General Reports

[Googleguy]

Have you considered offering to pay for a abortion?

[Lrdnitro]

1 - Do NOT pay her money for baby stuff. Do not buy her baby stuff! IF you pay her for baby stuff, you're accepting responsibility for it, EVEN IF IT ISN'T YOURS! She can take that shit to court and you will end up paying for it for 18 years EVEN IF it isn't yours. Don't believe me? do a google on the subject, "False Paternity"

2 - Paternity. Get tested. Before you do a fucking thing, GET TESTED for paternity. If it's yours, man the fuck up and take care of it. If it isn't yours, PM ME and we'll celebrate! I'll even buy a round. I went through something like this and I can tell you that the laws, as written, are not fair to men in this situation.

I cuncur with Mandark. The first thing that stuck out to me is when she asked you"CAN YOU HAVE KIDS." She left her self open for you to know that she doesnt know who the daddy is. You have a 50/50 chance bro! Get tested without giving your home addy,find someone you can trust to send the results to.If its not yours wifey will never know!!!!! Until then follow said and prescribed rules as layed down by Mandrak,and if its not yours we'll all celebrate! I'm pulling for ya mate!

[NotNine]

No she don"t know my real name or where I live or work. I am getting rid of my text messaging today. No way I am getting anywhere close to her. She moves so much I do not know where she stays. My phone is not a prepaid either but a contact carrier. I need to get rid of my number too.

My first reply to her would have been "I don't know who you are, leave me alone and don't text me any more".

If she doesn't know anything but your phone number then I would stop responding to her text messages. If she is a ho then you can rest assured you are not the only one to bang her 8 months ago. She is probably trying this very same thing with every guy who gave her their number. And she thinks she is getting somewhere with you by the fact that you are replying to her messages. Tell her to get lost and don't bother you anymore or you will bring harrasment charges against her.

Hope it all works out well for you. This is the last situation I would want to find myself in.

[Clubking01]

...Anyway no more playing bare with me...

One thing I've done over the years is do everything covered, and then I finish with the girl giving me a HJ to completion. Most girls will remove the jimmy glove and let it fly. I know it's not quite the same sensation, but it is still awfully good and I am assured that there is no possible "fluid exchange", even when covered.

[SweetSarah]

Thanks for taking the time to boil the bullshit off of that link. I hate fling, adult friend finder and all those other mostly bullshit spam sites. I know both of them are actual sites, but I dont like having them pop in, over, under or on anything I'm looking at. They are both pay sites and not what I want to use to find an escort.

Ret

You have to register but that is free. It is a free to browse site. I think that it was going to adultfriendfinder before it was completely finished being worked on. Check it out. It has alot of girls posting already.

[Googleguy]

Question for the girls

I have a friend that escorts on occasion and had posted on craigs list when she did escort.

Now craigs list is requiring a working phone and credit card, and charges $5 to the credit card to post in the erotic services section of craigs list.

My question is this.

Say I purchased for her, with cash, a prepaid cell phone and a prepaid visa card from walmart or similar store. Would this work? Would she be able to post using a prepaid credit card with no name on it?

I am really looking to hear back from someone who has tried and found out if this works.

[Cat Daddy #2]

Damn Cat. This won't end well if she knows where you stay/work etc. You just have to keep your head. She has other dudes but you must be in better shape then them. I'd loose the phone and get away from her because she will grift you if she can.

No she don"t know my real name or where I live or work. I am getting rid of my text messaging today. No way I am getting anywhere close to her. She moves so much I do not know where she stays. My phone is not a prepaid either but a contact carrier. I need to get rid of my number too.

[Bluffcity Guy]

just this week i was seeing a girl i have seen many times before and she is a sweet smart girl, very cool, very nice - that's why i have repeated with her - - well she was telling me about a date she had the day before with a person who called her and she was telling me that he was **** and like 14 years old or something and she went over to where he stayed when his parents weren't home and had a date with him and she described his room and all that stuff. that really kinda blew my mind, i didn't think she would do something like that, but when i asked her about it she said, "i'm a ho, if anybody has the money i'll fuck em." and she laughed.

in this day and age of "equality of the sexes" most of the statutory rape and child sexual abuse laws have been rewritten so that they apply to women and **** boys as well as to men and **** girls. had the boy's parents come home unexpectedly, she possibly would have found herself facing a lot more serious charge than a prostitution charge (even if they added the "near a church/school" proviso to that).

