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[Member #5587]

What works for me is to keep busy doing something else "Work" do something in a group environment play soccer or something like that.

Don't Believe to much on those psychologies they are specialist on putting Labels.

Good Luck.

I play organized sports 3 dAys a week and work full time. It does help curb shopping or cruising. Sex is fun, and I love variety is great. I'm just way more selective with whom I hang with. No time for hoe drama doctor Jones. What's funny. Is I was super selective as ir was. Dumped some of my regs or they are on vacation so I'm dating like once or twice a week. Which is way less than I was during my Ria faze. On top of a couple regs also was 4/5 x's a week. Just find something physical that takes your mind off pussy and gets the stress off you.

And fuck labels.

[TimmyTee]

My advice to you wld be, take it slowly. Little steps at a time. I Have tried to exit this game on many occasions. But keep getting drawn back in for my own personal reasons. I have been in the game for probably 6 years now. It is definitely an addiction. If you are like me I surf through the sites several times a day. I like to call it shopping. LOL well it is what it is. A little peice of advice I can give is, when you find the urge to pull up a sight or a link, pull up smthing else once a day. Then a few days later try it twice a day. I'm not sure your home front situation. But mine is not the greatest. As I do what I do. Drinking will not help medication will not help. It's an urge that we all have and it's ok. It's not just you my brother. It's hard, very hard. I have met some wonderful women. Some have stolen some say that they are in love and have disappeared the next day. LOL yep my bad. But back to the advice. Like Mr rinaro said stay busy. If you usaually like to partake at a particular time a day. Think of smthing else to do at that time instead. I'm not a doctor. But I felt your message and felt the need to speak out to you. I know it's not much but just wanted to help. Feel free to pm me if need anything.

[Rinaro]

What works for me is to keep busy doing something else "Work" do something in a group environment play soccer or something like that.

Don't Believe to much on those psychologies they are specialist on putting Labels.

Good Luck.

I have been trying to leave this hobby for good as I did meet someone overseas. She does know of my past exploits doing this hobby and why I do it. I do call it my calming drug (like weed or alochol for do). Pussy for some reason has the calming effect on me like a drug. Hence why, I did get into this hobby about 7 years ago. I am in therapy for it and medications, but barely working.

Has any of know tried to leave? Know someone that left the hobby, what did they try.

FYI:

1 in group therapy.

2. psychtropic medication.

3 see psychistrist.

4 Therapist.

5 I do have an anxiety disorder diagnnosis for 6 years. I have tried to drink whiskey and such, but with my pills big no no. We all have reasons why we do this hobby. I need isnight to get my own shit together.

[TailSct]

23, into Zanies and weed. Saw this on checking into a hotel for Dale Mabry when I was listening to crickets waiting for another provider. Her pill addict mom kicked her and her two little dogs out which put her in a desperate situation. I talked to her and provided a room for her five days. Ever since then, she's been very grateful. She an angel, inside and out. If I'm not posting my experiences is too much, you'll know why. Happy humping, I know I will. Hopefully the pics posted. Damn iPhone compatibility.

[Lickyzhills]

3. Needle marks? Walk. Don't expect good service from an addict. Rarely happens.

You won't find a streetwalker that doesn't have a habit, just might not be a needle habit. I've not met many provider that don't have habits, and never a walker. You can get great service from an addict, but timing is everything. They need to be sober enough to know what time it is (I. E. , not twerking out of their minds); they also need to be high enough (or not that far into their addiction) that they aren't sick or freaking out for their next fix. I'd say it's better if they are on a designer drug and not on meth / crack, but YMMV.

Keep providers out of your car if possible (obviously not if picking up walkers). Check to make sure they don't leave anything in the car after you drop them--they're liable to leave their pipes, needles, cigarettes, etc. , which are very hard to explain to the wife or a LEO that stops you. Providers will often stink (of stale smokes if nothing else), and it will soak into your car, so be prepared with some kind of odor neutralizer. Try putting a sick of deoderant in your car on a stack of newspaper and let the heat from the sun melt it to cover the odor.

[LikeAll2]

Many problems can be avoided if you think with your big head.

A lot of good advice has been given so I will only hit a few highlights.

1. Read the reviews, and learn from others. Why expect good service from a girl with poor reviews?

2. If she is not the girl in the ad, walk. You see that you have already been conned. Don't expect the service to be any better.

