General Reports

[Jannisary]

Or next time listen to the stripper who told you not to drink the beer. If you had a daughter you would tell her never to leave her drink unattended in a bar yet you did and still drank it when the girl trying to get money from you told you not to. Maybe the issue isn't bad luck, maybe it's just that you are not cut out for this hobby if you continue to put yourself in risky situations. And in this case, driving home you put other people in a risky situation they had no control over.

While I thank the OP for the report and warning about possible shenanigans at Scarlett's I do have to agree with HolyStone that he's not doing himself any favors. The dancer warned him about the beer. Was she just being cautious because it was left unattended or did she suspect something may have been going on or have there been other incidents? We'll never know because the possibly drugged guy took his life and others into his own hands and drove home with one eye shut. Getting out of the club and to the relative safety of his own car probably wasn't a bad idea since you can't be sure who might be involved if it was a drugging. The next step would have been dialing 911 or the direct number to the ISP. Maybe I'm just an asshole who has been single too long but I wouldn't care what kind of shit storm I might be kicking off at that point. One possibility that immediately came to mind was that he might not have been actually mickeyed but poisoned with visine which can cause you to vomit and get sick, it can also easily kill you. Over the years I've heard stories of dancers doing the visine trick on customers who have pissed them off or hadn't tipped them what they felt they deserved etc. Maybe I'm a paranoid asshole but at the clubs I always order my drinks at the bar, watch it being made, and never leave it unattended. If you order beer just let the bartender or waitress know it needs to be opened in front of you.

[HolyStone1975]

Within the last month.

Seems like any ad I try lately either wants a deposit or I get no reply.

I am pretty cautious when surveying the area when visiting a provider, but even within the last 2 months someone has tried to rob me. Once with a knife in Soulard and once near the airport that flashed a pistol. Thankfully they didn't wait until I was out of my car and I was able to drive away. I don't believe the providers were involved as I have visited each before.

And I am pretty someone put a mickey in my drink at Scarletts. All I had was 2 shots with a dancer at the bar and one bottle of beer. I did leave my beer on a table briefly when the dancer and I walked back to the bar. It wasn't too long after we got back to the table and I had a couple of gulps of brew (after dancer warned me not to) when everything thing was spinning and I could barely walk. I started to get double vision and everything was muffled. The dancer saw something was wrong and thought I was going to yak all over myself. She went to get a trash can and that's when I made my exit to my car. I had double vision so I drove home with one eye closed.

Thankfully I live only a few miles from there snd made it home with out killing myself or anyone else. I woke up the next morning lying in my driveway.

Maybe I should retire from this hobby.

Or next time listen to the stripper who told you not to drink the beer. If you had a daughter you would tell her never to leave her drink unattended in a bar yet you did and still drank it when the girl trying to get money from you told you not to. Maybe the issue isn't bad luck, maybe it's just that you are not cut out for this hobby if you continue to put yourself in risky situations. And in this case, driving home you put other people in a risky situation they had no control over.

[RobHenry222]

Within the last month.

Seems like any ad I try lately either wants a deposit or I get no reply.

I am pretty cautious when surveying the area when visiting a provider, but even within the last 2 months someone has tried to rob me. Once with a knife in Soulard and once near the airport that flashed a pistol. Thankfully they didn't wait until I was out of my car and I was able to drive away. I don't believe the providers were involved as I have visited each before.

And I am pretty someone put a mickey in my drink at Scarletts. All I had was 2 shots with a dancer at the bar and one bottle of beer. I did leave my beer on a table briefly when the dancer and I walked back to the bar. It wasn't too long after we got back to the table and I had a couple of gulps of brew (after dancer warned me not to) when everything thing was spinning and I could barely walk. I started to get double vision and everything was muffled. The dancer saw something was wrong and thought I was going to yak all over myself. She went to get a trash can and that's when I made my exit to my car. I had double vision so I drove home with one eye closed.

Thankfully I live only a few miles from there snd made it home with out killing myself or anyone else. I woke up the next morning lying in my driveway.

Maybe I should retire from this hobby.

[HolyStone1975]

3 years ago I received a message on SB from a girl I had been seeing off of SA. I asked her why she sent it to me and she had no clue what I was talking about. And I believe she was being truthful. I already knew something about that site was off and that proved it to me.

