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**BareBackJack** · 10-12-18 11:54

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

I'm not sure exactly how long I've been mongering but I can count back on girlfriends and wives who didn't know about my hobby and it more than 25 years and probably less than 30 years. I definite am pickier. I also have less patience with being rushed. My preference is for spinners around 30-35 years old. They know the score, they have experience and if they're inclined to give good service they can knock the ball out of the park. I don't care if they're black, white, Asian, or Latino but while I can speak Spanish and I hear rumors of how hot Latinos are, my experience is they tend to be very submissive. They'll do what you want but without passion. Black and white are my favs with an Asian on occasion. But having said that, I have enjoyed older and younger women. I mean shit, how old was Dianne out in Ashland with the small (.)(.)? She could have been my grandmother but she was a firecracker in bed. I will take a sense of humor over firm tits or a perfect ass. But I don't do ugly any more.

**Member #3308** · 10-11-18 20:46

Originally Posted by EagleK61 [View Original Post]

I got to meet with her tonight and had a great time, she did a car date with me, I usually don't like a car date but after seeing her photo I just had to meet her.

Thanks to MyBudFang I met this UTR for a car date. A thick girl right up my alley. No BJ for me. I went straight to the business for a lunchtime qv. Nice girl who seems eager to please. I'll repeat.

**StuckNmiddle** · 10-11-18 15:52

Originally Posted by KrishKrish [View Original Post]

Bro: what is this strategy about spinners. Would like to see if it can be applied to the NOVA area also.

I'm up in NOVA often. Have a few up there I see when I come through. Chantilly and Tysons.

Spinners are just really petite skinny girls. Only difference I find is they know they are fat and nasty LOL. In my experience spinner usually have tighter kitty's too. I don't mind giving extra for a spinner with skills.

**JayBird76** · 10-11-18 12:20

Originally Posted by LikItFun [View Original Post]

I have to agree. I'm mid-50's and my current SB is a 5/5 (or 10/10) experience for me. I'll keep going with her as long as I can!!

The whole SB thing is interesting to me. Maybe I'm just getting bored with random hook-ups. Where is the best place to find this and what should I expect to pay monthly? Pm is fine. I make 6 figures, but still can't pay their house payment. LOL. Thanks.

**KrishKrish** · 10-11-18 07:08

Originally Posted by StuckNmiddle [View Original Post]

I've been in almost 10 years and by the 2nd year I realized that the thrill of the hunt is actually better than the actual deed. I visit extremely low volume girls that are genuinely excited to see me (its probably fake but they don't show it LOL). Most people are discussing the same 6-7 providers and that worries me for a few reasons. 1, provider starts to think they are way better than they are because they don't realize its so dry that they are the only option. 2, more business means more money for habit.

Personally speaking I like finding new gems. My favorite thing to do is turning one on to the game. And I agree 1000000% spinners are the best way to go. Why would I pay for some big girl when I could sweet talk her and hit it for free.

Hope your luck changes. I have a loop that I go on to find new talent. Been great so far. Found 4 in the last month. Hopefully it continues.

Bro: what is this strategy about spinners. Would like to see if it can be applied to the NOVA area also.

**LikItFun** · 10-10-18 22:54

Originally Posted by HabsBurg [View Original Post]

Great discussion point. I didn't start hobbying until my late fifties, and GFE is not just a euphemism for me. I want the girl-FRIEND experience. I know a lot of guys here will scoff, but so far I've been lucky enough to meet stable people who I would enjoy knowing outside the hobby. Stability, personality, and attitude are most important to me.

I have to agree. I'm mid-50's and my current SB is a 5/5 (or 10/10) experience for me. I'll keep going with her as long as I can!!

**HabsBurg** · 10-10-18 19:12

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

Great discussion point. I didn't start hobbying until my late fifties, and GFE is not just a euphemism for me. I want the girl-FRIEND experience. I know a lot of guys here will scoff, but so far I've been lucky enough to meet stable people who I would enjoy knowing outside the hobby. Stability, personality, and attitude are most important to me.

**Old Salt 93** · 10-10-18 15:22

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

As I got older, I realized that I needed some interaction to get in the mood, and by my 50's, if I felt no intellectual / emotional connection to the woman, I couldn't get into it at all. That's why I tend to the SB side of the hobby now, or see a provider like Teri that I know and am comfortable with. There's a comfort level and connection that gets built before anything else.

There's no doubt that Teri is one of the best and a great value. Certainly much better than any of these girls that have been racking up all these crappy reviews of late.

**SmoothJazz** · 10-10-18 14:17

Originally Posted by CantWinLosin [View Original Post]

I don't think it's limited to the hobby. For me, I'm just pickier across the board. But as far as hobbying, I'm definitely pickier. In my 20's and 30's, any warm wet hole or soft mouth would do, and don't bother me with chatter. As I got older, I realized that I needed some interaction to get in the mood, and by my 50's, if I felt no intellectual / emotional connection to the woman, I couldn't get into it at all. That's why I tend to the SB side of the hobby now, or see a provider like Teri that I know and am comfortable with. There's a comfort level and connection that gets built before anything else.

