General Reports

[Ooze69]

Yooo, just want to say thank you to this forum. From the senior members, to the non seniors who post the truth. I've read this board for years, observed, followed rules, and it's taken me till now to begin posting. Your efforts on here have been enjoyed by me tenfold. I have finally sacked up and decided to start posting.

[Moonglow913]

1. You are going to get scammed. If you can't afford a scam or 2 then don't play the game.

2. There is no sure way to avoid the law. Most of us do this for the adrenaline rush.

3. The more specific your need the greater the likely hood of a scam, long wait, and / or missed opportunity. I got big into 18 and 19 yo's, I know I run huge risk but I knowingly take it. The challenged is when you think you got what you want, keeping a clear head and thinking through things.

4. Expect to pay for a hotel. Red Roof Inn, Motel 6 whatever. I avoid the hourly places, search Priceline, look for a 7 in cleanliness and book. Safer, smarter, and more secure. Make sure they can get to your room from the outside.

5. Be sober and not high to keep your wits about you.

6. If stopped by the cops invoke 2 things then shut the hell up. Right to remain silent, you need to say it, lawyer.

7 Get a legal shield plan. Want more info DM me. Better to pay a monthly rate than the full price of a defense attorney.

8. Don't carry a gun. It sucks getting caught committing a crime it sucks far more committing it while armed. Better to train in martial arts.

9. Learn to walk away.

10. If you ever suspect your provider is an unwilling victim. Hand her the money, walk out, call an anonymous hotline. If you go through the guilt will eat you alive.

11. Be kind, I help providers find normal jobs if that's what they want. No charge or expectation of services. Karma is real, best have the good kind.

12. Search pics in other ads / location to identify a scam.

13. Start paying attention to the back ground of pics. I can I'd hotels by room setup, I am getting good at figuring out cities. Look for signs of pimps, drugs, weapons, and other red flags. These are not the brightest bulbs in the pack. Take advantage of that. If a Flint girl has pics that look like they are from a model shoot, they ain't from Flint.

14. Anytime the deal is altered walk away, let the Imperials take the city.

This is what I have learned in the school of hard knocks.

I have been in the hobby for 40 years and have never been scammed. Not even close. My advice: do your research, have a good idea who will be opening the door and what is on the menu. There are a lot of resources and while it is difficult sometimes, think with the big head, not the small one.

[Wiggles0923]

1. You are going to get scammed. If you can't afford a scam or 2 then don't play the game.

2. There is no sure way to avoid the law. Most of us do this for the adrenaline rush.

3. The more specific your need the greater the likely hood of a scam, long wait, and / or missed opportunity. I got big into 18 and 19 yo's, I know I run huge risk but I knowingly take it. The challenged is when you think you got what you want, keeping a clear head and thinking through things.

4. Expect to pay for a hotel. Red Roof Inn, Motel 6 whatever. I avoid the hourly places, search Priceline, look for a 7 in cleanliness and book. Safer, smarter, and more secure. Make sure they can get to your room from the outside.

5. Be sober and not high to keep your wits about you.

6. If stopped by the cops invoke 2 things then shut the hell up. Right to remain silent, you need to say it, lawyer.

7 Get a legal shield plan. Want more info DM me. Better to pay a monthly rate than the full price of a defense attorney.

8. Don't carry a gun. It sucks getting caught committing a crime it sucks far more committing it while armed. Better to train in martial arts.

9. Learn to walk away.

10. If you ever suspect your provider is an unwilling victim. Hand her the money, walk out, call an anonymous hotline. If you go through the guilt will eat you alive.

11. Be kind, I help providers find normal jobs if that's what they want. No charge or expectation of services. Karma is real, best have the good kind.

12. Search pics in other ads / location to identify a scam.

13. Start paying attention to the back ground of pics. I can I'd hotels by room setup, I am getting good at figuring out cities. Look for signs of pimps, drugs, weapons, and other red flags. These are not the brightest bulbs in the pack. Take advantage of that. If a Flint girl has pics that look like they are from a model shoot, they ain't from Flint.

14. Anytime the deal is altered walk away, let the Imperials take the city.

This is what I have learned in the school of hard knocks.

[TomFatMan68]

I happen to be licensed in cosmetology too.

Where are you located Cassidy69? PM.

[TomFatMan68]

This has been a service I have always been interested if it is out there and kind of a bucket list item. Does anyone know of someone or somewhere that offers topless haircuts? I don't want some buzz cut or head shaving. I want a good, "professional" haircut from someone that knows what she is doing and just happens to be topless. I did a quick Google search and found a few places that advertise that out of state but nothing in Michigan. When I Google it for Michigan I get those haircut places for men that just have good looking ladies. I have searched on here too but did not come back with results I was looking for.

There was a lady on STG that advertised for haircuts and massage. Not sure it was topples or not and can't remember when I seen it. It was in the GR section of STG.

[Admin2]

Just posting here so I can get Admin's attention. Had to create this new similar acct. Have done 5-6 "Contact Us" msgs over last 10 days and got no response. Changed email addr for senior acct "Olivertwist501". Forgot original email addr and pwd (never use it) so I could activate change. Now I can only log into OT501 but not post / pm. Can we somehow fix this please? Would like old acct back.

