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**KingEpqng** · 04-27-23 13:51

It is always typically good at first!

Originally Posted by TwistedFace [View Original Post]

After many years of mongering, I met a civvie lady with whom I shared a hobby. We hit it off immediately, and I felt like I had known her all my life. We spent tons of time together and were texting constantly. I immediately swore off mongering. Suffice to say I spent a bit of money on her buying dinners, gifts, and traveling. We made lots of plans, and life was good.

As time went (3 months), I noticed she started to cool off. She would take longer to reply to my messages; when she did, it was one-word answers. Attempts to set up dates were met with lame excuses. I confronted her, and she said she acted innocent. As if I was imagining things. I foolishly agreed, hoping to get back to the way things were. Of course, this didn't pan out. I was in a spiral for a while, constantly wondering what I did wrong or what I could do to get her back.

With a clearer mind, I did some reading, and apparently, this is called "love bombing" and "bread-crumbing. " Some of these women will overload your needs for attention and companionship for a while and then lose interest. Especially if you are kind. After that, they will give you less and less attention instead of just breaking it off. The less attention you get, the more you will try to get it back. Like a lab rat continuously pressing a button for food. Be warned, fellas. The lure for a civvie relationship is real; some work out. Just take it slow, and don't jump in with both feet like I did.

Now I am back mongering, and at least I know exactly what I am getting.

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**TwistedFace** · 04-27-23 10:24

After many years of mongering, I met a civvie lady with whom I shared a hobby. We hit it off immediately, and I felt like I had known her all my life. We spent tons of time together and were texting constantly. I immediately swore off mongering. Suffice to say I spent a bit of money on her buying dinners, gifts, and traveling. We made lots of plans, and life was good.

As time went (3 months), I noticed she started to cool off. She would take longer to reply to my messages; when she did, it was one-word answers. Attempts to set up dates were met with lame excuses. I confronted her, and she said she acted innocent. As if I was imagining things. I foolishly agreed, hoping to get back to the way things were. Of course, this didn't pan out. I was in a spiral for a while, constantly wondering what I did wrong or what I could do to get her back.

With a clearer mind, I did some reading, and apparently, this is called "love bombing" and "bread-crumbing. " Some of these women will overload your needs for attention and companionship for a while and then lose interest. Especially if you are kind. After that, they will give you less and less attention instead of just breaking it off. The less attention you get, the more you will try to get it back. Like a lab rat continuously pressing a button for food. Be warned, fellas. The lure for a civvie relationship is real; some work out. Just take it slow, and don't jump in with both feet like I did.

Now I am back mongering, and at least I know exactly what I am getting.

**Queen City Guy** · 04-24-23 10:22

There was a discussion in the SB thread about an attempted scam on a guy who had communicated several times with a 'gal' on SA or something. Over a few days 'she' extracted some info then boom her 'husband' called / texted threatening him and sent a screen shot of the monger's wife's FB or something. Of course that would make any of us that have a SO mess our pants! BUT there has been so much in the news lately about artificial intelligence and I heard a news report last week about how scammers can just off a few words can construct a real persons speech patterns etc. Similarly they can make fake videos, pictures etc using bits and pieces of what's already in the public domain. They can make it look like you did or said anything or were anywhere. At least that would be my claim if someone tried to contact my SO.

**DriveHard** · 04-24-23 09:05

Originally Posted by CaptCipher [View Original Post]

Club 101 make the customer reject you over rejecting the customer.

Had someone tell me about that rule early in my hobbyist career. Always agree to everything they ask and see how far you can take it. Most of it, like you said, is just a front. If they think you are genuinely interested and will do what it takes to make things happen, the rules go out the window.

**CaptCipher** · 04-20-23 22:56

Originally Posted by JaredGoff [View Original Post]

I did some reconnaissance at Scores but they were asking some absurd prices.

Girls at scores you have to make it it worth more than even a great night and even then it's iffy. Aside from the club being furious if they found out you're asking the them to be topless around a bunch of men they don't know in a venue they don't know without any security or bouncers to back them up. The absurd prices were likely to get you to drop the matter. Club 101 make the customer reject you over rejecting the customer.

**JaredGoff** · 04-20-23 21:17

Originally Posted by Bouinage [View Original Post]

Did you reach out to the bartenders / dancers at the club? I know some of them have done this before. Can't recall the names as it was sometime ago. Alternatively you could reach out to a provider, probably cost a good bit tho.

I did some reconnaissance at Scores but they were asking some absurd prices.

