General Reports

[TobeYoung]

Good post! When I started I always had a backup AMP I could hit if escort flaked. How many of us are locked and loaded and frickin girl ghosts us. BLUE Balls.

Good luck mongering.

I have been doing this "hobby" for the last year and here is what I wish I knew about myself and the game when I started.

**More $$$ Does NOT mean Better Service*.

When I first started, I overpaid for lackluster service. I never really got scammed or robbed, but I was definitely paying more than I should. Some of the most expensive providers I paid were some of the worse experiences that I have had.

Now after about 100 or so meetings, I have a handful of very good providers that I can go to for $200 or less.

**More Time does not allows mean More Fun*.

I use to book hr sessions with everyone. Usually I would be done and out of there after 20-30 mins. I thought that if I had money for 2 or 3 hrs then I would really have an amazing time. Then I realized that it is the same as going to a Buffett. My ears are bigger than my stomach and I ended up not being able to perform more than once in an hour session. I had several longer sessions (2-3 hrs), but it was not that great (for me) after the first pop. Learning about yourself is key.

**Types of Protection Matters*.

The provider usually has that so I never worried about it. Then I noticed that some experiences were much more enjoyable then others and I realized that the type of protection that I used made a big difference. My favorite (so far) is Trojan Bare (I think that is what they are called). It almost feeling like I am not wearing protection (good name for a product). This one thing alone could have saved some of my experiences as I was unable to perform because I could not feel anything.

**Not all Providers Sites Are Equal*.

This is pretty clear once you get a few weeks under your belt, but some sites have a lot more fake ads then others. I have several places I check regularly (PD, LC, TER, and here). PD is much more reliable when it comes to not getting scammed, but other sites like LC I need to do a lot more research on. I also don't go to Tryst or Eros anymore because even those they seem to have some super hot girls listing on there, a lot of them are agencies or will upcharge you. Sites with reviews are really the only sites I go to. Tryst, Eros, slixa have no reviews so the provider can scam people and the client has no way to report it (other than TER or here).

**Research Is Key*.

This is a given, but doing your research will keep you out of harms way (usually). Being part of this forum and TER is great to do research on a provider. Google is also your friend. Reserve google image search is great to spot obvious fakes / scams. I usually also google their phone number to see if it is used anywhere else.

I also have found some great providers when I went back 6 months or more in this forum. Some girls get talked about for a time and then we move on. Going back several pages is great to find those hidden gems. TER is also great to do the same.

**The Blue Pill is Easier To Get Then You Think*.

I usually don't have problems with performing, but as I said above. Protection makes a big difference and the blue pill helps a lot. I was afraid that it would be really difficult to get, but with sites like Hims or Keeps, they make it easy to get the forms filled out and it is relatively cheap. I get 6 pills a month for $20 (generic brand). It works great for me when I really want to perform.

**Getting Multiple Numbers Helps*.

I already had a google voice number, but google restricts you to only 1 number and they want you to "connect" it to your cell phone. I found TextNow which is a free app that allows you to setup a number for free and you can text and call from it very easily. It is connected to your email address so you can setup several as long as you have several email accounts that you have access too (which is also free since you can sign up for as many gmail accounts as you want).

I have 3 numbers now (outside of my cell phone). I use one mainly, but the other two are there in case someone blows be off or blocks me because of some reason. If give me another couple of chances to hit it off. It also give you the flexibility to ask very straightforward questions and if they block you / stop responding, then you have another number or two to try again.

This is what I have learned so far in this hobby. If you have any other pointers / things you have learned, I would love to hear it. The more we share the more we can help each other out.

[DaveLV22]

My apologies for not posting for awhile. Thanks for all my fellow hobbyists and mongers through the years, and of course the owner of this website. This has been a god sent for me as I weather my sexless marriage. Anyway, I have a friend who is in his mid 40's, single, never married and is sexless. He wants to see escorts but is scared. So he wants me to accompany him to see some of my regulars here in Las Vegas. My only thoughts on this is. I was also scared back in 2013, but through the years, I was able, through trail and error and a measure of bravery and your advice, to have an average of 36 sexciting sessions a year with mostly my regulars ranging in age from the high 20's to the low 60's. So I think, to ask for such a favor is, in my opinion, unmanly. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks and cheers to more sexciting sessions.

