General Reports

[Gentleman007]

So last week I took a run to the shore to take care of a few things.

Stopped at Columbia Care around 1-1:30 It was packed. At least 40 people outside.

Two girls behind me, one must have been PR or a mix, great body. If she was 95 lbs that was a lot.

The other, a chubster in a okay way and look. Both about 5'.

So the are talking about outfits and not being allowed to wear shoes on stage. No I am tuned in and make small talk.

Now inside, they start counting their money, all ones and a few fives. I said "well we know what you two do" they laugh.

I asked where they work and respond Main Event. So then we started talking about that and reopening a few days prior.

There were just too many people around to bring the conversation to the next level. I had No Balls that day.

Man, but the smaller one, I certainly would max out donation wise on a trial in available. Real light skin, hair a slight wave / kink and all pulled up to the top of her head.

Later in the week Main Event is on my list of stops. Out of the way, but certainly going to stop.

Anyone been there since the Reopening?

I believe you could get lucky if you do a follow up at the Main Event with that girl. I have been at Curaleaf in Bellmawr twice, but no luck so far, I saw only guys at the end of the line, and the girls I saw were farther to the front, so I bailed, second time was the same. I believe I will go back when it gets warm and hopefully I will have better luck.

[J Richard]

I have been talking for a while now about other options besides escorts and SW's. I have a few UTR's who like to go to the dispensaries to buy gummies and such, recently I drove one of them to Bellmawr and I waited in my car, since she has a medical card, she goes in and out quickly. When she came back she was laughing, she told me some guy asked her if she wanted to get together and smoke and have a good time. I don't blame the dude, she is gorgeous, and he thought she was by herself, kudos to him he is hunting in the right places. I have another one who I drive sometimes to Deptford, I have seen potential dates on the store as well, even though I don't smoke weed, one of this days I might go by myself to check that scene out. I will report back.

So last week I took a run to the shore to take care of a few things.

Stopped at Columbia Care around 1-1:30 It was packed. At least 40 people outside.

Two girls behind me, one must have been PR or a mix, great body. If she was 95 lbs that was a lot.

The other, a chubster in a okay way and look. Both about 5'.

So the are talking about outfits and not being allowed to wear shoes on stage. No I am tuned in and make small talk.

Now inside, they start counting their money, all ones and a few fives. I said "well we know what you two do" they laugh.

I asked where they work and respond Main Event. So then we started talking about that and reopening a few days prior.

There were just too many people around to bring the conversation to the next level. I had No Balls that day.

Man, but the smaller one, I certainly would max out donation wise on a trial in available. Real light skin, hair a slight wave / kink and all pulled up to the top of her head.

Later in the week Main Event is on my list of stops. Out of the way, but certainly going to stop.

Anyone been there since the Reopening?

[HobbyMan9]

You're right. You can't do anything about the past. Don't dwell on it anymore. But use the lessons you have learned going forward. We have all made mistakes in this hobby. The key is not to be that guy who repeats those mistakes over and over again call after call, year after year. You know the score now. You can go out now knowing you aren't going to let any girl play you again. They will sense that attitude and you will get better calls and cheaper too.

Hear hear.

Truer words have never been spoken.

I feel like an ass for my past mistakes, I am cordial, respectful, and kind. But will never ever confuse the hobby for a real life situation ever again.

[TailGunner1]

Thanks,

I learned this the hard way with both providers and SBs. Can't do anything about the past, but she was the lightbulb that went off in my head and it's best service at best price, with those that are my type.

You're right. You can't do anything about the past. Don't dwell on it anymore. But use the lessons you have learned going forward. We have all made mistakes in this hobby. The key is not to be that guy who repeats those mistakes over and over again call after call, year after year. You know the score now. You can go out now knowing you aren't going to let any girl play you again. They will sense that attitude and you will get better calls and cheaper too.

