General Reports

**StlGamerDude** · 10-22-20 23:42

It's always scary reaching out to new people. You don't know if they're legit or if they are a thief or what you're going to get. I've always wondered if anyone knows any trigger phrases or discussions LE likes to discuss over texts? Is it possible to not ever know until you show up at the front door and they are handcuffing you no matter how discreet you were?

**JSteel80** · 10-12-20 14:19

I have been trying to setup a tag team for a while and it's still not happened. Getting a pro to show up for appointment has been next to impossible or not finding a available tag team partner when I got a girl. The best case scenario is finding another guy and we hit the stroll and finding a girl we both like.

**LuvBoobies** · 09-23-20 23:55

Originally Posted by LeaveMWet [View Original Post]

Katie, I'm assuming you refer to Kaitlyn.

Another fun girl. Found her off CL, and a referral from a fellow monger that hit her up off CL too. Lot of fun as we alternated hookups with her. We shared hookup contacts we each found off CL. (Another story). Keeping her to ourselves a while. Once he introduced her to RTP the full escort biz took off for her. No more fuckbuddy stuff.

Ton of issues and drama over the years since but still remember the good times.

Yes, that is whom I was thinking of. I had great fuckbuddy times. The price for service was incredibly inexpensive. Every time I watch video of those glorious bjs and some of the best sex I had. My eyes tear up. I never got caught up into her personal drama but I did enjoy the decent run until she became an RTP escort. Back then I was email sharing with a few other guys as well.

**Jannisary** · 09-22-20 11:08

Originally Posted by SparkySmith [View Original Post]

Sparky was surprised to find The Erotic Review is alive and well. Not sure if it had closed down for awhile? Anyway it looks like a good resource.

For awhile after the FOSTA law was passed they blocked IP addresses from the USA. Then they hid the USA based reviews making it pretty worthless. I'm not sure what changed but now the reviews are back and you can access the site with a USA IP address.

**Sparky Smith** · 09-22-20 09:23

Sparky was surprised to find The Erotic Review is alive and well. Not sure if it had closed down for awhile? Anyway it looks like a good resource.

**LeaveMWet** · 09-21-20 17:17

Originally Posted by LuvBoobies [View Original Post]

I met Katie before she started the escorting thing. I still jerk off to the videos. BBFS, fantastic BJ and great price as well. She had a kid. Jumped back in as a UTR for a bit. Plumper the second time around but great skills.

Katie, I'm assuming you refer to Kaitlyn.

Another fun girl. Found her off CL, and a referral from a fellow monger that hit her up off CL too. Lot of fun as we alternated hookups with her. We shared hookup contacts we each found off CL. (Another story). Keeping her to ourselves a while. Once he introduced her to RTP the full escort biz took off for her. No more fuckbuddy stuff.

Ton of issues and drama over the years since but still remember the good times.

**LeaveMWet** · 09-21-20 17:07

Originally Posted by Illini25 [View Original Post]

Just reminiscing in my mind about some past providers. One in particular was Ember Simmers. Goodness she was hot. I still have videos that she would send. One was a naughty nurse! I think she got her college degree and retired back to Texas.

That's a name that brings back great memories! I did the first forum review of her back in 2011. She was new to StL, was using fake pics. I set up a meeting that was supposed to be a young Brunette ar an airport hotel. She opened the door in a bikini, and still only had A-cups.

I was NOT turning this hottie down, even though it was a bait and switch. Couple days later I responded to another ad, diff pics / phone number, but when I got to location it was same hotel and room number. Jackpot again. Continued to "fund her education" several more years after she came out full Escort mode.

**SirChuck** · 09-20-20 13:41

I do agree losing BP was a major hit to the hobby additionally many reliable sites used as resources for us mongers. I'd see a new hot girl on BP and wonder if anyone has TOFTT and check RTP, Eccie and other sites. Usually, RTP for me was a treasure trove. Especially, if you were a verified member. I know some people hated RTP as Diveguy had rub many mongers the wrong way. But, I've had some of best experiences with the info. I gathered. So, what FOSTA did was getting the sites / resources to either shut down completely or water down drastically their info. Chain. So, what it really comes down too is information IMO. I believe information is king and we used to be able to find out explicit details. With all the info. Us mongers had flooded the market with many providers using these tools to market themselves. With so many providers brings completion wanting your business offering more and more options and providing better service too. Additionally, some girls that loved getting dirty figured they might as well get paid if they can. Nothing beats doing what you enjoy and making a living doing it. These girls helped raise the bar getting other providers to be more flexible with menu and donations. Sometimes I felt RTP would drive the girls too out do each other hoping to see a bump of their profile to the top. So, many girls loved to see mongers talking about them as a sex goddess. Obviously, these girls finances were greatly increasing too as long as they offered a flexible menu / good service. Essentially, it was somewhat a popularity contest to some degree which benefitted us Mongers. So, what FOSTA did IMO was took away valuable informative resources and the snowball effect of having so many tools at our fingertips.

