General Reports

[Jeffc 574]

It looks like Rubmd has been shut down. Most likely violating the TOS of their host. A post on ECCIE says it is now delivering maleware. Whatever.

https://www.rubrankings.com/united-s.../bodyrubs.html was suggested. Several of our friends are already there.

[Jannisary]

I've always tried to keep groomed down below, so always looking for products to make it easier. Saw this hair removal for men stuff and thought well I'll give it a shot. So the day of an appt I applied it and followed the directions to the letter. As I'm driving to the appt I'm thinking holy shit my nut sack is on fire. Get to the appt, remove my drawers and my nut sack has same color as a bright red tomato. Thankfully my date was familiar with this situation and didn't shriek and run out the door. She just had a good natured laugh. So word to the wise, if you're trying a new product, do it a couple days before the appt.

Thanks for the report. I saw this stuff at Walmart or somewhere and thought about trying it out. What was the recovery time after the chemical burn? Think I'll stick to my Fusion razor for now.

[Kemo Sabe]

I've always tried to keep groomed down below, so always looking for products to make it easier. Saw this hair removal for men stuff and thought well I'll give it a shot. So the day of an appt I applied it and followed the directions to the letter. As I'm driving to the appt I'm thinking holy shit my nut sack is on fire. Get to the appt, remove my drawers and my nut sack has same color as a bright red tomato. Thankfully my date was familiar with this situation and didn't shriek and run out the door. She just had a good natured laugh. So word to the wise, if you're trying a new product, do it a couple days before the appt.

I guess the "soothing seaweed" in this product didn't do the job.

So did you enjoy your appointment?

[Illini25]

I've always tried to keep groomed down below, so always looking for products to make it easier. Saw this hair removal for men stuff and thought well I'll give it a shot. So the day of an appt I applied it and followed the directions to the letter. As I'm driving to the appt I'm thinking holy shit my nut sack is on fire. Get to the appt, remove my drawers and my nut sack has same color as a bright red tomato. Thankfully my date was familiar with this situation and didn't shriek and run out the door. She just had a good natured laugh. So word to the wise, if you're trying a new product, do it a couple days before the appt.

[Jannisary]

Hello fellow mongers,

Do any of you have any experience or thoughts / ideas about purchasing pictures or videos from providers? I've no intent of meeting with a provider (I'm in a relationship), but I'm interested in buying pictures from one of them. What's the best way way to do this, payments have to be anonymous, no venmo or cashapp.

I don't know if this is the right forum for this, I will repost elsewhere if needed.

Do you have a specific local provider in mind that you are interested in purchasing pictures and or videos from or are you just looking for customized content?

I've purchased customized videos but not from any local providers.

Regardless, you're going have a tough time with a truly anonymous payment. There are women all over the internet selling customized content either on a "fan" page or directly on social media but the payment would still be an issue. A few providers would take bitcoin but most think it is too much of a hassle and risk. There are some who also will take prepaid gift cards. Basically you buy the card and give her the numbers on it and she uses to buy something online she wants and in return she send you the pictures or whatever. Not sure if any of the "fan" sites will take prepaid gift cards as payments.

[HenryA77]

Just curious, for example on List crawler there are so many fake ads, mostly in the over 40 section, basically the same adds. I get messages very often on SA and it is always the same scenario, they send a message, say they are not on the site often and ask if there is a way to contact me. They have a photo, lower portion of their face only. I know they are such obvious scams but what are they looking for?

A deposit to meet them. 99% of the time, that is it.

[Yorgi1]

Just curious, for example on List crawler there are so many fake ads, mostly in the over 40 section, basically the same adds. I get messages very often on SA and it is always the same scenario, they send a message, say they are not on the site often and ask if there is a way to contact me. They have a photo, lower portion of their face only. I know they are such obvious scams but what are they looking for?

[SnorklEsteve]

The simple math for me is this:

Why would I buy porn when I can get it all for free online?