I am pretty sure they scrape SA for profiles and then have a program that replies / sends messages to people to 'encourage' the purchase of credits. I have also had girls on the site tell me they use SB because they were banned from SA for 'some reason'. Almost every one of those girls then, within 4-5 messages mentions PPM.

[BoilerWelder]

Here are some tips -.

1) If the profile only has Age / Ethnicity / Body Type filled in don't message her. Wait until they fill out more info or you run a higher risk of them being scammer.

2) Never message anyone who is new to the site. Wait until they have been on there longer since most fake accounts will stop logging in after about 5 days.

3) Be prepared to be really disappointed with the site.

4) Never pay for the private pics. It's not worth it. If they are real you can get those pics out of them when you start texting with them.

With all that said, the hit rate on the site is pretty bad compared to SA about 3-4 years ago. Maybe 1 out of 25-30 is real and wants to meet for a hook up. The most common thing is that after about 2-3 messages they stop replying and then a couple days later stop logging in. There are also a LOT of girls who send one message to get you to open the convo and then that is the only message you get.

You could easily convince me that the girls are paid to get guys to waste credits on private pics and starting convos and I would believe it.

On the plus side, the site doesn't care at all if you mention PPM, or any other related escort terms. I have met maybe 8-9 girls off the site, and every one of them have been DTF for cash, but that is nothing compared to the number of girls I have messaged first, or who have messaged me first.

3 years ago I received a message on SB from a girl I had been seeing off of SA. I asked her why she sent it to me and she had no clue what I was talking about. And I believe she was being truthful. I already knew something about that site was off and that proved it to me.

[Lovethatbob]

HolyStone has it right, and I can corroborate his details. I've also met about half a dozen ladies and had my way with the ones I wanted, but the hit rate from first contact on SB to in-person is about 5%. I've stopped being the first to start a chat. And maybe one of five that say Hey to me will get me to respond. If they're over 30 and half-way cute and have something good to say, I'll think hard about replying.

I've had some decent conversation with mature ladies on there about how they see the site working, and in turn what I believe is going on. In short, it's a brilliant scheme by the owner (s). Their marketing appeals to men in one way and women in another, both designed to increase interaction and sap money from our pockets. To women, it's: Meet appealing mature wealthy men who want to meet you and treat you to travel, shopping, and wonderful evenings out; these men are lonely and want nothing more than to spend time with you and enjoy your conversation, to help and mentor you by sharing their years of business insights and worldly experience. So contact them and realize these secret benefits, you needy gorgeous babe!

To men, it's: Wild, horny, beautiful women want to spread their legs and make you happy. So contact them and realize these benefits, you horny goat!

Maybe there's more to it than that. But I doubt it.

LTB.

Here are some tips -.

1) If the profile only has Age / Ethnicity / Body Type filled in don't message her. Wait until they fill out more info or you run a higher risk of them being scammer.

2) Never message anyone who is new to the site. Wait until they have been on there longer since most fake accounts will stop logging in after about 5 days.

3) Be prepared to be really disappointed with the site.

4) Never pay for the private pics. It's not worth it. If they are real you can get those pics out of them when you start texting with them.

With all that said, the hit rate on the site is pretty bad compared to SA about 3-4 years ago. Maybe 1 out of 25-30 is real and wants to meet for a hook up. The most common thing is that after about 2-3 messages they stop replying and then a couple days later stop logging in. There are also a LOT of girls who send one message to get you to open the convo and then that is the only message you get..

[HappyGuy1]

Here are some tips -.

1) If the profile only has Age / Ethnicity / Body Type filled in don't message her. Wait until they fill out more info or you run a higher risk of them being scammer.

2) Never message anyone who is new to the site. Wait until they have been on there longer since most fake accounts will stop logging in after about 5 days.

3) Be prepared to be really disappointed with the site.

4) Never pay for the private pics. It's not worth it. If they are real you can get those pics out of them when you start texting with them.

With all that said, the hit rate on the site is pretty bad compared to SA about 3-4 years ago. Maybe 1 out of 25-30 is real and wants to meet for a hook up. The most common thing is that after about 2-3 messages they stop replying and then a couple days later stop logging in. There are also a LOT of girls who send one message to get you to open the convo and then that is the only message you get.

