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[DWaits]

I was flipping through the channels and came across a woman telling her story about her rape. She was in college on a date and went back to her place to have a drink. The guy started to put the moves on her and she didn't want to have sex with him but didn't tell him she was didn't want to. This part of the story is fuzzy from her description. She said she was afraid to tell him no for some reason or other so she went ahead of sleeping with him. She was obviously upset when recounting her story and I have no doubt she now thinks she was raped. But how in the world is this considered anything but a hookup. From the guy's perspective he put the moves on her she didn't ask him to stop she went ahead and let herself be "seduced" by him. Now years later it's raped. I just don't buy into that "you better get verbal confirmation" at every step. If a girl does not want to have sex she needs to let that be known. If I start kissing a girl and she kisses back and then I put my hand on her boob and so forth how am I supposed to figure out she doesn't want to unless she stops me or says no? .

I'll begin by saying that the escort who is now claiming she was raped every time she worked is BS. I'm sure she could have been raped at various points. For example, she says no Greek and the guy forces his way in, or no bare and he takes off the condom during K9. But mostly she consented to an economic exchange. In B's example above, I have had multiple female friends tell me that they can always sense when a situation is going good and it is going to turn. They want to say "no" but they fear that violence is going to be the response to "no. " Having sex, even though she doesn't want to have sex, is the better of two bad options because the other option is getting hurt physically and then raped. I don't know how to respond to this because I'm not a woman and don't know what that's like. I could say, don't go home with the guy. But what if her spidey senses didn't kick in until she was there? Think about all the monger stories we read about guys showing up, thinking things are going to be ok, and then something changes. Same deal. Stats show that 1/3 or 1/4 women, depending on the sources, experience sexual violence of some kind. That's a staggering number. Of course, some could be pure BS like the provider who is claiming she was raped during every transaction.

There is def some Woke BS in all of this, but there is also the reality that some men don't hear no and can't figure out how to leave and masturbate.

[StanleyStankas]

I was flipping through the channels and came across a woman telling her story about her rape. She was in college on a date and went back to her place to have a drink. The guy started to put the moves on her and she didn't want to have sex with him but didn't tell him she was didn't want to. This part of the story is fuzzy from her description. She said she was afraid to tell him no for some reason or other so she went ahead of sleeping with him. She was obviously upset when recounting her story and I have no doubt she now thinks she was raped. But how in the world is this considered anything but a hookup. From the guy's perspective he put the moves on her she didn't ask him to stop she went ahead and let herself be "seduced" by him. Now years later it's raped. I just don't buy into that "you better get verbal confirmation" at every step. If a girl does not want to have sex she needs to let that be known. If I start kissing a girl and she kisses back and then I put my hand on her boob and so forth how am I supposed to figure out she doesn't want to unless she stops me or says no? Woke bullshit.

B.

And agree on all points as well as the previous post! Imo some of these situations are so long after the fact it appears that these women have a "handler" of sorts involved in a movement or organization that has several agendas. Really it's pitiful because in some cases it does indeed backfire on the female. Who really knows in these days what the other person is thinking afterwards? It's almost safer just to wait and see how the relationship develops if at all to a level of trust prior to doing the deed in any way shape or form. There are no longer stupid people that lie and make poor decisions. Now everyone is a "victim" and since the "helper" works for a newly invented governmental or social awareness agency they will take you on not as a "victim", however now you are a "client". They get paid, the "victim" gets paid and the poor other side gets scr*wed and not in the nice way! Too bad. All in this very very old man's tired opinion. Stosh peace.

[Fit312]

I'm not trying to get into any argument, trust me, but what does "Woke" mean? This story aside, I hear it used and I'm unclear as to it's meaning.

It means that I block the guy using it.

[Rodney1117]

I was flipping through the channels and came across a woman telling her story about her rape. She was in college on a date and went back to her place to have a drink. The guy started to put the moves on her and she didn't want to have sex with him but didn't tell him she was didn't want to. This part of the story is fuzzy from her description. She said she was afraid to tell him no for some reason or other so she went ahead of sleeping with him. She was obviously upset when recounting her story and I have no doubt she now thinks she was raped. But how in the world is this considered anything but a hookup. From the guy's perspective he put the moves on her she didn't ask him to stop she went ahead and let herself be "seduced" by him. Now years later it's raped. I just don't buy into that "you better get verbal confirmation" at every step. If a girl does not want to have sex she needs to let that be known. If I start kissing a girl and she kisses back and then I put my hand on her boob and so forth how am I supposed to figure out she doesn't want to unless she stops me or says no? Woke bullshit.

B.

I'm not trying to get into any argument, trust me, but what does "Woke" mean? This story aside, I hear it used and I'm unclear as to it's meaning.

[Bkmsw]

Second GoFundMe says it all. Scammer. No reason to even *think* of giving this *biotch* a cent.

The feminist woke bullshit crowd thinks that it's valid to retroactively withdraw consent. That's nonsense. She's just trying to avoid responsibility.

