Sugar Baby

[TRowePrice]

Hey there everyone- anyone can please share a good SB who I can see when I am in San Fran in June? Would love some leads. Thank you,

[SlyshyGuy]

Does anyone have any experience using Airbnb in SF for their hobby activities? I'm looking to rent a room for an hour or two and Airbnb seems cheaper on average and more convenient than getting a hotel room. My primary concern is what the host may think.

[Heywood2020]

Hey team. Any recommendations in the area?

I am going to make some rounds and will report back.

[Roger Eggin]

So, honestly, with so few posts on here, and your close-to-the-vest approach, it is easy to be skeptical that you are getting all sorts of SBs in the wild.

There are some prolific sugar threads out there, lots and lots of how-to tips. I have posted photos of some of my long-gone SBs as well. This thread could become that I'd wager.

For me, I have a SO, approaching women in public to be SBs isn't really likely to work out for me. However, I have met POTs from seeking.com who tell me their first arrangement did occur 'organically', from just someone they knew, or someone who approached them.

I don't blame anyone who is skeptical. My approach is definitely not the norm, and it's not something that produces results easily. I'm just here to share that it does produce results.

That's not to say I have a perfect batting average. Far from it! But if you don't take a few swings, you'll never hit that home run. Best of luck to all of us!

[FarFarAway]

See my previous response below re: the where / how. Unfortunately I'm not willing to reveal my current playbook.

Re: pricing, that's in line with the per hour rate of mid to high range escorts, but with escorts you're looking at being on the clock. So depends what you are looking for.

So, honestly, with so few posts on here, and your close-to-the-vest approach, it is easy to be skeptical that you are getting all sorts of SBs in the wild.

There are some prolific sugar threads out there, lots and lots of how-to tips. I have posted photos of some of my long-gone SBs as well. This thread could become that I'd wager.

For me, I have a SO, approaching women in public to be SBs isn't really likely to work out for me. However, I have met POTs from seeking.com who tell me their first arrangement did occur 'organically', from just someone they knew, or someone who approached them.

[FarFarAway]

Experienced SD here, guys. Will be in SF for 5 days / nights in August. I have had road babies there before, before the pandemic. Just hoping for current tips and pointers.

[Roger Eggin]

With Sugar babies, do you use hotels? It seems both using my own place or her place would cause privacy / discreetness concerns, and safety concerns.

Also most sugar babies say they want "mentorship", is this total BS?

Yes you probably should be concerned about privacy! I generally don't host until we have settled into a routine and built trust. Her place or hotels (make sure she knows the cost of a hotel reduces what she gets). There are still some hot tub places around. Work in a pinch but I'm not a big fan.

"Mentorship" can come in many forms. But is often a BS line. More than anything they want one thing we have: $.

[PuneBizTrip]

With Sugar babies, do you use hotels? It seems both using my own place or her place would cause privacy / discreetness concerns, and safety concerns.

Also most sugar babies say they want "mentorship", is this total BS?

See my previous response below re: the where / how. Unfortunately I'm not willing to reveal my current playbook.

Re: pricing, that's in line with the per hour rate of mid to high range escorts, but with escorts you're looking at being on the clock. So depends what you are looking for.

[Roger Eggin]

Wondering how to source these if not for market place like seeking. I tried Seeking and Secret benefits. It was hard even with the membership etc. A lot of time favoring, reaching out, funnel to conversation very low, and the ones that do engage seems like pros. Low ppm is 500, high is 1500. Not sure if these are better than what you would find in places PD, Slixa, Tryst etc. Are these crazy numbers or just the market price these days?

I'd be happy to put in the work, but really need to know the where / how.

See my previous response below re: the where / how. Unfortunately I'm not willing to reveal my current playbook.

Re: pricing, that's in line with the per hour rate of mid to high range escorts, but with escorts you're looking at being on the clock. So depends what you are looking for.

[Roger Eggin]

So if you're not using seeking etc. Where are you getting them from? Regular dating? That's not exactly the same thing.

I have used a variety of sources over the years, going back to casual encounters days on CL. Sometimes they start out as escorts, sometimes they start out as civvy hookups (and some stay that way), sometimes they just want an arrangement on the d-l. Not going to put my current sources and methods on blast and make my technique harder. But sugar babies are 100% out there and 100% not all on seeking.

[PuneBizTrip]

Wondering how to source these if not for market place like seeking. I tried Seeking and Secret benefits. It was hard even with the membership etc. A lot of time favoring, reaching out, funnel to conversation very low, and the ones that do engage seems like pros. Low ppm is 500, high is 1500. Not sure if these are better than what you would find in places PD, Slixa, Tryst etc. Are these crazy numbers or just the market price these days?

I'd be happy to put in the work, but really need to know the where / how.

IMHO there is a spectrum of paths in finding a SB. It can be a lot of work, and cause you to follow random trails of bread crumbs to sometimes a dead end. Or you can just throw money at the problem and the girls will beat a path to your door. Where you personally settle on that spectrum depends on how you value your time and money (and to some extent how much game you have, because sometimes you have to be able to close the deal on your own in the absence of big $).

