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  1. #5251

    Wow. Sorry I asked.

    Just kidding. Seriously, I really do appreciate everyone's input. I do feel a bit obliged to clarify and update a few things.

    I guess this will disappoint some, but I did send her the money. And although some will argue it's the principal, not the amount, we are talking about only $60. It's just that no one has asked me for something like this before. But then again I've never seen someone on such a regular basis before. As I mentioned, about 1-2 x / week for the past 5 months. From the responses it seems that eventually it's a possible occurrence with a regular.

    I'm not sure if it makes a difference, but I thought I had air quotes on rapport and aquaintanceship.

    I don't have any delusions that there's anything "special" going on here, beyond the perks of being a reliable regular, for both of us. I'm fully aware of and fine with of the transactional basis of our "relationship".

    On my part, I'm always on time and have never no showed, SOMETIMES tip, and am generally nice. Why doesn't smiley face punctuation show up here? Side rant. I can't believe the complaints the girls have of the clowns out there who no show and waste their time. They really cause a problem for all of us.

    For her part, she is ALMOST always on time and ALWAYS available at the specific time I request with 1-2 hours advance notice. At least now. Before becoming an established regular there may have been a couple of issues (Wanted a smiley face here) I'm not exactly close by, and those things mean a lot to me. Another sidebar. In the past I have met with diamondGG several times, super fun girl in my experience, but getting to actually see her. OMG! Sidebar over. Her service is probably not great by some standards, but my time with her is always reliably satisfying. I probably go overtime frequently. No rushing. No complaining. I'm talking about that thing too many girls complain about after just 2-3 minutes. And have the words "are you going to "finish" soon? In the history of mankind ever helped? We don't exactly work on a set time.

    So I'm not concerned about getting this $60 back. My concerns were more along the lines of how / if this changes things. Obviously I'm not looking for this becoming a "thing" going forward. Thoughts racing through my head. Is this even her? Is she on the way to the airport to move to Florida? Is she hitting up everybody for some final cash? Western union? Money gram? Cash app? Things like that. However, I was definitely concerned about the possibility that she could now avoid me because she's expecting that I'm expecting a payback. Which some comments seem to indicate as a possibility. But ghost a regular income stream over $60?? Well it's something I was going to reach out to her about, assuming she would even respond. However, she actually texted me yesterday. Did not reference the $60, but will probably meetup today / tomorrow.

    Once again, thanks for all the input, apologies for the book.

  2. #5250
    Quote Originally Posted by SirDrDunk  [View Original Post]
    Everything pretty on point did a 3 some with her and another girl thatvI was actually supposed to hit in the first place mic work was pretty decent didn't take the trip to Greece didn't know the option was available have rates changed since she started posting ads?
    Sup sirdrdunk. I don't know if her rates changed or not. Maybe I got lucky and she felt appreciative and grateful of the fact that I got her the room. It was cold as shit outside. Here again it might be one of those YMMV in terms of pricing and service. But I'm certainly not complaining!. Who was the other girl?. Do you have a link of her?

  3. #5249

    On point

    Quote Originally Posted by BusterHymen55  [View Original Post]
    She's legit. Pics are accurate for the most part...they are from better days and teeth are jacked up and a couple of them missing (probably why she doesn't smile in the pictures). She's got huge, saggy tits and big cellulite belly and ass but she is a total sweet heart and will take good care of you. Actually went above and beyond the call of duty. I got her a room (something I don't ever do) but she told me upfront that she would deduct that cost from our stay and she also had her own ID!. (miracles never cease). Everything on the menu (and I even took a trip to Greece!) and full service. Paid for a SS-QV and it lasted a good HH!. No rushing, no complaining, multiple positions, etc. Kitty had a slight odor but nothing too egregious. Overall, great service and great rates.

    https://escortalligator.com.baltimor...199/4103038482
    Everything pretty on point did a 3 some with her and another girl thatvI was actually supposed to hit in the first place mic work was pretty decent didn't take the trip to Greece didn't know the option was available have rates changed since she started posting ads?

  4. #5248

    Much advice

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    I have done it many times before with different UTRs and experience varies but two things I learned, I will help if I can afford it but don't do it very any expectation of a specific return and if you help now you can expect future requests for help. Although I do not expect anything specific in return, I do expect and have gotten better service overall, ie. Less clock-watching, more access to all holes and just a more relaxed attitude focused on mutual enjoyment. You also have to determine some limits that you will not provide help above, usually if you decide that it'll be less than $X / per week but not more than that. All in all YMMV depending on who you are dealing with. Good luck.

