General Reports

[Satriani]

Looking to rent a boat, preferably with access to the Chicago lakefront, though open to suburb areas as well. Want to entertain visiting family, or friends.

Can possibly get a very small group of friends together for a couple hours out in the waves. Send me direct message to discuss.

Try Coast Yachts if you google it it will direct you to Own The Seas. I'm part of what you might call boat time share where you rent for the season and can choose specific dates. I have never just rented a boat for the day. If you plan on going thru the locks to L Michigan you probably need a license. You can always hire a captain.

[George Stark]

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign....She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

Second GoFundMe says it all. Scammer. No reason to even *think* of giving this *biotch* a cent.

am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job?

The feminist woke bullshit crowd thinks that it's valid to retroactively withdraw consent. That's nonsense. She's just trying to avoid responsibility.

[Mr Charmo]

Looking to rent a boat, preferably with access to the Chicago lakefront, though open to suburb areas as well. Want to entertain visiting family, or friends.

Can possibly get a very small group of friends together for a couple hours out in the waves. Send me direct message to discuss.

[LongDStyle]

I would second this opinion. Back in the 90's I took a SW I knew to a forest preserve on Cumberland (she lived nearby). We parked in a quiet spot and she gave me a BBBJ and my eyes were closed for a bit. When I opened my eyes there was this dude at my door / window jerking off out in the public. UGH, lost my boner and called it a day. Later learned about them being a gay pickup spots. Avoid.

Certainly explains a lot of the unexplainable activity me and my friends use to see in the early 2000's as we used forest preserve parking lots as smoke spots. I usually saw mostly middle age men sitting in their cars or backing into spots. Definitely felt like we were being watched but when you're smoking in your 20's in a time of pot prohibition, then everyone is potentially an undercover. But most of the people we saw would never leave the parking lot let alone their cars so we know they weren't there for recreation or fitness.

[Ron M]

Hahaha. We're all getting raped at the gas pump!

Not me. I ride a Honda Ruckus. 4 dollars gets me a full tank of gas. My car stays parked.

[Red6666]

Sounds like she is just fishing for money. You paid for a service. Not rape. That same logic she is using, I'm getting raped at the gas pump.

Hahaha. We're all getting raped at the gas pump!

[MwmChicago]

I would not do this anywhere you see cars with lone guys in them. There is a subculture of gay hookups at forest preserves and I wouldn't want any of them nosing around my business.

I would second this opinion. Back in the 90's I took a SW I knew to a forest preserve on Cumberland (she lived nearby). We parked in a quiet spot and she gave me a BBBJ and my eyes were closed for a bit. When I opened my eyes there was this dude at my door / window jerking off out in the public. UGH, lost my boner and called it a day. Later learned about them being a gay pickup spots. Avoid.

[MichiBob]

Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.

Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?

Not rape. She was a willing participant. She placed ads and sought out customers. She received financial benefit. It's the oldest profession. In no way is that rape.

[Getreal]

Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.

Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?

Sounds like she is just fishing for money. You paid for a service. Not rape. That same logic she is using, I'm getting raped at the gas pump.

[NotShy]

Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.

Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

That is messed up. I actually have a problem with being intimate with a woman unless there is mutual consent, so if I visited this provider, it would really mess with my head too. I think if the ad she placed talked about providing specific services, and there was an agreement going into the meeting, then that is not rape.

I don't think this helps now, but maybe going forward it will. Whenever I am with a provider, I ask her what she wants to do. Normally she says, "Anything you want," but I tell them I'm serious, I want to know what they feel like doing. I have had some tell me they don't feel like having sex, and instead I have given them a massage or we just cuddle and kiss. I do this for fear of what you wrote. I don't want to force myself on any woman against her wishes.

[GeneralObvious]

Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.

Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

The definition of rape is a forced sex act that's non-consensual. If she offered or implied you will get laid for X amount of money, it is not rape. If she said "no" during any point, you must stop before it is considered rape. I'm sure there will be a lot of opinions, but that's the general rule.

Most likely though, she is still doing her thing on a different platform, while attempting to make money off her story.

When I was married, my wife and I volunteered at a shelter for former prostitutes looking to get out of the business. Most were middle aged, with lots of depression. Some were physically ill with AIDS, or other STD's, that took a heavy toll. We were warned they may lie to get money or sympathy. Most never finished school.

[Vbenny]

Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.

Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?

[DennyOlsen]

Hello fellow mongers.

I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?

I think the urgent care clinic, UChicago Medicine at Ingalls, on 159th and Oak Park Ave, might fit the bill. It's bounded by forest, it's open late, I've never seen a security vehicle, just a guard inside. Let us know if this may work.

[LongDStyle]

Hello fellow mongers.

I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?

If you have tints then your options are a lot more but without tints you are really limited. I know that area well and during the day there aren't many places that don't have alot of daytime activity. If it was nighttime you'd be better off but to find a parking lot of a business closed on weekends. I use to frequent some of the warehouses back in the day off 191st between 80th and 88th Ave.

[DWaits]

Hello fellow mongers.

I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?

I don't know the south suburbs but there are some smaller industrial areas on the north side of the city and I have used those when hooking up and had short windows / no place we could go. At night these are easy because the traffic is so low. During the day, you might find a building that is listed as for rent and park there. Usually there is enough coming and going that a car parked for an hour or less won't even be noticed. If the area is far enough away from heavy street traffic or mass transportation then you won't have homeless guys or other street dudes wandering through the area.