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[LostinPhilly]

I am setting up a meet with a young lady near Ft. Dix. I need a clean, low key motel near Ft. Dix that doesn't ask too many questions or want your credit card. Any help would be appreciated.

[HappyCamper70]

https://binghamton.skipthegames.com/...n/217441409893

This is an ad up in Binghamton NY. I have never seen this girl but she has been posting for awhile so let's assume she is real. Let's also assume she will not rob you. I have no beef with this girl. She may be very nice. But I do have issues with her ad and so should you. There are several problems with this ad. Regardless I am sure a few stupid mongers will now drive the 3-4 hrs to see her. Here are the issues:

1) She is openly offering BBFS. Never see a girl who openly offers that. You are better off with a girl who says no BBFS. If you really want to BBFS they are a safer option. She may BB you even though she says she doesn't because you come clean, groomed and are a regular or potential regular. You really want to see this girl who is BBFS'n every asshole who comes to see her. You see how some of your fellow mongers post or have heard stories about crazy mongers from these girls. You want to follow that when you enter her? Sadly I bet a few mongers here are already reaching out to her.

2) This girl is very unattractive. Looks are subjective but I have seen other pictures of this girl in her other ads. Many of us don't mind the occasional chub but some of her other pictures show how bad her weight is distributed and the face is bad. A few of the body pics in this ad can't be her if you had seen her pics in other ads There has to be a line as to what you won't spend real money on. Again, looks are subjective but let's go to point #3.

3) Her ad says no I don't deep throat no I don't swallow. One of the good things about unattractive heavy girls is that they usually give pretty good head. With her rules you can already tell it's not going to be a great BJ. The one thing that might have made her worth a few bucks anyway is not going to be any good.

4) Her rate is listed as $150. What does that exactly mean? If you take an hr or 2 minutes to blow your load that is the price? If you do see a girl who posts a flat rate ask how much time that means. If it's an hr that is a pretty good deal. If it's for 10 minutes that is way off.

Again, I don't want to come off as picking on this girl. She may be nice for all I know. But I have a big problem with this ad, mostly the open BBFS offer and how it relates to personal health. The flat rate is also potentially problematic because she isn't a $150 girl if you blow your load in a few minutes.

Would any of you see her if she was posting here and, if so, why?

From her photos, I doubt I would have even clicked on her ad, much less read far enough to get to the BB part.

[Hunter Jay]

https://binghamton.skipthegames.com/...n/217441409893

This is an ad up in Binghamton NY. I have never seen this girl but she has been posting for awhile so let's assume she is real. Let's also assume she will not rob you. I have no beef with this girl. She may be very nice. But I do have issues with her ad and so should you. There are several problems with this ad. Regardless I am sure a few stupid mongers will now drive the 3-4 hrs to see her. Here are the issues:

1) She is openly offering BBFS. Never see a girl who openly offers that. You are better off with a girl who says no BBFS. If you really want to BBFS they are a safer option. She may BB you even though she says she doesn't because you come clean, groomed and are a regular or potential regular. You really want to see this girl who is BBFS'n every asshole who comes to see her. You see how some of your fellow mongers post or have heard stories about crazy mongers from these girls. You want to follow that when you enter her? Sadly I bet a few mongers here are already reaching out to her.

2) This girl is very unattractive. Looks are subjective but I have seen other pictures of this girl in her other ads. Many of us don't mind the occasional chub but some of her other pictures show how bad her weight is distributed and the face is bad. A few of the body pics in this ad can't be her if you had seen her pics in other ads There has to be a line as to what you won't spend real money on. Again, looks are subjective but let's go to point #3.

3) Her ad says no I don't deep throat no I don't swallow. One of the good things about unattractive heavy girls is that they usually give pretty good head. With her rules you can already tell it's not going to be a great BJ. The one thing that might have made her worth a few bucks anyway is not going to be any good.

