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Originally Posted by
AlMelrose
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It will not turn out well. Unless you are sure you can find another job quickly.
100%. Don't shit where you eat, unless you expect to jump ship in the near-term.
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If she works with you forget it
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StanKost
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Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
It will not turn out well. Unless you are sure you can find another job quickly.
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Put the ball in her court
Originally Posted by
StanKost
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Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
Maybe a way to see if she is serious or what she is open to is to say / ask if she was serious what would she be open to or expect from her SD, maybe how soon. The trick may be to word it so that it can be taken either way. If she is serious she can answer and if she was joking around she can hopefully admit it.
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Help asap
Guys I have been working for a while with a hot young AA girl I mean litetally at work, not SA girl and we always had been in good terms and she always liked my FB crap. We recently got into a chat on FB of what another guy posted and I pretended to joke that I want to be her SD which I would love to and she responded that she would love that and gave me a couple other hints. I want to offer her an arrangement but I don't know if she is into that or if she was just messing around with me on FB. If I hit her up directly she may figure out I am into the SA lifestyle which I don't want her to know but looks like she may be willing to go for it. Do you have any advice how to thread carefully but test the waters without saying it frankly do you want to fuck for ppm.
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Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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As much as I'm sure you were all hoping for a bunch of crazy stuff to happen as I try to get her out, she ran out of drugs and clothes and said she needed to stock up on both. I told her that would break quarantine if she did so we couldn't continue staying together. She concluded that she would rather track down her suppliers and one of her friends is having a "fuck corona" house party / orgy / drug binge anyway, so she's leaving tomorrow.
I'm going to spend as much time as possible fucking her tonight and tomorrow as I can.
OK you are officially my HERO!
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Neat resolution
As much as I'm sure you were all hoping for a bunch of crazy stuff to happen as I try to get her out, she ran out of drugs and clothes and said she needed to stock up on both. I told her that would break quarantine if she did so we couldn't continue staying together. She concluded that she would rather track down her suppliers and one of her friends is having a "fuck corona" house party / orgy / drug binge anyway, so she's leaving tomorrow.
I'm going to spend as much time as possible fucking her tonight and tomorrow as I can.
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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I don't think she's in danger of OD'ing but she's in danger of being too annoying to stay with. She'll go to bed at 1, wake up at 4, do a few lines and will start jumping on the bed and asking for sex. Then she's too hyper to go back to sleep until she crashes in the afternoon. I'm like I've still got a job during business hours I have to be awake for. I need more sleep than that.
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Dang
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
Before this post on the booger sugar I thought you were going to post that for the next 30 days to stop the spread she was going to ask if she could have her bff come and join you two.
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Time to go!
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.
She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
Just dump her shit on the sidewalk!
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Getchya Popcorn
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.
She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
This has all of the makings of a really good terrible movie. I have those moments where the little head makes ALL of the decisions, and this sounds like one of them. From a guy who has made MANY MANY bad decisions for the sake of sex: Get her out of there as soon as absolutely possible. It is only going to get more difficult. Make up some story or some excuse. But it is NOT going to end well if you keep her there.
Never forget what brother Satriani said in an earlier post: I thought we paid them to leave.
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Boundaries
Originally Posted by
LoveSmallPerky
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It may be like talking to a wall but maybe tell her there are some new rules that you need in place. It is your place so your rules so tell her if she can't abide by them she needs to find other options. A downfall is that if she gets upset you don't know what she may try to do or say. That can be good while things are working but you never know what she may try when scorned by having to leave.
Women like what he described do not understand the concept of boundaries. If he sets up a rule, it'll be broken within the hour.
What kind of woman shacks up with a monger (for free now after the initial agreement), snorts coke at 2 AM, jumps on the bed asking to fuck him? Obviously one with a lot more deep seated problems. More than likely some type of personality disorder, depression, or diagnosable mental illness.
Obviously the sex is fun with someone this unrestrained and volatile but the aftershock will be just as dramatic. High highs are normally followed by deep lows.
I hope Jinurso continues to post. If this arrangement continues, the drama is going to get wild.
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Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.
She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
Here is a idea that I hope helps. You need to get a decent amount of the stuff she is addicted to and hide it somewhere. If you decide to ask her to leave, that is when you give that to her so she don't spazz out. Everything else is up to you. Hope it helps.
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Any legal issues with kicking her out in the future?
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.
She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
You mentioned having her in your home for an extended period of time. Not sure how long, and I am definitely no lawyer, but will there be any legal issues to consider in the future if you try to kick her out and need to call the popo if she refuses? Just wondering.
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Talk?
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.
She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
It may be like talking to a wall but maybe tell her there are some new rules that you need in place. It is your place so your rules so tell her if she can't abide by them she needs to find other options. A downfall is that if she gets upset you don't know what she may try to do or say. That can be good while things are working but you never know what she may try when scorned by having to leave.
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Getting rough
Originally Posted by
Neilsh87
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I don't know about this. You may be flying too close to the sun here. I'm imagining you're dealing with someone snorting in your apartment.
You really want to take on the risk of someone OD'ing so you can get fucked on the daily?
I don't think she's in danger of OD'ing but she's in danger of being too annoying to stay with. She'll go to bed at 1, wake up at 4, do a few lines and will start jumping on the bed and asking for sex. Then she's too hyper to go back to sleep until she crashes in the afternoon. I'm like I've still got a job during business hours I have to be awake for. I need more sleep than that.
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Playing with fire.
Originally Posted by
Jinurso
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We've been having a lot of fun, but I think it is about time for this little cohabitation experiment to come to an end. Turns out there is a little bit of a substance abuse problem that has gotten progressively worse the last few days. She doesn't sleep more than two hours before popping up and watching TV or taking photos of herself on Instagran. By the time I'm awake, she's hyperactive and sniffling like crazy. You know what that means.
She brought up the idea of continuing to stay for the duration of the shelter order, and offered to do it for free (other than room and board) but. I dunno. We still have sex at least once a day, which is better than facing a dry spell that could last until summer. I dunno.
As they say, The real cost of a hooker is not the service but the fact she leaves afterwards. With an Rx challenged one. I would say 10 x that!!
May want to cut your losses. Sorry if it's not my place to say. Good luck.