General Reports

[Moejoo]

I'd like to hear from anyone who has attended The Exxotica Expo. It's happening this weekend, and I'd like to know if the VIP admission is worth the extra money. The VIP allows access to VIP lounge and VIP after parties. Are those worth attending? I don't expect any personal contact at the show, but are the after parties anything to consider? Also, since it's not too far from 15th ave. Bookstore, is there any chance for some crossover? Thanks in advance for any info. Ohboy.

VIP lounge was nice, IIRC the only place selling alcohol but you have to drink it in there but nothing else special about it. I may be totally wrong on this and if so I hope to be corrected but last year they advertised all of these after parties but in fact they were all in one big room at Embassy Suites and nothing but people mingling and dancing with music and everyone looking around the room for something better. They had some people on the stage but they were totally lame. If you didn't get in the room early the lines outside to get in were Brutal. Maybe my date and I were too tipsy but that is my recollections.

[Ohboy]

I'd like to hear from anyone who has attended The Exxotica Expo. It's happening this weekend, and I'd like to know if the VIP admission is worth the extra money. The VIP allows access to VIP lounge and VIP after parties. Are those worth attending? I don't expect any personal contact at the show, but are the after parties anything to consider? Also, since it's not too far from 15th ave. Bookstore, is there any chance for some crossover? Thanks in advance for any info. Ohboy.

[ChgoGuySouth]

Anyone know of a good Indian Massuse? L1 would be great not not necessary.

[David Atensbor]

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[Emiglio]

While reminding us to treat these girls well may sound condescending, I don't see an issue with reminding us that they are real people with real lives, real problems, etc, and deserve respect, regardless of what they do for a living. Unless they ripped you off, please treat them well.

Thanks to ALL of you who took the time to respond.

[TJGeek]

Guys, is it just me or does anyone else find these two phrases and the end of a review both condescending and irritating?

Treat her well.

Don't abuse her.

While reminding us to treat these girls well may sound condescending, I don't see an issue with reminding us that they are real people with real lives, real problems, etc, and deserve respect, regardless of what they do for a living. Unless they ripped you off, please treat them well.

[DMichaels69]

Agreed. For the guys that are knobs to the providers they won't listen to what some anonymous person says on the internet anyway.

Guys, is it just me or does anyone else find these two phrases and the end of a review both condescending and irritating?

Treat her well.

Don't abuse her.

[PunkAsFuck]

Guys, is it just me or does anyone else find these two phrases and the end of a review both condescending and irritating?

Treat her well.

Don't abuse her.

Even though both terms are essentially the same, I've never seen it phrased the second way. I agree, "treat her well" is a very common ending to a review. There is a large variety of providers and the type of guys they attract with their rates. I'd imagine like with most other things, a few lower rung dipshits ruin things for the rest of us with the high volume providers. I want a smooth meeting and leave on good terms for possible future meetings. Abusing someone is the last thing I want to do with the negative attention that would attract.

[Perversity]

Guys, is it just me or does anyone else find these two phrases and the end of a review both condescending and irritating?

Treat her well.

Don't abuse her.

I may have done that myself? I guess I can see why it might be irritating. I just mean it as sort of an affirmation of her humanity. Like, that job sucks, I couldn't do it, but she treated me well and I thought she was nice and I hope if others go see her on my advice they treat her well too.

At the same time, if you're inclined to mistreat these girls, saying 'treat her well' probably won't make a difference?

I don't know.

[Chicago41]

Guys, is it just me or does anyone else find these two phrases and the end of a review both condescending and irritating?

Treat her well.

Don't abuse her.

Not sure what you're referring to.

[Emiglio]

Guys, is it just me or does anyone else find these two phrases and the end of a review both condescending and irritating?

Treat her well.

Don't abuse her.

[CornCobMaker]

Is bedpage down for anyone? I keep getting an error for the past two days.

[Rook6642]

Lately, I've been struggling to find the time and to make the effort to see new girls. Everyone seems to be asking for deposit, or having ridiculous verification rules. There are so many hoops to jump through that it would be easier for me to get laid just going to a bar and buying some drinks. I do this specifically because I don't want to deal with bullshit. All I want is to shove my cock down a girl's throat, pay her, and get on with my life. It's might be crass, but it's truth.

Just because I'm paying for services and I don't really care about the girl's life, interests, or favorite color doesn't mean I don't act like a gentleman. I'm paying for an for an exceedingly personal act, and I'm always careful not to push any boundaries that the girl isn't comfortable with. The issue I have is when girls can't be upfront with what they are ok with. If my cock is already in your mouth and I ask for something you don't like, just tell me. I'm not going to be mad, and I'm not going to pressure you if you say no, but be upfront about what you do and don't do and don't act like a jerk just because I asked.

Also, girls really, really need to put their location in their ad. I'm might take a 30 minute drive on a whim to get my dick sucked. There is no way in hell I'm ever driving more than an hour for anything. It's just frustrating having to sort through a mountain of "Chicago" ads when the girl hosts in the suburbs.

Damn just saw this. I agree. I will treat the girls with respect. I communicate what I want and what their rules are. At the end of the day I'm to try get laid not start a relationship.

I stick with basic conversations. I follow some girls on Twitter / X. They complain about clients all the time. Granted some are justified but other times it seems they're trying to make a mountain out of a molehill.

I would like girls to put down their menu. I can only get it if I get verified ok cool but don't complain if I don't like the menu. And move on.

[Jayp80]

What's VIP usually mean? Is it just another way of up charging or is it another way of saying GFE?

In my experience VIP is an upgrade relative to the services she's advertising, so if she's advertising massage / massge HJ VIP could just be CBJ, if she advertises CFS / CBJ VIP could be BBBJ or it could be BBFS / GFE. As always let the buyer beware.

[TrickFun89]

What's VIP usually mean? Is it just another way of up charging or is it another way of saying GFE?