4) Her rate is listed as $150. What does that exactly mean? If you take an hr or 2 minutes to blow your load that is the price? If you do see a girl who posts a flat rate ask how much time that means. If it's an hr that is a pretty good deal. If it's for 10 minutes that is way off.

Again, I don't want to come off as picking on this girl. She may be nice for all I know. But I have a big problem with this ad, mostly the open BBFS offer and how it relates to personal health. The flat rate is also potentially problematic because she isn't a $150 girl if you blow your load in a few minutes.

Would any of you see her if she was posting here and, if so, why?

This ad screams bad service short menu this chick to lazy to make a decent ad is a red flag for me any chick making an lazy ad I will not make an attempt to contact them.

[TailGunner1]

https://binghamton.skipthegames.com/...n/217441409893

This is an ad up in Binghamton NY. I have never seen this girl but she has been posting for awhile so let's assume she is real. Let's also assume she will not rob you. I have no beef with this girl. She may be very nice. But I do have issues with her ad and so should you. There are several problems with this ad. Regardless I am sure a few stupid mongers will now drive the 3-4 hrs to see her. Here are the issues:

1) She is openly offering BBFS. Never see a girl who openly offers that. You are better off with a girl who says no BBFS. If you really want to BBFS they are a safer option. She may BB you even though she says she doesn't because you come clean, groomed and are a regular or potential regular. You really want to see this girl who is BBFS'n every asshole who comes to see her. You see how some of your fellow mongers post or have heard stories about crazy mongers from these girls. You want to follow that when you enter her? Sadly I bet a few mongers here are already reaching out to her.

2) This girl is very unattractive. Looks are subjective but I have seen other pictures of this girl in her other ads. Many of us don't mind the occasional chub but some of her other pictures show how bad her weight is distributed and the face is bad. A few of the body pics in this ad can't be her if you had seen her pics in other ads There has to be a line as to what you won't spend real money on. Again, looks are subjective but let's go to point #3.

3) Her ad says no I don't deep throat no I don't swallow. One of the good things about unattractive heavy girls is that they usually give pretty good head. With her rules you can already tell it's not going to be a great BJ. The one thing that might have made her worth a few bucks anyway is not going to be any good.

4) Her rate is listed as $150. What does that exactly mean? If you take an hr or 2 minutes to blow your load that is the price? If you do see a girl who posts a flat rate ask how much time that means. If it's an hr that is a pretty good deal. If it's for 10 minutes that is way off.

Again, I don't want to come off as picking on this girl. She may be nice for all I know. But I have a big problem with this ad, mostly the open BBFS offer and how it relates to personal health. The flat rate is also potentially problematic because she isn't a $150 girl if you blow your load in a few minutes.

Would any of you see her if she was posting here and, if so, why?

[YoungPapi]

Any info on using Mega Personals hook up site. Good, Bad, come on or scam? Looks kind of slick. Most of the pics look like studio shots so I thought I'd ask those with a little more experience their opinion. Basically looking for a good alternative to STG.

I haven't used it personally but it seems to run off of listcrawler and I've used that before. Some girl I had seen before covid seems to use megapersonals now and it seems she's got good results working off of it because she's always posting on it.

[KayJ46]

Any info on using Mega Personals hook up site. Good, Bad, come on or scam? Looks kind of slick. Most of the pics look like studio shots so I thought I'd ask those with a little more experience their opinion. Basically looking for a good alternative to STG.

[LukeWarmWater3]

Anyone know what's going on with TNA?.

Been down since Sunday.

It's far to technical for me to understand. A guy on best explained it some but mehhh. I just miss Nina / Michele's daily meltdowns. And her minions propping her back up!

[KorbinDallas]

Anyone know what's going on with TNA?.

Been down since Sunday.

[TailGunner1]

I go by this. When texting. If their 1st question is where you at. GUARANTEED a scam. Will eventually ask for a deposit or some crap like that. I usually say I am in a town about 4 or 500 miles away and they say great and try to work a deal to see you. Had one girl give me the address to the hotel I was actually staying in when I was in Kansas City. So I said just come on down to room#. Crickets. LOL.