I was flipping through the channels and came across a woman telling her story about her rape. She was in college on a date and went back to her place to have a drink. The guy started to put the moves on her and she didn't want to have sex with him but didn't tell him she was didn't want to. This part of the story is fuzzy from her description. She said she was afraid to tell him no for some reason or other so she went ahead of sleeping with him. She was obviously upset when recounting her story and I have no doubt she now thinks she was raped. But how in the world is this considered anything but a hookup. From the guy's perspective he put the moves on her she didn't ask him to stop she went ahead and let herself be "seduced" by him. Now years later it's raped. I just don't buy into that "you better get verbal confirmation" at every step. If a girl does not want to have sex she needs to let that be known. If I start kissing a girl and she kisses back and then I put my hand on her boob and so forth how am I supposed to figure out she doesn't want to unless she stops me or says no? Woke bullshit.

B.

[RichL1234]

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https://www.adultlook.com/p/3248537

Try Mariana. I just gave a brief review.

[ChgoGuySouth]

Looking for a good mature Latina. Massuse or escort. Over 45 would be ideal. Just the mood I'm in right now.

[Moejoo]

She's being dramatic to garner sympathy. If she thought she was being raped why would she arrange more appointments? You yourself have seen her more than once. Was she friendly during your meet or was she a cold fish?

If someone treats our meeting like a transaction I never return visit. Seems like she must have been a great actress or just regrets her prior life.

OMG is this girl still hooking? Anyone who sees her should fully expect her to call the cops on you and accuse you of rape.

[FafaFooey]

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?

Sounds to me like she's just trying to play the buzzwords out there in the current cultural consciousness for sympathy and get attention to her GoFundMe. The fact that she's doing this through GoFundMe, and multiples at that, raises a lot of flags of various colors. There are tons of legitimate programs out there to help girls in these situations these days. I'm actually surprised this made it through GFM's gatekeeping as this is a 'goal' with no way to verify its success and no clear destination for the money. Is the suggestion that if she needs $2000 and only raises $1750 she can just keep that money and go right back to escorting?

Especially when there's addiction involved its very hard to make changes in these girls' lives without intense professional help. I got very close with a provider almost a decade ago (lives out of town now, not giving any details) and kept in touch with her through a lot of struggles to the point where I knew her real family. At her low points I would send her dozens of links / numbers, even fill out forms for her, and tell her you're a homeless single mother struggling with addiction with no family support, and probably a victim of sex trafficking if you tell your story right; there are literally bags of money on shelves in your city and state to help with housing, jobs, education, etc if you do the work to get clean and follow through. She would give it lip service in the times where she had her head on straight, but the path of least resistance was always back to the drugs and the street. It took a multi year federal vacation for her to finally be clean long enough and get lots of professional counseling to finally go down the more positive roads.

Anyway, this GoFundMe campaign sounds like a very half assed attempt to make positive change, and the fact that she's working 'rape' wording into it makes it sound like pathetic pandering rather than inspiring sympathy.

[DynoJr]

Why are you worried about what a ho is writing on her gofundme page. You already got what you wanted from her. Move forward.

She's being dramatic to garner sympathy. If she thought she was being raped why would she arrange more appointments? You yourself have seen her more than once. Was she friendly during your meet or was she a cold fish?

If someone treats our meeting like a transaction I never return visit. Seems like she must have been a great actress or just regrets her prior life.

[Fdottt]

Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.

Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.


I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?

Why are you worried about what a ho is writing on her gofundme page. You already got what you wanted from her. Move forward.

[Satriani]

Looking to rent a boat, preferably with access to the Chicago lakefront, though open to suburb areas as well. Want to entertain visiting family, or friends.

Can possibly get a very small group of friends together for a couple hours out in the waves. Send me direct message to discuss.

Try Coast Yachts if you google it it will direct you to Own The Seas. I'm part of what you might call boat time share where you rent for the season and can choose specific dates. I have never just rented a boat for the day. If you plan on going thru the locks to L Michigan you probably need a license. You can always hire a captain.

[George Stark]

Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign....She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.

Second GoFundMe says it all. Scammer. No reason to even *think* of giving this *biotch* a cent.

am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job?

The feminist woke bullshit crowd thinks that it's valid to retroactively withdraw consent. That's nonsense. She's just trying to avoid responsibility.

[Mr Charmo]

Looking to rent a boat, preferably with access to the Chicago lakefront, though open to suburb areas as well. Want to entertain visiting family, or friends.

Can possibly get a very small group of friends together for a couple hours out in the waves. Send me direct message to discuss.

[LongDStyle]

I would second this opinion. Back in the 90's I took a SW I knew to a forest preserve on Cumberland (she lived nearby). We parked in a quiet spot and she gave me a BBBJ and my eyes were closed for a bit. When I opened my eyes there was this dude at my door / window jerking off out in the public. UGH, lost my boner and called it a day. Later learned about them being a gay pickup spots. Avoid.

Certainly explains a lot of the unexplainable activity me and my friends use to see in the early 2000's as we used forest preserve parking lots as smoke spots. I usually saw mostly middle age men sitting in their cars or backing into spots. Definitely felt like we were being watched but when you're smoking in your 20's in a time of pot prohibition, then everyone is potentially an undercover. But most of the people we saw would never leave the parking lot let alone their cars so we know they weren't there for recreation or fitness.