If you his friend, help him out.

Set it up, go along, but personally, I would not go in the same room. I don't need / want to see another guy's junk or moves.

One word of caution: be sure it's a provider you know because if you don't and it's a sting, you will be criminally responsible.

Be a friend.

[Member #6335]

My apologies for not posting for awhile. Thanks for all my fellow hobbyists and mongers through the years, and of course the owner of this website. This has been a god sent for me as I weather my sexless marriage. Anyway, I have a friend who is in his mid 40's, single, never married and is sexless. He wants to see escorts but is scared. So he wants me to accompany him to see some of my regulars here in Las Vegas. My only thoughts on this is. I was also scared back in 2013, but through the years, I was able, through trail and error and a measure of bravery and your advice, to have an average of 36 sexciting sessions a year with mostly my regulars ranging in age from the high 20's to the low 60's. So I think, to ask for such a favor is, in my opinion, unmanly. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks and cheers to more sexciting sessions.

Are you his dad? LOL but all jokes aside, I think everyone is right. A many in his 40's needs to get some confidence, especially if he is simply going to see one of your reliable regulars. The only thing to REALLY be worried about is the safety factor. If he is simply just AFRAID of women, then there is a good chance that he will be taken advantage of by some of these providers because he is an easy target.

[Crsm27]

My apologies for not posting for awhile. Thanks for all my fellow hobbyists and mongers through the years, and of course the owner of this website. This has been a god sent for me as I weather my sexless marriage. Anyway, I have a friend who is in his mid 40's, single, never married and is sexless. He wants to see escorts but is scared. So he wants me to accompany him to see some of my regulars here in Las Vegas. My only thoughts on this is. I was also scared back in 2013, but through the years, I was able, through trail and error and a measure of bravery and your advice, to have an average of 36 sexciting sessions a year with mostly my regulars ranging in age from the high 20's to the low 60's. So I think, to ask for such a favor is, in my opinion, unmanly. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks and cheers to more sexciting sessions.

Agree about "man" up. But like mentioned if you two are this open about the discussion. You could give him a few providers to check out. Then if he narrows it down and you are a regular of those providers. Reach out to those providers and let them know about this guy and his nervousness and what not.

OR.

Like mentioned take him to an AMP were two clients can be seen at the same time. You go to one room and he goes to another. Then compare notes when finished.

[Wenger]

My apologies for not posting for awhile. Thanks for all my fellow hobbyists and mongers through the years, and of course the owner of this website. This has been a god sent for me as I weather my sexless marriage. Anyway, I have a friend who is in his mid 40's, single, never married and is sexless. He wants to see escorts but is scared. So he wants me to accompany him to see some of my regulars here in Las Vegas. My only thoughts on this is. I was also scared back in 2013, but through the years, I was able, through trail and error and a measure of bravery and your advice, to have an average of 36 sexciting sessions a year with mostly my regulars ranging in age from the high 20's to the low 60's. So I think, to ask for such a favor is, in my opinion, unmanly. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks and cheers to more sexciting sessions.

I'd look at the massage parlor thread to find a place that doesn't have an issue with 2 guys walking in at the same time. That way you can both enjoy yourselves and not have to worry.

[RegularJoe21]

My apologies for not posting for awhile. Thanks for all my fellow hobbyists and mongers through the years, and of course the owner of this website. This has been a god sent for me as I weather my sexless marriage. Anyway, I have a friend who is in his mid 40's, single, never married and is sexless. He wants to see escorts but is scared. So he wants me to accompany him to see some of my regulars here in Las Vegas. My only thoughts on this is. I was also scared back in 2013, but through the years, I was able, through trail and error and a measure of bravery and your advice, to have an average of 36 sexciting sessions a year with mostly my regulars ranging in age from the high 20's to the low 60's. So I think, to ask for such a favor is, in my opinion, unmanly. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks and cheers to more sexciting sessions.

Agree.

Your friend needs to man up or stick to beating off watching online porn.

If you are good enough friends to openly talk about the hobby you can probably recommend a couple of providers you know are legit. Thus removing pretty much all the risk from the situation for him.