  5. #5247
    She's legit. Pics are accurate for the most part...they are from better days and teeth are jacked up and a couple of them missing (probably why she doesn't smile in the pictures). She's got huge, saggy tits and big cellulite belly and ass but she is a total sweet heart and will take good care of you. Actually went above and beyond the call of duty. I got her a room (something I don't ever do) but she told me upfront that she would deduct that cost from our stay and she also had her own ID!. (miracles never cease). Everything on the menu (and I even took a trip to Greece!) and full service. Paid for a SS-QV and it lasted a good HH!. No rushing, no complaining, multiple positions, etc. Kitty had a slight odor but nothing too egregious. Overall, great service and great rates.

    https://escortalligator.com.baltimor...199/4103038482

  6. #5246

    Bella

    Has anyone seen this one?

    https://escortbabylon.net/image_list/2027801719

    Phyuck?

  7. #5245
    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    The way I see it you definitely take the chance of loosing the money or your relationship. If its not that much money and you want to continue seeing her, give it to her. If you don't she will remember when she needed the help you didn't. So quality of service will go down the tubes or stop seeing you. If you really want to continue what you have, I myself would give it to her.

    Be Safe.

  8. #5244

    Eros

    Have anyone visited the ladies on Eros this week? Did you have a good time? I have noticed a lot of Brazilians on there this week.

  9. #5243

    Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    I see you have had alot of response from your question and I'm going to chime in as well. Don't do it. I have done it for 5 different girls who I was seeing regularly over the years. Every one of them did not pay me back or provide the "discount" services. I will never do it again.

  10. #5242
    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    DON'T DO IT!

    Sorry for yelling. I've done it before with two ladies I knew well. Here's what's going to happen. Oh, I done have enough to pay you back. Can we "work off" the money I owe you? Or, can I do 1/2 cash and 1/2 off what I owe you so I have money for <fill in the blank . So now you're spending more money to get your money back.

    I promise you, it's not going to end well for you.

  11. #5241

    Sugar Daddy Status

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    If she wants that arrangement and you're okay with, let her know or she should let you know cause this will lead to it.

  12. #5240

    Don't consider it

    Don't be a blue pill guy with this. Get red pill thoughts. The person is not your responsibility or main squeeze. Why go to you over someone else? She already identified you as a guy who would.

    If you do, expect NOTHING additional in future. Good luck with whatever you decide.

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.

  13. #5239

    Agreed

    Quote Originally Posted by BMoreDog69  [View Original Post]
    It can also depend on how you get the request. Many ladies get their email hacked and I have had a number of requests via email, because of this. These I obviously do not consider.

    I recommend that you always go in asking what your response would be if / when she drops off the radar and never pays you back. Always consider it a gift, and be happy if it comes back to you in some way. I know some ladies I have seen long term, and would assist, within reason. IMO, they've earned it over the years. If you can afford to lose the money, and are inclined, feel free. If you're going to be upset if she stiffs you, I would not do it.
    Don't do it if you have to ask "what if she doesn't pay it back" I do it with a friend / provider, she falls back into old habits and needs cash, 40 here 20 there, she will pay back with service sometimes, but never clears her tab. She's my friend, known her for yrs. And that 2 me is the problem, becoming friends, don't know why I do it, SMH.

    Monoxide.

  14. #5238

    RE: Advice

    It can also depend on how you get the request. Many ladies get their email hacked and I have had a number of requests via email, because of this. These I obviously do not consider.

    I recommend that you always go in asking what your response would be if / when she drops off the radar and never pays you back. Always consider it a gift, and be happy if it comes back to you in some way. I know some ladies I have seen long term, and would assist, within reason. IMO, they've earned it over the years. If you can afford to lose the money, and are inclined, feel free. If you're going to be upset if she stiffs you, I would not do it.

    Quote Originally Posted by MoonMonger  [View Original Post]
    No. Unless you don't expect to see your money or free service in the future. Stop being a white knight. These girls are not appreciative and live by the money from John to John. I had one that I've seen regularly for 6 years, asked me for an advanced donation so she can buy flowers for the graveside because it's her brother's (death) anniversary. Another I have seen regularly for 2 years asked an advance so she can pay her rent because her landlord is coming with the sheriff to evict her. Guess what? Both never answer my calls anymore. Live and learn. They are not your girl friend, they are not even your friend, don't treat them as such. They are there for a purpose, you pay, they give. That's that. Not cruel, not being a bad guy, just business.

  15. #5237

    Depends on the Individual

    Quote Originally Posted by BMax986  [View Original Post]
    How do you respond if a regular you have a good rapport with, contacts you asking if you can help them out with some cash, via online app / money transfer. Have been seeing her at least once a week for the past 5 months. Pretty happy with the acquaintanceship. She's never asked for something like this before. Maybe it's because it's cold out? Amount wasn't much. Low end of usual donation, probably enough to get a room, or something. Am I a sucker for even considering it? Fire away.
    It depends on the particular lady. They are not all cut out of the exact same mold. I have loaned small amounts 5 times over the last 25 years. 4 of the 5 paid me back one way or another--I didn't lose anything.

    The 5th--well, I do know her need was legitimate and not because of something she had done. We had had very good times together for almost 3 years and I didn't begruge her the money.

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