While I tend to agree, that's not the information the guy is looking for.

You need a reloadable visa card. You can go to Walmart and buy one load it with cash for whatever value you want and just use that like a regular credit card, but it has no attachment to you.

[Prof30]

Hello fellow mongers,

Do any of you have any experience or thoughts / ideas about purchasing pictures or videos from providers? I've no intent of meeting with a provider (I'm in a relationship), but I'm interested in buying pictures from one of them. What's the best way way to do this, payments have to be anonymous, no venmo or cashapp.

I don't know if this is the right forum for this, I will repost elsewhere if needed.

The simple math for me is this:

Why would I buy porn when I can get it all for free online?

[Jannisary]

I agree 100%. The stupid women asking for cash app payments better think again, as uncle sam can track how much they are making and tax accordingly. But most of the women in the sex trade aren't rocket scientist material anyway.

Not quite. If the transactions are business related the company has to report them at the end of the year on a 1099 if they are over $600 in total starting this year. Previously it was if the total amount was over $20,000. The gov't has no other way to routinely track the transactions though they can of course do so through a warrant or subpoena if there is probable cause a crime has been committed. Most of the ladies are using Cashapp as a personal account not a business account even though they are using it for "business." If you send a lady money through Cashapp, just either leave the memo field blank or put something innocuous like "gift", "dinner on me" or something not related to sex work or business. There are some escorts I'd give a small deposit to secure a date but those are ones who have a good track record and clearly established. Even then it can be a bit of a gamble because shit can always happen. There is no way I'd send any deposit to someone with no known history.

[AceChase]

I agree 100%. The stupid women asking for cash app payments better think again, as uncle sam can track how much they are making and tax accordingly. But most of the women in the sex trade aren't rocket scientist material anyway.

I usually only see a girl every few months- so I'm cool with using something like cashapp to move a couple hundred. But if I was someone more "active" in the game, I def wouldn't be using it.

[StlGamerDude]

Yeah I've seen her ad too. It's most likely a scam, and I've seen a lot of these popping up on Tryst now too. She just popped up out of nowhere, sure there are some hot pictures on Twitter and Instagram, but I wouldn't expect to actually meet her once you've sent the deposit. There are no reviews of her anywhere, her phone number comes back with nothing, and of course she tries to defend that by saying she has a "strict no review policy. " Maybe she's brand new and thinks she can demand the deposits the upscale, established escorts have been doing for a while now, but it sure screams scam to me. And yeah, they'll try to shame you into putting a deposit down, but I wouldn't fall for it. I don't generally pay deposits because of the digital trail. I have though before, and 1 out of the two times I was scammed, so I'm about done unless I'm certain she's for real. There are enough of us guys that aren't playing the deposit game that there will ALWAYS be escorts who will accept cash. I think that gets less likely for the more upscale ones, but if you do want to see any who require deposit and you know they're for real, there are some ways. I still do not use cash app or venmo because I can't have my wife asking about a $100 charge to so-and-so. But some escorts will accept a gift card. You could order one online, like from Amazon, and email it to her. The credit card statement will just show it was a $100 purchase from Amazon (log in as a guest, not under your normal Amazon account so there will not be a list of recent purchases). Or if you want to get into crypto currency, there are some ladies who accept that, and there are ways to do that without leaving attribution.

Also, paying for a P411 membership might help. I had one a few years ago and the ladies seemed to give preference to guys who had many "okays" on there. So maybe upscale ladies will be more likely to book you without a deposit if they can see that you're legit and aren't going to waste their time being a no-show. But I don't know, it's been many years since I've been on there so I don't know if that has changed and even they are asking for deposits now... I do know there are a few ladies who you can ONLY find on P411--they are almost UTR so there are some we are probably missing out on. I should probably renew for a little while...