[Wyldhorses]

damn cat. this won't end well if she knows where you stay/work etc. you just have to keep your head. she has other dudes but you must be in better shape then them. i'd loose the phone and get away from her because she will grift you if she can.

as cold and hard as it may seem to say, you can never, ever, and i mean never give any of these girls your real name or where you work or really live it is just too damn risky. i know there are alot of sweet girls we meet in this hobby and we love spending time with but it is just too damn risky to do that. you can never tell what may happen.

one of the guys who posts on another board about nevada, his name is "flyfisher" said "the more you know about these girls, the less you want to know about them." he has seen working girls for over 20 years and still does and has lots of experience and knows what he is talking about.

just this week i was seeing a girl i have seen many times before and she is a sweet smart girl, very cool, very nice - that's why i have repeated with her - - well she was telling me about a date she had the day before with a person who called her and she was telling me that he was **** and like 14 years old or something and she went over to where he stayed when his parents weren't home and had a date with him and she described his room and all that stuff. that really kinda blew my mind, i didn't think she would do something like that, but when i asked her about it she said, "i'm a ho, if anybody has the money i'll fuck em." and she laughed.

most of these girls aren't "college students looking to make money" or something like that, most of them have led brutal shattered lives and have turned to prostitution to make money and they dont' have any skills or education to do anything else and they don't want to work a real job. remember - the girls don't have anything to lose, while the guys all have real jobs and lives that could absolutely be destroyed by a working girl out for revenge.

always use a fake name. - the girls use fake names, learn from them.
use a pre-paid phone that can't be traced to you.
don't tell them what your career is or where you really work, make up some b.s. story - but don't make yourself sound too well off or wealthy, if you do she will think you have lots of money and raise her price or try to get more money from you. just tell her you are just an average working guy and didn't go to college or anything - you know tell her you work at some factory you know the name of, or fedex, or costco or walmart or something.

[JohnUT1966]

I was at The Pony a while ago talking to one of the young ladies. After talking and a dance, she asked me what is the most I have ever paid for "it". After thinking, I told her I got married. She just smiled and said "I am a lot cheaper than that".

[Mandark]

I got this hoe keep texting me saying she pregnant and shit. First she ask me if I can I have kids and then tell me she is 8 months pregnant. I know I am not or have not been the only one fucking her. She texting asking for money to buy baby something & asking me to go to doctor with her and shit. But check this out,she says in order for me to keep fucking her I have to buy baby something or give her money because she don"t fuck for free. If I am baby daddy why would I have to pay to fuck my baby mamma? What can I do to make this hoe go away. My wife will murder me if she gets wind of this.

1 - Do NOT pay her money for baby stuff. Do not buy her baby stuff! IF you pay her for baby stuff, you're accepting responsibility for it, EVEN IF IT ISN'T YOURS! She can take that shit to court and you will end up paying for it for 18 years EVEN IF it isn't yours. Don't believe me? do a google on the subject, "False Paternity"

2 - Paternity. Get tested. Before you do a fucking thing, GET TESTED for paternity. If it's yours, man the fuck up and take care of it. If it isn't yours, PM ME and we'll celebrate! I'll even buy a round. I went through something like this and I can tell you that the laws, as written, are not fair to men in this situation.

[Troubles]

I got this hoe keep texting me saying she pregnant and shit. First she ask me if I can I have kids and then tell me she is 8 months pregnant. I know I am not or have not been the only one fucking her. She texting asking for money to buy baby something & asking me to go to doctor with her and shit. But check this out,she says in order for me to keep fucking her I have to buy baby something or give her money because she don"t fuck for free. If I am baby daddy why would I have to pay to fuck my baby mamma? What can I do to make this hoe go away. My wife will murder me if she gets wind of this.

