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[Joesouncool]

Does anyone have any interests in BDSM Muscle women, wrestling or fetishes?

My interest in these girls is that they don't get hurt during sex. I like it a little rough, not ultra rough, but not like two virgins running through a field either. I'm not interested in some chick trying to rough me up either. A little bit of mutual roughness isn't bad.

Why do you ask?

P.S. Yeah, I know old question. .

[BassLake]

Has anyone had luck with this place? I've heard mixed reviews.

To make it short, this is like whipping a dead horse. I've been to both several times, and for single guys it is a total bomb, better to find a streetwalker, at least you get some sex. And for couples, it is hit and miss. As a single, there are usually 7 guys for every girl, and most of the girls are looking for other girls. The owners say, "Oh, you just need to get over and hit on the girls". Every time a single girl walks across the floor, there are 5-7 guys behind her. The hottest time I ever saw in my trips there, were when one of the girls removed her bra while dancing with another girl. WHOOPEE! For younger guys, it would be better to go to the casino bars. They should have some loose girls for just a few drinks. As to the couples, there were a few who swapped and went into the bedrooms. Those are my experiences, and just too many other single guys have had the same experience. I think Brad Pitt could score there.

[JayceRock74]

Has anyone had luck with this place? I've heard mixed reviews.

[Seville]

Try Asian women, because if it does work out and you stick with her she will age way better than white women.

Couldn't agree more. Being from Jersey I've dated mostly white, Italian women. Not all but mostly. And inevitably they all let their inner psycho out. Future divorces waiting to happen. Around the age of 36 I went on a few dates with a 28 yr old Thai girl. I couldn't have been happier. It's been pure bliss and we eventually married. She's sexy ALL the time. Meaning that even when she looks her worst, she still looks hot. She never yells at me, she understands that we treat each other with respect, even when we fight. If I'm good to her, she dotes on me. And yes, it will be nice, but also tough, to watch her age so gracefully while I become an old white man.

[Vexter59]

You're right. I always try to be understanding and nice about it. From now on, at the first sign something is off, I'm going to cut bait and really be the 'selfish dick' that I was already accused of being.

These women ruin it for themselves and then complain about how terrible guys are. They bring it on all by themselves and get what they deserve.

If they are more than 1/2 hour late. I'm gone. I don't even bother with a text or phone call. If she hasn't fed herself all day and knows she's going out later that day then you've got one stupid **** on your hands. You don't want to be sticking your dick in that. You might want to thank her. Because you got to see you were dealing with a headcase BEFORE you invested any time or cock into it.

[Lopakhin]

I've learned not to be nice in these situations because it ALWAYS ends up a disaster.

You're right. I always try to be understanding and nice about it. From now on, at the first sign something is off, I'm going to cut bait and really be the 'selfish dick' that I was already accused of being.

These women ruin it for themselves and then complain about how terrible guys are. They bring it on all by themselves and get what they deserve.

[Asobou]

As soon as I hopped in her ride she said, "Oh BTW we have to pick up a friend of mine, (HE) is going to be going with us". I'm like WTF? I asked her who the guy was and she said, some guy she meet a month ago.

Did you ask her if she was into threesomes? Maybe she was planning a cock in her mouth and one in her ass. Maybe double penetration. You might have missed the chance for some kinky stuff.

Seriously though, some women are dense. Sorry it didn't work out for you.

[Watnow78]

Every so often I get the urge to dip my toe in the dating pool and once again try to find someone to be my better half. I'm a decent looking guy in my late 30's, and, to be honest, it gets lonely sometimes not having a special person in my life who I can connect with on all levels while sharing both the good times and the bad. Don't get me wrong, it's great to go out and bang a tight-bodied 22 year old escort, but it definitely feels empty afterwards. So a few weeks ago I joined a popular dating site to try and meet someone.

After a few days of clicking through profiles and emailing a bunch of women, I started talking to a cute girl in her mid 30's. This went on for about a week, and then last Wednesday I suggested we meet-up on Saturday night to ride the High Roller at the Linq and hang out. She said she had never been there and was really excited to go. Everything was looking great at this point.

