hidden this)?

I am paid and the only way I can see when they were last active is if you have messaged them and you open the message and it is in the side panel. Nothing on the main page like it used to be.

[OliverNP]

Thanks for the comments so far.

Is anyone with an active paid account confirm the search numbers are gone even in paid mode, and the time the girl was last active no longer appears until you click her profile (assuming she hasn't hidden this)?

[GolfMan57]

What the fuck is with the new changes. It says I am no longer searchable until I finish my profile which include forcing me to upload pics! Are you crazy. Also you can no longer favorite a profile. So I am not sure if women can see if I favorite them? This could be the final nail in the coffin for a site that already sucks due to GPS and a ton of fake bots.

I have been getting that too. I just closed the window down and ignore it. Obviously I am still searchable becuase I get all kinds still favoriting my profile. LOL I have always had better luck with ones I search out then ones that contact me out of the blue.

[TheHobbyLobby]

I've been off the site for a while, as I have a rotation I'm happy with. I have an unpaid secondary SA account that I occasionally log in with just to see who is posting, but I haven't looked at it or cared in months.

Today I log in and notice it no longer shows the number of results from a given search in a given city. This makes the whole game harder because I can't see how changes in the search affect the numbers.

Do paid accounts still show the # of matches? Or did they remove the feature to try to hide the fact the quantities aren't what they used to be?

What the fuck is with the new changes. It says I am no longer searchable until I finish my profile which include forcing me to upload pics! Are you crazy. Also you can no longer favorite a profile. So I am not sure if women can see if I favorite them? This could be the final nail in the coffin for a site that already sucks due to GPS and a ton of fake bots.

[Gobig2]

I think its hidden too. I stopped paying for the site a little while back as I was tired of the bots the scams and just such high rates. This hunt is not like it used to be for sure.

I've been off the site for a while, as I have a rotation I'm happy with. I have an unpaid secondary SA account that I occasionally log in with just to see who is posting, but I haven't looked at it or cared in months.

Today I log in and notice it no longer shows the number of results from a given search in a given city. This makes the whole game harder because I can't see how changes in the search affect the numbers.

Do paid accounts still show the # of matches? Or did they remove the feature to try to hide the fact the quantities aren't what they used to be?

[OliverNP]

I've been off the site for a while, as I have a rotation I'm happy with. I have an unpaid secondary SA account that I occasionally log in with just to see who is posting, but I haven't looked at it or cared in months.

Today I log in and notice it no longer shows the number of results from a given search in a given city. This makes the whole game harder because I can't see how changes in the search affect the numbers.

Do paid accounts still show the # of matches? Or did they remove the feature to try to hide the fact the quantities aren't what they used to be?

[NcNative]

So the Prepaid CC from giftcardmall that used to work, to buy membership on Seeking, is no longer being accepted by Seeking.

Can anyone recommend any other Prepaid CC that works to buy a membership on Seeking?

Sorry, I have been reading the forum for hours. And still have not found an answer.

Any help is appreciated.

I have not done his in almost a year but if you have a VanillaOne card you can call this number and pay over the phone. I have done that several times.

775-450-4856.

Found this.

https://www.w8tech.com/

[FarFarAway]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

IK of some single guys here who have related their experiences. Some have even mocked up a 'business card' that has their sugar info on it. To give to POTs once the groundwork has been laid in conversation, flirting, etc.

If you are like me, w / an SO, you can't really be having cards like that made up. Discovery would be fatal. However, you can do this. You've had a great time flirting w / a bartender, these girls do get hit on a lot of course, but not usually by someone twice their age and way higher net worth. If it seems possible there is interest, take a sugar packet and write your burner number on it. As you depart, hand her the packet and say something witty, ala a pickup line. Something along the lines of 'there's more sugar where that came from'. She knows exactly what that means. If she doesn't, she's too dumb to bang.