**DriveHard** · 04-20-23 16:42

Originally Posted by JaredGoff [View Original Post]

What's up fellas? I'm hosting a poker night with buddies and am looking for a girl or two that would be interested in being a topless bartender / server for the game. Nothing out of the ordinary other than pouring beers out of a kegerator, grabbing beer from the fridge and making an occasional mixed drink. Preference is young and firm and potentially open to party favors too. If you guys know of anyone that would be interested feel free to DM me. Thanks.

Ask for Wendy. She was the main bartender there before covid. She showed back up a few months ago as a dancer. She's is in her 40's, but very personable and will definitely do this for you. She will likely know one or two others that will do it too.

**Tryon** · 04-20-23 10:41

Originally Posted by JaredGoff [View Original Post]

What's up fellas? I'm hosting a poker night with buddies and am looking for a girl or two that would be interested in being a topless bartender / server for the game. Nothing out of the ordinary other than pouring beers out of a kegerator, grabbing beer from the fridge and making an occasional mixed drink. Preference is young and firm and potentially open to party favors too. If you guys know of anyone that would be interested feel free to DM me. Thanks.

A couple of the stripper services in Charlotte will provide what you are looking for.

**Bouinage** · 04-18-23 19:17

Originally Posted by JaredGoff [View Original Post]

What's up fellas? I'm hosting a poker night with buddies and am looking for a girl or two that would be interested in being a topless bartender / server for the game. Nothing out of the ordinary other than pouring beers out of a kegerator, grabbing beer from the fridge and making an occasional mixed drink. Preference is young and firm and potentially open to party favors too. If you guys know of anyone that would be interested feel free to DM me. Thanks.

Did you reach out to the bartenders / dancers at the club? I know some of them have done this before. Can't recall the names as it was sometime ago. Alternatively you could reach out to a provider, probably cost a good bit tho.

**Pnorth919** · 04-18-23 16:38

Originally Posted by ChessGod [View Original Post]

Luna: https://skipthegames.com/posts/charl...m/135683232779 Based off the other reports I reached out to Luna yesterday afternoon. Usually, when any ad has a lot of rules and warnings it's a red flag for me and I pass. I reach out to her and she responds very quickly. She offered me BBBJ for 20 minutes for $. Then she offered me FS for $.50 Then she follows up with. If something isn't on my ad or isn't clear jlmk. Well I think, I want a BBBJ to start things off and then I want to give you a rim job and then I want to suit up and finish. I politely ask if I can text freely but she isn't answering that question clearly. Eventually I ask if I can call. She sends me a 202 number and asks for a deposit to chat. At this point I say, I'm a good person. You're a good person. I'm not your date tonight. Best of luck. She immediately responds with, You're blocked. I don't answer. 2 minutes later she texts. "Don't contact me. " 2 minutes later she texts, "I feel like I dodged a bullet.".

Thank you. I shell stay away as far as possible.

**J Simp** · 04-18-23 16:23

Hey Luna if you do read this board, you pissed off a senior in good standing. Also, your tits are saggy. I won't be contacting you either.

Originally Posted by ChessGod [View Original Post]

Luna: https://skipthegames.com/posts/charl...m/135683232779 Based off the other reports I reached out to Luna yesterday afternoon. Usually, when any ad has a lot of rules and warnings it's a red flag for me and I pass. I reach out to her and she responds very quickly. She offered me BBBJ for 20 minutes for $. Then she offered me FS for $.50 Then she follows up with. If something isn't on my ad or isn't clear jlmk. Well I think, I want a BBBJ to start things off and then I want to give you a rim job and then I want to suit up and finish. I politely ask if I can text freely but she isn't answering that question clearly. Eventually I ask if I can call. She sends me a 202 number and asks for a deposit to chat. At this point I say, I'm a good person. You're a good person. I'm not your date tonight. Best of luck. She immediately responds with, You're blocked. I don't answer. 2 minutes later she texts. "Don't contact me. " 2 minutes later she texts, "I feel like I dodged a bullet."

Then I wait and I text, "If you really did block me like you promised then I can't contact you, but I know I'm not blocked because you're now reading this text, I'm sure when you're done reading this text you will block me. I encourage you to read my review of you tomorrow on the forum. Best of luck. To which she replied almost immediately, "You aren't scaring me?! You never even saw me, and I have record as well of this. Do you expect free chat? What is your deal? Are you crazy? This is definitely a red flag for safety and I will definitely ensure everyone is aware you just poke and threaten people bc they don't want to talk to you for free?! I have a number to reach me?.