Saturday morning comes around and I text her to confirm that we're still on for the date. She says 'Yeah', so I tell her that I will buy the tickets online to avoid waiting in a long line on Valentine's weekend. We were set to meet at 7 pm, and I tell her to text me when she arrives. Again, everything seems cool.

I get to the Linq right before 7 and wait by the entrance to the High Roller. About 10 minutes later I decide to text her and let her know where to find me. She replies that she had just gotten up from a nap 10 minutes ago. In my mind I'm instantly irritated, but I give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she just fell asleep and didn't set an alarm. It can happen to anyone. We then get into this back and forth with me trying to be super nice about it and saying that I will just walk around until she gets there. That seems to be the plan until she says that she is hungry and exhausted and doesn't want to drive that far. She then offers to have me drive over to her part of town to have dinner. At this point, I'm getting really fucking irritated that I've already wasted part of my evening but decide to try and salvage it by at least meeting her. That was a mistake.

I get in my car and make my way over to Boca Park. It's about 8:30 now. I text her again asking if she is there. I get a reply that she is on the phone with her mother who, all of a sudden, has heart problems and can't hang up. She then sends me a screenshot of her text message with her mother (I thought she just said she was on the phone and couldn't hang up). Anyway, I decide to tap out at this point, but still try to be somewhat nice about it. I tell her that I wish she would have put in a little more effort to meet and that it was disrespectful of her to act the way she did. That's when she starts going off by calling me a selfish dick and that I should be concerned that she hasn't eaten all day and is tired from working over 50 hrs this week. I think, big fucking deal, I work a lot of hours as well and somehow still managed to make it there and then drove all the way across town to make it even more convenient for her. After going back and forth and being called a selfish dick a few more times, I finally told her she needs mental help and to go fuck yourself.

I mean, if this is what is out there in the world of dating, I am seriously fine with paying for companionship. Paying for sex should absolutely be legal everywhere. You try to be the nice guy and go the extra mile just to meet someone, and this is how these girls treat you. It's a fucking disgrace. They act like they are the center of the universe and are right no matter what. And she herself even confirmed the date in the morning. If she was so exhausted then, why not cancel before making me run all over the fucking place for no reason. I guess I should just be happy that she didn't show up and I dodged a bullet.

Thanks to you all for letting me vent a little bit. Shit just gets old and frustrating. I've attached a few of the text messages so you can see the type of person I was dealing with.

Lopakhin

This happens all to often. I can't tell you how many times I've meet women who at first seem like they are very interested in you, but when you take that next step. They do a 180 and shit becomes stupid. What I've found is that, these women have this shit already planned in their heads. They know they are going to get out of it, piss you off, and make it seem like you are the insensitive ass hole. These women have no intention in meeting up and if you do meet up with them, they make the situation very very awkward. I've learned to see the first signs of a failing situation and bail as soon as I can.

Just a couple of weeks ago I met a girl in a bar near my neighborhood, now she approached me and starting a conversation. Things were going great, we joked, flirted, and had a few shots. We exchanged numbers and she text me 3 days later and invited me to this thing in Hollywood. I said hell yeah! So she offered to pick me up (which was nice) then things got really weird. As soon as I hopped in her ride she said, "Oh BTW we have to pick up a friend of mine, (HE) is going to be going with us". I'm like WTF? I asked her who the guy was and she said, some guy she meet a month ago. Okay. So right then and there I made up mind to cut my loses and salvage the night for my benefit. I told her that I thought it was going to be just us and no other dude. She gave me some lame ass BS excuse which did not make any scene. I told her to pull over and let me out of her car. We went back an forth for a couple of minutes and she finally let me out. Now the ***** had the nerve to ask me for the $30 dollar ticket she purchased for me. I laughed and slammed her door, called an Uber to take me to a bar where my friends were at.

I've learned not to be nice in these situations because it ALWAYS ends up a disaster.

[Marlowe]

And may just about the best thing that I have ever read!

To quote one of the famous mongers of days gone by, "we don't pay them for sex, we pay them to go away when we're finished.

