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She can claim illegal eviction and yoou may be liable
Originally Posted by
Explorer8
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You mentioned having her in your home for an extended period of time. Not sure how long, and I am definitely no lawyer, but will there be any legal issues to consider in the future if you try to kick her out and need to call the popo if she refuses? Just wondering.
INDEED!
I read this saga. One one hand I'd love to spend a month like that with my Reg if I could and she would want it. She is ok and I came to trust here.
But in this case BEWARE!! She is a drug addict and you know what that means. Worth, After 1 month, most state will consider this a verbal rental agreement and you fall in as violating this agreement by a court and be liable. If she makes a fuss and you both struggle, 911 can get you arrest ed and she gets your place.
Do believe me! I have lived this but not with a girl. I had a family friend in my home and I could not get rid of him. We ended up in court and I came close to be arrested.
GET HER OUT NOW!!
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Sugar Daddy at work
Originally Posted by
StanKost
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Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
That's a fun challenge. Sounds like picking up hookers in that you've got to send the signals but make sure she's the one who actually makes the offer. Let us know if it works out. But keep this in mind: even if you do figure out how to do the mating dance and get to the arrangement you want, if you are older than her or superior at work in any way this could still bite you in the ass if the relationship goes bad months from now. She can lie and claim harassment and by that point she would know enough about you to make a very credible case. So make sure you keep a record of the communication.
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Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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She took his offer seriously and SHE was joking and is so offended she reports him to HR for soliciting her.
Thank you guys for all your advice and you scared me pretty good. A guy posted something on FB and both the girl and I commented on his post and we were joking about things and the conversation took off that I'd love to be her suger daddy but tried to cover it as a joke and she responded go ahead I would love to have a sugar daddy but she may have been joking too. I have been thinking to message her out of FB and ask if she is looking for fwb but if she was only joking it would have come creepy cause she is much younger and if she has never had an arrangement which I suspect that she never had an arrangement it will be a shock to her. Although there is a slim hope she may be looking for one and feel comfortable with me rather than a stranger you guys scared me and is not worth the risk in case she was just joking and messing around.
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Bad Idea
Originally Posted by
StanKost
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Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
My straight up advice to you is "Don't do it". Drop the whole thing and brush it off as a social media joke. Even if she was into it, chances are it would end poorly with you loosing your job. Money and pussy are a volatile combination.
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Or worse
Originally Posted by
RonM
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You better hope she didn't take your offer seriously. If she did and you were kidding, most likely you just crashed and burned the set up you already had before your SD offer.
She took his offer seriously and SHE was joking and is so offended she reports him to HR for soliciting her.
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Fucked until my dick broke
She's gone and now I'm on my own for the duration of the lockdown. I made the most of it that I could. Had more sex in two weeks than I've ever had in my life - 39 times. We had so much sex shooting blanks became our only birth control after the first few days.
Tried going for an even 40 after she took a bunch of E and coke and fucked her five times her last night / morning here but was pooped out and sore after four. I'm still sore and my dick is like red from being rubbed raw from having that much sex. I feel good now but I don't know what I'm going to do in a week when I'm healed and horny again. What are you all doing for now?
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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As much as I'm sure you were all hoping for a bunch of crazy stuff to happen as I try to get her out, she ran out of drugs and clothes and said she needed to stock up on both. I told her that would break quarantine if she did so we couldn't continue staying together. She concluded that she would rather track down her suppliers and one of her friends is having a "fuck corona" house party / orgy / drug binge anyway, so she's leaving tomorrow.
I'm going to spend as much time as possible fucking her tonight and tomorrow as I can.
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Are you insane?
Originally Posted by
StanKost
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Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
No matter what you do immediately remove all inappropriate posts you have made via social media to this girl! Stop all inappropriate or off color communications with her. Going forward all communication face to face, written on paper, text and verbal must be completely vanilla with no hint if inappropriate message. Become that kind, understanding guy at work only.
Failure to do the above will result in her accusing you of sexual harassment and both your work and private life crashing into a heap of smoldering crap.
No matter what she says or does, it will be your fault because the are the guy.
If you want young black pussy so bad, go buy some! Look on tryst link or rub ratings!
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Kidding About Being A SD.
You better hope she didn't take your offer seriously. If she did and you were kidding, most likely you just crashed and burned the set up you already had before your SD offer.
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Originally Posted by
AlMelrose
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It will not turn out well. Unless you are sure you can find another job quickly.
100%. Don't shit where you eat, unless you expect to jump ship in the near-term.
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If she works with you forget it
Originally Posted by
StanKost
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Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
It will not turn out well. Unless you are sure you can find another job quickly.
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Put the ball in her court
Originally Posted by
StanKost
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Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
Maybe a way to see if she is serious or what she is open to is to say / ask if she was serious what would she be open to or expect from her SD, maybe how soon. The trick may be to word it so that it can be taken either way. If she is serious she can answer and if she was joking around she can hopefully admit it.
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Help asap
Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
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Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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As much as I'm sure you were all hoping for a bunch of crazy stuff to happen as I try to get her out, she ran out of drugs and clothes and said she needed to stock up on both. I told her that would break quarantine if she did so we couldn't continue staying together. She concluded that she would rather track down her suppliers and one of her friends is having a "fuck corona" house party / orgy / drug binge anyway, so she's leaving tomorrow.
I'm going to spend as much time as possible fucking her tonight and tomorrow as I can.
OK you are officially my HERO!
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Neat resolution
As much as I'm sure you were all hoping for a bunch of crazy stuff to happen as I try to get her out, she ran out of drugs and clothes and said she needed to stock up on both. I told her that would break quarantine if she did so we couldn't continue staying together. She concluded that she would rather track down her suppliers and one of her friends is having a "fuck corona" house party / orgy / drug binge anyway, so she's leaving tomorrow.
I'm going to spend as much time as possible fucking her tonight and tomorrow as I can.
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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I don't think she's in danger of OD'ing but she's in danger of being too annoying to stay with. She'll go to bed at 1, wake up at 4, do a few lines and will start jumping on the bed and asking for sex. Then she's too hyper to go back to sleep until she crashes in the afternoon. I'm like I've still got a job during business hours I have to be awake for. I need more sleep than that.
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Dang
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
Before this post on the booger sugar I thought you were going to post that for the next 30 days to stop the spread she was going to ask if she could have her bff come and join you two.