Cuddle Comforts?

**Grimmy23** · 01-19-24 10:32

Originally Posted by SDJaziKing [View Original Post]

Few simple questions:

- Lots of providers do not host; with the ones able to host, how was your success rate?

- Pros vs Non-Pro; what's your take.

I've only seen ones who host so far. However, if they host it's usually in a hotel room. Few will host at their home. If it's in a hotel room they're often going to ask for a 2 hour minimum booking to offset the cost.

Simple solution here is to get yourself a room. If you go to dayuse.com you can often find a room for half a day for under $100. That way you can get some of the girls who do guest only and it's not that expensive.

Stick with pro only. Just my take,but from what I've heard you're a lot less likely to have success with the non-pros.

**SDJaziKing** · 01-19-24 02:02

Originally Posted by Boltastic [View Original Post]

I'm going to echo what Grimmy has said here. I have met up with 8 different girls on cuddlecomfort (have not tried other cuddle sites), and I have slept with 5 of them without a single extra fee, and honestly could've been 8 for 8. Several I've met up with subsequently just for sex! 2 of the ones I didn't sleep with were actual sex workers who offered for an upcharge (I did not take them up because paying extra at this point kind of ruins it for me. I want them to want it), and the third confessed to an STI right before we got too far and I politely declined.

I think the biggest thing is identifying the right girls initially. It may just be intuition, but I think I have a pretty good feel of who might and might not be open to more. Maybe they're wearing something more revealing in a photo (don't go for the ones two slutty as often they're just escorts. Unless that's what your looking for)? I tend to target the ones who look fun and like they don't take the cuddling thing too seriously (not sure how to quantify that last part). Getting their number is often a good start and try to establish a rapport through text or phone calls or whatever so you're not going into the session cold.

Once it's time to meet do your best to be as clean / attractive / charming as possible. Dont be too aggressive. Take it easy, gauge how the girl is doing, lightly touch them, and definitely let them lead. If it's going to happen, they will be the one to initiate.

Good luck!

Few simple questions:

- Lots of providers do not host; with the ones able to host, how was your success rate?

- Pros vs Non-Pro; what's your take.

**MrBreeder2** · 01-18-24 21:21

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

The profile makes clear she tours around the country cuddling w / people. To me it seems very very unlikely someone w / this sort of profile does any extras, unless it just happens to be a young guy she is attracted to. Most of us aren't that.

She's friends with a few older / obese male cuddlers (such as CharlieinCo) who have had unprotected sex with cuddlers all over the country. She's providing extras or just enjoys the lifestyle. If shes seeing certain people or friends with them, extras are on the table. Most of these girls are sugar babies and will do bare if theyre comfortable with you. It’s part of the lifestyle. Look up https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/Jasmineluvshugs. She’s been known to offer extras but that’s usually a well kept secret. Also, many cuddlers, who have been active for 2-3 years and have less than 5 reviews, do so for a reason.

**ToddRichards12** · 01-18-24 21:14

Originally Posted by Boltastic [View Original Post]

I think the biggest thing is identifying the right girls initially. It may just be intuition, but I think I have a pretty good feel of who might and might not be open to more. Maybe they're wearing something more revealing in a photo (don't go for the ones two slutty as often they're just escorts. Unless that's what your looking for)? I tend to target the ones who look fun and like they don't take the cuddling thing too seriously (not sure how to quantify that last part). Getting their number is often a good start and try to establish a rapport through text or phone calls or whatever so you're not going into the session cold.

Once it's time to meet do your best to be as clean / attractive / charming as possible. Dont be too aggressive. Take it easy, gauge how the girl is doing, lightly touch them, and definitely let them lead. If it's going to happen, they will be the one to initiate.

Good advice. I would add avoid anyone whose profile blatantly says "platonic only" or "I follow the CC code of conduct". This is the main tip the girl is only cuddling.

**ArrogantBstrd** · 01-18-24 15:24

Originally Posted by DrPornDawger [View Original Post]

Have we (men) not been scammed enough?

Nope. My d ick has taken me through quite a few dark, sketchy alleys in this hobby both Stateside and overseas.

I actually thought the same about Seeking when it first came out before it got oversaturated with pros. I've been on that site for over five years and still have active relationships with SBs that I've met from there.

I'm hoping that something might come up from CC, but I'm a bit skeptical. Hence my solicitation for other people's opinions.

**Grimmy23** · 01-18-24 15:21

I'm new to this cuddling game, and I live in Orange County not San Diego. But early on in the game I've seen two cuddlers and had FS with both of them. And it was better FS than I've ever had with any MP girl or escort, and for about the same amount of money or less.

Now this being said, cuddling is a very different game than most of us are accustomed to. There are providers who provide "legit cuddles only. " They aren't cheap. Who wants to pay $100 - $200 for an hour of vanilla, fully clothed cuddles? On the flip side, you can pay that amount and get a girl who's down for extras for little or no extra tip. It absolutely happens, and it isn't at all uncommon. I've seen two pro cuddlers and banged both of them, and neither asked for anything extra. Will you get blue balls once in a while? Absolutely yes, you will. If you absolutely must be assured of success in every cuddle session then this isn't for you. It's a lot of YMMV and a lot of thrill of the chase. If you play your cards right you should have at least 50% success rate, and if you really play your cards right you should be closer to 75%.