There's also the safety aspect. As we get older, we tend to worry more about the impacts of getting caught doing this - how it would affect our real-life relationships, our jobs, our income and the lives we've spent decades building. Me, for example: I have grown daughters now, and it would bother me as much for them to find out about this part of my life as it would my SO (who is not their mother.) Those thoughts in the back of our heads just naturally makes most of us more careful. My choices are as much or more about how comfortable I am with the woman's discretion as it is about her looks / skills.

Sure, now and then, I'll see something I like and just dive in. But for the most part, I stick with established (30+) women I know or meet via the SB connection line. The 20-somethings have nothing in common with me, and are much more likely to be trouble.

Yup, I got standards too. Just cause it's got mouth, pussy, ass it's got to look appealing too. Not completely roughed out & needing a complete over haul.

**CantWinLosin** · 10-10-18 13:10

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

I don't think it's limited to the hobby. For me, I'm just pickier across the board. But as far as hobbying, I'm definitely pickier. In my 20's and 30's, any warm wet hole or soft mouth would do, and don't bother me with chatter. As I got older, I realized that I needed some interaction to get in the mood, and by my 50's, if I felt no intellectual / emotional connection to the woman, I couldn't get into it at all. That's why I tend to the SB side of the hobby now, or see a provider like Teri that I know and am comfortable with. There's a comfort level and connection that gets built before anything else.

There's also the safety aspect. As we get older, we tend to worry more about the impacts of getting caught doing this - how it would affect our real-life relationships, our jobs, our income and the lives we've spent decades building. Me, for example: I have grown daughters now, and it would bother me as much for them to find out about this part of my life as it would my SO (who is not their mother.) Those thoughts in the back of our heads just naturally makes most of us more careful. My choices are as much or more about how comfortable I am with the woman's discretion as it is about her looks / skills.

Sure, now and then, I'll see something I like and just dive in. But for the most part, I stick with established (30+) women I know or meet via the SB connection line. The 20-somethings have nothing in common with me, and are much more likely to be trouble.

**TBonz123** · 10-10-18 02:43

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

You do change some with age and time in the game. I may take a small break or try other areas to get the thrill again. And won't just donate or waste my time now with just anyone.

**Engbest** · 10-09-18 17:57

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

They are out there. Take a trip to other area. Make hobby great again.

**StuckNmiddle** · 10-09-18 15:42

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

I've been in almost 10 years and by the 2nd year I realized that the thrill of the hunt is actually better than the actual deed. I visit extremely low volume girls that are genuinely excited to see me (its probably fake but they don't show it LOL). Most people are discussing the same 6-7 providers and that worries me for a few reasons. 1, provider starts to think they are way better than they are because they don't realize its so dry that they are the only option. 2, more business means more money for habit.

Personally speaking I like finding new gems. My favorite thing to do is turning one on to the game. And I agree 1000000% spinners are the best way to go. Why would I pay for some big girl when I could sweet talk her and hit it for free.

Hope your luck changes. I have a loop that I go on to find new talent. Been great so far. Found 4 in the last month. Hopefully it continues.

**GolfMan57** · 10-09-18 13:40

I think it is a quality vs quantity issue. I want as much as I can handle but I want it to be with a quality lady. One who enjoys what she is doing and wants to please the client. We all know why they are here. But they don't have to show that side.

Originally Posted by CavalierHoo [View Original Post]

I have been in this hobby now for about 30+ years. Not bragging, but I have noticed that as I get older that I am getting much pickier in who I choose to see. When I was younger, anything with a hole was good enough. But now, many of the ladies discussed on here are a 'hell no' for me. Just curious, anyone else notice the same thing? Is it an age thing and I am slowing down? Or is it at my age that upside down it all looks the same so I tend to look for other things about her? Would like to hear some feedback from some of the vets, but all opinions are welcome.

**OriolesMagic** · 10-09-18 09:36

Originally Posted by MetalHead63 [View Original Post]

Admin, relocate if needed.

Well, it's that time of the year again. Annual physical. Last year, PSA was elevated. Many things can cause that, so my doc wanted me to cut out a lot of things for 30 days, and get retested. If no change, then off to the peepee doc. So I cut off alcohol, riding a bike and yes, the biggie, popping off. I did took a couple of supplements too and exercised more. After 30 days, PSA was reduced by almost 40%, so I was good to go. So I'm going into monastery mode starting today. Going to stay off this site too, to reduce the temptations. See yas next month. MH.

Get a prostate massage, combine business with pleasure. I got a prostate massage years ago and my orgasms were 100% better for 6 months.