YES. Very smart. This guy gets it. Never tell them where you are before they have told you where they are. Use your brains.

Is kinda funny she randomly mentions the very hotel you are at.

I have actually seen one or two posts on STG where the girl says right in the ad not to ask what town she is located in. Always ask that first. You can even say what general area are you in. If a girl can't answer that move along.

[Talltex]

When a providers ad says "in Town", "In your town", "Near You" or "in and out calls" as the Location she is nowhere near you and is running a scam to get you to sign up to some site, buy content or something. She has no intention of seeing anybody. I would just pass. But if you want to kill some time and have fun message her and ask what general location she is in. She will most likely start some sales spiel and not answer you question. Often it is automated replies. Ask a question and her answer will have nothing remotely related to your question. Then you can just block her. I did have one give me an actual location once that was over 200 miles away.

When a provider says you have to buy content before she will meet up she has no intention of ever meeting up. I have no idea why anybody buys content when the internet has millions of free videos and pics.

If a girl only offers short stays and half hour visits she is running an in and out as fast as she can deal. Never take the half just do the SS as she is rushing you out in 2 minutes regardless of which one you pick. These types of girls are best for guys who cum fast and want a no frills in and out experience. If you are not a minute man and want to relax a bit and enjoy the experience just pass on those girls.

When a girl says no drama in her ad expect a lot of drama.

When a girl posts that she is drug free and not like these other girls she is just like these other girls.

I go by this. When texting. If their 1st question is where you at. GUARANTEED a scam. Will eventually ask for a deposit or some crap like that. I usually say I am in a town about 4 or 500 miles away and they say great and try to work a deal to see you. Had one girl give me the address to the hotel I was actually staying in when I was in Kansas City. So I said just come on down to room#. Crickets. LOL.

[TailGunner1]

When a providers ad says "in Town", "In your town", "Near You" or "in and out calls" as the Location she is nowhere near you and is running a scam to get you to sign up to some site, buy content or something. She has no intention of seeing anybody. I would just pass. But if you want to kill some time and have fun message her and ask what general location she is in. She will most likely start some sales spiel and not answer you question. Often it is automated replies. Ask a question and her answer will have nothing remotely related to your question. Then you can just block her. I did have one give me an actual location once that was over 200 miles away.

When a provider says you have to buy content before she will meet up she has no intention of ever meeting up. I have no idea why anybody buys content when the internet has millions of free videos and pics.

If a girl only offers short stays and half hour visits she is running an in and out as fast as she can deal. Never take the half just do the SS as she is rushing you out in 2 minutes regardless of which one you pick. These types of girls are best for guys who cum fast and want a no frills in and out experience. If you are not a minute man and want to relax a bit and enjoy the experience just pass on those girls.

When a girl says no drama in her ad expect a lot of drama.

When a girl posts that she is drug free and not like these other girls she is just like these other girls.

[Hunter Jay]

I am specifically speaking about Skip the Games ads which has become the heir to the old Backpage that was shut down several years back. Tryst, Eros and sites like that are a different animal for the most part. STG seems to be the site most of us use to find our fun. I don't even look at sites like bedpage and the ones like that are close to, if not, 100% scam ads.

The longer you monger and the more you view ads, the more you will start to be able to understand what kind of call to expect. You will eventually know which ones are scams, which ones will be crappy calls and which ones will likely be decent to great calls. Here is some of what I have figured out that has usually proven to be true. Feel free to add any you have figured out.

Many of these girls have pimps or handlers. That doesn't automatically mean a bad call or a ripoff. But you will likely never go over the allotted time. But pimps who control every aspect of the visit tend to not be good calls. Pimps who are out of site tend to make for better calls. White pimps tend to think longer term than black pimps so you are more likely to get a better call and want to repeat. That is not always true but it usually is. There are many flags you will see in ads that let you know if a girl has a pimp.