[Dick Everhard]

My apologies for not posting for awhile. Thanks for all my fellow hobbyists and mongers through the years, and of course the owner of this website. This has been a god sent for me as I weather my sexless marriage. Anyway, I have a friend who is in his mid 40's, single, never married and is sexless. He wants to see escorts but is scared. So he wants me to accompany him to see some of my regulars here in Las Vegas. My only thoughts on this is. I was also scared back in 2013, but through the years, I was able, through trail and error and a measure of bravery and your advice, to have an average of 36 sexciting sessions a year with mostly my regulars ranging in age from the high 20's to the low 60's. So I think, to ask for such a favor is, in my opinion, unmanly. Please let me know your thoughts. Thanks and cheers to more sexciting sessions.

[KwicherBitchen]

Terrific post. Thanks for sharing your insight.

I have been doing this "hobby" for the last year and here is what I wish I knew about myself and the game when I started.

**More $$$ Does NOT mean Better Service*.

When I first started, I overpaid for lackluster service. I never really got scammed or robbed, but I was definitely paying more than I should. Some of the most expensive providers I paid were some of the worse experiences that I have had.

[ProGrinder]

I have been doing this "hobby" for the last year and here is what I wish I knew about myself and the game when I started.

**More $$$ Does NOT mean Better Service*.

When I first started, I overpaid for lackluster service. I never really got scammed or robbed, but I was definitely paying more than I should. Some of the most expensive providers I paid were some of the worse experiences that I have had.

Now after about 100 or so meetings, I have a handful of very good providers that I can go to for $200 or less.

**More Time does not allows mean More Fun*.

I use to book hr sessions with everyone. Usually I would be done and out of there after 20-30 mins. I thought that if I had money for 2 or 3 hrs then I would really have an amazing time. Then I realized that it is the same as going to a Buffett. My ears are bigger than my stomach and I ended up not being able to perform more than once in an hour session. I had several longer sessions (2-3 hrs), but it was not that great (for me) after the first pop. Learning about yourself is key.

**Types of Protection Matters*.

The provider usually has that so I never worried about it. Then I noticed that some experiences were much more enjoyable then others and I realized that the type of protection that I used made a big difference. My favorite (so far) is Trojan Bare (I think that is what they are called). It almost feeling like I am not wearing protection (good name for a product). This one thing alone could have saved some of my experiences as I was unable to perform because I could not feel anything.

**Not all Providers Sites Are Equal*.

This is pretty clear once you get a few weeks under your belt, but some sites have a lot more fake ads then others. I have several places I check regularly (PD, LC, TER, and here). PD is much more reliable when it comes to not getting scammed, but other sites like LC I need to do a lot more research on. I also don't go to Tryst or Eros anymore because even those they seem to have some super hot girls listing on there, a lot of them are agencies or will upcharge you. Sites with reviews are really the only sites I go to. Tryst, Eros, slixa have no reviews so the provider can scam people and the client has no way to report it (other than TER or here).

**Research Is Key*.

This is a given, but doing your research will keep you out of harms way (usually). Being part of this forum and TER is great to do research on a provider. Google is also your friend. Reserve google image search is great to spot obvious fakes / scams. I usually also google their phone number to see if it is used anywhere else.

I also have found some great providers when I went back 6 months or more in this forum. Some girls get talked about for a time and then we move on. Going back several pages is great to find those hidden gems. TER is also great to do the same.

**The Blue Pill is Easier To Get Then You Think*.

I usually don't have problems with performing, but as I said above. Protection makes a big difference and the blue pill helps a lot. I was afraid that it would be really difficult to get, but with sites like Hims or Keeps, they make it easy to get the forms filled out and it is relatively cheap. I get 6 pills a month for $20 (generic brand). It works great for me when I really want to perform.

**Getting Multiple Numbers Helps*.

I already had a google voice number, but google restricts you to only 1 number and they want you to "connect" it to your cell phone. I found TextNow which is a free app that allows you to setup a number for free and you can text and call from it very easily. It is connected to your email address so you can setup several as long as you have several email accounts that you have access too (which is also free since you can sign up for as many gmail accounts as you want).

