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Atm
Originally Posted by
TheWiseacre
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Zero exceptions to this rule and those of us older mongers have been preaching this for years.
Paying for a massage is a business transaction. It is no different than buying something from Costco. Your provider is a business person and you are the customer. Get what you paid for. Some of these providers are wily and on the hustle but that doesn't mean it's any different than shopping at Costco. If you're at a bar and the hot bartender gives you the wrong drink or a watered down drink, you ask for her to fix the problem. If she won't, you will get her manager.
If you are firm / insistent with a massage girl, you will get what you negotiated for. And if you don't, get your money back. This might make you uncomfortable ("hey you said you would take your dress and bra off for $150") but if you avoid confrontation, that one is on you.
The ATM view can apply to women in general whether getting a massage or otherwise. Look, getting a massage should be relaxing and fun. If it's not, there's your answer.
As for the "bring your own oil" comments, shaking my damn head.
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You're serious?
Originally Posted by
TheGrinder
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If wives would smarten up and not deny their man there wouldn't be this issue in the first place.
Regardless of how much she gives me, strange is almost always worth the hunt. Are you just here for attention?
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Rinse and Repeat
Zero exceptions to this rule and those of us older mongers have been preaching this for years.
Paying for a massage is a business transaction. It is no different than buying something from Costco. Your provider is a business person and you are the customer. Get what you paid for. Some of these providers are wily and on the hustle but that doesn't mean it's any different than shopping at Costco. If you're at a bar and the hot bartender gives you the wrong drink or a watered down drink, you ask for her to fix the problem. If she won't, you will get her manager.
If you are firm / insistent with a massage girl, you will get what you negotiated for. And if you don't, get your money back. This might make you uncomfortable ("hey you said you would take your dress and bra off for $150") but if you avoid confrontation, that one is on you.
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Originally Posted by
DocHolliday35
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You are an ATM to ALL of THEM. Man these girls have your brain so warped you can't even think straight. The only thing they care about is your wallet. Big Daddy's don't get shorted on time, hell the massage is usually free. If you get shorted on time or service you are nothing but a simp to these girls and they will keep taking advantage of you.
Yes, it's a given we're walking ATM's to these ladies, but to each their own. I believe in treating everyone with respect regardless of what they do for a living. I also expect the same in return. For example, I have a few UTR's (under the radar) ladies I see regularly on a rotational basis. Their rates are very reasonable, they have regular 9-5 jobs and are happy to see a couple of "drama free" guys on the side. Their definition of a drama free dude, clean, not needy, not a stalker, respectful, etc. To put it simply, you pay, you do your thing and you leave!
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Originally Posted by
MassageAwesome
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Ok I will admit it was a me thing only because I should've left or said "hey I got more time. " when it was over. She wanted me to leave because she had another person. It had nothing to do with me.
It is true that we do need to treat these women with respect, as I do. But there are still those AMP women who, no matter if you treat them with the upmost respect, they treat us as cattle, because all they see is $. Those are the girls you had to let know who's in charge.
You are an ATM to ALL of THEM. Man these girls have your brain so warped you can't even think straight. The only thing they care about is your wallet. Big Daddy's don't get shorted on time, hell the massage is usually free. If you get shorted on time or service you are nothing but a simp to these girls and they will keep taking advantage of you.
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Originally Posted by
IAmNotGr8
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Quick thought. !
You can just say it was imported oil, or tell her you prefer coconut / olive / whatever you bring to the scented one they use.
Also, you can tell her ahead that you would pass on that money to her along with regular tip. That will make her happy and you will get a better return.
You won't feel like wasting money on some bs oil.
Yep agreed! I bring my own coconut oil and save the $10 each time. Better for your skin anyways. They are always cool with it!
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Originally Posted by
LickumGood
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Lu Message on Hwy 92 has been closed for renovations for the last couple of weeks. They were. 60 for the hour but they'll probably go to. 70 when they reopen. The place down the street, where the shooting happened, is also gone permanently. No happiness left in the Bells Ferry triangle.
Gold Sun (formerly Youngs) closed because the Attorney General's office sent a letter to the landlord threatening to take legal recourse if the tenant was evicted from the premises based on Rubmaps reviews. This of course is heresay and not evidence of anything illegal happening, but who's got the money to fight the AG.
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Bring your own oil
Quick thought. !
You can just say it was imported oil, or tell her you prefer coconut / olive / whatever you bring to the scented one they use.
Also, you can tell her ahead that you would pass on that money to her along with regular tip. That will make her happy and you will get a better return.
You won't feel like wasting money on some bs oil.
Originally Posted by
DonkeyDonk
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Bring your own oil in? Just to save a few bucks? I'd be afraid the masseuse would think I'm some kinda cheapskate and dial back her service.
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Lu Message
Lu Message on Hwy 92 has been closed for renovations for the last couple of weeks. They were. 60 for the hour but they'll probably go to. 70 when they reopen. The place down the street, where the shooting happened, is also gone permanently. No happiness left in the Bells Ferry triangle.
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Originally Posted by
DonkeyDonk
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Noob here. Never heard of that term relevant to anything but big drug dealers. WTF?
Stick around and RTFF, you'll catch on.
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Originally Posted by
GorosDawg
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No, and since I don't know for sure and the owner told me she no longer owned the business, I only base that on what their neighbor said about kicking them out.
You obviously know because you tried to have the same thing done.
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Originally Posted by
DonkeyDonk
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Bring your own oil in? Just to save a few bucks? I'd be afraid the masseuse would think I'm some kinda cheapskate and dial back her service.
Someone on here obviously does it, inquire with them. The girls have him marked as a cheapskate.
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Originally Posted by
BigBobAtl
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Speaking of Kaina, I stopped by there this morning on my way into work. Hand written sign on notebook paper taped to the doors said "redecoration. Will open Nov 23".
Do you think this is true? And I know for a fact Jenny is 33.
No, and since I don't know for sure and the owner told me she no longer owned the business, I only base that on what their neighbor said about kicking them out.
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Originally Posted by
GorosDawg
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It probably is irrelevant because of the bust and closure two weeks ago. But if Jenny resurfaces in the area, her passport says she is 32.
Speaking of Kaina, I stopped by there this morning on my way into work. Hand written sign on notebook paper taped to the doors said "redecoration. Will open Nov 23".
Do you think this is true? And I know for a fact Jenny is 33.
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Originally Posted by
GorosDawg
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It probably is irrelevant because of the bust and closure two weeks ago. But if Jenny resurfaces in the area, her passport says she is 32.
What did you think I was alluding to?