Honestly 99% it's a scam. Everything is brand new. She says she's in multiple different areas. P411 is great for being able to verify but I haven't seen many UTR's on there that would be worth the effort. (There are a couple though so might toftt if you want).

[Roman Bath]

Had my eye on Aurora for awhile. I reached out to her to start the process of a date. Before we even get to screening she's emailing me her rules. I read through the rules and replied back that I'm not doing a deposit and the sure the hell am not using a cash app PayPal Venmo etc. The reply I get back is "dude it's 2023 this is how we do business in this world" Well pardon me, The govt has more or less announced that they have access to moving money thru digital currency. I'm mean to each his own, but I can't think of anything else more intrusive, besides screening, then using this method of payment. I politely declined her request. It's not worth it.

https://tryst.link/escort/aurorairis

Yeah I've seen her ad too. It's most likely a scam, and I've seen a lot of these popping up on Tryst now too. She just popped up out of nowhere, sure there are some hot pictures on Twitter and Instagram, but I wouldn't expect to actually meet her once you've sent the deposit. There are no reviews of her anywhere, her phone number comes back with nothing, and of course she tries to defend that by saying she has a "strict no review policy. " Maybe she's brand new and thinks she can demand the deposits the upscale, established escorts have been doing for a while now, but it sure screams scam to me. And yeah, they'll try to shame you into putting a deposit down, but I wouldn't fall for it. I don't generally pay deposits because of the digital trail. I have though before, and 1 out of the two times I was scammed, so I'm about done unless I'm certain she's for real. There are enough of us guys that aren't playing the deposit game that there will ALWAYS be escorts who will accept cash. I think that gets less likely for the more upscale ones, but if you do want to see any who require deposit and you know they're for real, there are some ways. I still do not use cash app or venmo because I can't have my wife asking about a $100 charge to so-and-so. But some escorts will accept a gift card. You could order one online, like from Amazon, and email it to her. The credit card statement will just show it was a $100 purchase from Amazon (log in as a guest, not under your normal Amazon account so there will not be a list of recent purchases). Or if you want to get into crypto currency, there are some ladies who accept that, and there are ways to do that without leaving attribution.

Also, paying for a P411 membership might help. I had one a few years ago and the ladies seemed to give preference to guys who had many "okays" on there. So maybe upscale ladies will be more likely to book you without a deposit if they can see that you're legit and aren't going to waste their time being a no-show. But I don't know, it's been many years since I've been on there so I don't know if that has changed and even they are asking for deposits now... I do know there are a few ladies who you can ONLY find on P411--they are almost UTR so there are some we are probably missing out on. I should probably renew for a little while...

[Cybinv1]

Had my eye on Aurora for awhile. I reached out to her to start the process of a date. Before we even get to screening she's emailing me her rules. I read through the rules and replied back that I'm not doing a deposit and the sure the hell am not using a cash app PayPal Venmo etc. The reply I get back is "dude it's 2023 this is how we do business in this world" Well pardon me, The govt has more or less announced that they have access to moving money thru digital currency. I'm mean to each his own, but I can't think of anything else more intrusive, besides screening, then using this method of payment. I politely declined her request. It's not worth it.

https://tryst.link/escort/aurorairis

I agree 100%. The stupid women asking for cash app payments better think again, as uncle sam can track how much they are making and tax accordingly. But most of the women in the sex trade aren't rocket scientist material anyway.

[Illini25]

Had my eye on Aurora for awhile. I reached out to her to start the process of a date. Before we even get to screening she's emailing me her rules. I read through the rules and replied back that I'm not doing a deposit and the sure the hell am not using a cash app PayPal Venmo etc. The reply I get back is "dude it's 2023 this is how we do business in this world" Well pardon me, The govt has more or less announced that they have access to moving money thru digital currency. I'm mean to each his own, but I can't think of anything else more intrusive, besides screening, then using this method of payment. I politely declined her request. It's not worth it.

https://tryst.link/escort/aurorairis