[LolBoat]

There is probably more girls in the game then ever before but they're all on Only Fannnns Girls are literally skipping college and going right on OF its that popular.

How do you find local girls though?

What happened to all the drug addict south jersey girls that were on BP from 2010-2017?

[OverKill418]

You nailed it brother.

If they get too comfortable they will try that crap like staying shorter and shorter times. Cut them loose the first time they pull that. Half of them you will never see again but who cares. The other half will come back under YOUR rules and your even LOWER rates.

And you said the best thing that can be said in this hobby. Every monger should burn this into their brains, "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

Let me repeat since what you said sums up this whole hobby and truer words were never said,"if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

This is why you don't fall for these girls. Don't ever think they care about you. At the very best you are a bearable call and they may even somewhat enjoy it and your company. But. "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

I learned this very early in my hobbying days. It made me see this all for what it really is. There is a correct way to present yourself to these girls and a correct way to treat these girls. It means to know when to walk at the first sign of nonsense. Basically you are training them how to act and deal with you. If you saw me on the street I am very average. You would say how is this asshole getting low rates and great service? It's all attitude and making these girls realize they need you more than you need them and doing so without coming off as an asshole. It takes some practice but anyone can do it.

But don't get attached to them ever. Always remember "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

Thanks,

I learned this the hard way with both providers and SBs. Can't do anything about the past, but she was the lightbulb that went off in my head and it's best service at best price, with those that are my type.

[TailGunner1]

I used to see a provider that would come to me home, stay easy longer than an hour, watch concert vids with me and smoke up together. Then, I noticed she was bouncing earlier and earlier. Then, not even the hour.

I backed off and told her I had tax issues and needed to take time off from the hobby. Then, got texts asking if I was ok, she was so glad I'm in her life and she missed our time together. I wished up and just cut off communication because if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. Haven't heard from her since Sept. Not losing sleep over it. Even though she's freaking beautiful and she was very good at her task.

I'm too old for bs.

You nailed it brother.

If they get too comfortable they will try that crap like staying shorter and shorter times. Cut them loose the first time they pull that. Half of them you will never see again but who cares. The other half will come back under YOUR rules and your even LOWER rates.

And you said the best thing that can be said in this hobby. Every monger should burn this into their brains, "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

Let me repeat since what you said sums up this whole hobby and truer words were never said,"if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

This is why you don't fall for these girls. Don't ever think they care about you. At the very best you are a bearable call and they may even somewhat enjoy it and your company. But. "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

I learned this very early in my hobbying days. It made me see this all for what it really is. There is a correct way to present yourself to these girls and a correct way to treat these girls. It means to know when to walk at the first sign of nonsense. Basically you are training them how to act and deal with you. If you saw me on the street I am very average. You would say how is this asshole getting low rates and great service? It's all attitude and making these girls realize they need you more than you need them and doing so without coming off as an asshole. It takes some practice but anyone can do it.

But don't get attached to them ever. Always remember "if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. ".

[OverKill418]

Guys, when they message you with the "miss you" nonsense this is when you have control. I LOVE when I get one of those. It means I will be locked in at a lower rate forever. They are messaging you not because they give a shit about you but because they need money bad. You are in control here. Offer them less than your usual rate. Tell them you want to see them but money is tight. Offer less than usual but say you want the same time and service or it's not worth it. It may take you a few tries to get your wording right. You have to act like you care about them but at the same time you are going to be talking them way down.

This is my bread and butter in this hobby. I have at least half a dozen girls that, at this point, I can message them and the lower rate I got when they dialed me for dollars is now the norm. You can get them real low too if you see them regularly. I get my favorite BJ girl for 40-60/ hr. I can fuck her too if I want but she is best for BJs. I have another girl I can get for 60-100/ hr who is my fucking girl. I usually see them once a week or two. They take these prices because I am money in the bank for them. They count on my money even though it's low. At least it's steady. My BJ girl had vanished for a year. She came back to my area recently. I offered her 100. She jumped on it. The following week I went right down to 60. Next week will be 50. These are not for SS. I get a full hr.