You could easily convince me that the girls are paid to get guys to waste credits on private pics and starting convos and I would believe it.

On the plus side, the site doesn't care at all if you mention PPM, or any other related escort terms. I have met maybe 8-9 girls off the site, and every one of them have been DTF for cash, but that is nothing compared to the number of girls I have messaged first, or who have messaged me first.

Thanks for the insight.

[HolyStone1975]

Anyone have any luck on Secretbenefits? Asking before I buy credits.

Any info helps.

Thanks.

Happyguy.

Here are some tips -.

1) If the profile only has Age / Ethnicity / Body Type filled in don't message her. Wait until they fill out more info or you run a higher risk of them being scammer.

2) Never message anyone who is new to the site. Wait until they have been on there longer since most fake accounts will stop logging in after about 5 days.

3) Be prepared to be really disappointed with the site.

4) Never pay for the private pics. It's not worth it. If they are real you can get those pics out of them when you start texting with them.

With all that said, the hit rate on the site is pretty bad compared to SA about 3-4 years ago. Maybe 1 out of 25-30 is real and wants to meet for a hook up. The most common thing is that after about 2-3 messages they stop replying and then a couple days later stop logging in. There are also a LOT of girls who send one message to get you to open the convo and then that is the only message you get.

You could easily convince me that the girls are paid to get guys to waste credits on private pics and starting convos and I would believe it.

On the plus side, the site doesn't care at all if you mention PPM, or any other related escort terms. I have met maybe 8-9 girls off the site, and every one of them have been DTF for cash, but that is nothing compared to the number of girls I have messaged first, or who have messaged me first.

[KatChaser]

Good! I understand now. Is there anywhere else to contact her privately?

I was going to ask the same question?

[Hobbyist1234]

Anyone have any luck on Secretbenefits? Asking before I buy credits.

Any info helps.

Thanks.

Happyguy.

Feels like a complete scam def real women on the site but something isn't right spend most of your tokens opening pictures of fake profiles.

[CarJamm1]

It's the right girl, OF is strict about what you say in comments or even Private messaging. Several of our local escorts have OF and Each one tells me to "talk business" somewhere else beside there or they will get in trouble.

She is denying it bcuz it's not allowed to advertise there.

Good! I understand now. Is there anywhere else to contact her privately?

[Slimpicker]

I joined mohotwife on * she was running a special. I commented to her I missed the show at New Release and she played dumb to my questions. Said it wasn't her, I must have the wrong girl.

It's the right girl, OF is strict about what you say in comments or even Private messaging. Several of our local escorts have OF and Each one tells me to "talk business" somewhere else beside there or they will get in trouble.

She is denying it bcuz it's not allowed to advertise there.

[CarJamm1]

https://onlyfans.com/mohotwife

I subbed.



Marina McKnight also has a nice onlyfans, she has some great vids and real close by me. I'm thinking of seeing her soon. (unless someone can tell me why not) https://onlyfans.com/marina87

I joined mohotwife on * she was running a special. I commented to her I missed the show at New Release and she played dumb to my questions. Said it wasn't her, I must have the wrong girl.

[Moego]

Might I ask who in St Charles you are seeing? That's my neck of the woods always looking to find someone closer to me! Thanks!

I did something today I have been thinking about for years. I finally went to the mens clinic and got some Viagra. It was a bit expensive, but I learned a bit too--which is what I'm going to pass on. I have heard stories about it for over 20 years, half were probably BS, and many of the others distorted I'm sure. The regular Viagra if you take it after you eat it doesn't work very well-but they have a Viagra that you put under your tongue, and it dissolves, I guess bypassing the stomach somehow. It was $35 a pill, but you cut them in half, and you should stay hard for 30 to 45 minutes normally.

There is a young, skinny provider in St. Charles County that is going to ride the boloney pony to heaven next week. It ought to be interesting.

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[Lefty22]

I can't join Seeking to save my life now. Secret benefits was worthless. It doesn't cost a lot to try if you're curious, but it's almost all spam.

Anyone have any luck on Secretbenefits? Asking before I buy credits.

Any info helps.

Thanks.

Happyguy.