General Reports

[WildThing616]

Could someone please PM the the provider's name & number who was trying to extort a fellow monger? I've been chatting with a provider from Muskegeon who I noticed now isn't posting.

[Bronco6566]

I would like to know as well, please.

There must be a reason they aren't posting a name so respect that while this plays out and understand that any provider can pull this crap. The risk we all take. I know who it is and Benz gave some decent hints below. It looks like she pulled her ads as of this post so more hints would be pointless. I will say this tho. Muskegon has more to worry about than Grand Rapids so monger on but this is a lesson for all.

[Girls1]

Thanks, Benz1 .

Any member can get the name just by asking.

It pays to be a member of usasexguide.

[Benz1]

I would like to know as well, please.

Any member can get the name just by asking.

It pays to be a member of usasexguide.

[Salmasy]

She has threatened you. If she stops with you, who is to say she won't threaten someone else tomorrow?? I suppose you could pm everyone because I'm sure we all want to know. I do, so please pm me at least.

Thanks,

TM.

I would like to know as well, please.

[TeeMich]

I have not named this woman because it isn't clear yet if she will continue to threaten me.

She has threatened you. If she stops with you, who is to say she won't threaten someone else tomorrow?? I suppose you could pm everyone because I'm sure we all want to know. I do, so please pm me at least.

Thanks,

TM.

[NoseJelly]

This SP / Chic needs to chill out! There is NO good outcome for her in a situation like this. Unless she wises up quick. It's her against dozens of Savvy and Pissed off Mongers who have been around the block so many times they are dizzy from experience! When her business dries up, she'll be stuck walking the "D" or the "L" or the "G" just to scrape together enough for a McPick2!

[Stroker417]

Pussy, Info and Safety is why this Board exists! Even the slightest whiff of a threat, of any kind, from a MP or SP and I'll blast her name all over the forum. Why protect a Provider that pulls shit like that?

I agree 100%.

[Bloozer]

Pussy, Info and Safety is why this Board exists! Even the slightest whiff of a threat, of any kind, from a MP or SP and I'll blast her name all over the forum. Why protect a Provider that pulls shit like that?

Amen.

Amen and Halleluja.

[NoseJelly]

Pussy, Info and Safety is why this Board exists! Even the slightest whiff of a threat, of any kind, from a MP or SP and I'll blast her name all over the forum. Why protect a Provider that pulls shit like that?

[SpongeBob66]

Sounds like you are doing the best you can with this extortion attempt, right approach to take. Hard to call in LE on something like this, ***** can ruin your life if you are married. Thanks for the reminder of the dangers of hobbying, this is just one of many pitfalls that await the unwary. Not sure what your reasoning for not naming the lady running this scam, seems like it would make the report more useful than that of just a general warning, might even save some guy from getting caught in the same scam from this unnamed woman.

No, being exposed wouldn't ruin my life. I'm married, but my wife has no libido and sex is physically painful for her. I contemplated talking to my wife about doing the BP / escort thing (getting her permission, essentially) before I started, but decided it was kinder to just do it and leave her in the dark. But being exposed would not be the end of my marriage. Frankly, I see this as a way to preserve our marriage, not damage it. We love each other, but we have this physical intimacy issue that I'm doing my best to take care of after years of frustration (and gynocologist visits).

I have not named this woman because it isn't clear yet if she will continue to threaten me.

If she does cross that line and interfere with my private life, I will come down on her hard and you will all be spectators. At that point I will name her to everyone, she will be ruined on BP forever, will lose her "regular" job if she has one, and CPS will take her child away.

[Blackfire]

Thanks, Benz. I appreciate our solidarity.

She SAYS she's pregnant (she may be) and also says she knows the Exact date of conception and therefore it must be me or one other guy (who has had a vasectomy), but this is clearly untrue:

QUOTE:

"The short answer to the question, "Can I find out the exact day I got pregnant?" is, probably not. Determining the exact date of conception is difficult for several reasons.

First of all, you need to know that pregnancy occurs when an ovulated female egg and and male sperm meet and fertilization occurs. This usually takes place in a fallopian tube.

The time of ovulation, when an egg is released from the ovaries and into the fallopian tube, determines a woman's fertility window and varies from woman to woman. Most women ovulate 14 days after the first day of their last menstrual cycle but some women release an egg anywhere from 11 to 21 days after the first day of their last period. An egg is viable, able to be fertilized, up to 24 hours after it has been released from the ovary. Also, sperm can live in a woman's body and fertilize an egg for up to seven days. This means there is a window of a week or so in which a woman can conceive after a sexual encounter".

UNQUOTE.

I have no idea how many men she saw in the SEVENTEEN day window (ten day ovulation window plus seven day sperm longevity) that could possibly fertilize her. But based on all her postings (including yesterday) I'm thinking she's seen more than two men in seventeen days. Also, condoms have an almost 100% single use effectiveness rate When Used Properly, which I did. And vasectomies also are known to fail.