I have others I see less often but never pay more than 100 for an hr. They always take it. They once messaged me dialing for dollars and this is what it is always now.

NEVER rush to see a girl and pay full rate when she dials you for dollars. You can even talk down girls who have never dialed you for dollars. Very few ever say no. A few do but so what. When you are able to get most of the girls who charge 2-350/ hr for 100 or less you are doing things right. Let the other assholes pay 350 for a girl they see often. You aren't going to be one of those guys going forward. You are going to get her cheaper and probably get better service to boot.

I used to see a provider that would come to me home, stay easy longer than an hour, watch concert vids with me and smoke up together. Then, I noticed she was bouncing earlier and earlier. Then, not even the hour.

I backed off and told her I had tax issues and needed to take time off from the hobby. Then, got texts asking if I was ok, she was so glad I'm in her life and she missed our time together. I wished up and just cut off communication because if I was so important and you liked me so much, you would be in my bed without a donation. Haven't heard from her since Sept. Not losing sleep over it. Even though she's freaking beautiful and she was very good at her task.

I'm too old for bs.

[TailGunner1]

All these girls love me. They miss me soooooo much. I got 3 valentines texts yesterday. I get "I miss you" texts all the time. Even some "I love you" texts. They name me, "baby', "Lover" and sweetie". I must really be hot to them. It's not even my big / huge dick they want. They like my ass the best. Right there where my fat wallet sticks out. Some of those things used to regularly work before learning a thing or two on this site. But, if these girls are anything, it is persistent.

Guys, when they message you with the "miss you" nonsense this is when you have control. I LOVE when I get one of those. It means I will be locked in at a lower rate forever. They are messaging you not because they give a shit about you but because they need money bad. You are in control here. Offer them less than your usual rate. Tell them you want to see them but money is tight. Offer less than usual but say you want the same time and service or it's not worth it. It may take you a few tries to get your wording right. You have to act like you care about them but at the same time you are going to be talking them way down.

This is my bread and butter in this hobby. I have at least half a dozen girls that, at this point, I can message them and the lower rate I got when they dialed me for dollars is now the norm. You can get them real low too if you see them regularly. I get my favorite BJ girl for 40-60/ hr. I can fuck her too if I want but she is best for BJs. I have another girl I can get for 60-100/ hr who is my fucking girl. I usually see them once a week or two. They take these prices because I am money in the bank for them. They count on my money even though it's low. At least it's steady. My BJ girl had vanished for a year. She came back to my area recently. I offered her 100. She jumped on it. The following week I went right down to 60. Next week will be 50. These are not for SS. I get a full hr.

I have others I see less often but never pay more than 100 for an hr. They always take it. They once messaged me dialing for dollars and this is what it is always now.

NEVER rush to see a girl and pay full rate when she dials you for dollars. You can even talk down girls who have never dialed you for dollars. Very few ever say no. A few do but so what. When you are able to get most of the girls who charge 2-350/ hr for 100 or less you are doing things right. Let the other assholes pay 350 for a girl they see often. You aren't going to be one of those guys going forward. You are going to get her cheaper and probably get better service to boot.

[LukeWarmWater3]

I'm relatively new to this game and I didn't get shit yesterday. I don't know whether to feel relieved or neglected.

I didn't get any texts. Either and guess what! My day went along just fine!!

[Hunter Jay]

On Valentine's Day, I got two such text messages. Not that this is a contest, if it were, I don't want to be in first place. It just means you spent more money than the other guys.

This providers are just so easy to block, a couple of keystrokes and it's done. But I don't know if you noticed but the profile of the ones that are dialing for dollars are that hey are both the less attractive ones plus average to poor performances. If they spend more time honing their dick sucking skills, they don't have to look for business, they'd have more than they could handle.