It's time to "accidently" drop your phone in the toilet! Get new phone and hey maybe new number just because you want to.
In no way admit to anything, to anyone. She would have a difficult time finding you with out the phone or number problem is gone.

[Cat Daddy #2]

Geeze, Buddy, if it ain't one thing, it's another, right? You have the shitiest luck of anyone I know. Tell her you had a vasectomy 3 years ago and kick her to the curb. You really oughta be bagging that cannon before firing it, anyway, but, even so, you can't be taking responsibility for every little thing that comes up. Her problem, not yours. Remember, this is just a hobby made up of dreams. Nothing is real, so you really can't be held responsible, right?

Just joking around with ya, but, I guess you have to ask yourself what the right thing to do would be. If it could be yours, I'd still want a test at some point in time. Hell, just play along and pay her what you've always paid her. What's the difference, other than the complications should she or welfare decide to go after child support. Then you're probably up shits creek. If I thought it was mine, I'd be pressing to terminate the pregnancy, but it sounds like it may be too late for that. Thankfully, I don't have to worry about such things, because I did have a vasectomy 23 years ago and I don't have a wife to answer to. I dunno, though, I'd still probably just kick her to the curb to keep her out of my hair and to avoid nasty complications with the wife. There's plenty more out there. She probably doesn't know who the daddy is any more than you do, so, at this point, there's really no good reason to stress over it. FWIW, my vote goes to telling her to get lost.

Those are my thoughts too. She don't even want to come see her unless I got money to get baby something so that tells me a lot. I am deleting my text message service tomorrow. She says her momma gonna have me locked up I wonder if the other babys daddies got locked up. Anyway no more playing bare with me and no more giving these hoes my phone number either. I am done with this hoe.

[Gorillla]

Damn Cat. This won't end well if she knows where you stay/work etc. You just have to keep your head. She has other dudes but you must be in better shape then them. I'd loose the phone and get away from her because she will grift you if she can.

I got this hoe keep texting me saying she pregnant and shit. First she ask me if I can I have kids and then tell me she is 8 months pregnant. I know I am not or have not been the only one fucking her. She texting asking for money to buy baby something & asking me to go to doctor with her and shit. But check this out,she says in order for me to keep fucking her I have to buy baby something or give her money because she don"t fuck for free. If I am baby daddy why would I have to pay to fuck my baby mamma? What can I do to make this hoe go away. My wife will murder me if she gets wind of this.

[Rmcky]

I got this hoe keep texting me saying she pregnant and shit. First she ask me if I can I have kids and then tell me she is 8 months pregnant. I know I am not or have not been the only one fucking her. She texting asking for money to buy baby something & asking me to go to doctor with her and shit. But check this out,she says in order for me to keep fucking her I have to buy baby something or give her money because she don"t fuck for free. If I am baby daddy why would I have to pay to fuck my baby mamma? What can I do to make this hoe go away. My wife will murder me if she gets wind of this.

Geeze, Buddy, if it ain't one thing, it's another, right? You have the shitiest luck of anyone I know. Tell her you had a vasectomy 3 years ago and kick her to the curb. You really oughta be bagging that cannon before firing it, anyway, but, even so, you can't be taking responsibility for every little thing that comes up. Her problem, not yours. Remember, this is just a hobby made up of dreams. Nothing is real, so you really can't be held responsible, right?

Just joking around with ya, but, I guess you have to ask yourself what the right thing to do would be. If it could be yours, I'd still want a test at some point in time. Hell, just play along and pay her what you've always paid her. What's the difference, other than the complications should she or welfare decide to go after child support. Then you're probably up shits creek. If I thought it was mine, I'd be pressing to terminate the pregnancy, but it sounds like it may be too late for that. Thankfully, I don't have to worry about such things, because I did have a vasectomy 23 years ago and I don't have a wife to answer to. I dunno, though, I'd still probably just kick her to the curb to keep her out of my hair and to avoid nasty complications with the wife. There's plenty more out there. She probably doesn't know who the daddy is any more than you do, so, at this point, there's really no good reason to stress over it. FWIW, my vote goes to telling her to get lost.