I opt for working harder to find the right sugar baby for me because I currently have the time to spare (hooray WFH!) and because it pays off in spades when you hit paydirt. I avoid the sugar marketplaces (seeking etc.) like the plague. But to go this route you essentially have to be persistent, avoid pitfalls, and it really helps to have the ability to talk your way into a girl's pants in general.

I admittedly have had an up and down year. I was flush with young talent in Dec / Jan, living high on the hog. Maybe it was the weather. It was raining pussy! I was hoping to even share the wealth here at one stage. And then they all seemed to dry up in the blink of an eye. One gets a boyfriend, another moves, one just straight up ghosts me. Suddenly my entire pipeline was dry (well except for escorts). Next thing you know I'm back to the drawing board. Lesson learned. Always keep working the pipeline! When you're a young hot female, you have a lot of options in life besides spending time with old pervs like me. I don't disparage them, and sometimes they will pop back up after a life change. The door is always open..

[Kense]

IMHO there is a spectrum of paths in finding a SB. It can be a lot of work, and cause you to follow random trails of bread crumbs to sometimes a dead end. Or you can just throw money at the problem and the girls will beat a path to your door. Where you personally settle on that spectrum depends on how you value your time and money (and to some extent how much game you have, because sometimes you have to be able to close the deal on your own in the absence of big $).

I opt for working harder to find the right sugar baby for me because I currently have the time to spare (hooray WFH!) and because it pays off in spades when you hit paydirt. I avoid the sugar marketplaces (seeking etc.) like the plague. But to go this route you essentially have to be persistent, avoid pitfalls, and it really helps to have the ability to talk your way into a girl's pants in general.

I admittedly have had an up and down year. I was flush with young talent in Dec / Jan, living high on the hog. Maybe it was the weather. It was raining pussy! I was hoping to even share the wealth here at one stage. And then they all seemed to dry up in the blink of an eye. One gets a boyfriend, another moves, one just straight up ghosts me. Suddenly my entire pipeline was dry (well except for escorts). Next thing you know I'm back to the drawing board. Lesson learned. Always keep working the pipeline! When you're a young hot female, you have a lot of options in life besides spending time with old pervs like me. I don't disparage them, and sometimes they will pop back up after a life change. The door is always open..

So if you're not using seeking etc. Where are you getting them from? Regular dating? That's not exactly the same thing.

[Roger Eggin]

It seems like a lot of work to find a SB. I have been trying for 2 weeks, barely any conversation happening. Any tips on how to better engage?

IMHO there is a spectrum of paths in finding a SB. It can be a lot of work, and cause you to follow random trails of bread crumbs to sometimes a dead end. Or you can just throw money at the problem and the girls will beat a path to your door. Where you personally settle on that spectrum depends on how you value your time and money (and to some extent how much game you have, because sometimes you have to be able to close the deal on your own in the absence of big $).

I opt for working harder to find the right sugar baby for me because I currently have the time to spare (hooray WFH!) and because it pays off in spades when you hit paydirt. I avoid the sugar marketplaces (seeking etc.) like the plague. But to go this route you essentially have to be persistent, avoid pitfalls, and it really helps to have the ability to talk your way into a girl's pants in general.

I admittedly have had an up and down year. I was flush with young talent in Dec / Jan, living high on the hog. Maybe it was the weather. It was raining pussy! I was hoping to even share the wealth here at one stage. And then they all seemed to dry up in the blink of an eye. One gets a boyfriend, another moves, one just straight up ghosts me. Suddenly my entire pipeline was dry (well except for escorts). Next thing you know I'm back to the drawing board. Lesson learned. Always keep working the pipeline! When you're a young hot female, you have a lot of options in life besides spending time with old pervs like me. I don't disparage them, and sometimes they will pop back up after a life change. The door is always open.

Right now I've re-established a new primary girl and am working on plans B and C for some variety and for when primary inevitably moves on. My goal is to have them available for me on a PPM basis where the $ is well below market and the meet is somewhere between 2 hours and an overnight.

Bottom line: keep working, it will pay off. Or raise your $ offer if you are in a position to do so.

[PuneBizTrip]

It seems like a lot of work to find a SB. I have been trying for 2 weeks, barely any conversation happening. Any tips on how to better engage?

I saw this one recently. She looks exactly like the pics. Very attractive. A little bit of a sexual freak. Will cost you about 7. She will do a PPM. Set up and execution was easy. Did not repeat. Although I seemed everything was open, the chemistry was not there for me. Borderline pro feel to me. I prefer a newbie. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-4f813a56c58d

[Roger Eggin]

Just a reminder to ask SB's if they have friends who have or need a Sugar Daddy. Not for you of course, but for your "friends" 😉.

Build that network outside of the paywall sites. You never know when another SB will come in handy. Or maybe she just wants to join in the fun with her friend. Or have details shared here when her circumstances change.