I have 3 numbers now (outside of my cell phone). I use one mainly, but the other two are there in case someone blows be off or blocks me because of some reason. If give me another couple of chances to hit it off. It also give you the flexibility to ask very straightforward questions and if they block you / stop responding, then you have another number or two to try again.

This is what I have learned so far in this hobby. If you have any other pointers / things you have learned, I would love to hear it. The more we share the more we can help each other out.

[ProGrinder]

Hey everyone,

I was wanting to do a trade or two for some UTR providers. I am looking for similar to what I am trading.

Here is what I have and want in a trade.

Looking for a cute girl (7 or better) with big tits, little to no gut, white, Spanish, or Asian, that is down for BBBJ, has an incall, is $200 or less for hhr, is 40 or younger, and is fairly reliable.

I have 2 or 3 providers like that (1 is UTR and the others are not as much but are not taken many new clients).

I am only looking to trade with 1 or 2 senior members as no one wants to blow up "their UTR providers".

If anyone is interested in trading, please Pm me.

Thanks.

[Chsmp]

Did you retire in the 70's? These places went away decades ago sir.

Maybe still exist in other part of the world but definitely not here in the US that I am aware of.

[Dac007]

So its been a while since I've hobbied and stumbled across this provider named "Meemee" https://escortalligator.com.listcraw...vegas/92444343.

Texted them two-days and negotiated the price but then they became unresponsive, Earlier this morning I get a text that they "fell asleep" fair enough. I decide to see them this evening.

I drove 30 mins to come see them they claimed to be at Washington & Jones; Soon as I got to the location they became unresponsive so by now I'm getting fed-up, I took some pictures and sent to her, no response.

I text her from my other # and she instantly responds thinking I'm someone else she gives me the address again, I tell her I'm close by and should be 2 minutes; I wait but she never shows up.

I strongly believe this person is just a timewaster with too much time on their hands either that or if she's actually legit then she's unprofessional AF. Wasted my gas & time for 2 hours, I would avoid the headache.

Consider yourself lucky, did you see her review from Oct. Saying she's 40-50 lbs heavier than her pics? And she's not already borderline BBW in those pics!

[IceCreamLicker]

Long time hobbyist coming out of retirement.

Your assistance appreciated.

Anyone know of a place that performs live sex shows?

The real thing, not just acting.

Not interested in swingers clubs.

Thanks in advance.

Did you retire in the 70's? These places went away decades ago sir.

[JakkerSon]

So its been a while since I've hobbied and stumbled across this provider named "Meemee" https://escortalligator.com.listcraw...vegas/92444343.

Texted them two-days and negotiated the price but then they became unresponsive, Earlier this morning I get a text that they "fell asleep" fair enough. I decide to see them this evening.

I drove 30 mins to come see them they claimed to be at Washington & Jones; Soon as I got to the location they became unresponsive so by now I'm getting fed-up, I took some pictures and sent to her, no response.

I text her from my other # and she instantly responds thinking I'm someone else she gives me the address again, I tell her I'm close by and should be 2 minutes; I wait but she never shows up.

I strongly believe this person is just a timewaster with too much time on their hands either that or if she's actually legit then she's unprofessional AF. Wasted my gas & time for 2 hours, I would avoid the headache.

Sorry to hear about your negative experience. I post a review on meemee a few weeks back; check it out in the listcrawler thread. My experience besides the date being a Cardate was was fairly positive. Not sure why yours was like this. In anycase, there are many providers out here to satisfy your all needs.

[IceCreamLoad]

So its been a while since I've hobbied and stumbled across this provider named "Meemee" https://escortalligator.com.listcraw...vegas/92444343.

Texted them two-days and negotiated the price but then they became unresponsive, Earlier this morning I get a text that they "fell asleep" fair enough. I decide to see them this evening.

I drove 30 mins to come see them they claimed to be at Washington & Jones; Soon as I got to the location they became unresponsive so by now I'm getting fed-up, I took some pictures and sent to her, no response.

I text her from my other # and she instantly responds thinking I'm someone else she gives me the address again, I tell her I'm close by and should be 2 minutes; I wait but she never shows up.

I strongly believe this person is just a timewaster with too much time on their hands either that or if she's actually legit then she's unprofessional AF. Wasted my gas & time for 2 hours, I would avoid the headache.