[The Shanahan]

I don't think of it as paying for sex, I think of it as paying for not having to deal with a woman again. I've been on dating sites and met women off of them, and slept with them on the first date, and guess what? They kept bugging me afterwards, LOL. Sorry but maybe I just want a one night stand and want to move on. Most women aren't ok with that. At least in the mongering game, I can go about my business afterwards, and I don't have to worry about someone wanting to hang out with me afterwards. Of course, I guess you can say I'm lucky because I don't really get lonely, I am actually more irritated with dealing with someone else's shit, guess I'm just selfish.

And may just about the best thing that I have ever read!

[Justgrand]

I don't think of it as paying for sex, I think of it as paying for not having to deal with a woman again. I've been on dating sites and met women off of them, and slept with them on the first date, and guess what? They kept bugging me afterwards, LOL. Sorry but maybe I just want a one night stand and want to move on. Most women aren't ok with that. At least in the mongering game, I can go about my business afterwards, and I don't have to worry about someone wanting to hang out with me afterwards. Of course, I guess you can say I'm lucky because I don't really get lonely, I am actually more irritated with dealing with someone else's shit, guess I'm just selfish.

[Craven Morhead]

Every so often I get the urge to dip my toe in the dating pool and once again try to find someone to be my better half. I'm a decent looking guy in my late 30's, and, to be honest, it gets lonely sometimes not having a special person in my life who I can connect with on all levels while sharing both the good times and the bad. Don't get me wrong, it's great to go out and bang a tight-bodied 22 year old escort, but it definitely feels empty afterwards. So a few weeks ago I joined a popular dating site to try and meet someone.

After a few days of clicking through profiles and emailing a bunch of women, I started talking to a cute girl in her mid 30's. This went on for about a week, and then last Wednesday I suggested we meet-up on Saturday night to ride the High Roller at the Linq and hang out. She said she had never been there and was really excited to go. Everything was looking great at this point.

Saturday morning comes around and I text her to confirm that we're still on for the date. She says 'Yeah', so I tell her that I will buy the tickets online to avoid waiting in a long line on Valentine's weekend. We were set to meet at 7 pm, and I tell her to text me when she arrives. Again, everything seems cool.

I get to the Linq right before 7 and wait by the entrance to the High Roller. About 10 minutes later I decide to text her and let her know where to find me. She replies that she had just gotten up from a nap 10 minutes ago. In my mind I'm instantly irritated, but I give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she just fell asleep and didn't set an alarm. It can happen to anyone. We then get into this back and forth with me trying to be super nice about it and saying that I will just walk around until she gets there. That seems to be the plan until she says that she is hungry and exhausted and doesn't want to drive that far. She then offers to have me drive over to her part of town to have dinner. At this point, I'm getting really fucking irritated that I've already wasted part of my evening but decide to try and salvage it by at least meeting her. That was a mistake.

I get in my car and make my way over to Boca Park. It's about 8:30 now. I text her again asking if she is there. I get a reply that she is on the phone with her mother who, all of a sudden, has heart problems and can't hang up. She then sends me a screenshot of her text message with her mother (I thought she just said she was on the phone and couldn't hang up). Anyway, I decide to tap out at this point, but still try to be somewhat nice about it. I tell her that I wish she would have put in a little more effort to meet and that it was disrespectful of her to act the way she did. That's when she starts going off by calling me a selfish dick and that I should be concerned that she hasn't eaten all day and is tired from working over 50 hrs this week. I think, big fucking deal, I work a lot of hours as well and somehow still managed to make it there and then drove all the way across town to make it even more convenient for her. After going back and forth and being called a selfish dick a few more times, I finally told her she needs mental help and to go fuck yourself.

I mean, if this is what is out there in the world of dating, I am seriously fine with paying for companionship. Paying for sex should absolutely be legal everywhere. You try to be the nice guy and go the extra mile just to meet someone, and this is how these girls treat you. It's a fucking disgrace. They act like they are the center of the universe and are right no matter what. And she herself even confirmed the date in the morning. If she was so exhausted then, why not cancel before making me run all over the fucking place for no reason. I guess I should just be happy that she didn't show up and I dodged a bullet.