I wish a blizzard storm came around this year I could've gotten multiple pops with a online chick for $200 or less damn winter failed me this year I didn't get any calls or text yesterday maybe because I told chicks I do not care about holidays.

[DonTrask]

All these girls love me. They miss me soooooo much. I got 3 valentines texts yesterday. I get "I miss you" texts all the time. Even some "I love you" texts. They name me, "baby', "Lover" and sweetie". I must really be hot to them. It's not even my big / huge dick they want. They like my ass the best. Right there where my fat wallet sticks out. Some of those things used to regularly work before learning a thing or two on this site. But, if these girls are anything, it is persistent.

On Valentine's Day, I got two such text messages. Not that this is a contest, if it were, I don't want to be in first place. It just means you spent more money than the other guys.

This providers are just so easy to block, a couple of keystrokes and it's done. But I don't know if you noticed but the profile of the ones that are dialing for dollars are that hey are both the less attractive ones plus average to poor performances. If they spend more time honing their dick sucking skills, they don't have to look for business, they'd have more than they could handle.

[DocTego]

All these girls love me. They miss me soooooo much. I got 3 valentines texts yesterday. I get "I miss you" texts all the time. Even some "I love you" texts. They name me, "baby', "Lover" and sweetie". I must really be hot to them. It's not even my big / huge dick they want. They like my ass the best. Right there where my fat wallet sticks out. Some of those things used to regularly work before learning a thing or two on this site. But, if these girls are anything, it is persistent.

I'm relatively new to this game and I didn't get shit yesterday. I don't know whether to feel relieved or neglected.

[ReadingNeeds]

I am sure many of you have gotten a text from a regular saying they miss you or something like that. They are having a slow day and are basically sending out texts looking for business. I had always assumed they sent those texts to multiple people at once. Probably their favorite regulars who see them the most. Recently, I was proven right and in a very funny way.

I was at work around two other employees who happened to be father and son. All of a sudden all 3 of our cell phones get a ding at the same moment. We all check and I see it is one of my regular girls doing the dialing for dollars. So me being the asshole that I am blurted out "looks like so and so needs some money". The two of them, who had also checked their phones, looked like their world had caved in. They both gave each other shocking looks. I said see you guys later and walked away. Nothing was ever mentioned regarding this.

Besides being funny as hell, to me at least, it does show a lot of guys take part in this hobby. I was temptd to ask them if they had any good girls to see but let it die.

All these girls love me. They miss me soooooo much. I got 3 valentines texts yesterday. I get "I miss you" texts all the time. Even some "I love you" texts. They name me, "baby', "Lover" and sweetie". I must really be hot to them. It's not even my big / huge dick they want. They like my ass the best. Right there where my fat wallet sticks out. Some of those things used to regularly work before learning a thing or two on this site. But, if these girls are anything, it is persistent.

[J Richard]

I have been talking for a while now about other options besides escorts and SW's. I have a few UTR's who like to go to the dispensaries to buy gummies and such, recently I drove one of them to Bellmawr and I waited in my car, since she has a medical card, she goes in and out quickly. When she came back she was laughing, she told me some guy asked her if she wanted to get together and smoke and have a good time. I don't blame the dude, she is gorgeous, and he thought she was by herself, kudos to him he is hunting in the right places. I have another one who I drive sometimes to Deptford, I have seen potential dates on the store as well, even though I don't smoke weed, one of this days I might go by myself to check that scene out. I will report back.

I was at the Deptford for adult use a few times, next to the insurance company in a plaza. I had an appointment in Glassboro and decide to go there instead of Vineland.

Vineland is screwed up for me since they don't do AU until 12:00.

Now the good thing is that its cash only, so you may have a better shot with someone short on funds. Being out of state I am ready for another visit this week before heading to the shore.

But a few weeks ago on a Friday evening, parking lot full, cars double parked, at least the absolute minimum of 60-75 people outside in line. More females than male.