To be sure I'm a nice guy, and perhaps that makes me a mark? But I'm not stupid, and I won't be bullied or extorted. This woman's attitude is threatening, very uncooperative, and maybe not all-together stable. She said she "needs a few hundred dollars for a morning-after-pill" but I know that they are about $100 at a PP clinic and she can make that in a single appointment. She ignores this, and simply threatens to "send someone to my front door (publicly subpoena me)" or "have the kid and you will have to support it. " Like she would carry a pregnancy out of spite?! Really?! For a few hundred dollars?! Absolutely not believable. Even if she's crazy.

This has all been very surprising to me, because I thought our single "date" went very well, and had hoped to see her regularly. And reviews of her on USA are almost all very positive. I learned recently however, that she threatened to "out" one other of our senior members to his wife. He says he paid her the $150 money / ransom she claimed he owed her.

I have no problem whatsoever in a paternity test, because I think the chance that I am a new father is zero, and that this is purely a scam. I promised her that if she does interfere with my private life that I would take every legal means available to make her life miserable. And I have the means to do that. I hope it doesn't come to that.

Sounds like you are doing the best you can with this extortion attempt, right approach to take. Hard to call in LE on something like this, ***** can ruin your life if you are married. Thanks for the reminder of the dangers of hobbying, this is just one of many pitfalls that await the unwary. Not sure what your reasoning for not naming the lady running this scam, seems like it would make the report more useful than that of just a general warning, might even save some guy from getting caught in the same scam from this unnamed woman.

[Naughty12]

I would think there are several of us interested in more information. If for no other reason than knowing who to stay away from.

Very good point if she's still doing this.

[SpongeBob66]

There is a popular Grand Rapids / Muskegon provider currently extorting one of our senior members. She's having his baby, of all things. She says yes we used a condum but it didn't work and you are the daddy.

Our solidarity has been an awesome tool in shutting down bad providers. Latest example is Amber Rose driven to the streets and failing fast with an abusive pimp.

I believe we should all unify to eliminate this behavior from our providers in Michigan.

Make sure they never work here again and drive them to the streets like Amber Rose.

We need to expose them and post about their extortion where where ever they post their ads.

Thanks, Benz. I appreciate our solidarity.

She SAYS she's pregnant (she may be) and also says she knows the Exact date of conception and therefore it must be me or one other guy (who has had a vasectomy), but this is clearly untrue:

QUOTE:

"The short answer to the question, "Can I find out the exact day I got pregnant?" is, probably not. Determining the exact date of conception is difficult for several reasons.

First of all, you need to know that pregnancy occurs when an ovulated female egg and and male sperm meet and fertilization occurs. This usually takes place in a fallopian tube.

The time of ovulation, when an egg is released from the ovaries and into the fallopian tube, determines a woman's fertility window and varies from woman to woman. Most women ovulate 14 days after the first day of their last menstrual cycle but some women release an egg anywhere from 11 to 21 days after the first day of their last period. An egg is viable, able to be fertilized, up to 24 hours after it has been released from the ovary. Also, sperm can live in a woman's body and fertilize an egg for up to seven days. This means there is a window of a week or so in which a woman can conceive after a sexual encounter".

UNQUOTE.

I have no idea how many men she saw in the SEVENTEEN day window (ten day ovulation window plus seven day sperm longevity) that could possibly fertilize her. But based on all her postings (including yesterday) I'm thinking she's seen more than two men in seventeen days. Also, condoms have an almost 100% single use effectiveness rate When Used Properly, which I did. And vasectomies also are known to fail.

To be sure I'm a nice guy, and perhaps that makes me a mark? But I'm not stupid, and I won't be bullied or extorted. This woman's attitude is threatening, very uncooperative, and maybe not all-together stable. She said she "needs a few hundred dollars for a morning-after-pill" but I know that they are about $100 at a PP clinic and she can make that in a single appointment. She ignores this, and simply threatens to "send someone to my front door (publicly subpoena me)" or "have the kid and you will have to support it. " Like she would carry a pregnancy out of spite?! Really?! For a few hundred dollars?! Absolutely not believable. Even if she's crazy.

This has all been very surprising to me, because I thought our single "date" went very well, and had hoped to see her regularly. And reviews of her on USA are almost all very positive. I learned recently however, that she threatened to "out" one other of our senior members to his wife. He says he paid her the $150 money / ransom she claimed he owed her.

I have no problem whatsoever in a paternity test, because I think the chance that I am a new father is zero, and that this is purely a scam. I promised her that if she does interfere with my private life that I would take every legal means available to make her life miserable. And I have the means to do that. I hope it doesn't come to that.

[Benz1]

I would think there are several of us interested in more information. If for no other reason than knowing who to stay away from.

Getting feedback from others, this B itch should be exposed but its not my story to tell.

This is sensitive because the extortion is ongoing. At this point it's up to our members that have been extorted to expose her.
She will screen shot your text, research your number and show them to your Significant Other or pay the fee.
I will give her name through private message.
Extortion can be avoided with a hobby phone.

USA members get a hobby phone now.