Tinder

[SrUnderbridge]

I picked up a good job the past couple years and every SB-esque interaction I have had has been out of town or one of the SB-lites that want to send you generic "lewd" posts they probably share on Instagram. Might have to adjust my parameters. Do you put any PII on there or is it obviously a daddy account with minimal detail?

I wasn't there looking just for SB's, but for actual hookups. I stayed a month and the results were as stated. I had a real pic but a plausable deniability nick. As a teacher can't have students spotting me there! I have seen former students on SB and SA, two the summer after graduation, and then again a year later, and two more ten plus years after graduation. I'm FB friends with all of them, so no public pics on those sites! I have private and if always check their profiles to make sure it's not someone I know. Have to admit, two of them were pretty choice, and if I didn't know them would have taken the shot.

[MrFullStop]

I tried Tinder for Jan. Just for grins. For what's supposed to be a hookup app, it's changed to lots of long term relationship seekers, at least on the lady's side. While I got a few likes (even with hookup and discreet prominent in my profile), they were mostly lonely ladies lookin fer luv in all the wrong places.

I did get a couple of "I give massages and maybe more in your area!" swipes, but not surprisingly they were all benjy and a half for any hole, as much as you want, for a full hour from a stunning woman. Answering just to see which rabbit hole these went down, it was always the "sign up at this app so I feel safe!" or "I want the money up front so I know you'll show up! Once I saw either, I ghosted.

I did get a couple of girls interested in a SB relationship, one went to snapchat pretty quick and sent along some mildly spicy pics. Didn't want an upfront, but she was an hour and a half away, and was going to go to school in Raleigh the following week. This one came across as legit, 19, cute without being supermodel looks, and legit DTF. If it wasn't for the distance.

You can get some winners from Tinder, but you'd probably be better off at a real SB site.

I picked up a good job the past couple years and every SB-esque interaction I have had has been out of town or one of the SB-lites that want to send you generic "lewd" posts they probably share on Instagram. Might have to adjust my parameters. Do you put any PII on there or is it obviously a daddy account with minimal detail?

[SrUnderbridge]

I tried Tinder for Jan. Just for grins. For what's supposed to be a hookup app, it's changed to lots of long term relationship seekers, at least on the lady's side. While I got a few likes (even with hookup and discreet prominent in my profile), they were mostly lonely ladies lookin fer luv in all the wrong places.

I did get a couple of "I give massages and maybe more in your area!" swipes, but not surprisingly they were all benjy and a half for any hole, as much as you want, for a full hour from a stunning woman. Answering just to see which rabbit hole these went down, it was always the "sign up at this app so I feel safe!" or "I want the money up front so I know you'll show up! Once I saw either, I ghosted.

I did get a couple of girls interested in a SB relationship, one went to snapchat pretty quick and sent along some mildly spicy pics. Didn't want an upfront, but she was an hour and a half away, and was going to go to school in Raleigh the following week. This one came across as legit, 19, cute without being supermodel looks, and legit DTF. If it wasn't for the distance.

You can get some winners from Tinder, but you'd probably be better off at a real SB site.

[MisterNova]

I think a big part of the equation is time and effort. STG has many downsides with scammers but it also lets you get laid super fast. Many times I've been in the mood, pulled up STG and literally within the hour I was at some chicks place bangin' it out. I think that's the appeal.

Tried out Tinder just above casual level with mixed results but leaning towards bad. Dumped $25 with a few hours of swiping over 2 days and out of the close to 10-15 replies only within 40 miles about 3 were real and could actually hold a conversation.

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Overall $25 to have three near free guaranteed flings within a few days can be justified but the quality was not there. After All the time and effort it takes, it's wasteful. I'm not ugly so it's easier for me than most and it's not for everyone but I'd rather see a paid escort in 1 hour than waste 2 days to 2 weeks searching and flirting for a free one.

[GAGuy2020]

Tried out Tinder just above casual level with mixed results but leaning towards bad. Dumped $25 with a few hours of swiping over 2 days and out of the close to 10-15 replies only within 40 miles about 3 were real and could actually hold a conversation.

More fakes and bots than real people and other ones disappeared strangely in mid conversation to the point it didn't make sense but would bet they are bots / fake. Tons of Chinese girls looking to learn English so you know they're not real or local.

Most trying to push Snapchat or get you to go to other off-site things that scammers do so avoided them. The amount of woke political agendas was a turn off. Kinda trashy with the people just there to socialize and make friends. Still never understood why idiots go to dating sites to make friends with no intention to date or f*ck.

There were some real girls that could have had effort and time put into them but you can tell many were used to having their pick of the litter being full of entitlement. And it's asking for friends first, Sorry hun I have friends and it sucks that you don't that's not why I'm here. LOL! Also not here for 2 week long dating.

So out of the real ones, the first one was a fat trailer park white girl with too many cats smelling of piss and pick a few mental issue out of the hat. Took good pics but I walked away at her door because she was gigantic in person.

The other real one was a familiar face from adultfriendfinder. Very pretty but horrible schedule and based off previous conversations extremely high mileage to the point that she didn't even recognize me. Had 4 kids and wanted unprotected sex, red flag!

Another was more serious talking about sexless meet ups but after 15 min of conversation got her talking about meeting up for a FWB situation. She was talking about going on about 5 first dates and no follow-ups treating it like a normal dating site. Called her bluff by saying she's not ready for a physical relationship and she showed me by tell me she's ready to bang now. Would have hit that same day but she had a kid that blocked all plans. Not into the waiting game so just call it.

Overall $25 to have three near free guaranteed flings within a few days can be justified but the quality was not there. After All the time and effort it takes, it's wasteful. I'm not ugly so it's easier for me than most and it's not for everyone but I'd rather see a paid escort in 1 hour than waste 2 days to 2 weeks searching and flirting for a free one.