**ChessGod** · 04-18-23 12:17

Luna: https://skipthegames.com/posts/charl...m/135683232779 Based off the other reports I reached out to Luna yesterday afternoon. Usually, when any ad has a lot of rules and warnings it's a red flag for me and I pass. I reach out to her and she responds very quickly. She offered me BBBJ for 20 minutes for $. Then she offered me FS for $.50 Then she follows up with. If something isn't on my ad or isn't clear jlmk. Well I think, I want a BBBJ to start things off and then I want to give you a rim job and then I want to suit up and finish. I politely ask if I can text freely but she isn't answering that question clearly. Eventually I ask if I can call. She sends me a 202 number and asks for a deposit to chat. At this point I say, I'm a good person. You're a good person. I'm not your date tonight. Best of luck. She immediately responds with, You're blocked. I don't answer. 2 minutes later she texts. "Don't contact me. " 2 minutes later she texts, "I feel like I dodged a bullet."

Then I wait and I text, "If you really did block me like you promised then I can't contact you, but I know I'm not blocked because you're now reading this text, I'm sure when you're done reading this text you will block me. I encourage you to read my review of you tomorrow on the forum. Best of luck. To which she replied almost immediately, "You aren't scaring me?! You never even saw me, and I have record as well of this. Do you expect free chat? What is your deal? Are you crazy? This is definitely a red flag for safety and I will definitely ensure everyone is aware you just poke and threaten people bc they don't want to talk to you for free?! I have a number to reach me?! You choose not to call-NOT MY PROBLEM. Don't ever threaten me. You are dangerous you sound insane and I'm BLACKLISTING you TO LET ALL AREA WORKERS KNOW TO BE WEARY IF ACCEPTING ACALL FROM YOU.

Whatever. I then texted Nicky Dior and had a great date. This morning I searched the forum again to re-read the reviews of Luna and see where I made my mistake. All of her reviews come from regular members with 5-12 reports each with the exception of HEx. Hummm.

**JaredGoff** · 04-17-23 16:03

What's up fellas? I'm hosting a poker night with buddies and am looking for a girl or two that would be interested in being a topless bartender / server for the game. Nothing out of the ordinary other than pouring beers out of a kegerator, grabbing beer from the fridge and making an occasional mixed drink. Preference is young and firm and potentially open to party favors too. If you guys know of anyone that would be interested feel free to DM me. Thanks.

**FourthTwin** · 04-12-23 11:01

Originally Posted by BetterThanU [View Original Post]

With Triad. It seems like you like her a lot and you don't want to mess up your relationship. Women are whimsical and capricious by nature and even though she has a BF and is probably seeing other guys, if you ask her for a friend's number, she will probably feel some kind of way. I know it's illogical but women are illogical. I would just see providers or try to find a similar UTR. Ofc, if you don't care about losing her, you can ask but if you do, I would not open that can of worms.

Yeah, I'll play it cool and not rock the boat. When and if she comes back her we'll make arrangements to meet. But until then I'll continue to do what I do while she's gone. My biggest problem with this hobby is the jack up in prices in the past few years. What you use to could get foe like $60 has now gone up to $150 if you can find someone willing to do it. Most seem fake or they have pimps or handlers who try to intimidate you once you get there. I'm not down for that. And I think a lot of guys are responsible for running the prices up. If you use to see a girl for $60 and she now tells you it'll be $80 or $100 for the same service they will pay it just to continue to see them. Me, I'll tell them it's been nice doing business with you but if you can't keep our prices consistent then I'll find someone else. Once they start losing clients and finding it harder to get new ones to pay what they're asking they'll rethink the price hike. And I assure you one thing. They may jack up the prices but the service is going to be the same if not less.

**Better Than U** · 04-12-23 07:15

Originally Posted by FourthTwin [View Original Post]

Please explain. What's your situation? I mean does she expect me to sit and wait on her to come back, which I'm not. I've even asked her about guys out there that might be interested in her and she says there are none. Which I really fail to believe. I doubt she's waiting to come back to NC just to link up with me. What's the worst that could happen? She tells me no or she gets mad I'm looking for someone to link up with while she's multiple states away with no idea when she'll be back on the east coast and she cuts me off completely?

With Triad. It seems like you like her a lot and you don't want to mess up your relationship. Women are whimsical and capricious by nature and even though she has a BF and is probably seeing other guys, if you ask her for a friend's number, she will probably feel some kind of way. I know it's illogical but women are illogical. I would just see providers or try to find a similar UTR. Ofc, if you don't care about losing her, you can ask but if you do, I would not open that can of worms.