Thanks.

I personally answer the Contact Us mailboxes and I didn't see anything from you.

I looked at Olivertwist501 and you're not using the same email (no, I can't furnish that to you) I also can't change your password if you can't establish your creds (google social engineering) so if you lost all manner of proving your id then that account is lost.

You could have also done this with PM

A2

[OliverTwist500]

Just posting here so I can get Admin's attention. Had to create this new similar acct. Have done 5-6 "Contact Us" msgs over last 10 days and got no response. Changed email addr for senior acct "Olivertwist501". Forgot original email addr and pwd (never use it) so I could activate change. Now I can only log into OT501 but not post / pm. Can we somehow fix this please? Would like old acct back.

Thanks.

[PDC3933]

Have any fellow mongers used 'callescort. Org'?

I usually use STG or Tryst. Lnk however I recently came across this site. The ladies look good, but no reviews on anybody (though there is an option).

While I'm at it, are there any other good sites for finding escorts.

[TopGun2002]

https://fox8.com/news/sex-for-sale-v...fficking-raid/

[JohnCast719]

I have met a couple nice ladies on SB, but I generally think the site is bating you. No go show boats, to quote an early Beach boys song. You might notice a flurry of new communications just before your subscription is up. Then you re-up and it goes dead for a while. I have a fortyish lady I've been seeing for over a year now. I think she enjoys the sex more than I do. $100 per visit with no time limit. But he made for comfort, not Speid. SA Has generally been more productive and fewer fakes. However I got kicked off for mentioning $in a message. You need to be careful to take these conversations out of the SA site.

SS out.

I used SA for while and established two great relationships. I dropped SA before Covid, and because of recent reviews that the site had gone south, I did not want to rejoin. I tried Ashley Madison, and more recently AdultFriendlyFinders. The sites are TERRIBLE, and they obviously "bait" you. You can tell that many of the profiles are fake. There seems to be a lot of horny unsophisticated guys and a bunch of fake women. When I was on SA I had A LOT of traffic, talked to many women, and met several in person. On AM and AFF: "crickets". I dropped both after a short while. The thing is, before joining, I looked for some reviews of these sites. I read a couple of good, well-written reviews that seemed balanced, listed the pros and cons, but were in general favorable. But I suspect that the reviews are written by someone from the site, or paid by them. So save your money, and do not join these bait sites. It seems from Steve's post that SB is similar. I am unsure whether I will return to SA. But if I do, I'll post my experience here. Cheers.

[Cassidy69]

This has been a service I have always been interested if it is out there and kind of a bucket list item. Does anyone know of someone or somewhere that offers topless haircuts? I don't want some buzz cut or head shaving. I want a good, "professional" haircut from someone that knows what she is doing and just happens to be topless. I did a quick Google search and found a few places that advertise that out of state but nothing in Michigan. When I Google it for Michigan I get those haircut places for men that just have good looking ladies. I have searched on here too but did not come back with results I was looking for.

I happen to be licensed in cosmetology too. Have done many many topless and nude haircuts.

[PeggingMeat]

Any of you folks dealt with a "Mistress Hellen" in Westland? Supposed to make online appointments for $100 for 2 hours using an Amazon gift card. What do you think? Scam?

[SamSmith4568]

This has been a service I have always been interested if it is out there and kind of a bucket list item. Does anyone know of someone or somewhere that offers topless haircuts? I don't want some buzz cut or head shaving. I want a good, "professional" haircut from someone that knows what she is doing and just happens to be topless. I did a quick Google search and found a few places that advertise that out of state but nothing in Michigan. When I Google it for Michigan I get those haircut places for men that just have good looking ladies. I have searched on here too but did not come back with results I was looking for.

[StevesMilin]

I too have signed up for SB. Sometimes I wonder if a lot of the messages I get aren't computer generated to get you to buy more tokens. I have had two reply back recently and I told them what I was looking for; a casual physical relationship. One replied back 'in exchange for what" which if have not replied and the other is crickets.

I have met a couple nice ladies on SB, but I generally think the site is bating you. No go show boats, to quote an early Beach boys song. You might notice a flurry of new communications just before your subscription is up. Then you re-up and it goes dead for a while. I have a fortyish lady I've been seeing for over a year now. I think she enjoys the sex more than I do. $100 per visit with no time limit. But he made for comfort, not Speid. SA Has generally been more productive and fewer fakes. However I got kicked off for mentioning $in a message. You need to be careful to take these conversations out of the SA site.

SS out.

[JbThor]

I guess in part due to advertising on this site I opened an account on Secret Benefits. Not having any luck. There's no shortage of young hotties signed up and many are online all the time but I don't know what they are looking for. Several have responded initially to say "hi" but then when I ask what they want for help it's "crickets".

I've been selective in only messaging the ones that say they want a mutually beneficial NSA attached relationship or a few that appear to be dancers. But no contact after the initial message. I'm ready to give up. Seems it's a bunch of young girls that expect guys to give them money just because they're hot.

I too have signed up for SB. Sometimes I wonder if a lot of the messages I get aren't computer generated to get you to buy more tokens. I have had two reply back recently and I told them what I was looking for; a casual physical relationship. One replied back 'in exchange for what" which if have not replied and the other is crickets.