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[Satyrrical]

Wife used a recent household COVID scare to finally move to the guest room. Guess that's that.

[Shy66]

My Wife's sex drive has gone from 150 to 0 since going on anti depressants. Then on top of that, she had to have a mesh put in to hold her bladder up last year. Since then on the rare occasion that she will be intimate, I can't get my dick in all the way without hurting her, so when we do, it's usually me just barely getting the tip in and doing the best I can to cum. She keeps saying she's going to go to the doctor to see if she could go on hormone therapy for her sex drive, but never does. The doctor that did her bladder mesh told her in order for it not to hurt we needed to do it more and that in time it would be back to normal, but I'm pretty sure his definition of more frequently is a lot more often than once every month or two. She has several auto immune diseases, and when we do have sex, it's usually just a quickie. While I appreciate her efforts, I want and need more, which is why I am in this hobby. I do play safe, and discretely. I could never see her giving me the green light to be with anyone else.

Good to know and glad you guys shared, I too have been seeing and dealing with a little of this myself.

[RibBled96]

It's nice to know I'm not alone. There aren't many people I can talk to about a sexless marriage. I don't want a divorce but didn't ask to be cut off from sex entirely. Only one of my friends knows about my situation. I often wonder what gets people into this and although I used to see a few providers before I was married, I quit for the first 13 years of my marriage and haven't until the last few years seen anyone. I'm still trying to make my rules where I can live with myself. I keep waiting for my wife to come in and say let's have sex but I don't think it will ever happen again and so I've quit bothering her and I think she is happier because I don't mention it anymore.

Anyways thanks for sharing your stories. It helps a lot.

Sent you a PM about this.

[TittiBabi]

It really makes me laugh to see girls advertising "upscale" meanwhile in their cellphone pics, there are clothes and trash thrown about in the background. Haha. No consistency.

That and their location is Bellevue and South Parkway!

[LuckyNutz]

I see ladies when they get started in the game charging low $$. Maybe 150. Then after they been around for a bit or start traveling they go up to 300. WTF. Couple ladies I seen couple yrs ago done that.

I'd rather pay more for a good time and enjoy myself. The ones that charge lower prices historically for me have been really bad times. I will continue to pay for my ATF at a higher rate because the time with ATF is much better than someone who is lower rates.

[Ecl368]

I see ladies when they get started in the game charging low $$. Maybe 150. Then after they been around for a bit or start traveling they go up to 300. WTF. Couple ladies I seen couple yrs ago done that.

[Stiffey]

It really makes me laugh to see girls advertising "upscale" meanwhile in their cellphone pics, there are clothes and trash thrown about in the background. Haha. No consistency.

[Wantnsomeinar]

It's nice to know I'm not alone. There aren't many people I can talk to about a sexless marriage. I don't want a divorce but didn't ask to be cut off from sex entirely. Only one of my friends knows about my situation. I often wonder what gets people into this and although I used to see a few providers before I was married, I quit for the first 13 years of my marriage and haven't until the last few years seen anyone. I'm still trying to make my rules where I can live with myself. I keep waiting for my wife to come in and say let's have sex but I don't think it will ever happen again and so I've quit bothering her and I think she is happier because I don't mention it anymore.

Anyways thanks for sharing your stories. It helps a lot.

Figure out who she is fucking before you get caught doing this and its your ass in court. Be proactive!!

[Stiffey]

It's nice to know I'm not alone. There aren't many people I can talk to about a sexless marriage. I don't want a divorce but didn't ask to be cut off from sex entirely. Only one of my friends knows about my situation. I often wonder what gets people into this and although I used to see a few providers before I was married, I quit for the first 13 years of my marriage and haven't until the last few years seen anyone. I'm still trying to make my rules where I can live with myself. I keep waiting for my wife to come in and say let's have sex but I don't think it will ever happen again and so I've quit bothering her and I think she is happier because I don't mention it anymore.

Anyways thanks for sharing your stories. It helps a lot.

[AficioGod]

Since I posted my story on the other thread about my wife not having sex with me in the last 6-7 years because of her psych meds. She has hinted to me seeing someone without actually saying it. She admits that she had rather just live in denial about some things. I have resisted FS so far but it's very tempting. I am essentially paying for FS prices to get a FBSM and company when I had rather do more. I have just tried to keep my conscience clean.

What got you into the hobby? How do you play it safe and keep rules or such? Any advice you can give?

My Wife's sex drive has gone from 150 to 0 since going on anti depressants. Then on top of that, she had to have a mesh put in to hold her bladder up last year. Since then on the rare occasion that she will be intimate, I can't get my dick in all the way without hurting her, so when we do, it's usually me just barely getting the tip in and doing the best I can to cum. She keeps saying she's going to go to the doctor to see if she could go on hormone therapy for her sex drive, but never does. The doctor that did her bladder mesh told her in order for it not to hurt we needed to do it more and that in time it would be back to normal, but I'm pretty sure his definition of more frequently is a lot more often than once every month or two. She has several auto immune diseases, and when we do have sex, it's usually just a quickie. While I appreciate her efforts, I want and need more, which is why I am in this hobby. I do play safe, and discretely. I could never see her giving me the green light to be with anyone else.

[LuckyNutz]

Since I posted my story on the other thread about my wife not having sex with me in the last 6-7 years because of her psych meds. She has hinted to me seeing someone without actually saying it. She admits that she had rather just live in denial about some things. I have resisted FS so far but it's very tempting. I am essentially paying for FS prices to get a FBSM and company when I had rather do more. I have just tried to keep my conscience clean.

What got you into the hobby? How do you play it safe and keep rules or such? Any advice you can give?

My wife who passed away 9 years ago gave me the green light when we were informed about her cancer returning. She lived three years with breast cancer before passing away. When the meds started to take their toll in the second year, she told me to spread my wings and fly. LOL! Only rule was that she was able to help pick out the girl.

Rules were that I could visit the girl she chose once a week. I could not get emotionally attached to her. She also said to play safe which I did. Found a lady that was awesome, she actually ended up helping around our house when things got worse as she was a RN prior to joining the hobby.

Just be safe, find someone that you can have fun with but not too the point where the emotional connection turns into something serious.

[Stiffey]

Since I posted my story on the other thread about my wife not having sex with me in the last 6-7 years because of her psych meds. She has hinted to me seeing someone without actually saying it. She admits that she had rather just live in denial about some things. I have resisted FS so far but it's very tempting. I am essentially paying for FS prices to get a FBSM and company when I had rather do more. I have just tried to keep my conscience clean.

What got you into the hobby? How do you play it safe and keep rules or such? Any advice you can give?

[LickALot901]

I found her ad in Miami posted recently. It is difficult for her to be here today. She is likely scum.

Going by her services I'm 99% going to say she's fake.

[BulletMan767]

Posts: 130.

Hi all, I was on this site for quite a while 2 years ago. I just found this page and was able to log right back in. I don't even know if I am still a senior member anymore or not. SO, coming out of retirement a little and looking for a mid-20's blonde or brunette spinner or two. I don't know any of the new girls, and haven't seen any of the older ones in a while. Looking to try out the newer ones. I'm reading the forum, but in the meantime if anyone has a recommendation please PM me or reply. Thanks!

[Bob421]

I found her ad in Miami posted recently. It is difficult for her to be here today. She is likely scum.

Unfortunately I don't know that one.

The one I know, I do not have contact information for (or I'd be calling her) I only ever hooked up with her at the club.