If you see ads by several different girls that are written identically that usually means a pimp. Their measurements, services and the way the ad is written is all the same.

If many ads have the same phone number and are all listed one after the other on the page, that is an especially lazy pimp.

When you see every possible service listed, that is usually a pimp. You are lucky if you get 1/4th of those services when you actually see the girl.

Any ad that has gem or diamond characters in it is always written by a pimp for some reason. *Shrugs*.

Any ads that have pictures with a black dude in it is usually the pimp.

If an ad says text only no calls, that usually means one of two things. Either the girl has no phone service and has to use a texting app or, more likely, it is a pimp who is handling the call. The girl is not allowed near the phone. When you are texting you are communicating with the pimp, not the girl. This is why when you see the girl you make sure everything that was agreed upon in the text is still on the table. That girl has no idea she agreed to bb ear sex while standing on one leg. The pimp is the one who agreed to that. Pimps tend to say yes to any request you make in the initial text. You will not get those services. Even if it is a non pimp girl always be wary when every single thing is agreed to on the phone. Again, get confirmation from the girl when you enter the room before you hand over your money.

When a girl posts that she is Independent that usually means she has an out of site pimp.

When a girl who you have never seen post before says she has great reviews in her ad, don't believe it. A search of the phone number should find some sort of reviews. If not, it will at least show if the girl has actually been working under that number and where. Always search the number. Most of the good providers have the same number for years. A girl who changes numbers every other day is much more likely to be a flake or a scam.

A girl who writes a long winded ad that has a lot of fluff but doesn't mention services at all is probably a big waste of time who will give you a lot of no's at a very high price.

A girl whose pics look like she is starting to lose her looks will probably give you a good call and a lower price to keep you coming back instead of seeing a younger, better looking provider who will give you a shit call.

Add 5 years to any girl who lists her age in the 20's. Add 10 to any girl who says she is in her 30's. When they say they are in their 40's you can expect anything from 40 to 60+.

When a girl has multiple pics in her ad and they all look great except for one expect her to look like that one or worse when you see her.

When you see a post by some girl who says she is a **** looking to have your cock all night and will do anything yet has only 1 or 2 very normal looking non escort pics that is some dude who is pissed at his ex and just posted her pics and number out there for you guys to hassle with texts. Very rare but does happen. Heck, see if she will see you anyway.

All Asian and most Latina pics in ads will not be the girl you see for the call.

Ignore super hot girls with professional pics who advertise on STG. Those are scam ads. You don't get women like that for $60 short stays. You want a woman like that save up and get a Eros girl.

Barely known porn stars who advertise on STG at reasonable prices are usually very good calls.

Barely known porn stars who advertise on STG at crazy prices will probably suck and not literally.

When a girl who has posted forever says "last night only" or "leaving soon" she is hard up for money. She isn't going anywhere. Make a good deal for yourself but be careful. She really needs drug money bad and may get stupid.

Older women who post will usually, but not always, give better calls and are usually cheaper.

Younger girls who post will usually give you crappier service. They think showing you a boob will make your day. Some mongers are actually satisfied with this which is why we have what we have now in regards to shitty service.

If a girl has a bad attitude in her ad she will probably have a bad attitude in person.

If a girl has a great attitude in her ad or on the phone she may still have a crappy attitude in person.

A girl who has a good sense of humor in her ad or on the phone will usually be cool in person.

If a girl says hr donations start at whatever price, expect every single common thing you want to cost extra. New girls do this a lot. Tell her everything you want and that you will only pay the "starting" price and no extra. You aren't ordering a pizza with extra toppings. She needs you more than you need her.

If a girl writes "I know what I am worth" in her ad tell her what you think she is worth, within reason, and tell her to take it or leave it.

If a girl only posts occasionally she may not be a total train wreck yet. She wants a handful or a dozen or two normal regulars to only see them. Be one of those normal regulars. The calls are better.

If an ad says deposit required just move along.

If an ad looks to good to be true, it is too good to be true.