Thanks to you all for letting me vent a little bit. Shit just gets old and frustrating. I've attached a few of the text messages so you can see the type of person I was dealing with.

Lopakhin

Try Asian women, because if it does work out and you stick with her she will age way better than white women.

[SexThinker]

I don't have a story quite like that, but I was going to meet up with a nice lady who, though married (or in a relationship, I forget which), but come the day before we were supposed to meet -- much closer to her than me of course -- her partner suddenly had a change of heart and didn't want her seeing other guys.

Never come across anyone insane enough to call someone a dick because they don't want kids (I don't want kids. I'd be a horrible parent amount many other reasons), but yeah such crap is so frusterating. At least with paying for sex you know exactly what you're going to get. Often times you end up paying almost as much (especially factoring in time and driving) just to have a relationship anyway.

[Josephr9999]

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[Lopakhin]

Every so often I get the urge to dip my toe in the dating pool and once again try to find someone to be my better half. I'm a decent looking guy in my late 30's, and, to be honest, it gets lonely sometimes not having a special person in my life who I can connect with on all levels while sharing both the good times and the bad. Don't get me wrong, it's great to go out and bang a tight-bodied 22 year old escort, but it definitely feels empty afterwards. So a few weeks ago I joined a popular dating site to try and meet someone.

After a few days of clicking through profiles and emailing a bunch of women, I started talking to a cute girl in her mid 30's. This went on for about a week, and then last Wednesday I suggested we meet-up on Saturday night to ride the High Roller at the Linq and hang out. She said she had never been there and was really excited to go. Everything was looking great at this point.

Saturday morning comes around and I text her to confirm that we're still on for the date. She says 'Yeah', so I tell her that I will buy the tickets online to avoid waiting in a long line on Valentine's weekend. We were set to meet at 7 pm, and I tell her to text me when she arrives. Again, everything seems cool.

I get to the Linq right before 7 and wait by the entrance to the High Roller. About 10 minutes later I decide to text her and let her know where to find me. She replies that she had just gotten up from a nap 10 minutes ago. In my mind I'm instantly irritated, but I give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she just fell asleep and didn't set an alarm. It can happen to anyone. We then get into this back and forth with me trying to be super nice about it and saying that I will just walk around until she gets there. That seems to be the plan until she says that she is hungry and exhausted and doesn't want to drive that far. She then offers to have me drive over to her part of town to have dinner. At this point, I'm getting really fucking irritated that I've already wasted part of my evening but decide to try and salvage it by at least meeting her. That was a mistake.

I get in my car and make my way over to Boca Park. It's about 8:30 now. I text her again asking if she is there. I get a reply that she is on the phone with her mother who, all of a sudden, has heart problems and can't hang up. She then sends me a screenshot of her text message with her mother (I thought she just said she was on the phone and couldn't hang up). Anyway, I decide to tap out at this point, but still try to be somewhat nice about it. I tell her that I wish she would have put in a little more effort to meet and that it was disrespectful of her to act the way she did. That's when she starts going off by calling me a selfish dick and that I should be concerned that she hasn't eaten all day and is tired from working over 50 hrs this week. I think, big fucking deal, I work a lot of hours as well and somehow still managed to make it there and then drove all the way across town to make it even more convenient for her. After going back and forth and being called a selfish dick a few more times, I finally told her she needs mental help and to go fuck yourself.

I mean, if this is what is out there in the world of dating, I am seriously fine with paying for companionship. Paying for sex should absolutely be legal everywhere. You try to be the nice guy and go the extra mile just to meet someone, and this is how these girls treat you. It's a fucking disgrace. They act like they are the center of the universe and are right no matter what. And she herself even confirmed the date in the morning. If she was so exhausted then, why not cancel before making me run all over the fucking place for no reason. I guess I should just be happy that she didn't show up and I dodged a bullet.

Thanks to you all for letting me vent a little bit. Shit just gets old and frustrating. I've attached a few of the text messages so you can see the type of person I was dealing with.

Lopakhin