3. Needle marks? Walk. Don't expect good service from an addict. Rarely happens.

4. Never pay up front! If she demands it, walk.

How I get great service.

1. Be friendly, be nice, smile! Try to put her at ease.

2. Negotiate the price, then state that you give xx amount for great service. Explain plainly what great service is (don't think that she can read your mind). Since it is all about money, she WILL deliver.

3. If you can get her to laugh, barriers will come down, service will go way up. This is more easily said, than done, but it works not only with providers, but with the chick at the bar you are trying to pick up.

4. Compliment her on everything she is doing right. Even though money is her objective, positive feedback will provide you with better results.

This works at shops, spas, SW, escorts, laundromats, and bars.

[Member #5587]

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So why did you post it?

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[Why Try]

We all do this hobby for one reason. It is in our genetic code to want to reproduce with as many women as possible. Monogamy is not natural it is a constraint put on us by religion. Some guys are better at fighting it than others but we all want to do it. I read an article once that claimed that 75% of men admitted to cheating at least once in their life. I believe the number is probably higher. It's what we were made to do. Just Johnirotten's 2 cents.

You state some things that ring a lot of truth to it. I would like to add that women are starting to be truthful about their amount of new and different stuff too. So they are also admitting to giving it out of both draw holes. They're not even wasting time and pulling the panties all the way down, just sliding that thing from side to side!

[JohniRotten]

I have been trying to leave this hobby for good as I did meet someone overseas. She does know of my past exploits doing this hobby and why I do it. I do call it my calming drug (like weed or alochol for do). Pussy for some reason has the calming effect on me like a drug. Hence why, I did get into this hobby about 7 years ago. I am in therapy for it and medications, but barely working.

Has any of know tried to leave? Know someone that left the hobby, what did they try.

FYI:

1 in group therapy.

2. psychtropic medication.

3 see psychistrist.

4 Therapist.

5 I do have an anxiety disorder diagnnosis for 6 years. I have tried to drink whiskey and such, but with my pills big no no. We all have reasons why we do this hobby. I need isnight to get my own shit together.

We all do this hobby for one reason. It is in our genetic code to want to reproduce with as many women as possible. Monogamy is not natural it is a constraint put on us by religion. Some guys are better at fighting it than others but we all want to do it. I read an article once that claimed that 75% of men admitted to cheating at least once in their life. I believe the number is probably higher. It's what we were made to do. Just Johnirotten's 2 cents.

[Latino45]

I have been trying to leave this hobby for good as I did meet someone overseas. She does know of my past exploits doing this hobby and why I do it. I do call it my calming drug (like weed or alochol for do). Pussy for some reason has the calming effect on me like a drug. Hence why, I did get into this hobby about 7 years ago. I am in therapy for it and medications, but barely working.

Has any of know tried to leave? Know someone that left the hobby, what did they try.

FYI:

1 in group therapy.

2. psychtropic medication.

3 see psychistrist.

4 Therapist.

5 I do have an anxiety disorder diagnnosis for 6 years. I have tried to drink whiskey and such, but with my pills big no no. We all have reasons why we do this hobby. I need isnight to get my own shit together.

[Wyghost]

I did get to see one gal while in town, but the other Irma run me out of town. Thanks for your help, was a shorten trip, bad ass Irma ruined it for me, but still had some fun. Thanks again for all your help.

[Meridian99]

I don't know anyone seen this or not, but it was hilarious. Power of crack *****. LOL.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cI0eDINtyZw

[Member #5770]

Hope all you mongers remain safe throughout this storm, same for providers!

[Carlanga]

I'm bunkering down at my place, it has good architecture. If you boys know any girl that might not be in the best spot to bunker down feel free to send them my way until the storm passes. I'll help them out for a little bit with the supplies I have in hand.

I'll contact you with a girl but no sex. Ok? 😆.

[Member #5587]

You can do what you want but, personally speaking, I don't think that would be a very good idea, unless your supplies include some of the dope these gals depend on. Sure the 1st hour or so could be fun, but these gals can't go long without their fix and once they start to get dope sick I doubt they'll be as much fun to be around, let alone while confined in a house with a storm raging.

It's not fun to deal with sick, sob story, angling for extra money, and not hold up their end of business. Or they will try to half ass it. Expecting full payment. Or offer to let you have your way knowing their f'ed up. I've been there even after securing a hotel room. Or a small shoplong trip but never again for any gal. Yes it sounds like fun but in all reality it is as you say.