Generally speaking you go into a cuddle session, and if you're wearing the standard cuddle clothes you're both in a thin t-shirt and shorts or something similar. You climb into bed and go into cuddling and embracing, pressing your bodies up against each other and such. So at worst case, you get an hour of close body contact in a private location with a girl of your choosing. That isn't so bad really (although some of you will say it's bad if you have to pay that much and not get anything sexual out of it). Just being in that setting opens up a lot of possibilities. Even if she's a legit only cuddler, you're in private, in bed together, minimally clothed and making close body to body contact. There's always a chance of that spark getting ignited that can lead to clothes flying off, even if she's adamant about "platonic cuddles only. ".

So bottom line is it's a crapshoot. You can have some very good times in the cuddling genre with some girl next door types who aren't full on sex workers. You can also have some frustrations, so you have to be willing to take it all in and not be too let down by the occasional vanilla session where the clothes stay on. Personally, I'm enjoying it so far.

**DrPornDawger** · 01-18-24 14:42

Have we (men) not been scammed enough?

**ArrogantBstrd** · 01-18-24 14:35

Is this what a professional session is like?

https://www.10news.com/news/paying-f...y-in-san-diego

**ArrogantBstrd** · 01-18-24 02:12

I have been trying to read through some of the discussions on the forums on that damn site. It seems very vanilla and pretentious. Almost like an edgy ChristianDating.com site. I read a post by a guy who complained about how women have trouble respecting his boundaries. They kept trying to moan in his ear and touch his "naughty places" (as quoted by that poster). I may endeavor on an adventure to find these women with no boundaries. Of course, being in this hobby, I'm looking for some bad ass Latina or an Asian doll with mouth skills. I have meet with several women from SA, so I wonder what kind of games we have to play or what kinds of interactions meetings from this site will entail.

All of that said, has anyone met with LilacLove?

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/LilacLove

Or has anyone met with a "pro cuddler"? Even if a woman is decent-looking enough, I'll get a raging hard-on as soon as there is skin-to-skin contact.

$185 for a damn "cuddle session" is venturing into BBBJCIM money.

**FarFarAway** · 01-11-24 16:16

Originally Posted by Brazuca1979 [View Original Post]

Anyone of you guys have seen this cute girl? She has 124 karmas, all 5 stars but never find anything about her, eventually she upload pics wearing bikini. Any intel? Feel free to pm me.

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/Oxytocin2020

The profile makes clear she tours around the country cuddling w / people. To me it seems very very unlikely someone w / this sort of profile does any extras, unless it just happens to be a young guy she is attracted to. Most of us aren't that.

**Brazuca1979** · 01-07-24 19:43

Anyone of you guys have seen this cute girl? She has 124 karmas, all 5 stars but never find anything about her, eventually she upload pics wearing bikini. Any intel? Feel free to pm me.

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/Oxytocin2020

**Jash198** · 01-05-24 21:27

Set up a session with her a while ago. She's strictly cuddling only and her hosting site isn't the cleanest. She talks a lot and would have been better off staying at home. Her space smelled pretty bad but she is really pretty.

**Reds101** · 01-05-24 19:28

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I also don't know why they are a. Org.

Anyone can sign up for a. Org URL for any website. 4 chan is also. Org LOL.

**FarFarAway** · 01-05-24 17:25

Originally Posted by SteelyDan33 [View Original Post]

I think some girls rent out and share like little studios so hence they have to pay so that makes sense. Gives me weird vibes so I've never had a visit with one but as long as it's not insane no it's not unheard of. I forgot the girl or two that told me that but I've for sure seen it.

That sucks she bailed. Hopefully you can reschedule. I'm the one usually getting.

The room. I've never asked a girl but that's not a bad idea haha.

Met up w / the girl today. She got the room. She is a thick mixed girl, 27; came to learn she has a bunch of kids. I entered, she was in lingerie (panties / camisole). She suggested I take off my shirt. We cuddled for an hour on the couch, I got my hands on her tits and ass, but that is all. We had a nice conversation, she was relatively intelligent. Fine for a first experience, definitely unlikely to see her again, not sure what I would try w / others. I think that sometimes you may just have chemistry w / a person that makes the difference.

I asked her about the website. We met on CuddleComfort, she likes it OK, they take 15% of bookings through the site. She cancelled ours once we had done a M&G so she kept it all. She says CuddleCompanions takes 40% of the fee. So that amount they require to allow you to communicate to the girl, it goes all to them. I also don't know why they are a. Org.

Several months back I met up w / a POT sugar baby, she also was a little thick, but wow, the chemistry we had face to face was not like many experiences I have had in several years on SA. After we downed our coffee I said let's head to my car (in the parking structure) and we had an impromptu makeout session. I would never have guessed our chemistry was that great from texting and phoning her. If she had been my cuddle girl, obviously there is no way we would have stopped short of banging.

**SteelyDan33** · 01-04-24 19:33

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I think the cuddle scene in SD is bigger than it is in my area, OC. However, I need to read something, hence.

Do you have girls who charge extra because they host? I am messaging w / one now, she said:

Price is different from the website because of where I host I have to pay them as well.

I cannot ever host, but I have messaged girls who only have guest or public on their CuddleComfort profile, and asked if they would get a room (that I would cover). I want them to get it so there is no paper trail for me. I allegedly have a session tomorrow morning w / a girl who is getting us a room, but she is skittish, she cancelled on me today.

I think some girls rent out and share like little studios so hence they have to pay so that makes sense. Gives me weird vibes so I've never had a visit with one but as long as it's not insane no it's not unheard of. I forgot the girl or two that told me that but I've for sure seen it.

That sucks she bailed. Hopefully you can reschedule. I'm the one usually getting.

The room. I've never asked a girl but that's not a bad idea haha.