100% spot on and accurate Thanks for the info very useful.

[BobBrady2]

I am specifically speaking about Skip the Games ads which has become the heir to the old Backpage that was shut down several years back. Tryst, Eros and sites like that are a different animal for the most part. STG seems to be the site most of us use to find our fun. I don't even look at sites like bedpage and the ones like that are close to, if not, 100% scam ads.

The longer you monger and the more you view ads, the more you will start to be able to understand what kind of call to expect. You will eventually know which ones are scams, which ones will be crappy calls and which ones will likely be decent to great calls. Here is some of what I have figured out that has usually proven to be true. Feel free to add any you have figured out.

Many of these girls have pimps or handlers. That doesn't automatically mean a bad call or a ripoff. But you will likely never go over the allotted time. But pimps who control every aspect of the visit tend to not be good calls. Pimps who are out of site tend to make for better calls. White pimps tend to think longer term than black pimps so you are more likely to get a better call and want to repeat. That is not always true but it usually is. There are many flags you will see in ads that let you know if a girl has a pimp.

If you see ads by several different girls that are written identically that usually means a pimp. Their measurements, services and the way the ad is written is all the same.

If many ads have the same phone number and are all listed one after the other on the page, that is an especially lazy pimp.

When you see every possible service listed, that is usually a pimp. You are lucky if you get 1/4th of those services when you actually see the girl.

Any ad that has gem or diamond characters in it is always written by a pimp for some reason. *Shrugs*.

Any ads that have pictures with a black dude in it is usually the pimp.

If an ad says text only no calls, that usually means one of two things. Either the girl has no phone service and has to use a texting app or, more likely, it is a pimp who is handling the call. The girl is not allowed near the phone. When you are texting you are communicating with the pimp, not the girl. This is why when you see the girl you make sure everything that was agreed upon in the text is still on the table. That girl has no idea she agreed to bb ear sex while standing on one leg. The pimp is the one who agreed to that. Pimps tend to say yes to any request you make in the initial text. You will not get those services. Even if it is a non pimp girl always be wary when every single thing is agreed to on the phone. Again, get confirmation from the girl when you enter the room before you hand over your money.

When a girl posts that she is Independent that usually means she has an out of site pimp.

When a girl who you have never seen post before says she has great reviews in her ad, don't believe it. A search of the phone number should find some sort of reviews. If not, it will at least show if the girl has actually been working under that number and where. Always search the number. Most of the good providers have the same number for years. A girl who changes numbers every other day is much more likely to be a flake or a scam.

A girl who writes a long winded ad that has a lot of fluff but doesn't mention services at all is probably a big waste of time who will give you a lot of no's at a very high price.

A girl whose pics look like she is starting to lose her looks will probably give you a good call and a lower price to keep you coming back instead of seeing a younger, better looking provider who will give you a shit call.

Add 5 years to any girl who lists her age in the 20's. Add 10 to any girl who says she is in her 30's. When they say they are in their 40's you can expect anything from 40 to 60+.

When a girl has multiple pics in her ad and they all look great except for one expect her to look like that one or worse when you see her.

When you see a post by some girl who says she is a **** looking to have your cock all night and will do anything yet has only 1 or 2 very normal looking non escort pics that is some dude who is pissed at his ex and just posted her pics and number out there for you guys to hassle with texts. Very rare but does happen. Heck, see if she will see you anyway.

All Asian and most Latina pics in ads will not be the girl you see for the call.

Ignore super hot girls with professional pics who advertise on STG. Those are scam ads. You don't get women like that for $60 short stays. You want a woman like that save up and get a Eros girl.

Barely known porn stars who advertise on STG at reasonable prices are usually very good calls.

Barely known porn stars who advertise on STG at crazy prices will probably suck and not literally.

When a girl who has posted forever says "last night only" or "leaving soon" she is hard up for money. She isn't going anywhere. Make a good deal for yourself but be careful. She really needs drug money bad and may get stupid.