Originally Posted by Jannisary [View Original Post]

I'd say it was the closing of BP that really hurt the market space most guys on here are looking at. They didn't even need FOSTA to shut BP down. BP was just so widely known, cheap, and easy to use that it really lowered the barriers for entrance into the industry for women. Now the market is fragmented and probably won't ever see a BP site again due to FOSTA. There are actually plenty of good reliable and beautiful escorts still around plying their trade. It is just that for them to make a go of it they have to put in more work to establish themselves such getting their own websites, promoting themselves on social media, and investing in a lot more pictures and content to keep their social media feeds fresh. The closing of BP and the FOSTA law has really hit the lower tier but reputable ladies. They used to be able to just throw up some ads on BP and then wait for the phone to ring. Now there is much more investment of time and money needed to advertise and attract decent customers. Probably a lot of their casual customers got scared away from the industry by the closing of BP and may never return. So probably a lot of the lower tier escorts who weren't prostituting out of desperation to support a bad habit just decided the rewards were no longer worth the work, investment, and risks involved.

**Jannisary** · 09-20-20 12:46

Originally Posted by Illini25 [View Original Post]

Unfortunately fosta has driven the business even more underground and even less safe. The unintended consequences are less reviews, closed sites, little verification and a really unsafe environment for both provider and hobbyist. The professional provider got out and left behind a train wreck of undesirables. It's rare I find any of these girls attractive. Most are fat, use altered photos and have bad drug problems. I have a couple utr I see regularly or occasionally I'll see a touring girl, but I wouldn't touch the current group in St. Louis with a ten foot pole. KC is loaded with talent if you're ever over in that direction.

I'd say it was the closing of BP that really hurt the market space most guys on here are looking at. They didn't even need FOSTA to shut BP down. BP was just so widely known, cheap, and easy to use that it really lowered the barriers for entrance into the industry for women. Now the market is fragmented and probably won't ever see a BP site again due to FOSTA. There are actually plenty of good reliable and beautiful escorts still around plying their trade. It is just that for them to make a go of it they have to put in more work to establish themselves such getting their own websites, promoting themselves on social media, and investing in a lot more pictures and content to keep their social media feeds fresh. The closing of BP and the FOSTA law has really hit the lower tier but reputable ladies. They used to be able to just throw up some ads on BP and then wait for the phone to ring. Now there is much more investment of time and money needed to advertise and attract decent customers. Probably a lot of their casual customers got scared away from the industry by the closing of BP and may never return. So probably a lot of the lower tier escorts who weren't prostituting out of desperation to support a bad habit just decided the rewards were no longer worth the work, investment, and risks involved.

**Illini25** · 09-20-20 08:30

Originally Posted by Fitr1 [View Original Post]

Nowadays, once you navigate the altered pictures, find out what's available "off the menu" , and discover what hidden charges the provider has in store, today's provider hunt just has too many potential "traps" awaiting hobbyists. I can see for some that it's similar to prowling for streetwalkers.

Unfortunately fosta has driven the business even more underground and even less safe. The unintended consequences are less reviews, closed sites, little verification and a really unsafe environment for both provider and hobbyist. The professional provider got out and left behind a train wreck of undesirables. It's rare I find any of these girls attractive. Most are fat, use altered photos and have bad drug problems. I have a couple utr I see regularly or occasionally I'll see a touring girl, but I wouldn't touch the current group in St. Louis with a ten foot pole. KC is loaded with talent if you're ever over in that direction.

**LowdownOne** · 09-20-20 07:45

Originally Posted by Sugah [View Original Post]

Edit that. Found the article. I forgot the forum was named ****** back then and its from 2008 Holy crap! Have I been in the hobby that long?

https://www.riverfronttimes.com/stlo...nt?oid=2491669

**T Man1847** · 09-20-20 06:57

Originally Posted by Murf76 [View Original Post]

The best thing about that board and that particular group of ladies was the fact that if you did choose to see one of them, you knew there would be very little or no "shenanigans" on the provider's part. Thanks to the Meet and Greets, I got to meet the providers before setting up an appointment with them. That took all the "angst and worry" out of the date! As I look back it now, I guess I could certify that as the "Golden Era" of my 35 years in the hobby!

Couldn't agree with you more. Mac ran a tight ship. If there were any "shenanigans" she put a stop to it immediately. She was fair to all the members.

The ladies took an active part posting and there was a lot of innuendo's and flirting back and forth. Even without the "meet and greets' you could get a good feel for who you may want to visit. "Meet and Greets" were icing on the cake. Some of the crap that went on at RTP would have never happened in Mac's world.

I think she needs a star on the "loops" Walk of Fame.

**Fitr1** · 09-20-20 05:11

Originally Posted by Murf76 [View Original Post]

The best thing about that board and that particular group of ladies was the fact that if you did choose to see one of them, you knew there would be very little or no "shenanigans" on the provider's part. Thanks to the Meet and Greets, I got to meet the providers before setting up an appointment with them. That took all the "angst and worry" out of the date! As I look back it now, I guess I could certify that as the "Golden Era" of my 35 years in the hobby!

Nowadays, once you navigate the altered pictures, find out what's available "off the menu" , and discover what hidden charges the provider has in store, today's provider hunt just has too many potential "traps" awaiting hobbyists. I can see for some that it's similar to prowling for streetwalkers.

**Murf76** · 09-20-20 02:21

Originally Posted by Sugah [View Original Post]

I remember those parties Mac put together. Those were awesome. Good times back then.

The best thing about that board and that particular group of ladies was the fact that if you did choose to see one of them, you knew there would be very little or no "shenanigans" on the provider's part. Thanks to the Meet and Greets, I got to meet the providers before setting up an appointment with them. That took all the "angst and worry" out of the date! As I look back it now, I guess I could certify that as the "Golden Era" of my 35 years in the hobby!