Older women who post will usually, but not always, give better calls and are usually cheaper.

Younger girls who post will usually give you crappier service. They think showing you a boob will make your day. Some mongers are actually satisfied with this which is why we have what we have now in regards to shitty service.

If a girl has a bad attitude in her ad she will probably have a bad attitude in person.

If a girl has a great attitude in her ad or on the phone she may still have a crappy attitude in person.

A girl who has a good sense of humor in her ad or on the phone will usually be cool in person.

If a girl says hr donations start at whatever price, expect every single common thing you want to cost extra. New girls do this a lot. Tell her everything you want and that you will only pay the "starting" price and no extra. You aren't ordering a pizza with extra toppings. She needs you more than you need her.

If a girl writes "I know what I am worth" in her ad tell her what you think she is worth, within reason, and tell her to take it or leave it.

If a girl only posts occasionally she may not be a total train wreck yet. She wants a handful or a dozen or two normal regulars to only see them. Be one of those normal regulars. The calls are better.

If an ad says deposit required just move along.

If an ad looks to good to be true, it is too good to be true.

Fantastic post! Thank you!

[TailGunner1]

I am specifically speaking about Skip the Games ads which has become the heir to the old Backpage that was shut down several years back. Tryst, Eros and sites like that are a different animal for the most part. STG seems to be the site most of us use to find our fun. I don't even look at sites like bedpage and the ones like that are close to, if not, 100% scam ads.

The longer you monger and the more you view ads, the more you will start to be able to understand what kind of call to expect. You will eventually know which ones are scams, which ones will be crappy calls and which ones will likely be decent to great calls. Here is some of what I have figured out that has usually proven to be true. Feel free to add any you have figured out.

Many of these girls have pimps or handlers. That doesn't automatically mean a bad call or a ripoff. But you will likely never go over the allotted time. But pimps who control every aspect of the visit tend to not be good calls. Pimps who are out of site tend to make for better calls. White pimps tend to think longer term than black pimps so you are more likely to get a better call and want to repeat. That is not always true but it usually is. There are many flags you will see in ads that let you know if a girl has a pimp.

If you see ads by several different girls that are written identically that usually means a pimp. Their measurements, services and the way the ad is written is all the same.

If many ads have the same phone number and are all listed one after the other on the page, that is an especially lazy pimp.

When you see every possible service listed, that is usually a pimp. You are lucky if you get 1/4th of those services when you actually see the girl.

Any ad that has gem or diamond characters in it is always written by a pimp for some reason. *Shrugs*.

Any ads that have pictures with a black dude in it is usually the pimp.

If an ad says text only no calls, that usually means one of two things. Either the girl has no phone service and has to use a texting app or, more likely, it is a pimp who is handling the call. The girl is not allowed near the phone. When you are texting you are communicating with the pimp, not the girl. This is why when you see the girl you make sure everything that was agreed upon in the text is still on the table. That girl has no idea she agreed to bb ear sex while standing on one leg. The pimp is the one who agreed to that. Pimps tend to say yes to any request you make in the initial text. You will not get those services. Even if it is a non pimp girl always be wary when every single thing is agreed to on the phone. Again, get confirmation from the girl when you enter the room before you hand over your money.

When a girl posts that she is Independent that usually means she has an out of site pimp.

When a girl who you have never seen post before says she has great reviews in her ad, don't believe it. A search of the phone number should find some sort of reviews. If not, it will at least show if the girl has actually been working under that number and where. Always search the number. Most of the good providers have the same number for years. A girl who changes numbers every other day is much more likely to be a flake or a scam.

A girl who writes a long winded ad that has a lot of fluff but doesn't mention services at all is probably a big waste of time who will give you a lot of no's at a very high price.

A girl whose pics look like she is starting to lose her looks will probably give you a good call and a lower price to keep you coming back instead of seeing a younger, better looking provider who will give you a shit call.

Add 5 years to any girl who lists her age in the 20's. Add 10 to any girl who says she is in her 30's. When they say they are in their 40's you can expect anything from 40 to 60+.

When a girl has multiple pics in her ad and they all look great except for one expect her to look like that one or worse when you see her.

When you see a post by some girl who says she is a **** looking to have your cock all night and will do anything yet has only 1 or 2 very normal looking non escort pics that is some dude who is pissed at his ex and just posted her pics and number out there for you guys to hassle with texts. Very rare but does happen. Heck, see if she will see you anyway.

All Asian and most Latina pics in ads will not be the girl you see for the call.

Ignore super hot girls with professional pics who advertise on STG. Those are scam ads. You don't get women like that for $60 short stays. You want a woman like that save up and get a Eros girl.

Barely known porn stars who advertise on STG at reasonable prices are usually very good calls.

Barely known porn stars who advertise on STG at crazy prices will probably suck and not literally.

When a girl who has posted forever says "last night only" or "leaving soon" she is hard up for money. She isn't going anywhere. Make a good deal for yourself but be careful. She really needs drug money bad and may get stupid.

Older women who post will usually, but not always, give better calls and are usually cheaper.

Younger girls who post will usually give you crappier service. They think showing you a boob will make your day. Some mongers are actually satisfied with this which is why we have what we have now in regards to shitty service.

If a girl has a bad attitude in her ad she will probably have a bad attitude in person.

If a girl has a great attitude in her ad or on the phone she may still have a crappy attitude in person.

A girl who has a good sense of humor in her ad or on the phone will usually be cool in person.

If a girl says hr donations start at whatever price, expect every single common thing you want to cost extra. New girls do this a lot. Tell her everything you want and that you will only pay the "starting" price and no extra. You aren't ordering a pizza with extra toppings. She needs you more than you need her.

If a girl writes "I know what I am worth" in her ad tell her what you think she is worth, within reason, and tell her to take it or leave it.

If a girl only posts occasionally she may not be a total train wreck yet. She wants a handful or a dozen or two normal regulars to only see them. Be one of those normal regulars. The calls are better.

If an ad says deposit required just move along.

If an ad looks to good to be true, it is too good to be true.

[TailGunner1]

Spot on, high IQ post. I've helped some girls out in the past with little things because I was feeling generous but I didn't let them take advantage of me.

Being a decent person doesn't make you a white knight.

Depends on what you have done for them and what your definition of decent is.

As for help, I have taken girls to a store nearby after a call cause she wanted smokes. She paid for them out of her own money. I did it because she presented herself well in public, was pretty cool and funny and had given me a great call. I did it more for myself because it was entertaining and created goodwill for future visits. I've done the same with a few girls treating for a meal after for the same reasons. I paid for the meal, not their time. Heck, I think all of them threw in the tip.

But no way in hell would I take a girl on her errands or give her extra money because she claimed to be broke. Remember, she pulls in more money than we do. She will give you bs reasons that she needs a few more bucks. Sorry but you just got a fair amount of money for our call as well as other calls today so you do not need money. Don't believe their stories. She doesn't need to pay her room or her phone or buy a birthday gift for her child. She is pulling BS. Don't fall for it.

As for being a decent person, I have never cheated these girls out of money. I have never talked to them in a degrading way. I have never threatened a bad review if they didn't give me a discount or do what I wanted. I treated them like a human being during our business transaction.

Being decent doesn't mean falling for bs from a girl who is not doing bad but claims she is. At least it does IMO. I don't know what you have done for them but you seem like a smart monger so I assume similar stuff as I have.

Guys, do not think she is doing bad. She is living exactly the way she wants and has everything she needs. She will try to convince you otherwise. Don't fall for it. Don't feel sorry for them. They are doing just fine. They are just looking to scam you out of more money or your time because they know a lot of guys will fall for their bs. They are more street smart than any of us. But you are smarter overall. Use that advantage and you will have great calls. Be nice but also be firm and be a man. They will respect that the same as women in real life do. That will get you the most mileage.